第一篇：《奧普拉溫福瑞秀》與《魯豫有約》的對(duì)比

《奧普拉·溫弗瑞秀》與《魯豫有約》

摘要：《奧普拉·溫弗瑞秀》與《魯豫有約》分別作為美國(guó)和中國(guó)談話類節(jié)目的代表，作為兩檔優(yōu)秀的談話類節(jié)目，它們有何異同呢？在談話類節(jié)目這一板塊又有何值得借鑒之處呢？本文將從節(jié)目背景與受眾定位、節(jié)目理念、節(jié)目形態(tài)、主持人研究等方面進(jìn)行分析。關(guān)鍵詞：節(jié)目受眾 節(jié)目理念 節(jié)目形態(tài) 主持人

電視談話節(jié)目(脫口秀)在西方電視界已有多年的歷史，形式與風(fēng)格都已相當(dāng)成熟。如今脫口秀已成為美國(guó)電視節(jié)目的基本類型之一，是反映美國(guó)生活的一面鏡子。我國(guó)電視談話節(jié)目的興起也有十多年了雖起步較晚，也在摸索中逐步走向成熟，在向國(guó)外優(yōu)秀節(jié)目借鑒、學(xué)習(xí)的同時(shí)，結(jié)合中國(guó)觀眾的收視特征，適應(yīng)中國(guó)的媒體環(huán)境，發(fā)揮主持人自身的特色，也取得了一些成功。下面，本文選取美國(guó)著名的脫口秀節(jié)目《奧普拉·溫弗瑞秀》和中國(guó)鳳凰衛(wèi)視的《魯豫有約》進(jìn)行對(duì)比分析。

一、節(jié)目背景與受眾定位

《奧普拉·溫弗瑞秀》創(chuàng)辦于1986年，受當(dāng)時(shí)女權(quán)運(yùn)動(dòng)的影響。目標(biāo)受眾主要為午后獨(dú)自在家的主婦和老人。這些觀眾感興趣于如何處理好與家庭伙伴及孩子的關(guān)系，解決感情上的困惑，希望得到他人的幫助。因此，《奧普拉秀》以白天日播的形式出現(xiàn)，試圖為人們提供一個(gè)情感依托的空間，一個(gè)心理療養(yǎng)所《奧普拉秀》將談?wù)摰脑掝}定位在社會(huì)、家庭生活領(lǐng)域，既不以制造公眾鬧劇來(lái)嘩眾取寵，也不以揭露隱私來(lái)賺取收視率，而是堅(jiān)持在平平淡淡的相互傾訴中，為人們解決各種現(xiàn)實(shí)生活問(wèn)題。

而《魯豫有約》的誕生較晚，是鳳凰衛(wèi)視中文臺(tái)在2002年1月推出的為陳魯豫量身定做的一檔談話節(jié)目。作為鳳凰衛(wèi)視話語(yǔ)空間的代表，《魯豫有約》的目標(biāo)受眾定位于一批文化層次高、收入高、社會(huì)地位高的人群，注重節(jié)目?jī)?nèi)涵和深度，體現(xiàn)出一定的社會(huì)責(zé)任感?！遏斣ビ屑s》“尋訪擁有特殊經(jīng)歷的人物，一起見(jiàn)證歷史，思索人生，直指生命的體驗(yàn)與心靈秘密，創(chuàng)造一種新穎的談話紀(jì)錄，充滿人情味”。

不同的開(kāi)播背景與受眾定位，決定了兩檔節(jié)目的在欄目理念及文化取向上的不同。但是兩者所滲透的人文關(guān)懷是共通的，也是吸引觀眾的關(guān)鍵之處。

二、節(jié)目理念

從兩檔節(jié)目的名稱就可以看出其各自所承載的不同理念?！靶恪保櫭剂x，《奧普拉·溫弗瑞秀》角度的體現(xiàn)的是主持人奧普拉·溫弗瑞的個(gè)人風(fēng)格與人格魅力，甚至展現(xiàn)私人空間于觀眾面前?！秺W普拉·溫弗瑞秀》較多的體現(xiàn)的是人道主義精神，較多的關(guān)注和選取的話題是虐待兒童、減肥困難、缺乏自信、家庭生活等與普通老百姓息息相關(guān)的現(xiàn)實(shí)問(wèn)題，試圖通過(guò)對(duì)典型事例的分析與探討，給人們以指導(dǎo)性的建議。

而《魯豫有約》從其名稱及其副題就可以看出，“有約”兩字體現(xiàn)它更傾向于聊天的風(fēng)格，給人以溫馨、親切的感覺(jué)；“說(shuō)出你的故事”，體現(xiàn)了節(jié)目的內(nèi)容是以嘉賓講述自己的故事為主，而觀眾與主持人則主要是作為聽(tīng)故事的人，甚至很少發(fā)表評(píng)論，把思考的空間留給觀眾?！遏斣ビ屑s》更多地表現(xiàn)為一種敘事類的談話，往往選擇一些有著特殊經(jīng)歷和生活體驗(yàn)的人，讓他們將自己的回憶、故事、心境與觀眾一同分享，試圖以一種兼具人性和歷史的視角，來(lái)解讀普通人的生活體驗(yàn)和人生觀，一同見(jiàn)證歷史，思索人生，感受生命的體驗(yàn)，揭示心靈的秘密。

三、節(jié)目形態(tài)

《奧普拉·溫弗瑞秀》和《魯豫有約》兩檔節(jié)目通常都由演播室的現(xiàn)場(chǎng)訪談和預(yù)先攝制的背景短片組成，而演播室的布置更是有異曲同工之處，特別是那張寬大舒適的沙發(fā)，為訪談嘉賓營(yíng)造一個(gè)相對(duì)舒適、自然的談話場(chǎng)，幾乎成為談話類節(jié)目標(biāo)志性的符號(hào)。

《奧普拉·溫弗瑞秀》選取的話題一般為話題性較強(qiáng)的有爭(zhēng)議性或轟動(dòng)性的事件或是一些令人困惑的心理問(wèn)題，因此，節(jié)目有時(shí)候也會(huì)邀請(qǐng)一些心理專家到場(chǎng)，并提出一些建議。由于相對(duì)開(kāi)放的傳播環(huán)境，嘉賓和主持人都相對(duì)開(kāi)放，敢于并愿意在屏幕上展現(xiàn)自己，“秀”出自己的個(gè)性與魅力。

而《魯豫有約》在話題的選取上多在“情”字上做文章，注重每期只針對(duì)一個(gè)話題展開(kāi)，以情動(dòng)人，以情聯(lián)事，以情傳情，主持人用平和、安靜、關(guān)愛(ài)而富有人文色彩的提問(wèn)開(kāi)啟嘉賓的情感之閘，而嘉賓往往有感于知遇之情真誠(chéng)地敞開(kāi)心扉。由于中華文化的含蓄內(nèi)斂，孕育了沉靜的民族性格?！遏斣ビ屑s》中邀請(qǐng)的嘉賓往往需要主持人調(diào)動(dòng)嘉賓的情緒，讓他們漸漸打開(kāi)話閘、敞開(kāi)心扉，才能使談話得以自然流暢地展開(kāi)。

四、主持人

作為談話類節(jié)目，主持人的個(gè)人因素顯得尤為重要，甚至直接關(guān)系到節(jié)目的成功與否。由于奧普拉·溫弗瑞和陳魯豫不同的生活背景和人生經(jīng)歷，他們?cè)诠?jié)目中展現(xiàn)給觀眾的姿態(tài)截然不同。

