第一篇:關(guān)于拖延癥的英語(yǔ)演講
4.Inside the mind of a master of procrastinater
0:11 So in college, I was a government major, which means I had to write a lot of papers.Now, when a normal student writes a paper, they might spread the work out a little like this.So, you know--0:24(Laughter)
0:25 you get started maybe a little slowly, but you get enough done in the first week that, with some heavier days later on, everything gets done, things stay civil.0:33(Laughter)
0:34 And I would want to do that like that.That would be the plan.I would have it all ready to go, but then, actually, the paper would come along, and then I would kind of do this.0:45(Laughter)
0:47 And that would happen every single paper.0:50 But then came my 90-page senior thesis, a paper you're supposed to spend a year on.And I knew for a paper like that, my normal work flow was not an option.It was way too big a project.So I planned things out, and I decided I kind of had to go something like this.This is how the year would go.So I'd start off light, and I'd bump it up in the middle months, and then at the end, I would kick it up into high gear just like a little staircase.How hard could it be to walk up the stairs? No big deal, right? 1:22 But then, the funniest thing happened.Those first few months? They came and went, and I couldn't quite do stuff.So we had an awesome new revised plan.1:30(Laughter)1:31 And then--1:32(Laughter)
1:34 But then those middle months actually went by, and I didn't really write words, and so we were here.And then two months turned into one month, which turned into two weeks.And one day I woke up with three days until the deadline, still not having written a word, and so I did the only thing I could: I wrote 90 pages over 72 hours, pulling not one but two all-nighters--humans are not supposed to pull two all-nighters--sprinted across campus, dove in slow motion, and got it in just at the deadline.2:10 I thought that was the end of everything.But a week later I get a call, and it's the school.And they say, “Is this Tim Urban?” And I say, “Yeah.” And they say, “We need to talk about your thesis.” And I say, “OK.” And they say, “It's the best one we've ever seen.” 2:28(Laughter)2:31(Applause)
2:35 That did not happen.2:37(Laughter)
2:39 It was a very, very bad thesis.2:42(Laughter)
2:44 I just wanted to enjoy that one moment when all of you thought, “This guy is amazing!” 2:50(Laughter)
2:51 No, no, it was very, very bad.Anyway, today I'm a writer-blogger guy.I write the blog Wait But Why.And a couple of years ago, I decided to write about procrastination.My behavior has always perplexed the non-procrastinators around me, and I wanted to explain to the non-procrastinators of the world what goes on in the heads of procrastinators, and why we are the way we are.Now, I had a hypothesis that the brains of procrastinators were actually different than the brains of other people.And to test this, I found an MRI lab that actually let me scan both my brain and the brain of a proven non-procrastinator, so I could compare them.I actually brought them here to show you today.I want you to take a look carefully to see if you can notice a difference.I know that if you're not a trained brain expert, it's not that obvious, but just take a look, OK? So here's the brain of a non-procrastinator.3:42(Laughter)
3:45 Now...here's my brain.3:49(Laughter)3:54 There is a difference.Both brains have a Rational Decision-Maker in them, but the procrastinator's brain also has an Instant Gratification Monkey.Now, what does this mean for the procrastinator? Well, it means everything's fine until this happens.4:08 [This is a perfect time to get some work done.] [Nope!]
4:11 So the Rational Decision-Maker will make the rational decision to do something productive, but the Monkey doesn't like that plan, so he actually takes the wheel, and he says, “Actually, let's read the entire Wikipedia page of the Nancy Kerrigan/ Tonya Harding scandal, because I just remembered that that happened.4:27(Laughter)4:28 Then--4:29(Laughter)
4:30 Then we're going to go over to the fridge, to see if there's anything new in there since 10 minutes ago.After that, we're going to go on a YouTube spiral that starts with videos of Richard Feynman talking about magnets and ends much, much later with us watching interviews with Justin Bieber's mom.4:46(Laughter)
4:48 ”All of that's going to take a while, so we're not going to really have room on the schedule for any work today.Sorry!“ 4:54(Sigh)
4:57 Now, what is going on here? The Instant Gratification Monkey does not seem like a guy you want behind the wheel.He lives entirely in the present moment.He has no memory of the past, no knowledge of the future, and he only cares about two things: easy and fun.5:15 Now, in the animal world, that works fine.If you're a dog and you spend your whole life doing nothing other than easy and fun things, you're a huge success!5:24(Laughter)
5:26 And to the Monkey, humans are just another animal species.You have to keep well-slept, well-fed and propagating into the next generation, which in tribal times might have worked OK.But, if you haven't noticed, now we're not in tribal times.We're in an advanced civilization, and the Monkey does not know what that is.Which is why we have another guy in our brain, the Rational Decision-Maker, who gives us the ability to do things no other animal can do.We can visualize the future.We can see the big picture.We can make long-term plans.And he wants to take all of that into account.And he wants to just have us do whatever makes sense to be doing right now.Now, sometimes it makes sense to be doing things that are easy and fun, like when you're having dinner or going to bed or enjoying well-earned leisure time.That's why there's an overlap.Sometimes they agree.But other times, it makes much more sense to be doing things that are harder and less pleasant, for the sake of the big picture.And that's when we have a conflict.And for the procrastinator, that conflict tends to end a certain way every time, leaving him spending a lot of time in this orange zone, an easy and fun place that's entirely out of the Makes Sense circle.I call it the Dark Playground.6:41(Laughter)
6:42 Now, the Dark Playground is a place that all of you procrastinators out there know very well.It's where leisure activities happen at times when leisure activities are not supposed to be happening.The fun you have in the Dark Playground isn't actually fun, because it's completely unearned, and the air is filled with guilt, dread, anxiety, self-hatred--all of those good procrastinator feelings.And the question is, in this situation, with the Monkey behind the wheel, how does the procrastinator ever get himself over here to this blue zone, a less pleasant place, but where really important things happen?
7:16 Well, turns out the procrastinator has a guardian angel, someone who's always looking down on him and watching over him in his darkest moments--someone called the Panic Monster.7:27(Laughter)
7:33 Now, the Panic Monster is dormant most of the time, but he suddenly wakes up anytime a deadline gets too close or there's danger of public embarrassment, a career disaster or some other scary consequence.And importantly, he's the only thing the Monkey is terrified of.Now, he became very relevant in my life pretty recently, because the people of TED reached out to me about six months ago and invited me to do a TED Talk.8:00(Laughter)
8:06 Now, of course, I said yes.It's always been a dream of mine to have done a TED Talk in the past.8:11(Laughter)
8:15(Applause)But in the middle of all this excitement, the Rational Decision-Maker seemed to have something else on his mind.He was saying, ”Are we clear on what we just accepted? Do we get what's going to be now happening one day in the future? We need to sit down and work on this right now.“ And the Monkey said, ”Totally agree, but let's just open Google Earth and zoom in to the bottom of India, like 200 feet above the ground, and scroll up for two and a half hours til we get to the top of the country, so we can get a better feel for India.“ 8:48(Laughter)
8:54 So that's what we did that day.8:55(Laughter)
8:59 As six months turned into four and then two and then one, the people of TED decided to release the speakers.And I opened up the website, and there was my face staring right back at me.And guess who woke up? 9:12(Laughter)
9:16 So the Panic Monster starts losing his mind, and a few seconds later, the whole system's in mayhem.9:21(Laughter)
9:26 And the Monkey--remember, he's terrified of the Panic Monster--boom, he's up the tree!And finally, finally, the Rational Decision-Maker can take the wheel and I can start working on the talk.9:36 Now, the Panic Monster explains all kinds of pretty insane procrastinator behavior, like how someone like me could spend two weeks unable to start the opening sentence of a paper, and then miraculously find the unbelievable work ethic to stay up all night and write eight pages.And this entire situation, with the three characters--this is the procrastinator's system.It's not pretty, but in the end, it works.This is what I decided to write about on the blog a couple of years ago.10:08 When I did, I was amazed by the response.Literally thousands of emails came in, from all different kinds of people from all over the world, doing all different kinds of things.These are people who were nurses, bankers, painters, engineers and lots and lots of PhD students.10:23(Laughter)
10:25 And they were all writing, saying the same thing: ”I have this problem too." But what struck me was the contrast between the light tone of the post and the heaviness of these emails.These people were writing with intense frustration about what procrastination had done to their lives, about what this Monkey had done to them.And I thought about this, and I said, well, if the procrastinator's system works, then what's going on? Why are all of these people in such a dark place?
10:54 Well, it turns out that there's two kinds of procrastination.Everything I've talked about today, the examples I've given, they all have deadlines.And when there's deadlines, the effects of procrastination are contained to the short term because the Panic Monster gets involved.But there's a second kind of procrastination that happens in situations when there is no deadline.So if you wanted a career where you're a self-starter--something in the arts, something entrepreneurial--there's no deadlines on those things at first, because nothing's happening, not until you've gone out and done the hard work to get momentum, get things going.There's also all kinds of important things outside of your career that don't involve any deadlines, like seeing your family or exercising and taking care of your health, working on your relationship or getting out of a relationship that isn't working.11:38 Now if the procrastinator's only mechanism of doing these hard things is the Panic Monster, that's a problem, because in all of these non-deadline situations, the Panic Monster doesn't show up.He has nothing to wake up for, so the effects of procrastination, they're not contained;they just extend outward forever.And it's this long-term kind of procrastination that's much less visible and much less talked about than the funnier, short-term deadline-based kind.It's usually suffered quietly and privately.And it can be the source of a huge amount of long-term unhappiness, and regrets.And I thought, that's why those people are emailing, and that's why they're in such a bad place.It's not that they're cramming for some project.It's that long-term procrastination has made them feel like a spectator, at times, in their own lives.The frustration is not that they couldn't achieve their dreams;it's that they weren't even able to start chasing them.12:35 So I read these emails and I had a little bit of an epiphany--that I don't think non-procrastinators exist.That's right--I think all of you are procrastinators.Now, you might not all be a mess, like some of us, 12:52(Laughter)
12:53 and some of you may have a healthy relationship with deadlines, but remember: the Monkey's sneakiest trick is when the deadlines aren't there.13:02 Now, I want to show you one last thing.I call this a Life Calendar.That's one box for every week of a 90-year life.That's not that many boxes, especially since we've already used a bunch of those.So I think we need to all take a long, hard look at that calendar.We need to think about what we're really procrastinating on, because everyone is procrastinating on something in life.We need to stay aware of the Instant Gratification Monkey.That's a job for all of us.And because there's not that many boxes on there, it's a job that should probably start today.13:44 Well, maybe not today, but...13:47(Laughter)
13:48 You know.Sometime soon.