奧普拉·溫弗瑞出生在一個(gè)貧困、破碎的黑人家庭，由于種族原因，自小變?cè)馐芰撕芏嗯按c歧視。由于幼時(shí)的苦難生活，他對(duì)生活在美國(guó)社會(huì)底層的人民有了深刻的了解，對(duì)女性、兒童、心理疾病者等弱勢(shì)群體深懷同情之心，同事給以真切的關(guān)懷，為他們的權(quán)利而努力、呼吁。在《奧普拉·溫弗瑞秀》中奧普拉展示的是一位真誠(chéng)敏銳的女性形象，她與被訪者一樣具有成熟的思想和相同的經(jīng)歷，更能設(shè)身處地地站在嘉賓的立場(chǎng)上按問(wèn)題、想問(wèn)題，還樂(lè)于敞開(kāi)自己的心扉，真誠(chéng)地與觀眾進(jìn)行感情交流。她與被訪者平等對(duì)話并在最恰當(dāng)?shù)臅r(shí)機(jī)提出最恰當(dāng)?shù)膯?wèn)題，進(jìn)行交鋒和碰撞以求能夠挖掘出被訪者最真實(shí)而深刻的思想。由于溫弗瑞的善于傾聽(tīng)，使得她在觀眾中極有人緣，人們稱她為“每一位婦女的朋友”、“一個(gè)好打聽(tīng)的鄰居”。

而陳魯豫出生在北京一個(gè)充滿書(shū)卷氣的家庭，1988年考入北京廣播學(xué)院英語(yǔ)系國(guó)際新聞專業(yè)，五年的專業(yè)學(xué)習(xí)，收到了良好的教育，為她今后的主持事業(yè)打下了堅(jiān)實(shí)的基礎(chǔ)。魯豫始終如一的微笑和內(nèi)斂的謙和態(tài)度，在為被訪者創(chuàng)造場(chǎng)內(nèi)輕松語(yǔ)境的同時(shí)也為受眾創(chuàng)造了場(chǎng)外自然的語(yǔ)境。魯豫在采訪過(guò)程中，善于用一種體貼、溫柔的態(tài)度撥動(dòng)嘉賓的心弦。在節(jié)目過(guò)程中，魯豫始終微笑著提問(wèn)，微笑著傾聽(tīng)，坐得很端莊，偶爾露出驚奇而不過(guò)分的神情。她那安靜淡定的氣質(zhì)贏得了嘉賓的信賴，使他們能夠袒露心聲。魯豫作為當(dāng)代知識(shí)分子的代表，更多的是從這一階層的立場(chǎng)和角度來(lái)理解嘉賓的故事，也體現(xiàn)了知識(shí)分子的政治訴求和人文情懷。

五、總結(jié)

總而言之，無(wú)論是《奧普拉·溫弗瑞秀》還是《魯豫有約》，都有自己獨(dú)特的風(fēng)格、特點(diǎn)和優(yōu)勢(shì)，可謂各有千秋，作為兩檔成功的電視談話類節(jié)目，無(wú)論是在節(jié)目理念還是主持人風(fēng)格上，都有值得學(xué)習(xí)與借鑒之處。

第二篇：奧普拉·溫弗瑞 講稿

她是私生子，卻被母親遺棄

奧普拉是一個(gè)私生子，從小跟媽媽一起生活。難以置信的是，9歲時(shí)候，她受到了自己堂兄的侵犯，年幼的她默默忍受了。不懂世事的她因?yàn)槿狈逃凸芾恚?4歲那年，她意外懷孕了，連孩子的父親是誰(shuí)都不知道；更不幸的是，沒(méi)過(guò)幾年，孩子便早夭了，她又重歸墮落。她的童年生活，簡(jiǎn)直可以用悲慘來(lái)形容。

或許是因?yàn)樗缴拥年P(guān)系，從小母親便對(duì)她不好。犯了一點(diǎn)小錯(cuò)便會(huì)受到母親的責(zé)罵。缺乏良好的教育，再加上母親對(duì)她置之不理，惡性循環(huán)，小奧普拉一步步走向墮落。她的母親難以忍受她，便將她送到了父親的身邊。可作為一個(gè)私生子，又是黑人，她又能有多好的待遇呢？

父親和繼母對(duì)她嚴(yán)加管教，有時(shí)候甚至以不學(xué)習(xí)不讓吃飯來(lái)威脅她。離開(kāi)了拋棄她的母親，好在堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的她并未放棄自己，接受著這來(lái)之不易的改造機(jī)會(huì)。

她仿佛是個(gè)灰姑娘，可她沒(méi)有絕美的面龐，沒(méi)有好心的精靈，她只有自己。于她而言，王子并不是改變?nèi)松年P(guān)鍵，她在功課上特別努力，并且最后考上了大學(xué)，贏得了田納西州小姐的桂冠。她在大眾眼里確實(shí)并不美麗，甚至屬于長(zhǎng)得很丑的類型。幸運(yùn)的是，當(dāng)時(shí)的評(píng)審看中了她的機(jī)智和才華。認(rèn)為她是一個(gè)可塑之才。而這才華遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)勝過(guò)光有美貌的其他人。也正是她出色的口才，為她后來(lái)贏得了著名廣播公司的青睞。

長(zhǎng)得太丑，去整容都無(wú)人接收

畢業(yè)后的她很快有了一份工作，卻并未得到她意料中的反饋，于是，她被調(diào)職了。與此同時(shí)，她的領(lǐng)導(dǎo)要求她去整容，因?yàn)樗南嗝膊环袭?dāng)時(shí)黑人美女的要求?？杀⑶覠o(wú)奈的是，連整容醫(yī)生看到她的臉都覺(jué)得無(wú)藥可救，不想給她做手術(shù)。

這看似幸運(yùn)，卻又像是赤裸裸的嘲諷。然而成功怎會(huì)是朝夕之間的成就呢？

若容貌是阻礙，便用才華披荊斬棘，若挫折是機(jī)遇，便要越挫越勇。

看臉的時(shí)代又怎么樣，她就算沒(méi)有一張美臉照樣可以活得很出色。調(diào)職后的她更加發(fā)奮努力，很快她就掌握到了要領(lǐng)，迅速打響名氣，成為紅極一時(shí)的女主持人。芝加哥美國(guó)廣播公司也因此注意到了她，以23萬(wàn)美元的年薪將奧普拉招致麾下。她是灰姑娘，但要當(dāng)?shù)氖桥畬㈩I(lǐng)，而不是公主

雖然她已經(jīng)名聲大噪，但是在那個(gè)時(shí)候，女人和黑人仍然是容易被看輕的。傳媒行業(yè)日新月異，倘若不創(chuàng)新，停滯不前，她很快就會(huì)被取代，這樣的危機(jī)感促使著她對(duì)節(jié)目不斷進(jìn)行著改革。

在她眼中，傳統(tǒng)從來(lái)都不是桎梏，而是用來(lái)被打破的東西。

第一個(gè)創(chuàng)新者總是面臨著更多的阻礙，可她從未卻步。她渴望更成功、更優(yōu)秀，她這位灰姑娘與生俱來(lái)就是要成為一名女將領(lǐng)，而非公主。

在她的節(jié)目里，也沒(méi)有固定形式。不是一對(duì)一面對(duì)鏡頭開(kāi)始審問(wèn)試的訪談，有時(shí)會(huì)布置成晚宴的形式，讓參與的嘉賓能夠做到完全放松和信任自己，當(dāng)成自己久違的好友一樣促膝長(zhǎng)談。甚至每每在談到自己的時(shí)候，也毫不避諱提及不堪回首的過(guò)去。

黑色玫瑰，也能發(fā)出耀眼光芒

“奧普拉脫口秀”成為她的個(gè)人品牌，直到今天一直占據(jù)著美國(guó)“脫口秀”節(jié)目的頭把交椅。

她憑借個(gè)人魅力，邀請(qǐng)得了從不輕易上節(jié)目的流行天王邁克爾·杰克遜，而邁克爾也在她的節(jié)目中真正披露心聲，甚至第一次坦言他的皮膚讓人難以理解地變白，是因?yàn)轭净及遵帮L(fēng)。

《我心永恒》的演唱者席琳·迪翁曾24次登上奧普拉脫口秀，美國(guó)總統(tǒng)奧巴馬曾攜夫人參加節(jié)目，第一夫人米歇爾的50歲生日，更是在奧普拉的別墅中度過(guò)的。

能夠達(dá)到如此成就，已經(jīng)可謂是人生贏家了。

多年的拼搏仿佛已經(jīng)成為了慣性，她無(wú)法停下前進(jìn)的腳步。越是從黑暗中走出來(lái)的人越是懼怕黑暗。哪怕她敢于在節(jié)目中袒露自己混沌的過(guò)往，可是經(jīng)歷再怎樣久遠(yuǎn)，也會(huì)留下一抹疤痕。

可是堅(jiān)毅的人，就能憑借自己的努力，讓疤痕變?yōu)閯渍?。拍電影、出?shū)、做傳媒公司，她永遠(yuǎn)都沒(méi)有停止腳步。結(jié)交了世界名流，順利躋身上層社會(huì)，獲得各類殊榮。現(xiàn)在，再也沒(méi)有人會(huì)嘲笑她長(zhǎng)得丑。就算曾經(jīng)有再多的黑歷史，現(xiàn)在也已經(jīng)靠自己的努力完全洗白。那些黑歷史不是她屈辱的過(guò)往，而是前行的動(dòng)力。對(duì)大眾來(lái)說(shuō)，奧普拉已經(jīng)是成功女人的典范，可是對(duì)她來(lái)說(shuō)，成功始終是下一個(gè)目的地。

一個(gè)人想要徹頭徹尾、由內(nèi)而外的改變，最重要的影響因素還是她自己?！白鲆患伦詈玫臅r(shí)機(jī)是十年前，其次是現(xiàn)在。”當(dāng)別人都否定你的時(shí)候，自己一定要記得肯定自己。

終有一天，你的所有努力都會(huì)得到回報(bào)，即使不被大眾所熟知，你也會(huì)成為你自己的英雄。當(dāng)你再回首，你會(huì)感謝當(dāng)時(shí)不言放棄的自己。

第三篇：奧普拉-溫弗瑞斯坦福大學(xué)畢業(yè)典禮演講

feelings, failure and finding happiness 感覺(jué)、失敗及尋找幸?！獖W普拉·溫弗瑞------------——美國(guó)著名電視節(jié)目主持人奧普拉·溫弗瑞2008年在斯坦福大學(xué)畢業(yè)典禮上發(fā)表的演講 thank you, president hennessy, and to the trustees 受托人 and the faculty 教師, to all of the parents and grandparents, to you, the stanford graduates.thank you for letting me share this amazing day with you.you see, kirbys a very smart girl.she wants people to get to know her on her own terms, she says.not in terms of who she knows.so, she never wants anyone whos first meeting her to know that i know her and she knows me.so, when she first came to stanford for new student orientation 典禮with her mom, i i said, sort of? you sort of know me? well, i have photographic proof證明.i have pictures which i can e-mail to you all of kirby riding horsey馬 with me on all fours.so, i more than sort-of know kirby bumpus.and im so happy to be here, just happy that i finally, after four years, get to see her room.theres really nowhere else id rather be, because im so proud of kirby, who graduates today with two degrees, one in human bio and the other in psychology.love you, kirby cakes!thats how well i know her.i can call her cakes.。and so proud of her mother and father, who helped her get through this time, and her brother, will.i really had nothing to do with her graduating from stanford, but every time anybodys asked me in the past couple of weeks what i was doing, i would say, im getting ready to go to stanford.i just love saying stanford.because the truth is, i know i would have never gotten my degree at all, cause i didnt go to stanford.i went to tennessee state university 田納西州立大學(xué).but i never would have gotten my diploma at all, because i was supposed to graduate back in 1975, but i was short one credit（一個(gè)學(xué)分）.and i figured, im just going to forget it, cause, you know, im not going to march with my class.because by that point, i was already on television.id been in television since i was 19 and a sophomore 大二.granted, i was the only television anchor person 電視主持人that had an 11 oclock curfew 宵禁 doing the 10 oclock news.seriously, my dad was like, well, that news is over at 10:30.be home by 11.but that didnt matter to me, because i was earning a living.i was on my way.so, i thought, im going to let this college thing go and i only had one credit short.but, my father, from that time on and for years after, was always on my case, because i did not graduate.hed say, oprah gail—thats my middle name—i dont know what youre gonna do without that degree.and id say, but, dad, i have my own television show.and hed say, well, i still dont know what youre going to do without that degree.and id say, but, dad, now im a talk show脫口秀 host.hed say, i dont know how youre going to get another job without that degree.so, i finished my coursework, i turned in my final paper and i got the degree.and my dad was very proud.and i know that, if anything happens, that one credit will be my salvation.but i also know why my dad was insisting on that diploma, because, as b.b.king put it, the beautiful thing about learning is that nobody can take that away from you.and learning is really in the broadest sense what i want to talk about today, because your education, of course, isnt ending here.in many ways, its only just begun.sometimes as full-blown crises全面危機(jī).and the secret ive learned to getting ahead is being open to the lessons, lessons from the grandest university of all, that is, the universe itself.its being able to walk through life eager and open to feelings, failure and finding happiness 感覺(jué)、失敗及尋找幸?！獖W普拉·溫弗瑞------------——美國(guó)著名電視節(jié)目主持人奧普拉·溫弗瑞2008年在斯坦福大學(xué)畢業(yè)典禮上發(fā)表的演講 thank you, president hennessy, and to the trustees and the faculty, to all of the parents and grandparents, to you, the stanford graduates.thank you for letting me share this amazing day with you.hennessy校長(zhǎng)，全體教員，家長(zhǎng)，還有斯坦福的畢業(yè)生門(mén)，非常感謝你們。感謝你們讓我和你們分享這美好的一天。