第二篇:英語(yǔ)演講 --拖延癥
現(xiàn)象
在現(xiàn)實(shí)生活中,這樣的事屢見(jiàn)不鮮,①堆成小山的臟衣服想洗卻一直沒(méi)動(dòng)手;④明知馬上要交作業(yè),卻還在玩游戲、曬照片、在各大論壇看帖子,直到最后一刻才不得不開(kāi)始工作;⑤期末考試臨近,卻不愿碰專(zhuān)業(yè)書(shū)本或文獻(xiàn)一下,甚至哪怕deadline就在幾天之后,這樣的人有一個(gè)共同的名字——“拖延癥患者”
In our daily life, such things are common.A pile of dirty clothes to be washed have been not started.Knowing immediately to hand in papers, still playing the game, uploading photos, seeing posts in various forums, notuntil the last minute will you get started to work.Final exams are approaching, but you do not want to touch the professional literature about the book or even just a few days comes the deadline even.Such people have a common name-delaying disease patients, or we can call them patients with procrastination
定義
拖延癥(Procrastination)指的是非必要、后果有害的推遲行為。取意“將之前的事情放置明天”。目前這個(gè)詞并不是一個(gè)嚴(yán)格的心理學(xué)或醫(yī)學(xué)術(shù)語(yǔ),但拖延現(xiàn)象現(xiàn)已成為管理學(xué)家和心理學(xué)家研究的一個(gè)重要課題
Procrastination refers to a non necessary to postpone the consequences of harmful behavior, which is Intended to take “put the things off till tomorrow.” Currently the word is not a strictly psychological or medical terminology.However, delays have become to be an important research topic in the management and psychology
問(wèn)題存在中國(guó)青年報(bào)的一項(xiàng)網(wǎng)上心理調(diào)查結(jié)果顯示,2250名被訪者中,有72.8%的人坦言自己患上了拖延癥。其中14.0%的人覺(jué)得自己的額拖延癥“非常明顯”,41.5%的人覺(jué)得“比較明顯”,僅7.3%的人覺(jué)得自己沒(méi)有拖延癥
美國(guó)和加拿大的統(tǒng)計(jì)數(shù)據(jù)表明,70%的大學(xué)生存在學(xué)業(yè)拖延的狀況,普通人中也有20%的人每天出現(xiàn)拖延行為。按照這個(gè)數(shù)據(jù)推算,全球有近10億人患有拖延癥。
The results of an online survey of psychological made by China Youth Daily, Show that 2250 respondents, 72.8% of people admitted that they are suffering from procrastination.Of which 14.0% feel that their amount procrastination “very clear”, 41.5% of people think “obvious”, only 7.3% of people feel that they do not have delay disease.The U.S.and Canada statistics show 70% of college academic procrastination condition exists, also 20% ordinary people have daily delays behavior.According to this data, nearly 1 billion people worldwide suffer from procrastination.拖延癥的特點(diǎn)
1.沒(méi)有自信。因?yàn)槊看瓮瓿扇蝿?wù)都達(dá)不到自己最高的能力,對(duì)自我能力的評(píng)估會(huì)越來(lái)越低。
2.我太忙。我一直拖著沒(méi)做是因?yàn)槲乙恢焙苊Α?/p>
3.頑固。你催我也沒(méi)有用,我準(zhǔn)備好了自然會(huì)開(kāi)始做。
4.操控別人。他們著急也沒(méi)用,一切都要等我到了才能開(kāi)始。
5.對(duì)抗壓力。因?yàn)槊刻靿毫艽?,所以要做的事情一直被拖下?lái)。lack of confidence.Because each task is not up to the highest ability, the ability
for self-assessment will become more lower.I am too busy.I don’t have it done is dragging because I've been busy.stubborn.Your urge on me has no use, I will be ready to start doing naturally.4 manipulate others.Their worry is useless, all things will not begin before my appearance.5.Against pressure.Every day a lot of pressure to be faced so that something has to be dragged down.分析原因
一個(gè)人認(rèn)為自己5天之內(nèi)可以做完一件事情,所以在離期限還有15天的時(shí)候一點(diǎn)不著急,直到最后只剩5天了才開(kāi)始。這種緊迫感和焦慮往往促發(fā)人的斗志,會(huì)讓自己覺(jué)得,自己只有在壓力狀態(tài)下才有做事情的狀態(tài)。最后拿到成績(jī)的時(shí)候,成績(jī)往往不是很差,這樣子就強(qiáng)化了自己最適合在deadline之前短期高壓的狀態(tài)下工作的心態(tài),并且對(duì)以后的行為不斷進(jìn)行自我暗示, 即使結(jié)果不好,我也可以說(shuō),那是因?yàn)槲覜](méi)盡全力,如果我真正努力,肯定會(huì)結(jié)果很好的1.完美主義。所有事情都要達(dá)到一個(gè)很高的境界,要一次做好,所以不愿意匆匆忙忙開(kāi)始,要萬(wàn)事俱備才行。
3.容易頹廢。任務(wù)太難了,別人都不需要做我干嗎要做,不能忍受持續(xù)做這件事情,等明天再做吧。但是往往明天到了,心里還是不高興做,又繼續(xù)往后推 4懶散總覺(jué)得時(shí)間充足,認(rèn)為在最后可以一口氣完成性格本身拖拉,意志力不強(qiáng)
Someone thinks he can finish within five days of the thing, so it is not in a hurry when there are 15 days away from the deadline, and their will not startuntil only five days left.This sense of urgency and anxiety often trigger people's morale, they think they can only to do things under pressure.The examination, for example, the final results are often not very poor, so students will strengthen their work in the short term under high-pressure before the deadline, even if the result is not good, they can also say, that is because I did not do my best, if I really work, the results will certainly be good.Psychological experts think the following are the reasons for people’s procrastination
1.PerfectionismAll things have reached a very high level, so they do not want to have a rush beginning, everything should be ready for the job.3.Easy decadenceThe task is too difficult, they just ask why I need to do this.they can not tolerate continued to do this, they want to do it tomorrow.But more often they are not willing or unhappy to finish when tomorrow comes, and continue to push back their work.lazyAlways feel there is sufficient time , and that to complete in the last breath,willpower is not strong.解決問(wèn)題方案
1、分類(lèi):生活中肯定會(huì)有一些突發(fā)性和迫不及待要解決的問(wèn)題。成功者花時(shí)間在做最重要,而不是最緊急的事情。把所有工作分成急并重、重但不急、急但不重、不急也不重四類(lèi),依次完成。
2、消除干擾關(guān)掉QQ,關(guān)掉音樂(lè),關(guān)掉電視??將一切會(huì)影響你工作效率的東西統(tǒng)統(tǒng)關(guān)掉,全心全力地去做事情。
1, Categorylife will certainly be some unexpected and can not wait to solve the
problem.Winners spend time doing the most important thing, Put all the work into four categories: both urgent and important, important but not urgent, urgent but not important, not urgent nor important, put them in order to complete.2, eliminate interference.Turn off the QQ, turn off the music, turn off the TV......turn offall the things that will affect yourefficiency , to do things wholeheartedly.三、互相監(jiān)督找些朋友一起克服這個(gè)壞習(xí)慣,比單打獨(dú)斗容易得多。
四、設(shè)定更具體的目標(biāo), 把大任務(wù)分成小任務(wù)。
如果你的計(jì)劃是“我要減肥,保持好身段”,那么這個(gè)計(jì)劃很可能流產(chǎn)。但如果你的計(jì)劃是“我每周三次早上七點(diǎn)起床跑步”,那么這個(gè)計(jì)劃很可能被堅(jiān)持下來(lái)。所以,你不妨把任務(wù)劃分成一個(gè)個(gè)可以控制的小目標(biāo)。
五、不要給自己太長(zhǎng)時(shí)間
心理專(zhuān)家弗瓦爾發(fā)現(xiàn),花兩年時(shí)間完成論文的研究生總能給自己留一點(diǎn)時(shí)間放松、休整。那些花三年或者三年以上寫(xiě)論文的人幾乎每分鐘都在搜集資料和寫(xiě)作。所以,有時(shí)候工作時(shí)間拖得越長(zhǎng),工作效率越低。, mutual supervision.Finding some friends together to overcome this bad habit is much easier than going it alone.4, set a more specific goal, cut the big task into smaller tasks.If your plan is “I want to lose weight and maintain good posture”, then this program is likely to abortion.But if your plan is, “I get up at seven in the morning and three times a week running”, then this program is likely to be persevered.So, you may divide the task into small target that can be controlled.5, do not give yourself too much time
Psychological experts find that to spend two years to complete post-graduate theses always give theirselfs a little time to relax, Those who spend three years or more spend every minute in gathering information and writing.It means sometimes working the quicker the more efficient
第三篇:拖延癥英語(yǔ)演講Procrastination
Fpg Before I start my topic,I want to show you a picture,which show us a common phenomenon,or a problem that everyone sit here may have.Look,the picture is here,about efficiency and time.This is the work efficiency and this is time line.This point stand for the day you got your assignment or work.The truth is,only at the day before DDL,can you achieve the highest efficiency.And we always call that “procrastination”,which means “willingly” deferring something even though you expect the delay to make you worse.In my word,it is although you have known you have do it now,but still,youdon’t move on until last time.So,as you see,today my topic is How to solve “procrastination”,I divide my topic into 3 parts.First,disadvantages of procrastination.Second,reasons of procrastination.Last,methods to solve this problem.In this part I will bring you an interesting practice about time control andsome suggestions,believe me,it is very practical.Now,the disadvantagesof procrastination.First,you cannot achieve your goal.For example: Girls always say:“ oh I’m on diet,I want to put out my weight” But one problem is that few people can do this fitness plan,for Fpg
Fpg many reasons:today I feel depressed,only eating can cure me/I’m really tired now,so just do some exercise tomorrow~ you always have various excuses to take action,and then,your goals become dreams,you can never achieve it.Second,procrastination makes you in hurry,so you cannot do things better.For example,you have a date in the evening,but you browsed micro blog again and again,chatted with your friends,thinking about you still have time to prepare.But at last,you have to make up in a short time.So this is the appearance you should have had,but
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reality.It cut down the quality of work.You should have done you better,don’t you?
Last,procrastination does harm to mental health.Some people don’t start to deal with their work until the last minute,so once they start,they usually become extremely nervous,because so much work put a lot of pressure on them.Sometimes, when
people faced with much work to be done, they may become anxious and upset.There is no doubt that these negative emotion anFpg
Fpg d great pressure can make people feel depressed,and less confident.In a nutshell, putting things off has so many bad influences on people’s life, so it is very essential for those delayers to try to get rid of this bad habit.So let us find the reasons of procrastination: 1lack of managing time Time treats everyone fairly that we all have 24 hours per day.Some of us are capable to make good use of time while some find it hard to do so.The vital reason of procrastination is you cannot control your time correctly,and you put too much time on non-essential things.2 find too many excuses.When you face a problem or some work,you always can find lots of excuses
to
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them.You chat with your friends through QQ, surf the Internet and go shopping on taobao as if they are essential,but they are not,you know it,you just find some excuse to delay your work.Fpg
Fpg After this analysis,I have some ideas that maybe can help you.First is a method of time-control.I kept on trying this method for a long time.It really benefits me and helps me reduce the symptoms of procrastination.So listening carefully~: List 3 most important things you want to do or you have to do when you wake up in the morning,then record them on paper or on your webpage.There should be attention:
1,Choose only 3 things which you must finish today.2,you can also plan to do other things too,but you can forget them today if you want.3,the thing can be formal,such as I should finish my paper today.The things can be small and secret:I will sent a message to my dream lover.This method can make you know what you should do today clearly and exactly.It makes you realize where should your time spend on,why you should do them without hesitation,and then,you cannot find any other reason to delay them.Fpg
Fpg And my second suggestion,about people find too many excuses when procrastination.It is quite simple:when you have known what you should do,just do it,and when you prepare to work,Don’t touch your mobile phone!Stay away from Internet!Never open We chat or micro blog!find all your excuses you have talked,and next time,they cannot be reasons to procrastination.Procrastination has bad impacts on our lives and we should eliminate it as much as possible.I hope my advicewill help you!