有些人走到kirby面前，對(duì)kirby說(shuō)：“我的天啊，那是gayle king嗎？”kirby說(shuō)：“嗯，她是我媽媽?！比缓笕藗冋f(shuō)：“我的天啊，難道說(shuō)，你認(rèn)識(shí)oprah winfrey?！眐irby說(shuō)：“有點(diǎn)吧?！? i said, sort of? you sort of know me? well, i have photographic proof.i have pictures which i can e-mail to you all of kirby riding horsey with me on all fours.so, i more than sort-of know kirby bumpus.and im so happy to be here, just happy that i finally, after four years, get to see her room.theres really nowhere else id rather be, because im so proud of kirby, who graduates today with two degrees, one in human bio and the other in psychology.love you, kirby cakes!thats how well i know her.i can call her cakes.我說(shuō)：“有一點(diǎn)。你有一點(diǎn)認(rèn)識(shí)我”。我還有照片為證。我可以把kirby 和我騎馬時(shí)的照片e-mail給你們。因此我不僅僅只是有點(diǎn)認(rèn)識(shí)kirby bumpus。我非常高興來(lái)到這里，因?yàn)樗哪陙?lái)我第一次來(lái)到她的寢室。我為kirby感到自豪，因?yàn)樗@得了人類生物學(xué)和心理學(xué)的雙學(xué)位。這就是我多么的了解她。我可以叫她cakes。and so proud of her mother and father, who helped her get through this time, and her brother, will.i really had nothing to do with her graduating from stanford, but every time anybodys asked me in the past couple of weeks what i was doing, i would say, im getting ready to go to stanford.我為她的父母感到驕傲，她的父母給了她很大幫助，還有她的哥哥will。我對(duì)kirby大學(xué)四年真的沒(méi)有什么幫助。但是在過(guò)去的幾周里，每當(dāng)人們問(wèn)我在做什么時(shí)，我都會(huì)說(shuō)：“我正準(zhǔn)備去斯坦?！? i just love saying stanford.because the truth is, i know i would have never gotten my degree at all, cause i didnt go to stanford.i went to tennessee state university.but i never would have gotten my diploma at all, because i was supposed to graduate back in 1975, but i was short one credit.and i figured, im just going to forget it, cause, you know, im not going to march with my class.because by that point, i was already on television.id been in television since i was 19 and a sophomore.granted, i was the only television anchor person that had an 11 oclock curfew doing the 10 oclock news.我就是喜歡這樣說(shuō)stanford（用一種奇怪的語(yǔ)調(diào)）。因?yàn)檫@是真的，我知道根本不會(huì)拿到我的學(xué)位，因?yàn)槲覜](méi)有去斯坦福念書(shū)。我去了tennessee 州立大學(xué)。但是我本來(lái)不會(huì)拿到我的畢業(yè)證，因?yàn)槲冶緫?yīng)該在1975年畢業(yè)，但是我少了一個(gè)學(xué)分。我認(rèn)為我還是會(huì)忘了這件事。你們知道，我不會(huì)比得上我的同班同學(xué)。因?yàn)槲乙呀?jīng)上了電視。我在19歲還是大學(xué)二年級(jí)的時(shí)候就已經(jīng)上了電視。我是唯一一個(gè)電視節(jié)目主持人，雖然有11點(diǎn)的宵禁，卻做著10點(diǎn)鐘的新聞。seriously, my dad was like, well, that news is over at 10:30.be home by 11.but that didnt matter to me, because i was earning a living.i was on my way.so, i thought, im going to let this college thing go and i only had one credit short.but, my father, from that time on and for years after, was always on my case, because i did not graduate.hed say, oprah gail—thats my middle name—i dont know what youre gonna do without that degree.and id say, but, dad, i have my own television show.嚴(yán)肅地說(shuō)，我爸爸告訴我，“好吧，新聞10：30結(jié)束。11點(diǎn)之前到家?！钡沁@對(duì)我并不重要，因?yàn)槲乙呀?jīng)自食其力了。我在走我自己的路。所以我想，我不能讓關(guān)于我大學(xué)的那件事就這么過(guò)去，我還少一個(gè)學(xué)分。但是我的父親從那時(shí)起卻成了問(wèn)題。由于我沒(méi)有畢業(yè)，他總是說(shuō)：“oprah gail（我的中間名字），我不知道沒(méi)有學(xué)位你能做些什么。”然后我說(shuō)：“但是，爸爸，我已經(jīng)有我自己的電視節(jié)目啦?！?and hed say, well, i still dont know what youre going to do without that degree.and id say, but, dad, now im a talk show host.hed say, i dont know how youre going to get another job without that degree.篇三：奧普拉2008年在斯坦福大學(xué)畢業(yè)典禮的演講

脫口秀女王奧普拉2008年在斯坦福大學(xué)畢業(yè)典禮的演講

奧普拉·溫弗瑞：

美國(guó)著名的脫口秀主持人。其主持和制作的節(jié)目《奧普拉脫口秀》（the oprah winfrey show，又譯作《奧普拉·溫芙瑞秀》、《奧普拉秀》、《歐普拉·溫芙瑞秀》、《歐普拉秀》等），是美國(guó)歷史上收視率最高的脫口秀節(jié)目。同時(shí)，它也是美國(guó)歷史上播映時(shí)間最長(zhǎng)的日間電視脫口秀節(jié)目。從1986年12月8日至今，這個(gè)節(jié)目已經(jīng)走過(guò)了20多個(gè)年頭，播放了多達(dá)3000多集。北京時(shí)間2009年11月20日，據(jù)國(guó)外媒體報(bào)道，在播出了23年之后，《奧普拉脫口秀》將于2011年9月9日結(jié)束。thank you, president hennessy, and to thetrustees and the faculty, to all of the parents and grandparents, to you, the stanford graduates.thank you for letting me share this amazing day with you.hennessy校長(zhǎng)，全體教員，家長(zhǎng)，還有斯坦福的畢業(yè)生門(mén)，非常感謝你們。感謝你們讓我和你們分享這美好的一天。

我決定透漏一個(gè)小秘密給大家來(lái)作為這次演講的開(kāi)始。這個(gè)秘密就是kirby bumpus，斯坦福2008年的畢業(yè)生，是我的義女。所以當(dāng)hennessy校長(zhǎng)讓我來(lái)做演講時(shí)，我受寵若驚，因?yàn)樽詮膋irby來(lái)這上學(xué)以來(lái)，這是我第一次被允許到斯坦福來(lái)。

正如你們知道的那樣kirby是一個(gè)非常聰明的女孩。她說(shuō)，她希望大家通過(guò)她自己的努力了解她，而不是她認(rèn)識(shí)誰(shuí)。因此她從來(lái)不希望每一個(gè)第一次見(jiàn)到她的人知道她認(rèn)識(shí)我。當(dāng)她和她媽媽第一次來(lái)到斯坦福參加開(kāi)學(xué)典禮時(shí)，我聽(tīng)說(shuō)每個(gè)人都十分熱情。他們說(shuō)：“我的天啊，那是gayle king”。因?yàn)楹芏嗳硕贾纆ayle king是我最好的朋友。

有些人走到kirby面前，對(duì)kirby說(shuō)：“我的天啊，那是gayle king嗎？”kirby說(shuō)：“嗯，她是我媽媽。”然后人們說(shuō)：“我的天啊，難道說(shuō)，你認(rèn)識(shí)oprah winfrey?！眐irby說(shuō)：“有點(diǎn)吧?！?/p>

i said, sort of? you sort of know me? well, i have photographic proof.i have pictures which i can e-mail to you all of kirby riding horsey with me on all fours.so, i more than sort-of know kirby bumpus.and im so happy to be here, just happy that i finally, after four years, get to see her room.theres really nowhere else id rather be, because im so proud of kirby, who graduates today with two degrees, one in human bio and the other in psychology.love you, kirby cakes!thats how well i know her.i can call her cakes.我說(shuō)：“有一點(diǎn)。你有一點(diǎn)認(rèn)識(shí)我”。我還有照片為證。我可以把kirby 和我騎馬時(shí)的照片e-mail給你們。因此我不僅僅只是有點(diǎn)認(rèn)識(shí)kirby bumpus。我非常高興來(lái)到這里，因?yàn)樗哪陙?lái)我第一次來(lái)到她的寢室。我為kirby感到自豪，因?yàn)樗@得了人類生物學(xué)和心理學(xué)的雙學(xué)位。這就是我多么的了解她。我可以叫她cakes。and so proud of her mother and father, who helped her get through this time, and her brother, will.i really had nothing to do with her graduating from stanford, but every time anybodys asked me in the past couple of weeks what i was doing, i would say, im getting ready to go to stanford.我為她的父母感到驕傲，她的父母給了她很大幫助，還有她的哥哥will。我對(duì)kirby大學(xué)四年真的沒(méi)有什么幫助。但是在過(guò)去的幾周里，每當(dāng)人們問(wèn)我在做什么時(shí)，我都會(huì)說(shuō)：“我正準(zhǔn)備去斯坦?！? i just love saying stanford.because the truth is, i know i would have never gotten my degree at all, cause i didnt go to stanford.i went to tennessee state university.but i never would have gotten my diploma at all, because i was supposed to graduate back in 1975, but i was short one credit.and i figured, im just going to forget it, cause, you know, im not going to march with my class.because by that point, i was already on television.id been in television since i was 19 and a sophomore.granted, i was the only television anchor person that had an 11 oclock curfew doing the 10 oclock news.我就是喜歡這樣說(shuō)stanford（用一種奇怪的語(yǔ)調(diào)）。因?yàn)檫@是真的，我知道根本不會(huì)拿到我的學(xué)位，因?yàn)槲覜](méi)有去斯坦福念書(shū)。我去了tennessee 州立大學(xué)。但是我本來(lái)不會(huì)拿到我的畢業(yè)證，因?yàn)槲冶緫?yīng)該在1975年畢業(yè)，但是我少了一個(gè)學(xué)分。我認(rèn)為我還是會(huì)忘了這件事。你們知道，我不會(huì)比得上我的同班同學(xué)。因?yàn)槲乙呀?jīng)上了電視。我在19歲還是大學(xué)二年級(jí)的時(shí)候就已經(jīng)上了電視。我是唯一一個(gè)電視節(jié)目主持人，雖然有11點(diǎn)的宵禁，卻做著10點(diǎn)鐘的新聞。篇四：奧普拉哈佛畢業(yè)典禮演講：人生唯一目標(biāo)就是做真實(shí)的自己

奧普拉哈佛畢業(yè)典禮演講：人生唯一目標(biāo)就是做真實(shí)的自己 oh my goodness!im at haaaaaarvard!thats how oprah winfrey began her speech at harvard university graduation ceremony—in her spirited, signature way.winfrey also received an honorary doctor of law degree from the university before taking to the podium.溫弗瑞演講中4條最勵(lì)志的語(yǔ)錄

談失敗的好處 there is no such thing as failure.failure is just life trying to move us in another direction.世間并不存在“失敗”，那不過(guò)是生活想讓我們換個(gè)方向走走罷了。learn from every mistake, because every experience, particularly your mistakes, are there to teach you and force you into being more who you are.要從錯(cuò)誤中吸取教訓(xùn)，因?yàn)槟愕拿恳淮谓?jīng)歷、尤其是你犯下的錯(cuò)誤，都將幫助你、推動(dòng)你更好地做自己。

2.on her own biggest personal failure.談自身最大的失敗

我突然想到某首古老贊美詩(shī)中的一句話：“困難只是暫時(shí)的”，我遇到的麻煩同樣會(huì)有結(jié)束的一天。然后我想，我會(huì)將這一頁(yè)翻過(guò)去，我會(huì)好起來(lái)的。

談職業(yè)生涯所做訪談的共同性 beyonce in all her beyonce-ness...they all want to know: was that okay? did you hear me? did you see me? did what i said mean anything to you? 我發(fā)現(xiàn)，我所有的訪談?dòng)幸粋€(gè)共同性，那就是人人都希望自己被認(rèn)可、被理解。they all want to know: was that okay? did you hear me? did you see me? did what i said mean anything to you? 我的采訪對(duì)象都想知道：“我的表現(xiàn)ok嗎？你聽(tīng)到我看到我嗎？我說(shuō)的話對(duì)你有價(jià)值嗎？”

4.on the key to success and happiness.談成功和快樂(lè)的關(guān)鍵 you will find true success and happiness if you have only one goal.there really is only one, and that is this: to fulfill the highest, most truthful expression of yourself as a human being.如果你只認(rèn)準(zhǔn)一個(gè)目標(biāo)，那你就能獲得真正的成功和快樂(lè)。人生確實(shí)只有一個(gè)目標(biāo)，那就是：最大程度地、最真實(shí)地展現(xiàn)自己。

“不要問(wèn)自己世界需要什么，問(wèn)問(wèn)是什么讓你精神抖擻地活著，然后就去做，因?yàn)槭澜缢枰木褪且粋€(gè)個(gè)朝氣蓬勃的人。”篇五：奧普拉演講

奧普拉哈佛大學(xué)2013年畢業(yè)典禮演講

當(dāng)?shù)貢r(shí)間5月31日，脫口秀女王奧普拉·溫弗瑞（oprah winfrey）在哈佛的畢業(yè)典禮上為畢業(yè)生們獻(xiàn)上了一場(chǎng)精彩勵(lì)志演講。there is no such thing as failure.failure is just life trying to move us in another direction.oh my goodness!im at haaaaaarvard!thats how oprah winfrey began her speech at harvard university graduation ceremony—in her spirited, signature way.winfrey also received an honorary doctor of law degree from the university before taking to the podium。“omg，我竟然在哈??佛！”奧普拉·溫弗瑞以這樣富有 four most inspiring quotes from winfreys speech溫弗瑞演講中4條最勵(lì)志的語(yǔ)錄 there is no such thing as failure.failure is just life trying to move us in another direction。世間并不存在“失敗”，那不過(guò)是生活想讓我們換條道走走罷了。learn from every mistake, because every experience, particularly your mistakes, are there to teach you and force you into being more who you are。要從錯(cuò)誤中吸取教訓(xùn)，因?yàn)槟愕拿恳淮谓?jīng)歷、尤其是你犯下的錯(cuò)誤，都將幫助你、推動(dòng)你更好地做自己。2.on her own biggest personal failure。談自身最大的失敗 then the words came to me, trouble dont last always, from an old hymn.this too shall pass.and i thought, i am going to turn this thing around and i will be better for it。我突然想到某首古老贊美詩(shī)中的一句話：“困難只是暫時(shí)的”，我遇到的麻煩同樣會(huì)有結(jié)束的一天。然后我想，我會(huì)將這一頁(yè)翻過(guò)去，我會(huì)好起來(lái)的。they all want to know: was that okay? did you hear me? did you see me? did what i said mean anything to you?我的采訪對(duì)象都想知道：“我的表現(xiàn)ok嗎？你聽(tīng)到我看到我嗎？我說(shuō)的話對(duì)你有價(jià)值嗎？” 4.on the key to success and happiness。談成功和快樂(lè)的關(guān)鍵 you will find true success and happiness if you have only one goal.there really is only one, and that is this: to fulfill the highest, most truthful expression of yourself as a human being.you want to max out your humanity by using your energy to lift yourself up, your family, and the people you will find true success and happiness if you have only one goal.there really is only one, and that is this: to fulfill the highest, most truthful expression of yourself as a human being。如果你只認(rèn)準(zhǔn)一個(gè)目標(biāo)，那你就能獲得真正的成功和快樂(lè)。人生確實(shí)只有一個(gè)目標(biāo)，那就是：最大程度地、最真實(shí)地展現(xiàn)自己。