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Fpg Outline Disadvantages of procrastination.? You cannot achieve your goal 1.Girls on diet ? Procrastination makes you in hurry,so you cannot do things better.1.Makeup ? Procrastination does harm to mental health.Reasons of procrastination.? Lack of managing time ? Find too many excuses.Methods to solve this problem.? Time control method ? Excuse control method
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第四篇:英語(yǔ)演講PPT,拖延癥
現(xiàn)象
在現(xiàn)實(shí)生活中,這樣的事屢見(jiàn)不鮮,①堆成小山的臟衣服想洗卻一直沒(méi)動(dòng)手;④明知馬上要交作業(yè),卻還在玩游戲、曬照片、在各大論壇看帖子,直到最后一刻才不得不開(kāi)始工作;⑤期末考試臨近,卻不愿碰專(zhuān)業(yè)書(shū)本或文獻(xiàn)一下,甚至哪怕deadline就在幾天之后,這樣的人有一個(gè)共同的名字——“拖延癥患者”
定義
拖延癥(procrastination)指的是非必要、后果有害的推遲行為。取意“將之前的事情放置明天”。目前這個(gè)詞并不是一個(gè)嚴(yán)格的心理學(xué)或醫(yī)學(xué)術(shù)語(yǔ),但拖延現(xiàn)象現(xiàn)已成為管理學(xué)家和心理學(xué)家研究的一個(gè)重要課題
問(wèn)題存在
中國(guó)青年報(bào)的一項(xiàng)網(wǎng)上心理調(diào)查結(jié)果顯示,2250名被訪者中,有72.8%的人坦言自己患上了拖延癥。其中14.0%的人覺(jué)得自己的額拖延癥“非常明顯”,41.5%的人覺(jué)得“比較明顯”,僅7.3%的人覺(jué)得自己沒(méi)有拖延癥
美國(guó)和加拿大的統(tǒng)計(jì)數(shù)據(jù)表明,70%的大學(xué)生存在學(xué)業(yè)拖延的狀況,普通人中也有20%的人每天出現(xiàn)拖延行為。按照這個(gè)數(shù)據(jù)推算,全球有近10億人患有拖延癥。
the results of an online survey of psychological made by china youth daily, show that 2250 respondents, 72.8% of people admitted that they are suffering from procrastination.of which 14.0% feel that their amount procrastination very clear, 41.5% of people think obvious, only 7.3% of people feel that they do not have delay disease.the u.s.and canada statistics show 70% of college academic procrastination condition exists, also 20% ordinary people have daily delays behavior.according to this data, nearly 1 billion people worldwide suffer from procrastination.拖延癥的特點(diǎn)
1.沒(méi)有自信。因?yàn)槊看瓮瓿扇蝿?wù)都達(dá)不到自己最高的能力,對(duì)自我能力的評(píng)估會(huì)越來(lái)越低。
2.我太忙。我一直拖著沒(méi)做是因?yàn)槲乙恢焙苊Α?/p>
3.頑固。你催我也沒(méi)有用,我準(zhǔn)備好了自然會(huì)開(kāi)始做。
4.操控別人。他們著急也沒(méi)用,一切都要等我到了才能開(kāi)始。5.對(duì)抗壓力。因?yàn)槊刻靿毫艽螅砸龅氖虑橐恢北煌舷聛?lái)。
lack of confidence.because each task is not up to the highest ability, the ability 2 i am too busy.i don’t have it done is dragging because ive been busy.3 stubborn.your urge on me has no use, i will be ready to start doing naturally.4 manipulate others.their worry is useless, all things will not begin before my appearance.5.against pressure.every day a lot of pressure to be faced so that something has to be dragged down.分析原因
一個(gè)人認(rèn)為自己5天之內(nèi)可以做完一件事情,所以在離期限還有15天的時(shí)候一點(diǎn)不著急,直到最后只剩5天了才開(kāi)始。這種緊迫感和焦慮往往促發(fā)人的斗志,會(huì)讓自己覺(jué)得,自己只有在壓力狀態(tài)下才有做事情的狀態(tài)。最后拿到成績(jī)的時(shí)候,成績(jī)往往不是很差,這樣子就強(qiáng)化了自己最適合在deadline之前短期高壓的狀態(tài)下工作的心態(tài),并且對(duì)以后的行為不斷進(jìn)行自我暗示, 即使結(jié)果不好,我也可以說(shuō),那是因?yàn)槲覜](méi)盡全力,如果我真正努力,肯定會(huì)結(jié)果很好的 1.完美主義。所有事情都要達(dá)到一個(gè)很高的境界,要一次做好,所以不愿意匆匆忙忙開(kāi)始,要萬(wàn)事俱備才行。
3.容易頹廢。任務(wù)太難了,別人都不需要做我干嗎要做,不能忍受持續(xù)做這件事情,等明天再做吧。但是往往明天到了,心里還是不高興做,又繼續(xù)往后推 4懶散 總覺(jué)得時(shí)間充足,認(rèn)為在最后可以一口氣完成 性格本身拖拉,意志力不強(qiáng)
someone thinks he can finish within five days of the thing, so it is not in a hurry when there are 15 days away from the deadline, and their will not start until only five days left.this sense of urgency and anxiety often trigger peoples morale, they think they can only to do things under pressure.the examination, for example, the final results are often not very poor, so students will strengthen their work in the short term under high-pressure before the deadline, even if the result is not good, they can also say, that is because i did not do my best, if i really work, the results will certainly be good.psychological experts think the following are the reasons for people’s procrastination 1.perfectionism all things have reached a very high level, so they do not want to have a rush beginning, everything should be ready for the job.解決問(wèn)題方案
1、分類(lèi):生活中肯定會(huì)有一些突發(fā)性和迫不及待要解決的問(wèn)題。成功者花時(shí)間在做最重要,而不是最緊急的事情。把所有工作分成急并重、重但不急、急但不重、不急也不重四類(lèi),依次完成。
1, category life will certainly be some unexpected and can not wait to solve the
三、互相監(jiān)督 找些朋友一起克服這個(gè)壞習(xí)慣,比單打獨(dú)斗容易得多。
四、設(shè)定更具體的目標(biāo), 把大任務(wù)分成小任務(wù)。
如果你的計(jì)劃是“我要減肥,保持好身段”,那么這個(gè)計(jì)劃很可能流產(chǎn)。但如果你的計(jì)劃是“我每周三次早上七點(diǎn)起床跑步”,那么這個(gè)計(jì)劃很可能被堅(jiān)持下來(lái)。所以,你不妨把任務(wù)劃分成一個(gè)個(gè)可以控制的小目標(biāo)。
五、不要給自己太長(zhǎng)時(shí)間
心理專(zhuān)家弗瓦爾發(fā)現(xiàn),花兩年時(shí)間完成論文的研究生總能給自己留一點(diǎn)時(shí)間放松、休整。那些花三年或者三年以上寫(xiě)論文的人幾乎每分鐘都在搜集資料和寫(xiě)作。所以,有時(shí)候工作時(shí)間拖得越長(zhǎng),工作效率越低。
4, set a more specific goal, cut the big task into smaller tasks.if your plan is i want to lose weight and maintain good posture, then this program is likely to abortion.but if your plan is, i get up at seven in the morning and three times a week running, then this program is likely to be persevered.so, you may divide the task into small target that can be controlled.5, do not give yourself too much time 現(xiàn)象
在現(xiàn)實(shí)生活中,這樣的事屢見(jiàn)不鮮,①堆成小山的臟衣服想洗卻一直沒(méi)動(dòng)手;④明知馬上要交作業(yè),卻還在玩游戲、曬照片、在各大論壇看帖子,直到最后一刻才不得不開(kāi)始工作;⑤期末考試臨近,卻不愿碰專(zhuān)業(yè)書(shū)本或文獻(xiàn)一下,甚至哪怕deadline就在幾天之后,這樣的人有一個(gè)共同的名字——“拖延癥患者”
定義
拖延癥(procrastination)指的是非必要、后果有害的推遲行為。取意“將之前的事情放置明天”。目前這個(gè)詞并不是一個(gè)嚴(yán)格的心理學(xué)或醫(yī)學(xué)術(shù)語(yǔ),但拖延現(xiàn)象現(xiàn)已成為管理學(xué)家和心理學(xué)家研究的一個(gè)重要課題
中國(guó)青年報(bào)的一項(xiàng)網(wǎng)上心理調(diào)查結(jié)果顯示,2250名被訪者中,有72.8%的人坦言自己患上了拖延癥。其中14.0%的人覺(jué)得自己的額拖延癥“非常明顯”,41.5%的人覺(jué)得“比較明顯”,僅7.3%的人覺(jué)得自己沒(méi)有拖延癥
美國(guó)和加拿大的統(tǒng)計(jì)數(shù)據(jù)表明,70%的大學(xué)生存在學(xué)業(yè)拖延的狀況,普通人中也有20%的人每天出現(xiàn)拖延行為。按照這個(gè)數(shù)據(jù)推算,全球有近10億人患有拖延癥。
the results of an online survey of psychological made by china youth daily, show that 2250 respondents, 72.8% of people admitted that they are suffering from procrastination.of which 14.0% feel that their amount procrastination very clear, 41.5% of people think obvious, only 7.3% of people feel that they do not have delay disease.the u.s.and canada statistics show 70% of college academic procrastination condition exists, also 20% ordinary people have daily delays behavior.according to this data, nearly 1 billion people worldwide suffer from procrastination.拖延癥的特點(diǎn)
1.沒(méi)有自信。因?yàn)槊看瓮瓿扇蝿?wù)都達(dá)不到自己最高的能力,對(duì)自我能力的評(píng)估會(huì)越來(lái)越低。
2.我太忙。我一直拖著沒(méi)做是因?yàn)槲乙恢焙苊Α?/p>
3.頑固。你催我也沒(méi)有用,我準(zhǔn)備好了自然會(huì)開(kāi)始做。
4.操控別人。他們著急也沒(méi)用,一切都要等我到了才能開(kāi)始。5.對(duì)抗壓力。因?yàn)槊刻靿毫艽?,所以要做的事情一直被拖下?lái)。
i am too busy.i don’t have it done is dragging because ive been busy.3 stubborn.your urge on me has no use, i will be ready to start doing naturally.4 manipulate others.their worry is useless, all things will not begin before my appearance.5.against pressure.every day a lot of pressure to be faced so that something has to be dragged down.分析原因
一個(gè)人認(rèn)為自己5天之內(nèi)可以做完一件事情,所以在離期限還有15天的時(shí)候一點(diǎn)不著急,直到最后只剩5天了才開(kāi)始。這種緊迫感和焦慮往往促發(fā)人的斗志,會(huì)讓自己覺(jué)得,自己只有在壓力狀態(tài)下才有做事情的狀態(tài)。最后拿到成績(jī)的時(shí)候,成績(jī)往往不是很差,這樣子就強(qiáng)化了自己最適合在deadline之前短期高壓的狀態(tài)下工作的心態(tài),并且對(duì)以后的行為不斷進(jìn)行自我暗示, 即使結(jié)果不好,我也可以說(shuō),那是因?yàn)槲覜](méi)盡全力,如果我真正努力,肯定會(huì)結(jié)果很好的
1.完美主義。所有事情都要達(dá)到一個(gè)很高的境界,要一次做好,所以不愿意匆匆忙忙開(kāi)始,要萬(wàn)事俱備才行。
3.容易頹廢。任務(wù)太難了,別人都不需要做我干嗎要做,不能忍受持續(xù)做這件事情,等明天再做吧。但是往往明天到了,心里還是不高興做,又繼續(xù)往后推 4懶散 總覺(jué)得時(shí)間充足,認(rèn)為在最后可以一口氣完成 性格本身拖拉,意志力不強(qiáng)
someone thinks he can finish within five days of the thing, so it is not in a hurry when there are 15 days away from the deadline, and their will not start until only five days left.this sense of urgency and anxiety often trigger peoples morale, they think they can only to do things under pressure.the examination, for example, the final results are often not very poor, so students will strengthen their work in the short term under high-pressure before the deadline, even if the result is not good, they can also say, that is because i did not do my best, if i really work, the results will certainly be good.psychological experts think the following are the reasons for people’s procrastination 1.perfectionism all things have reached a very high level, so they do not want to have a rush beginning, everything should be ready for the job.how to get rid of procrastination? 如何擺脫拖延癥?