第四篇：2013年奧普拉·溫弗瑞哈佛畢業(yè)典禮演講稿

奧普拉2013哈佛大學(xué)畢業(yè)典禮英語(yǔ)演講稿：

Oh my goodness!I'm at Harvard!Wow!To President Faust, my fellow honorands, Carl that was so beautiful, thank you so much, and James Rothenberg, Stephanie Wilson, Harvard faculty with a special bow to my friend Dr.Henry Lewis Gates.All of you alumni with a special bow to the class of '88, your hundred fifteen million dollars.And to you, members of the Harvard class of 2013!Hello!I thank you for allowing me to be a part of the conclusion of this chapter of your lives and the commencement of your next chapter.To say that I'm honored doesn't even begin to quantify the depth of gratitude that really accompanies an honorary doctorate from Harvard.Not too many little girls from rural Mississippi have made it all the way here to Cambridge.And I can tell you that I consider today as I sat on the stage this morning getting teary for you all and then teary for myself, I consider today a defining milestone in a very long and a blessed journey.My one hope today is that I can be a source of some inspiration.I'm going to address my remarks to anybody who has ever felt inferior or felt disadvantaged, felt screwed by life, this is a speech for the quad.Actually I was so honored I wanted to do something really special for you.I wanted to be able to have you look under your seats and there would be free master and doctor degrees but I see you got that covered already.I will be honest with you.I felt a lot of pressure over the past few weeks to come up with something that I could share with you that you hadn't heard before because after all you all went to Harvard, I did not.But then I realized that you don't have to necessarily go to Harvard to have a driven obsessive Type A personality.But it helps.And while I may not have graduated from here I admit that my personality is about as Harvard as they come.You know my television career began unexpectedly.As you heard this morning I was in the Miss Fire Prevention contest.That was when I was 16 years old in Nashville, Tennessee and you had the requirement of having to have red hair in order to win up until the year that I entered.So they were doing the question and answer period because I knew I wasn't going to win under the swimsuit competition.So during the question and answer period the question came “Why, young lady, what would you like to be when you grow up?” And by the time they got to me all the good answers were gone.So I had seen Barbara Walters on the Today Show that morning so I answered “I would like to be a journalist.I would like to tell other people's stories in a way that makes a difference in their lives and the world.” And as those words were coming out of my mouth I went whoa!This is pretty good!I would like to be a journalist.I want to make a difference.Well I was on television by the time I was 19 years old.And in 1986 I launched my own television show with a relentless determination to succeed at first.I was nervous about the competition and then I became my own competition raising the bar every year, pushing, pushing, pushing myself as hard as I knew.Sound familiar to anybody here? Eventually we did make it to the top and we stayed there for 25 years.The Oprah Winfrey Show was number one in our time slot for 21 years and I have to tell you I became pretty comfortable with that level of success.But a few years ago I decided as you will at some point, that it was time to recalculate, find new territory, break new ground.So I ended the show and launched OWN, the Oprah Winfrey Network.The initials just worked out for me.So one year later after launching OWN nearly every media outlet had proclaimed that my new venture was a flop.Not just a flop but a big bold flop they call it.I can still remember the day I opened up USA Today and read the headline “Oprah, not quite standing on her OWN.” I mean really, USA Today? Now that's the nice newspaper!It really was this time last year the worst period in my professional life.I was stressed and I was frustrated and quite frankly I was actually I was embarrassed.It was right around that time that President Faust called and asked me to speak here and I thought you want me to speak to Harvard graduates? What could I possibly say to Harvard graduates, some of the most successful graduates in the world in the very moment when I had stopped succeeding? So I got off the phone with President Faust and I went to the shower.It was either that or a bag of Oreos.So I chose the shower.And I was in the shower a long time and as I was in the shower the words of an old hymn came to me.You may not know it.It's “By and by, when the morning comes.” And I started thinking about when the morning might come because at the time I thought I was stuck in a hole.And the words came to me “Trouble don't last always” from that hymn, “this too shall pass.” And I thought as I got out of the shower I am going to turn this thing around and I will be better for it.And when I do, I'm going to go to Harvard and I'm going to speak the truth of it!So I'm here today to tell you I have turned that network around!And it was all because I wanted to do it by the time I got to speak to you all so thank you so much.You don't know what motivation you were for me, thank you.I'm even prouder to share a fundamental truth that you might not have learned even as graduates of Harvard unless you studied the ancient Greek hero with Professor Nagy.Professor Nagy as we were coming in this morning said “Please Ms.Winfrey, walk decisively.” I shall walk decisively.This is what I want to share.It doesn't matter how far you might rise.At some point you are bound to stumble because if you're constantly doing what we do, raising the bar.If you're constantly pushing yourself higher, higher the law of averages not to mention the Myth of Icarus predicts that you will at some point fall.And when you do I want you to know this, remember this: there is no such thing as failure.Failure is just life trying to move us in another direction.Now when you're down there in the hole, it looks like failure.So this past year I had to spoon feed those words to myself.And when you're down in the hole, when that moment comes, it's really okay to feel bad for a little while.Give yourself time to mourn what you think you may have lost but then here's the key, learn from every mistake because every experience, encounter, and particularly your mistakes are there to teach you and force you into being more who you are.And then figure out what is the next right move.And the key to life is to develop an internal moral emotional G.P.S.that can tell you which way to go.Because now and forever more when you Google yourself your search results will read “Harvard, 2013”.And in a very competitive world that really is a calling card because I can tell you as one who employs a lot of people when I see “Harvard” I sit up a little straighter and say “Where is he or she? Bring them in.” it's an impressive calling card that can lead to even more impressive bullets in the years ahead: lawyer, senator, C.E.O., scientist, physicist, winners of Nobel and Pulitzer Prizes or late night talk show host.But the challenge of life I have found is to build a resume that doesn't simply tell a story about what you want to be but it's a story about who you want to be.It's a resume that doesn't just tell a story about what you want to accomplish but why.A story that's not just a collection of titles and positions but a story that's really about your purpose.Because when you inevitably stumble and find yourself stuck in a hole that is the story that will get you out.What is your true calling? What is your dharma? What is your purpose? For me that discovery came in 1994 when I interviewed a little girl who had decided to collect pocket change in order to help other people in need.She raised a thousand dollars all by herself and I thought well if that little 9 year old girl with a bucket and big heart could do that I wonder what I could do? So I asked for our viewers to take up their own change collection and in one month just from pennies and nickels and dimes we raised more than three million dollars that we used to send one student from every state in the United States to college.That was the beginning of the Angel Network.And so what I did was I simply asked our viewers “Do what you can wherever you are, from wherever you sit in life.Give me your time or your talent your money if you have it.” And they did.Extend yourself in kindness to other human beings wherever you can.And together we built 55 schools in 12 different countries and restored nearly 300 homes that were devastated by hurricanes Rita and Katrina.So the Angel Network I have been on the air for a long time, but it was the Angel Network that actually focused my internal G.P.S.It helped me to decide that I wasn't going to just be on TV every day but that the goal of my shows, my interviews, my business, my philanthropy all of it, whatever ventures I might pursue would be to make clear that what unites us is ultimately far more redeeming and compelling than anything that separates me.Because what had become clear to me and I want you to know it isn't always clear in the beginning because as I said I had been on television since I was 19 years old.But around '94 I got really clear.So don't expect the clarity to come all at once to know your purpose right away, but what became clear to me was that I was here on earth to use television and not be used by it;to use television to illuminate the transcendent power of our better angels.So this Angel Network, it didn't just change the lives of those who were helped, but the lives of those who also did the helping.It reminded us that no matter who we are or what we look like or what we may believe it is both possible and more importantly it becomes powerful to come together in common purpose and common effort.I saw something on the Bill Moore Show recently that so reminded me of this point.It was an interview with David and Francine Wheeler.They lost their 7 year old son, Ben in the Sandy Hook tragedy.And even though gun safety legislation to strengthen background checks had just been voted down in Congress at the time that they were doing this interview they talked about how they refused to be discouraged.Francine said this, she said “Our hearts are broken but our spirits are not.I'm going to tell them what it's like to find a conversation about change that is love, and I'm going to do that without fighting them.” And then her husband David added this, “You simply cannot demonize or vilify someone who doesn't agree with you, because the minute you do that, your discussion is over.And we cannot do that any longer.The problem is too enormous.There has to be some way that this darkness can be banished with light.” In our political system and in the media we often see the reflection of a country that is polarized, that is paralyzed and is self-interested.And yet, I know you know the truth.We all know that we are better than the cynicism and the pessimism that is regurgitated throughout Washington and the 24-hour cable news cycle.Not my channel, by the way.We understand that the vast majority of people in this country believe in stronger background checks because they realize that we can uphold the Second Amendment and also reduce the violence that is robbing us of our children.They don't have to be incompatible.And we understand that most Americans believe in a clear path to citizenship for the 12,000,000 undocumented immigrants who reside in this country because it's possible to both enforce our laws and at the same time embrace the words on the Statue of Liberty that have welcomed generations of huddled masses to our shores.We can do both.And we understand.I know you do because you went to Harvard.There are people from both parties and no party believe that indigent mothers and families should have access to healthy food and a roof over their heads and a strong public education because here in the richest nation on earth we can afford a basic level of security and opportunity.So the question is what are we going to do about it? Really what are you going to do about it? Maybe you agree with these beliefs.Maybe you don't.Maybe you care about these issues and maybe there are other challenges that you, class of 2013, are passionate about.Maybe you want to make a difference by serving in government.Maybe you want to launch your own television show.Or maybe you simply want to collect some change.Your parents would appreciate that about now.The point is your generation is charged with this task of breaking through what the body politic has thus far made impervious to change.Each of you has been blessed with this enormous opportunity of attending this prestigious school.You now have a chance to better your life, the lives of your neighbors and also the life of our country.When you do that let me tell you what I know for sure.That's when your story gets really good.Maya Angelou always says “When you learn, teach.When you get, give.That my friends is what gives your story purpose and meaning.” So you all have the power in your own way to develop your own Angel Network and in doing so your class will be armed with more tools of influence and empowerment than any other generation in history.I did it in an analog world.I was blessed with a platform that at its height reached nearly 20,000,000 viewers a day.Now here in a world of Twitter and Facebook and YouTube and Tumbler, you can reach billions in just seconds.You're the generation that rejected predictions about your detachment and your disengagement by showing up to vote in record numbers in 2008.And when the pundits said they said they talked about you, they said you'd be too disappointed, you'd be too dejected to repeat that same kind of turnout in 2012 election and you proved them wrong by showing up in even greater numbers.That's who you are.This generation your generation I know has developed a finely honed radar for B.S.Can you say “B.S.” at Harvard? The spin and phoniness and artificial nastiness that saturates so much of our national debate.I know you all understand better than most that real progress requires authentic-an authentic way of being, honesty, and above all empathy.I have to say that the single most important lesson I learned in 25 years talking every single day to people was that there is a common denominator in our human experience.Most of us I tell you we don't want to be divided.What we want, the common denominator that I found in every single interview, is we want to be validated.We want to be understood.I have done over 35,000 interviews in my career and as soon as that camera shuts off everyone always turns to me and inevitably in their own way asks this question “Was that okay?” I heard it from President Bush, I heard it from President Obama.I've heard it from heroes and from housewives.I've heard it from victims and perpetrators of crimes.I even heard it from Beyonce and all of her Beyonceness.She finishes performing, hands me the microphone and says “Was that okay?” Friends and family, yours, enemies, strangers in every argument in every encounter, every exchange I will tell you they all want to know one thing: was that okay? Did you hear me? Do you see me? Did what I say mean anything to you? And even though this is a college where Facebook was born my hope is that you would try to go out and have more face-to-face conversations with people you may disagree with.That you'll have the courage to look them in the eye and hear their point of view and help make sure that the speed and distance and anonymity of our world doesn't cause us to lose our ability to stand in somebody else's shoes and recognize all that we share as a people.This is imperative for you as an individual and for our success as a nation.“There has to be some way that this darkness can be banished with light,” says the man whose little boy was massacred on just an ordinary Friday in December.So whether you call it soul or spirit or higher self, intelligence, there is I know this, there is a light inside each of you all of us that illuminates your very human beingness if you let it.And as a young girl from rural Mississippi I learned long ago that being myself was much easier than pretending to be Barbara Walters.Although when I first started because I had Barbara in my head I would try to sit like Barbara, talk like Barbara, move like Barbara and then one night I was on the news reading the news and I called Canada Can-a-da, and that was the end of me being Barbara.I cracked myself up on TV.Couldn't stop laughing and my real personality came through and I figured out oh gee, I can be a much better Oprah than I could be a pretend Barbara.I know that you all might have a little anxiety now and hesitation about leaving the comfort of college and putting those Harvard credentials to the test.But no matter what challenges or setbacks or disappointments you may encounter along the way you will find true success and happiness if you have only one goal, there really is only one and that is this: to fulfill the highest most truthful expression of yourself as a human being.You want to max out your humanity by using your energy to lift yourself up, your family and the people around you.Theologian Howard Thurman said it best.He said “Don't ask yourself what the world needs.Ask yourself what makes you come alive and then go do that because what the world needs is people who have come alive.” The world needs-People like Michael Stolzenberg from Fort Lauderdale.When Michael was just 8 years old Michael nearly died from a bacterial infection that cost him both of his hands and both of his feet.And in an instant this vibrant little boy became a quadruple amputee and his life was changed forever.But in losing who he once was Michael discovered who he wanted to be.He refused to sit in that wheelchair all day and feel sorry for himself so with prosthetics he learned to walk and run and play again.He joined his middle school lacrosse team and last month when he learned that so many victims of the Boston Marathon bombing would become new amputees Michael decided to banish that darkness with light.Michael and his brother Harris created Mikeysrun.com to raise 1,000,000 dollars for other amputees.By the time Harris runs the 2014 Boston Marathon.More than 1,000 miles away from here these two young brothers are bringing people together to support this Boston community the way their community came together to support Michael.And when this 13 year old man was asked about his fellow amputees he said this “First they will be sad.They're losing something they will never get back and that's scary.I was scared.But they'll be okay.They just don't know that yet.” We might not always know it.We might not always see it, or hear it on the news or even feel it in our daily lives but I have faith that no matter what class of 2013 you will be okay and you will make sure our country is okay.I have faith because of that 9 year old girl who went out and collected the change.I have faith because of David and Francine Wheeler, I have faith because of Michael and Harris Stolzenberg and I have faith because of you, the network of angeles sitting here today.One of them Kadija Williams who came to Harvard four years ago.Kadija had attended 12 schools in 12 years living out of garbage bags amongst pimps and prostitutes and drug dealers, homeless, going in to department stores, Wal-Mart in the morning to bathe herself so that she wouldn't smell in front of her classmates and today she graduates as a member of the Harvard class of 2013.From time to time you may stumble fall, you will for sure count in this no doubt, you will have questions and you will have doubts about your path but I know this, if you're willing to listen to be guided by that still small voice that is the G.P.S.within yourself, to find out what makes you come alive you will be more than okay.You will be happy, you will be successful, and you will make a difference in the world.Congratulations class of 2013, congratulations to your family and friends, good luck and thank you for listening.Was that okay?