1.stop thinking.start doing.停止東想西想,立即采取行動(dòng)
tomorrow is often the busiest day of the week.——spanish proverb“明天總是一周中最忙的一天?!薄靼嘌乐V語(yǔ)
stop thinking.start doing.停止東想西想,立即采取行動(dòng)。
a bit of planning can certainly help you to achieve what you want to achieve.a lot of planning and thinking tends to have the opposite effect.有點(diǎn)計(jì)劃確實(shí)有助于實(shí)現(xiàn)
目標(biāo),但若思慮并計(jì)劃太多,則會(huì)適得其反。
such a thing does of course not exist.but as long as you work on that plan you can protect yourself.毋庸置疑,這種事壓根兒就不存在。其實(shí),只要堅(jiān)持實(shí)行一個(gè)計(jì)劃,你也能保護(hù)好自己免受拖延癥后果之苦。
2.don’t blow a task out of proportion.不要過(guò)猶不及 by over thinking and putting things off you are not only trying to protect yourself from pain.you also make mountains out of molehills.思慮過(guò)頭或不斷拖延推遲并不能使你免受痛苦。你只是小題大做罷了。
the quotes above are so true it isnt even funny.the more hours and days you put something off the worse it grows in your mind.前面那句諺語(yǔ)確實(shí)是至理名言啊。拖延時(shí)間越久,你受到的煎熬就越大。
because you are dwelling on it.and so it expands in your mind.and since you are putting it off you are probably thinking about it in a negative way.因?yàn)槟憧偸侵共蛔∪ハ耄X子里全是這事兒;而且因?yàn)檫@事兒被一拖再拖,你的情緒也跟著消極起來(lái)。so plan a little and then take action.所以還是把計(jì)劃定小一些,然后采取行動(dòng)吧。3.just take the first step.只需邁出第一步
when you start to look too far into the future any task or project can seem close to impossible.如果你目光太遠(yuǎn),那么任何任務(wù)或項(xiàng)目看上去幾乎都無(wú)法達(dá)成了。
then you just focus on taking the first step today.that is all you need to focus on, nothing else.然后,你只需全心全意做好第一步就行。沒(méi)錯(cuò),別管其他的,只看第一步。by taking the first step you change you mental state from resistant to hey, im doing this, cool.開(kāi)始了第一步后,你的心理會(huì)從抵觸變成“嗨,我已經(jīng)開(kāi)始啦,還不錯(cuò)嘛 4.start with the hardest task of your day.從最棘手的任務(wù)著手。
maybe you have an important call to make that you also fear might be whatever it may be, get it out of your way the first thing you do.不管是什么任務(wù),都請(qǐng)立馬動(dòng)手處理吧。
if you start your day this way you will feel relieved.you feel relaxed and good about yourself.如果每天先處理棘手任務(wù),你將大大松一口氣、放松且自我感覺(jué)良好。and the rest of the day – and your to-do list – tends to feel a lot lighter and easier to move through.it’s amazing what difference this one action makes.接下來(lái)你的任務(wù)清單也更容易搞定。只需采取小小行動(dòng),你將發(fā)現(xiàn)效果大有不同!
5.just make a decision.any decision.只需下定決心,任何決定都行。
we feel bad when we sit on our hands and dont take action because its unnatural.the natural thing is to be a decisive human and take action.當(dāng)我們干坐著什么也不做時(shí),情緒會(huì)變得很壞,因?yàn)檫@是有違天性的。我們的天性就是不斷作出決定、采取行動(dòng)。what you do always sends signals back to you about who you are.sure, doing affirmations where you say to yourself that you are confident can help you.你所做的事能反映出你是個(gè)怎樣的人。自然,當(dāng)你暗示自己自信時(shí),也確實(shí)能產(chǎn)生積極效果。but taking the confident actions you want to take over and over again is what really builds your self confidence and a self-image of you being a confident person.只有反復(fù)不斷地采取自信行動(dòng),才能真正塑造你的自信心,讓你成為一個(gè)自信的人。6.face your fear.直面內(nèi)心恐懼。
i think this is true.its easier to live on that someday? thought.its harder to just take action.我覺(jué)得這一點(diǎn)很正確:人們很容易陷入“將來(lái)某一天??”的思維模式,卻很難拿出行動(dòng)來(lái)。
to risk looking like a fool.to make mistakes, stumble and not avoid that pain.to take responsibility for your own life.請(qǐng)像傻瓜一樣去冒險(xiǎn)吧,請(qǐng)去犯錯(cuò)誤、去碰壁、去經(jīng)歷痛苦吧。你要為你自己的人生負(fù)責(zé)。7.finish it.堅(jiān)持完成。
but not finishing what you have started can also leave you in a sort of negative funk.你會(huì)感到疲倦或壓力重重,有時(shí)你甚至也搞不懂到底怎么了。
you feel fatigued or stressed and sometimes you don’t even know why.it’s like someone zapped your inner power.就好像有什么東西掏空了你內(nèi)心的力量一樣。if that is the case, go over tasks and projects what you are currently involved in.如果你遇到了這種情況,那就去回顧一下自己已經(jīng)著手的任務(wù)或項(xiàng)目吧。
第五篇:拖延癥演講稿
拖延癥演講稿
拖延癥演講稿1
眼看快開(kāi)學(xué)了,焦慮的小海每天想早起趕作業(yè),可還是會(huì)一覺(jué)睡到晌午。昨天,媽媽問(wèn)心理醫(yī)生:這孩子得了“拖拉癥”怎么辦?
即將上初二的小海是個(gè)很有志向的少年,夢(mèng)想長(zhǎng)大后成為一個(gè)的.航海科學(xué)家。但他就是做事特別拖拉,什么事一定要拖到最后一分鐘才做,不管要做的事是簡(jiǎn)單還是困難。
放暑假期間,每天早上小海都想早點(diǎn)起,將鬧鐘、手機(jī)定在8點(diǎn)響??墒堑搅?點(diǎn),手機(jī)、鬧鐘同時(shí)響,他不想起床,再把鬧鈴調(diào)到9點(diǎn)。9點(diǎn)鬧鈴響起,他又再調(diào)……最后總是拖到中午才起床。平時(shí)上學(xué)時(shí),同學(xué)們背后都叫他“遲到大王”。
這兩天,面對(duì)各科還有很多暑假作業(yè)未完成,小海下定決心盡早開(kāi)工,但開(kāi)工前還是先看看電視或上一會(huì)兒網(wǎng),心里雖然很焦慮,但還是想“再等等”。
心理咨詢(xún)師章劍和分析,生活中經(jīng)常有這樣的人:當(dāng)天該做的事情總要拖,雖然心里著急,可行為上卻總是拖拖拉拉,直到實(shí)在拖不下去了才臨時(shí)抱佛腳。這種拖延癥是一種“心靈的感冒”,拖延時(shí)間的心理會(huì)使一個(gè)人在現(xiàn)實(shí)中變得懦弱。 改變拖延行為的最有效辦法就是從現(xiàn)在開(kāi)始,立即采取行動(dòng)。把任務(wù)劃分成一個(gè)個(gè)可以控制的小目標(biāo),并嚴(yán)格按計(jì)劃執(zhí)行,改變拖拉癥是完全可能的。
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人生,就是一個(gè)完善自己、修復(fù)自己的過(guò)程?!}記
太陽(yáng)光暖洋洋地從窗口射進(jìn)來(lái),溫順地灑在每個(gè)人的臉上,窗外的城市已經(jīng)又開(kāi)頭了新一天的日程,街上各式各樣的人們都匆忙地奔波著,早餐店的門(mén)口早已坐滿(mǎn)了著急等待吃早餐的顧客,包子的香氣從蒸籠中飛出,融入了早晨清爽的空氣中。
而與此同時(shí),我照舊縮在被窩中,無(wú)論媽媽如何喊叫,就是不愿探出頭來(lái),“五分鐘,再睡五分鐘啦!”我懶洋洋地應(yīng)付著媽媽?zhuān)安恍?7點(diǎn)半了,你看你們班的班長(zhǎng)6點(diǎn)就起床讀書(shū)、背英語(yǔ)單詞了!”“好,我起……”我極不情愿且迷模糊糊地穿衣服,慢吞吞地洗臉?biāo)⒀?,心想:反正今日運(yùn)動(dòng)會(huì),晚去一會(huì)又不會(huì)被發(fā)覺(jué)。我這拖延癥,早已深化我體內(nèi),無(wú)藥可救了,正因?yàn)槿绱耍覠o(wú)論做什么事,都要比別人慢一步,而且顯得慌驚慌張。
這天是我們學(xué)校一年一度的春季運(yùn)動(dòng)會(huì),運(yùn)動(dòng)場(chǎng)上鑼鼓齊鳴、人聲鼎沸,正值我偷偷摸摸地從人群中混進(jìn)我們班集合點(diǎn)時(shí),突然一個(gè)聲音從背后大聲喝住了我,“你還知道來(lái)呀!”嚇得我一怔,趕忙回頭看去,原來(lái)是班長(zhǎng),“班長(zhǎng),我錯(cuò)了,下次肯定早來(lái)?!薄昂?”班長(zhǎng)惡狠狠地說(shuō)“你真是個(gè)拖油瓶!”這時(shí),我也不愿意了:“怎么了,不就晚來(lái)一會(huì)嗎!”“晚來(lái)一會(huì)?你的項(xiàng)目都結(jié)束了!”聽(tīng)到這話(huà),我腦子“嗡”地一聲,仿佛被人重重錘了一下似的,立刻糊涂了很多,原來(lái)我是運(yùn)動(dòng)員,要參與女子接力賽的,能為班集體出一份力,是我的幻想啊,可如今我竟然拖到現(xiàn)在才來(lái),一切都結(jié)束了,我的臉立刻通紅?!鞍?,我是……我是……”此時(shí)我真想找個(gè)地縫鉆進(jìn)去……
運(yùn)動(dòng)會(huì)結(jié)束了,我們班在全班級(jí)中墊底了,聽(tīng)到這個(gè)消息,全部人目光都落到了我身上,我低下頭,無(wú)地自容,連班主任也來(lái)找我談話(huà),語(yǔ)重心長(zhǎng)對(duì)我說(shuō):“你要留意你自身的錯(cuò)誤啊?!蔽业腵心理防線突然崩潰了,“嗯,張老師,我知道我錯(cuò)了,我肯定改!”我的眼淚不由自主地掉下來(lái),我真是恨我自己呀,我恨自己的“懶”,恨自己的拖延癥。
從那刻起,我開(kāi)頭努力地過(guò)好每一天,剛剛開(kāi)頭努力時(shí),的確非常苦痛,早早起床時(shí),痛徹心扉,改掉自己的毛病時(shí),非常難受,不情不愿,而當(dāng)我漸漸適應(yīng)時(shí),不知從何時(shí)開(kāi)頭,我愛(ài)上了這種努力而又仔細(xì)的生活態(tài)度。我第一次覺(jué)得,自己是班級(jí)的一員,我也要追上他們的腳步,我要與他們一起奮斗!
努力,不肯定勝利,但你肯定會(huì)感謝并愛(ài)上那個(gè)努力奮斗、拼搏的自己!
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昨天,破天荒的拿出自己上次踏過(guò)泥洼坑的鞋子洗了起來(lái)。是那么的可憐,又是那么的罪有應(yīng)得。
明明已經(jīng)不是七八歲的孩子,卻還是免不了不小心的時(shí)候。現(xiàn)在想想也覺(jué)得很氣,所以當(dāng)時(shí)回家,根本就沒(méi)有想要洗。出門(mén)遇上臺(tái)風(fēng),買(mǎi)了雨傘也沒(méi)有什么用,回到家一身濕透就算了,還在離家不遠(yuǎn)的地方,因?yàn)樘焐行┖?,根本沒(méi)注意,就不幸地踏入泥坑,論誰(shuí)都會(huì)覺(jué)得倒霉吧。那天回家后,就脫了身上的衣服,洗了熱水澡,還把白運(yùn)動(dòng)鞋,給收了起來(lái)。當(dāng)然,當(dāng)時(shí)已經(jīng)不是白色運(yùn)動(dòng)鞋了,而是泥色運(yùn)動(dòng)鞋。
所以,一直都沒(méi)有拿出來(lái)洗。今天,收拾床底的時(shí)候,忽然想起來(lái)。才發(fā)現(xiàn)自己已經(jīng)忘了那么久。于是,終于把鞋子放入水里,拿起自己的小鞋刷,開(kāi)始洗涮涮了。過(guò)程和往日一樣,費(fèi)力不討好,消耗了不少的時(shí)間。不過(guò),因?yàn)槊看蜗葱际沁@樣討厭,所以我也算有些習(xí)慣了。自然,也是沒(méi)有什么抱怨的洗完了。
然而,沒(méi)有放過(guò)我的是。在我收拾鞋盒子的時(shí)候,發(fā)現(xiàn)我的另一雙白色球鞋,還沒(méi)有洗。是前幾天我出門(mén)弄臟的,因?yàn)閯傁逻^(guò)雨,所以地面潮濕,在外表和朋友說(shuō)說(shuō)笑笑,所以回家就覺(jué)得明天再洗。結(jié)果,自然是說(shuō)一時(shí),忘記一陣子。于是,我又只好拿著這雙鞋子去洗涮涮。因?yàn)橐呀?jīng)洗過(guò)一雙,所以洗第二雙讓我覺(jué)得更加不悅了。好在是球鞋,好洗。但是,喜歡白色的我,鞋子也常常買(mǎi)白色,對(duì)于污漬總是過(guò)度計(jì)較。于是,就把自己吃力的勁給用上了,才收拾完畢。好在洗完之后就可以休息吃飯,不然,我又不知道要抱怨多久了。
可是現(xiàn)在想想,不都是自己太懶惰了,才會(huì)有這樣的后果嘛。明明最開(kāi)始的自己,就是把不喜歡的事情先做掉,然后再去做別的事情,結(jié)果現(xiàn)在,越來(lái)越會(huì)拖延了。不是玩手機(jī),就是做些有的沒(méi)的,根本就沒(méi)有做什么正經(jīng)事過(guò)。
確實(shí),很多不想做的事情,越放只會(huì)變成,遺忘的事情。最后在一個(gè)不湊巧的時(shí)間,才會(huì)終于感到有些不好意思,不情不愿的去做。既然這樣,何不像從前一樣,小心一點(diǎn),注意一點(diǎn),盡量不要被其他的事情耽誤,好好盤(pán)算天氣和穿著,也不要拖延放置討厭的事情,盡快去做。
有些事情,拖延還可以解決,可是有些時(shí)候,你一但有了這樣的心思,就會(huì)變得麻煩了。從前看過(guò)一句話(huà),“把今天的事情拖到明天去做,你的余生都不夠用”。古話(huà)不是也說(shuō)嘛“明日復(fù)明日,明日何其多,我生待明日,萬(wàn)事成蹉跎。”所以,不要給自己理由浪費(fèi)時(shí)間。
今天,我想和大家來(lái)說(shuō)一說(shuō)在現(xiàn)代社會(huì)中,十分普遍的一種“絕癥”——拖延癥。
拖延癥是指自我調(diào)節(jié)失敗,在能夠預(yù)料后果有害的情況下,仍然把計(jì)劃要做的.事情往后推遲的一種行為。
相信大家在平時(shí)生活中都有這樣的體驗(yàn):下周要月考,英語(yǔ)單詞還沒(méi)有背熟,但還是不能翻開(kāi)英語(yǔ)書(shū)好好地背單詞,總想著“還有一個(gè)禮拜”、早著呢;或者語(yǔ)文要看的古文字詞義還沒(méi)記牢,明明手上沒(méi)有什么事,寧可翻開(kāi)小說(shuō)看幾眼,或者拿起手機(jī)玩一會(huì)兒游戲,都不愿意翻開(kāi)課本??傄系阶詈髱滋?、甚至最后一天才翻開(kāi)書(shū),嘴里念叨著“來(lái)不及了來(lái)不及了”、一邊后悔為什么沒(méi)有提前復(fù)習(xí)。這樣臨時(shí)抱佛腳、很有可能被佛一腳踢開(kāi)??荚嚱Y(jié)束之后,痛定思痛、下定決心,下次考試一定要好好復(fù)習(xí);然后呢?然后下一次還是被拖延癥扯斷了后腿。如此循環(huán)、周而復(fù)始。
對(duì)于這樣的事我深有體會(huì)。就比方這次演講,在半個(gè)月前我就開(kāi)始想講什么,但是總想著這周是男生講,有一個(gè)周末的時(shí)間來(lái)準(zhǔn)備,沒(méi)有關(guān)系;或者就算這周是女生講,但是輪不到我,還有時(shí)間。就這樣一直拖拖拖,直到昨天我才決定,用自己血淋淋的教訓(xùn),作為今天演講的話(huà)題。
我們都知道拖延癥有多么嚴(yán)重的后果,那有什么解決的方法呢?一位心理學(xué)家尼爾·菲奧里有一本書(shū)叫《戰(zhàn)勝拖拉》,書(shū)中提到這樣一個(gè)方法,叫“逆向日程表”法。簡(jiǎn)單來(lái)說(shuō),就是從最終完成任務(wù)的那個(gè)日期算起,往前推,到哪一天該完成哪一階段,一直逆推到當(dāng)下。這樣就不會(huì)沒(méi)有緊迫感;同樣,一個(gè)巨大的任務(wù)被分割成小局部,看起來(lái)也會(huì)輕松一些、人的畏難心理也會(huì)減輕。
還有一種方法被叫做“番茄工作法”,這個(gè)方法一個(gè)番茄計(jì)時(shí)器,這個(gè)計(jì)時(shí)器每30分鐘會(huì)報(bào)一次時(shí)。實(shí)驗(yàn)者在這30分鐘內(nèi)分配休息和工作的時(shí)間,每30分鐘被稱(chēng)為一個(gè)“番茄時(shí)間”。經(jīng)過(guò)很屢次實(shí)驗(yàn)后,人們發(fā)現(xiàn),25分鐘工作和5分鐘休息是比擬合理、容易被人接受的;也可以讓人專(zhuān)心工作、不被誘惑分散注意力。
那到現(xiàn)在,我的演講也基本結(jié)束了。希望可以給大家、同樣也是給自己一些克服拖延癥的好的建議;也希望下次輪到我演講時(shí),別再準(zhǔn)備得如此倉(cāng)促。謝謝。
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各位家長(zhǎng):
大家好,我是六年級(jí)九班英語(yǔ)老師XXX,很高興借這一平臺(tái)和大家就孩子們的英語(yǔ)學(xué)習(xí)情況做一下交流。英語(yǔ)難學(xué)是大家公認(rèn)的,但我不這么認(rèn)為。你們想一想,孩子們呱呱墜地時(shí),沒(méi)有語(yǔ)言,沒(méi)有意識(shí),僅憑他們執(zhí)著的對(duì)知識(shí)的渴望度和超強(qiáng)的模仿能力,孩子們現(xiàn)在能言善辯,夸夸其談。學(xué)英語(yǔ)亦是如此,學(xué)不好不是孩子笨,也不要認(rèn)為孩子笨,在我的眼中沒(méi)有笨孩子,只有不學(xué)習(xí)的孩子,只有不會(huì)學(xué)的孩子。還有關(guān)鍵的一點(diǎn),僅憑在學(xué)校里的幾節(jié)英語(yǔ)課是遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)不夠的,需要孩子們?cè)诩依?、在課后多加練習(xí),熟能生巧嘛。希望各位家長(zhǎng)給予配合,關(guān)注一下孩子們?cè)诩依锏膶W(xué)習(xí)表現(xiàn),即使您不會(huì)英語(yǔ),您也可以借助您豐富的漢語(yǔ)知識(shí)來(lái)幫助您的孩子把英語(yǔ)學(xué)好的。孩子在做作業(yè)的時(shí)候,您可以陪在他的.身邊,孩子進(jìn)行英語(yǔ)對(duì)話(huà)練習(xí)缺少同伴時(shí),您可以客串一下角色,不會(huì)英語(yǔ)不是您忽視孩子學(xué)習(xí)的借口。
有一位家長(zhǎng)的做法我覺(jué)非常不錯(cuò),現(xiàn)在和大家分享一下。具體做法是這樣的:明天孩子要聽(tīng)寫(xiě)單詞,家長(zhǎng)在家里陪孩子復(fù)習(xí),復(fù)習(xí)了一段時(shí)間后要檢測(cè)一下,家長(zhǎng)讀漢語(yǔ),孩子寫(xiě)英語(yǔ)單詞,完后,家長(zhǎng)拿出書(shū)來(lái),一個(gè)字母一個(gè)字母的比照著詞匯表去看。過(guò)后這位家長(zhǎng)說(shuō),誰(shuí)叫咱不會(huì)英語(yǔ)呢?不會(huì)就得比人家會(huì)的多付出些,為了孩子這是應(yīng)該的。樸實(shí)的表達(dá)道出了家長(zhǎng)對(duì)子女的那份期望,希望各位家長(zhǎng)向這位家長(zhǎng)學(xué)習(xí)學(xué)習(xí),也可以自己發(fā)明寫(xiě)更加切合實(shí)際的辦法,幫助孩子把英語(yǔ)學(xué)好。
歡迎各位家長(zhǎng)同志們常和我聯(lián)系,我會(huì)盡我的微薄之力和您一道助孩子們一把,讓他們?cè)谝院蟮挠⒄Z(yǔ)學(xué)習(xí)之路上更加輕松些,也希望在不久的將來(lái)您的孩子會(huì)用一口流利的英語(yǔ)和您打招呼。
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我們?cè)S多人都有“拖延癥”:吃飯慢、上學(xué)慢、寫(xiě)作業(yè)慢,做什么都慢……喜愛(ài)把一件事拖到最終一刻,那么就讓我來(lái)說(shuō)說(shuō)我的“拖延癥”吧!