第五篇：奧普拉溫弗瑞哈佛演講觀后感

奧普拉溫弗瑞哈佛演講觀后感

大學(xué)已過(guò)了四分之三，畢業(yè)將至，新的一頁(yè)即將翻開(kāi)，也許有許多人還在悔恨大學(xué)這一頁(yè)的空白。面對(duì)人生一個(gè)重要的轉(zhuǎn)折點(diǎn)，有對(duì)未來(lái)的憧憬也有些許彷徨。也許這是面臨畢業(yè)的人必經(jīng)的一段路吧！也許大洋彼岸的一所夢(mèng)幻般的學(xué)校里的一次演講能對(duì)你有所啟發(fā)。奧普拉在哈佛大學(xué)2013屆畢業(yè)典禮上的演講讓我感觸頗深。

也許在這個(gè)時(shí)候有必要回顧一下我們的大學(xué)生活。剛剛邁入大學(xué)的校門(mén)時(shí)，我們對(duì)一切都充滿了好奇。渴望求知的，希望從課堂中體驗(yàn)知識(shí)的神奇，感受醉生夢(mèng)死般的思維境界；熱衷學(xué)生工作的，瘋狂加入各種組織社團(tuán)，渴望一展才華并提升自己；高中階段忙著學(xué)習(xí)沒(méi)談戀愛(ài)的，憧憬著愛(ài)情的美好，不放過(guò)任何接近異性的機(jī)會(huì)。

可結(jié)果怎樣呢？渴望求知的被高數(shù)弄得暈頭轉(zhuǎn)向，因?yàn)閺膩?lái)沒(méi)見(jiàn)過(guò)這么高的“樹(shù)”，許多人還掛在了上面。上課玩手機(jī)、睡覺(jué)的人越來(lái)越多，抬頭率呈指數(shù)規(guī)律遞減。有的人抱怨太難，想要簡(jiǎn)單的嗎？去幼兒園吧！到那都能當(dāng)老師了，可你會(huì)去嗎？要知道真正讓我們成長(zhǎng)的東西往往是讓我們不舒服的東西，而不是稱心如意。不要做溫水里的青蛙!也有人抱怨老師講得太爛、太無(wú)聊，但有講得好的啊，于濤老師的微積分，孫秋華老師的大物講座，你去聽(tīng)過(guò)嗎？先從自身找原因！熱衷學(xué)生工作的加入組織后，突然發(fā)現(xiàn)這地方不錯(cuò)，平時(shí)呼風(fēng)喚雨、風(fēng)光無(wú)限不說(shuō)，偶爾還能為自己謀點(diǎn)福利，當(dāng)初那個(gè)不滿社會(huì)風(fēng)氣，痛恨腐敗的你呢？如此下去，社會(huì)何安？也有正直的同學(xué)看不慣不良風(fēng)氣，一氣之下憤然退出。干嘛要走呢？要知道你可是代表正義的一方，此消彼長(zhǎng)??！這個(gè)社會(huì)需要我們?nèi)ジ淖?，否則它怎么進(jìn)步？憧憬愛(ài)情的無(wú)可厚非，但有些同學(xué)的愛(ài)情觀實(shí)在不敢茍同。思修老師的一項(xiàng)調(diào)查顯示居然有過(guò)半同學(xué)談戀愛(ài)的目的只是為了玩玩。對(duì)自己對(duì)他人的青春都不負(fù)責(zé)任，黨和國(guó)家怎么敢把大任交于你？

在一定意義上說(shuō)，我們的大學(xué)生活都是失敗的。那么，我們就無(wú)可救藥了嗎？當(dāng)然不是！奧普拉說(shuō)我們每個(gè)人都會(huì)遭遇失敗，情緒低落，感覺(jué)被生活玩弄于股掌之中。記住，即使哈佛的學(xué)生也是如此。奧普拉說(shuō)生活中沒(méi)有失敗，所謂的失敗只是生活在引導(dǎo)我們走向另一個(gè)更正確的方向。那么我們應(yīng)該怎么做呢？

我想，首先，我們應(yīng)該弄清我們究竟想成為怎樣的人。的確，我們所受的教育更傾向于按社會(huì)的需要來(lái)培養(yǎng)我們，像生產(chǎn)產(chǎn)品一樣使我們變得標(biāo)準(zhǔn)化，專業(yè)化，也無(wú)可避免得機(jī)械化。但我們是有思想、有靈魂的活生生的人我們應(yīng)該捫心自問(wèn)，我想成為什么樣的人。奧普拉說(shuō)我們每個(gè)人都應(yīng)該建立內(nèi)心深處的道德情感的GPS定位，它會(huì)引領(lǐng)我們走自己的人生之路。她還引用名言說(shuō)問(wèn)問(wèn)你自己是什么讓你過(guò)得更好的，然后就去做你喜歡的這件事，因?yàn)檫@個(gè)世界需要的就是我們每個(gè)人活的更精彩。不要把工作作為你的目的，它只是我們謀生的手段而已，我們的終極目的應(yīng)該是做最好的自己！而且我們不應(yīng)該安于現(xiàn)狀，要不斷為自己設(shè)立更高的目標(biāo)。當(dāng)你發(fā)現(xiàn)自己滿滿的都是幸福時(shí)，那只能有兩種情況，第一，那是個(gè)幻想。第二，你已經(jīng)停止了進(jìn)步。奧普拉在事業(yè)達(dá)到頂峰之時(shí)都能果斷轉(zhuǎn)身，創(chuàng)立OWN，何況我們！

弄清自己想成為什么樣的人后，我們需要堅(jiān)定不移地走下去。夢(mèng)想需要實(shí)干來(lái)支撐。也許，在這個(gè)過(guò)程中，我們會(huì)遭受失敗與痛苦，正像我們已經(jīng)遭受并正在遭受的一樣。但失敗并不可怕。奧普拉說(shuō)，當(dāng)你處于低谷時(shí)，要給自己悲傷的時(shí)間，想想自己失去了什么，之后的事情才是最重要的，要學(xué)會(huì)從每一次失敗中汲取營(yíng)養(yǎng)，因?yàn)槊恳淮谓?jīng)歷、挫折、尤其是你所犯的錯(cuò)誤都會(huì)讓你更加明白你是什么樣的人并幫助你成為你想成為的人。堅(jiān)定不移地走下去，就會(huì)如一句古老的格言所說(shuō)，“ 漸漸地，黎明的曙光終將到來(lái)！”

成為自己想要成為的人，無(wú)疑是件幸福的事。但在這個(gè)過(guò)程中，我希望我們也不要忘記讓自己成為一個(gè)有價(jià)值的人，為這個(gè)社會(huì)貢獻(xiàn)一點(diǎn)正能量。因?yàn)楫吘刮覀兡軌蛏娌⒒畹迷絹?lái)越好，靠的是許多我們知道或者不知道的人的默默奉獻(xiàn)。奧普拉說(shuō)，“W,hen you learn,teach.When you get,give.(有所學(xué)時(shí)，便去施教。有所得時(shí)，便去給予。）”在當(dāng)今世界，我們這一代似乎在變得越來(lái)越冷漠，許多人也許對(duì)此觀點(diǎn)會(huì)嗤之以鼻。但我們是這個(gè)社會(huì)的一份子，責(zé)任的喪失，冷漠的蔓延，將會(huì)帶給我們自身痛苦。這是一個(gè)需要奉獻(xiàn)，需要改變的社會(huì)，而實(shí)施者只能是我們！

希望奧普拉的演講能對(duì)每一個(gè)迷茫的人有所裨益，找到自己人生的意義所在，行動(dòng)起來(lái)，和周?chē)艘黄鹑ジ淖兪澜?！希望我們的寢室里不再滿目是DOTA,只聞“擼啊擼”！