記得那是在上二班級(jí)的時(shí)候,一天下午放學(xué)后,我正津津有味地看著動(dòng)畫(huà)片,媽媽突然走過(guò)來(lái)關(guān)掉了電視,說(shuō):“別看了,快去寫(xiě)作業(yè)吧?!蔽倚牟桓?、情不愿地從沙發(fā)上站起來(lái),邊起身邊小聲嘀咕:“我正看得起勁呢,時(shí)間還早呢……”
我不緊不慢地走向自己的書(shū)桌,無(wú)可奈何地打開(kāi)書(shū)包,掏出書(shū)、作業(yè)本和文具盒開(kāi)頭寫(xiě)作業(yè)。剛拿起筆,突然,書(shū)桌旁媽媽正在充電的手機(jī)來(lái)了一條信息提示,我東張西望不見(jiàn)媽媽?zhuān)南耄簨寢尣辉?,就看一眼,不?huì)耽擱時(shí)間的。于是,我以迅雷不及掩耳之勢(shì)拿起了手機(jī),“真巧,是我的好伴侶發(fā)來(lái)的,給她回一個(gè)吧,不會(huì)耽擱時(shí)間的。”就這樣,一來(lái)一回,不大一會(huì)兒,我們就天南海北地聊得熱火朝天?!澳阍诟墒裁?”媽媽一把奪過(guò)手機(jī),嚴(yán)峻地批判了我,我只好乖乖地寫(xiě)作業(yè)。
寫(xiě)著寫(xiě)著,突然感覺(jué)腳底下有個(gè)東西,拿起來(lái)一看,原來(lái)是我可愛(ài)的小魔方,它在召喚我:“小仆人,歇會(huì)兒吧,時(shí)間還早呢玩一會(huì)兒吧!”我想也是的`。不知過(guò)了多大一會(huì)兒,媽媽猝不及防地進(jìn)了房間,我立即收起魔方,裝模作樣地寫(xiě)起作業(yè)?!翱禳c(diǎn)寫(xiě)!”望著媽媽的笑容,我深深地吁了一口氣,閃電般地將作業(yè)收尾,開(kāi)頭讀起書(shū)來(lái)。
現(xiàn)在想想真可怕,一寸光陰,一寸金,人最珍貴的就是時(shí)間,抓緊時(shí)間寫(xiě)完作業(yè)還可以看看書(shū),增長(zhǎng)自己的見(jiàn)識(shí),才會(huì)有更大的進(jìn)步。在學(xué)習(xí)生活中,我們要遠(yuǎn)離拖延,讓自己變得更加樂(lè)觀,爭(zhēng)取做最好的自己!
拖延癥演講稿6
“叮鈴鈴”上課鈴響了,語(yǔ)文期末模擬練習(xí)也拉開(kāi)了序幕。
試卷從前桌傳了下來(lái),我像是接住了一個(gè)燙手的山芋!我認(rèn)真地閱讀著試卷,發(fā)覺(jué)前面部分并不是很難??勺魑闹卑盐覈樍艘惶?,這可是命題作文啊。我悄悄地思索著,盼望能想出一點(diǎn)什么作文的靈感來(lái)?!拔叶昧耸裁?”作文要求里的一句話(huà)。我想了很長(zhǎng)一段時(shí)間,不知不覺(jué)考試時(shí)間已經(jīng)開(kāi)頭了。我還在這里鋪張?zhí)鄷r(shí)間,于是我先寫(xiě)好了班級(jí)姓名,學(xué)號(hào)。
從前面開(kāi)頭做了一題,比較滿(mǎn)足,順當(dāng)完成。第二題也還好,我一路過(guò)關(guān),斬六將,始終攻到了是閱讀題??梢豢吹介喿x的習(xí)題我可就傻眼了?!罢?qǐng)你評(píng)價(jià)一下文中的人物是個(gè)怎樣的人?”這可是我最弱項(xiàng)的題目,我一下子就卡住了,可是我記住假如遇到無(wú)法解決的題目就跳過(guò),他先做會(huì)做的題目,然后再來(lái)漸漸解決它。于是我接著往下做,可就在這時(shí),我就是前面的題目有點(diǎn)不大對(duì)頭,我又往前檢查了一遍,發(fā)覺(jué)是有一個(gè)錯(cuò)了,我抓緊改掉,再看看其他有沒(méi)有錯(cuò)其他并沒(méi)有錯(cuò),我又不放心就認(rèn)真來(lái)回掃了好幾遍才放心。才安心的放過(guò)試卷。
閱讀題的文章,我讀了一遍又一遍,始終讀了十來(lái)遍。我努力做這題目,做完后,認(rèn)真檢查著,發(fā)覺(jué)我做得不錯(cuò),于是翻過(guò)了,去做下一面。我又突然覺(jué)得不放心,來(lái)回看了好幾遍,這時(shí)我發(fā)覺(jué)別同學(xué)已經(jīng)開(kāi)頭寫(xiě)作文了。我認(rèn)真看了看
別人寫(xiě)到哪兒了,這可把我嚇了一跳,人家都把格子寫(xiě)完了,我連動(dòng)都還沒(méi)動(dòng)。我真想說(shuō),我的磨嘰神功,可把我害慘了。
我抓緊起筆開(kāi)頭寫(xiě),也不管會(huì)不會(huì),也不管好賴(lài),一想到句子就往上抄??晌覍?xiě)了沒(méi)多久,老師就說(shuō):“同學(xué)們這次考試還有二非常鐘可以做,請(qǐng)認(rèn)真檢查?!薄皨屟?,二非常鐘,可我才寫(xiě)了三行啊!我抓緊寫(xiě)……我?guī)缀跏荏@得要跳起來(lái)了。但是我的`筆似乎越越來(lái)越重,仿佛跟金箍棒一樣,我的手吃力地在紙上滑動(dòng)。我寫(xiě)字的速度也越來(lái)越慢,越來(lái)越慢,這只筆似乎涂了502,一動(dòng)也不動(dòng)。我心里這個(gè)焦急呀,似乎屁股都著了火一樣,可是越孤獨(dú)越急越慢極了,后來(lái)就再也想不出來(lái)了。就在這時(shí)靈光在我腦海中閃過(guò)。發(fā)覺(jué)有一本書(shū),正好能拿來(lái)用。我抓緊……我努力回想書(shū)的內(nèi)容,并依據(jù)依據(jù)書(shū)上的故事進(jìn)行改編擴(kuò)充。然后,把書(shū)上一百字的內(nèi)容擴(kuò)充成了五百字。也就在這時(shí)下課的鈴聲響起,我匆忙地檢查了一遍,長(zhǎng)吁了一口氣,把試卷交了上去。哎呀,剛才真是嚇?biāo)牢伊?,要不是我讀書(shū)讀的多,那可就真卡殼了,假如作文沒(méi)寫(xiě)完,那么那可就頂多只有六非常了。直到放學(xué)以后,我還是心有余悸!
哎呀,我的拖延癥啊!你什么時(shí)候能離我遠(yuǎn)去?
拖延癥演講稿7
昨天,破天荒的拿出自己上次踏過(guò)泥洼坑的鞋子洗了起來(lái)。是那么的可憐,又是那么的罪有應(yīng)得。
明明已經(jīng)不是七八歲的孩子,卻還是免不了不當(dāng)心的時(shí)候?,F(xiàn)在想想也覺(jué)得很氣,所以當(dāng)時(shí)回家,根本就沒(méi)有想要洗。出門(mén)遇上臺(tái)風(fēng),買(mǎi)了雨傘也沒(méi)有什么用,回到家一身濕透就算了,還在離家不遠(yuǎn)的地方,因?yàn)樘焐行┖?,根本沒(méi)留意,就不幸地踏入泥坑,論誰(shuí)都會(huì)覺(jué)得倒霉吧。那天回家后,就脫了身上的衣服,洗了熱水澡,還把白運(yùn)動(dòng)鞋,給收了起來(lái)。當(dāng)然,當(dāng)時(shí)已經(jīng)不是白色運(yùn)動(dòng)鞋了,而是泥色運(yùn)動(dòng)鞋。
所以,始終都沒(méi)有拿出來(lái)洗。今日,整理床底的時(shí)候,突然想起來(lái)。才發(fā)覺(jué)自己已經(jīng)忘了那么久。于是,最終把鞋子放入水里,拿起自己的小鞋刷,開(kāi)頭洗涮涮了。過(guò)程和往日一樣,費(fèi)勁不討好,消耗了不少的'時(shí)間。不過(guò),因?yàn)槊看蜗葱际沁@樣厭煩,所以我也算有些習(xí)慣了。自然,也是沒(méi)有什么埋怨的洗完了。
然而,沒(méi)有放過(guò)我的是。在我整理鞋盒子的時(shí)候,發(fā)覺(jué)我的另一雙白色球鞋,還沒(méi)有洗。是前幾天我出門(mén)弄臟的,因?yàn)閯傁逻^(guò)雨,所以地面潮濕,在外表和伴侶說(shuō)說(shuō)笑笑,所以回家就覺(jué)得明天再洗。結(jié)果,自然是說(shuō)一時(shí),遺忘一陣子。于是,我又只好拿著這雙鞋子去洗涮涮。因?yàn)橐呀?jīng)洗過(guò)一雙,所以洗第二雙讓我覺(jué)得更加不悅了。好在是球鞋,好洗。但是,喜愛(ài)白色的我,鞋子也經(jīng)常買(mǎi)白色,對(duì)于污漬總是過(guò)度計(jì)較。于是,就把自己吃力的勁給用上了,才整理完畢。好在洗完之后就可以休息吃飯,不然,我又不知道要埋怨多久了。
可是現(xiàn)在想想,不都是自己太懶散了,才會(huì)有這樣的后果嘛。明明最開(kāi)頭的自己,就是把不喜愛(ài)的事情先做掉,然后再去做別的事情,結(jié)果現(xiàn)在,越來(lái)越會(huì)拖延了。不是玩手機(jī),就是做些有的沒(méi)的,根本就沒(méi)有做什么正經(jīng)事過(guò)。
的確,許多不想做的事情,越放只會(huì)變成,遺忘的事情。最終在一個(gè)不湊巧的時(shí)間,才會(huì)最終感到有些不好意思,不情不愿的去做。既然這樣,何不像從前一樣,當(dāng)心一點(diǎn),留意一點(diǎn),盡量不要被其他的事情耽擱,好好盤(pán)算天氣和穿著,也不要拖延放置厭煩的事情,盡快去做。
有些事情,拖延還可以解決,可是有些時(shí)候,你一但有了這樣的心思,就會(huì)變得麻煩了。從前看過(guò)一句話(huà),“把今日的事情拖到明天去做,你的余生都不夠用”。古話(huà)不是也說(shuō)嘛“明日復(fù)明日,明日何其多,我生待明日,萬(wàn)事成蹉跎。”所以,不要給自己理由鋪張時(shí)間。
拖延癥演講稿8
我想先問(wèn)大家一個(gè)問(wèn)題,那就是世界上最苦的水果是什么?答案是“當(dāng)初如果”。雖然這只是一個(gè)腦筋急轉(zhuǎn)彎,但這是一個(gè)大家都感同身受的問(wèn)題,因?yàn)閹缀趺總€(gè)人都不同程度患有一種病,叫做拖延癥。拖延癥的定義自然不用多說(shuō),大家患病那么久,應(yīng)該接觸過(guò)各種不同的病發(fā)癥狀。
但是也不要因?yàn)橥涎影Y而對(duì)生活失去信心,因?yàn)槊總€(gè)人都是在有選擇地拖延。比如你會(huì)在一個(gè)無(wú)聊的會(huì)議上遲到,卻不會(huì)在跟男神女神的約會(huì)上遲到;對(duì)于你不想做的事情,你有排山倒海的理由拖延它,事關(guān)重要的事情,刻意創(chuàng)造困難你也在所不辭。還有的時(shí)候一件事情拖著拖著,我們就干脆不做了。其實(shí)這也不錯(cuò),你能夠通過(guò)它,來(lái)區(qū)別事情的重要性和必要性。
我自己本身是一個(gè)拖延癥十分嚴(yán)重的人。我相信班里有很多同學(xué)都和我有著相同的困擾。一到放假的時(shí)候,之前明明做好了許多的計(jì)劃,計(jì)劃今天做什么,明天做什么,在這個(gè)時(shí)間段做什么,我要幾點(diǎn)起床之類(lèi)的雜事??梢坏綄?shí)行的時(shí)候,就變成了:現(xiàn)在才幾點(diǎn)幾點(diǎn),我還可以再多睡一會(huì)。今天是放假第一天,要不就給自己放松一天吧。這個(gè)時(shí)間段應(yīng)該用來(lái)休息啊,還是待會(huì)再做吧。這樣的情況下,結(jié)果往往是,哪怕坐在地上發(fā)呆一整天,也不愿意去執(zhí)行原本的計(jì)劃。
在表面上看來(lái),拖延的時(shí)候我們完全沒(méi)有做和任務(wù)相關(guān)的事情,我們刷朋友圈吃零食聊天,忙里偷閑中,潛意識(shí)里必定會(huì)不時(shí)地想起還沒(méi)完成的事情,這種焦慮感會(huì)讓我們慢慢開(kāi)始計(jì)劃起來(lái),哪怕只是不靠譜的一些設(shè)想,也是行動(dòng)前的蓄力過(guò)程,至少在你開(kāi)始做的時(shí)候不會(huì)毫無(wú)頭緒。
更令人開(kāi)心的'是,拖延有時(shí)候會(huì)帶來(lái)價(jià)值。
而且,拖延還能帶來(lái)創(chuàng)造力!很多作家會(huì)常常拖了一周沒(méi)有寫(xiě)稿,卻在最后期限突然引發(fā)頭腦風(fēng)暴或是靈感爆棚。廣告圈里面也有句話(huà)說(shuō),牛逼的創(chuàng)意,都在最后一秒出現(xiàn)的。
聽(tīng)到這里,大家大概已經(jīng)開(kāi)始原諒自己的拖延癥了,那么,我只能說(shuō)你們真的是資深拖延癥愛(ài)好者。如果沒(méi)有強(qiáng)大的頭腦風(fēng)暴和整理信息的能力,那還是著手開(kāi)始治療吧。
畢竟很多人都愛(ài)說(shuō),當(dāng)初如果早點(diǎn)準(zhǔn)備,我一定能做的更好。其實(shí)你已經(jīng)盡了你所有的努力,你耗費(fèi)了大量精力在逃避和焦慮上面,也花費(fèi)了大量精力在截止前不久的行動(dòng)力爆棚。無(wú)論怎樣,是你自己選擇,要現(xiàn)在的結(jié)果。
有些人覺(jué)得,我沒(méi)有拖延癥啊,我一直都在做和工作相關(guān)的事情,這類(lèi)人有一種情況也很可怕。他會(huì)先花十分鐘挑一支最想用的筆,然后思考寫(xiě)在哪個(gè)位置比較好看,最后慢慢地把一天的計(jì)劃列出清單,結(jié)果根本沒(méi)有按清單去做,這種看似強(qiáng)迫癥的行為就是標(biāo)準(zhǔn)的花式拖延時(shí)間。
拖延癥是害怕完成一件事,是不知道什么時(shí)候該結(jié)束一件事,是不知道如何完成這件事。其實(shí)根本不需要考慮太多,我們熟知的電影《阿甘正傳》中,阿甘看到一個(gè)目標(biāo)就走過(guò)去了,別人卻是看見(jiàn)目標(biāo)先訂一個(gè)作戰(zhàn)計(jì)劃,然后匍匐前進(jìn),往左閃,往右躲,再弄個(gè)掩體折騰了半天最后哪兒也沒(méi)到達(dá)。
對(duì)于拖延癥來(lái)說(shuō),最糟糕的,是在拖延的時(shí)候,憧憬忙碌的狀態(tài),在忙碌的時(shí)候,去悔恨當(dāng)初自己的拖延。
加拿大卡爾加里大學(xué)的皮爾斯·斯蒂爾教授曾提出了一個(gè)著名的“拖延公式”
是否拖延,其實(shí)本質(zhì)上來(lái)講,就是你愿意付出的代價(jià),和你的獲得之間,你做一個(gè)選擇。
我的演講結(jié)束了,謝謝大家!
拖延癥演講稿9
老師們、同學(xué)們:
大家好,在正式進(jìn)入今天的話(huà)題之前,我想讓大家先來(lái)做個(gè)選擇:如果有人承諾現(xiàn)在就給你50元,或者一年之后給你100元,你會(huì)選擇哪個(gè)?你是否會(huì)覺(jué)得選擇那觸手可得的50元更妥些,畢竟一年以后的事,未免有點(diǎn)遠(yuǎn)了。如果我們將時(shí)間換一換,現(xiàn)在他承諾五年之后給你50元,或者六年之后給你100元,你又會(huì)選擇哪個(gè)呢?或許這時(shí),你又會(huì)考慮那100元了,因?yàn)楫?dāng)?shù)却臅r(shí)間足夠長(zhǎng)時(shí),多一年已不算什么,而等來(lái)的錢(qián)卻多了一倍。
顯然,在我們面臨選擇的時(shí)候,往往做不到完全的理性。科學(xué)研究表明,人們的選擇,是根據(jù)時(shí)間的變化而變化的。為了眼前的利益而放棄長(zhǎng)遠(yuǎn)利益的事并不鮮見(jiàn)。先把眼前能享受的都享受了,至于那些煩人的.、棘手的事,那些還需要投入時(shí)間來(lái)獲得效益的事,倒時(shí)候再說(shuō)吧。有時(shí)這樣的想法未必不好,至少它滿(mǎn)足了我們的心理需求,但也正是這樣的思維方式,導(dǎo)致了大名鼎鼎的拖延癥的產(chǎn)生。
拖延癥在我們的生活中并不少見(jiàn)。早上起床的鬧鐘早就響過(guò)了還依然在賴(lài)床賴(lài)床賴(lài)床;周六放學(xué)時(shí)背了一書(shū)包的書(shū)和作業(yè)回去和自己說(shuō)這周我一定要好好復(fù)習(xí)結(jié)果回到家要做的事情那么多以至于怎么把書(shū)包背回家的就怎么把他背回來(lái);老師兩三天前發(fā)的卷子一直到快要交時(shí)才匆匆忙忙地寫(xiě)完;已經(jīng)快沒(méi)有干凈衣服穿了才開(kāi)始洗一堆臟衣服。在睡前先刷會(huì)兒微博,刷會(huì)兒空間,玩點(diǎn)兒小游戲,卻不知時(shí)間匆匆流過(guò);從上次月考結(jié)束就開(kāi)始制定復(fù)習(xí)計(jì)劃結(jié)果明天就要期中考試了我們的復(fù)習(xí)計(jì)劃卻完成得少之又少。
拖延癥是因?yàn)閼袉??好像并不是。你宏偉的雄心,周密的學(xué)習(xí)計(jì)劃,在拖延癥面前都不堪一擊。這不是因?yàn)橛?jì)劃不夠科學(xué),工具不夠強(qiáng)大,而是你根本不知道用何種方式與自己大腦中的“拖延癥大魔王”做斗爭(zhēng)!
第一、從誘惑物入手。將你與誘惑分開(kāi),你可以關(guān)掉電腦的網(wǎng)絡(luò)、做作業(yè)前收起你所有的小說(shuō)零食手機(jī),可以把鬧鐘放在房間的另一頭,想減肥就遠(yuǎn)離一切可能讓你進(jìn)去買(mǎi)買(mǎi)買(mǎi)吃吃吃的商店。讓誘惑不再存在于你的世界,這樣的話(huà)怎么會(huì)被誘惑? 或者,你可以用某些方法把自己和誘惑的吸引分開(kāi)。你可以通過(guò)堵住耳朵來(lái)降低主觀感覺(jué)。這樣你就不會(huì)注意到那里有誘惑。
第二、依靠理智。制定你的原則。讓自己有原則并對(duì)此不動(dòng)搖。我看到奶油蛋糕很有誘惑性,但是我規(guī)定4點(diǎn)以后絕對(duì)不吃甜食就簡(jiǎn)單了。我每天晚上都會(huì)玩會(huì)手機(jī),但是我規(guī)定11點(diǎn)以后絕對(duì)不碰手機(jī)就簡(jiǎn)單了。我不需要在特殊情況下再做決定。成為一個(gè)有原則的人,規(guī)定每天的特殊時(shí)間段必須做你該做的事情,比如早上六點(diǎn)半到七點(diǎn)必須用來(lái)背英語(yǔ)單詞,晚上六點(diǎn)半到六點(diǎn)四十分必須練字。讓你的習(xí)慣和原則幫你抵抗你的拖延癥。
第三、尋求他人的力量。當(dāng)你發(fā)現(xiàn)自己想去拖延想去懶惰想去逃避的時(shí)候,找你的同伴或者老師或者家長(zhǎng)或者任何你可以信任的人來(lái)尋求他們的力量。他人監(jiān)督遠(yuǎn)比自我約束要來(lái)的簡(jiǎn)單粗暴。和他們約定如果自己沒(méi)有完成計(jì)劃或者任務(wù)就遭受什么懲罰。對(duì)自己狠一點(diǎn),狠一點(diǎn),再狠一點(diǎn),你就會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)自己的拖延癥,不治而愈。
這個(gè)星期,期中考試就在眼前,你是否準(zhǔn)備好復(fù)習(xí)好了呢?或是剛剛才開(kāi)始復(fù)習(xí)了呢?抑或因?yàn)橥涎影Y到現(xiàn)在還沒(méi)有開(kāi)始復(fù)習(xí)呢?不論如何,別再犯拖延癥了。我們一起打敗拖延癥那個(gè)大BOSS。愿你的學(xué)習(xí)遠(yuǎn)離拖延癥,愿你的工作脫離拖延癥,愿你的人生可以堅(jiān)定的向拖延癥說(shuō)“不”。最后,愿大家的努力與付出都能取得滿(mǎn)意的成績(jī)!
我的講話(huà)完畢,謝謝大家。
【20xx年11月9日】
拖延癥演講稿10
大家好,我們是“拖延癥”病毒。
什么!沒(méi)有聽(tīng)說(shuō)?那你就孤陋寡聞啦!我們家族還有“自私癥”病毒、“自大狂”病毒……
我們專(zhuān)門(mén)“攻擊”未成年的小朋友??矗覀兊那閳?bào)員又發(fā)現(xiàn)了一個(gè)目標(biāo)——一個(gè)名叫吳嘉誠(chéng)的男孩。
每人一挺機(jī)槍?zhuān)迦艘婚T(mén)大炮,十人一輛坦克……一切準(zhǔn)備就緒,我們直接坐上運(yùn)輸槍?zhuān)w到男孩的'臥室里,從嘴巴、耳朵、鼻子等進(jìn)入到男孩體內(nèi)。不一會(huì)兒,白細(xì)胞就發(fā)現(xiàn)了我們,戰(zhàn)斗特別激烈,持續(xù)了兩個(gè)多時(shí)辰,才把它們給打敗。我們沖到大腦控制室,干掉了幾個(gè)哨兵,占領(lǐng)了這里,然后通過(guò)控制臺(tái)向男孩發(fā)出指令。下面就是我們占領(lǐng)一周的情況:
周一:老師布置完作業(yè),吳嘉誠(chéng)看也不看,因?yàn)槲覀兿蛩l(fā)出暗示:沒(méi)事的,睡覺(jué)前也能做,于是他就在睡覺(jué)前才勉強(qiáng)寫(xiě)完。
周二:老師布置完作業(yè),我們又向他發(fā)出指令:第二天早點(diǎn)起來(lái)做也來(lái)得及,于是……
周三:我們讓他早點(diǎn)去學(xué)校做……
周四:……
……
哈哈哈,吳嘉誠(chéng)你這個(gè)大傻瓜,只要你有堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的意志,就能消滅我們啦!哈哈哈!不好,一不小心,剛才的話(huà)好像被他聽(tīng)見(jiàn)了,哦不!完了!
果不出我所料,第二天,我們就被源源不斷的白細(xì)胞給包圍消滅了! 不僅如此,吳嘉誠(chéng)還把這個(gè)方法告訴了其他被我們所控制的孩子,并幫助他們消滅了我們,還一齊高呼:“讓我們向拖延癥宣戰(zhàn)吧!”
拖延癥演講稿11
始終以來(lái),我都是同學(xué)、家長(zhǎng)眼中“別人家的孩子”,但大家有所不知的是,我始終在與一個(gè)“病魔”作斗爭(zhēng),它就是拖延癥。
請(qǐng)不要驚異,這個(gè)“病”已經(jīng)伴隨我很長(zhǎng)時(shí)間了,可謂是根深蒂固。它有時(shí)輕,有時(shí)重,間歇發(fā)作。媽媽經(jīng)常半開(kāi)玩笑地說(shuō):“你這是病,得治!”
就拿上學(xué)期來(lái)說(shuō),美術(shù)老師要求我在6月30日前創(chuàng)作一幅《綠色承諾》手抄報(bào)。我心想,這還不簡(jiǎn)單,分分鐘搞定!于是,這件事就被一拖再拖,結(jié)果直到交稿截止前一天,我才開(kāi)頭沒(méi)日沒(méi)夜、加班加點(diǎn)地趕“工程”。就這樣,原來(lái)有一兩個(gè)月的充裕時(shí)間,被我拖到了最終一天。這場(chǎng)較量,拖延癥“完勝”。
再拿一次寫(xiě)作文來(lái)說(shuō)吧。原來(lái)我給自己定下了兩個(gè)小時(shí)完成的目標(biāo),這時(shí),拖延癥跳出來(lái)了:“反正有兩個(gè)小時(shí)嘛,不妨先看會(huì)書(shū),找找靈感?”我欣然應(yīng)允了它的懇求,開(kāi)頭肆無(wú)忌憚地看起雜書(shū)來(lái)。不知不覺(jué),一個(gè)小時(shí)過(guò)去了,我開(kāi)頭有些焦急,把書(shū)扔到一旁,心想:作文該如何開(kāi)頭呢?冥思苦想之際,我又瞥見(jiàn)了書(shū)架上的雜志……
就這樣,我的'時(shí)間被這個(gè)大惡魔一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)蠶食了,原本綽綽有余的作文時(shí)間打水漂了。這一次,我又惜敗了。
當(dāng)然,更多時(shí)間,我會(huì)提前作好方案支配并嚴(yán)格執(zhí)行,這時(shí),拖延癥的囂張氣焰也隨之煙消云散。在這樣的較量中,我當(dāng)然能夠戰(zhàn)勝“病魔”。
俗話(huà)說(shuō)“病來(lái)如山倒,病去如抽絲”,改掉一個(gè)壞習(xí)慣,絕非一朝一夕之功。在這場(chǎng)曠日長(zhǎng)久的較量中,我信任,我肯定會(huì)把它徹底毀滅掉,等著我的捷報(bào)吧!
拖延癥演講稿12
拖延是一種壞習(xí)慣?,F(xiàn)在,我發(fā)覺(jué)很多人都患上了一種心理疾病——“拖延癥”。我也有拖延的毛病。因?yàn)橥涎?,我上次嘗到了老師的武器——板子。我下定決心要好好改正這個(gè)令人厭惡的壞毛病!
事情的經(jīng)過(guò)是這樣的:昨天語(yǔ)文老師不知是怎么的,給我們布置了一大推作業(yè),看起來(lái)也不是很難,但題量是比較大的。我心想:這個(gè)語(yǔ)文老師是怎么了呀,莫非成心要針對(duì)我們嗎?哎呀,算了,反正我一時(shí)半會(huì)也寫(xiě)不完,等會(huì)寫(xiě)也不遲,去看會(huì)兒電視吧!
我開(kāi)頭閑適地看起電視來(lái),真滿(mǎn)意呀!“喂,你在干什么呀,還不抓緊去寫(xiě)作業(yè)嗎?”這洪亮的聲音把我嚇了一跳,我趕忙地說(shuō)了一聲:“好好好,我立刻去做。”我急速地跑到書(shū)房里,掏出作業(yè)放在桌子上,坐在椅子上開(kāi)頭寫(xiě)作業(yè)。我靜靜地告知你:剛剛我只是嘴上說(shuō)了一聲,根本沒(méi)有行動(dòng),我想歇一歇再說(shuō)。就開(kāi)頭磨磨蹭蹭,一會(huì)兒完筆,一會(huì)兒發(fā)呆,轉(zhuǎn)瞬間一個(gè)鐘頭過(guò)去了,只寫(xiě)了不到半張的卷子。不久,我的雙眼皮已經(jīng)開(kāi)頭打架了,爸爸坐在一旁冷笑一聲:“你還是別寫(xiě)了,你看看這都幾點(diǎn)了?!蔽姨ь^看了一下鐘表,發(fā)覺(jué)已經(jīng)十一點(diǎn)多了。爸爸又說(shuō):“這都是拖延惹的禍,明知道作業(yè)許多還磨磨蹭蹭,行了,別寫(xiě)了,快上床睡覺(jué)去,明兒就等你們老師的板子服侍吧!”聽(tīng)了爸爸的`話(huà),我感到很慚愧。爸爸又大喝了一聲,我只好乖乖地上床睡覺(jué)去了,我剛上床時(shí)還想著明天早上早起趕作業(yè)呢!可是第二天早上,瞌睡蟲(chóng)趴在我的頭上,擔(dān)心好心地對(duì)我說(shuō):“好啦好啦,你的作業(yè)那么多,反正趕也趕不完,還是好好睡覺(jué)吧!”就這樣,我又昏昏睡了過(guò)去。
“喂,小兔崽子,你怎么還不起床呀,作業(yè)還沒(méi)寫(xiě)完,又想遲到了是不是!”睡夢(mèng)中感覺(jué)有人拍了拍我的后背,我睜開(kāi)眼睛一看,原來(lái)是爸爸呀!我看了看鐘,已經(jīng)七點(diǎn)半了!我迷模糊糊起了床,洗漱、吃完飯以后,帶著那沒(méi)寫(xiě)完的卷子上學(xué)去了。我把那半空的卷子交給了小組長(zhǎng),心臟砰砰地跳。下課后,班長(zhǎng)找到我,像諷刺一樣對(duì)我說(shuō):“李江琦,老師叫你去辦公室喝茶呢!”說(shuō)完呵呵笑了幾聲。我心想:還喝什么茶呢?這就是要我領(lǐng)板子了!假如我早點(diǎn)兒寫(xiě)完作業(yè),就不會(huì)有這個(gè)不好的結(jié)果了。哎!我慚愧不已,懊悔極了,可世界上究竟沒(méi)有懊悔藥。
我懷著一顆忐忑擔(dān)心的心,慢悠悠地來(lái)到辦公室。老師剛看到我,就拿出了他的殺手锏——板子,就這樣,我挨了一頓教訓(xùn)。
其實(shí),我的“拖延癥”已經(jīng)是個(gè)老毛病了。平常,我早上的時(shí)候,總是能聽(tīng)到媽媽的督促,催我起床,催我吃飯……催過(guò)之后,總要慢幾分鐘。所以我總是遲到,總是受到老師的批判。還有一件常常犯的事情:我每次下午放學(xué)回家,總是要拖延一會(huì)兒,不是看電視就是去玩耍,直到爸爸媽媽大喊:“快去寫(xiě)作業(yè)!”
我才說(shuō):“知道啦,知道啦,我立刻去寫(xiě)?!钡?,我還是磨磨蹭蹭,經(jīng)常快十一點(diǎn)才能寫(xiě)完。因此,爸爸媽媽每次提起我的時(shí)候,總會(huì)說(shuō):“哎,那個(gè)熊孩子每次做事情都拖拖延延的,真叫人頭疼,假如她的“拖延病”能準(zhǔn)時(shí)改掉就好咯!”這一次,我最終吃到拖延給我?guī)?lái)的苦頭了。
我想到了一個(gè)寓言故事,在大森林里,有一座高山,那里住著一只美麗的寒號(hào)鳥(niǎo),寒號(hào)鳥(niǎo)有一個(gè)勤勞的鄰居,名叫喜鵲。這是一個(gè)烈日炎炎的夏天,寒號(hào)鳥(niǎo)躺在樹(shù)蔭底下的涼席上,扇著扇子聽(tīng)著歌,過(guò)得閑適得意。而它的鄰居喜鵲,頂著烈日就開(kāi)頭壘巢了,喜鵲往它的樹(shù)洞里放了一些棉花,放了一些樹(shù)枝,又把自己的門(mén)加固了一下。它看到鄰居寒號(hào)鳥(niǎo)在那躺著,就勸她抓緊壘巢,而寒號(hào)鳥(niǎo)卻說(shuō):“夏天,壘啥巢呢,離冬天還早著呢?!毕铲o連續(xù)修它的巢。到了秋天,喜鵲又囑咐寒號(hào)鳥(niǎo):“寒號(hào)鳥(niǎo)老弟呀,冬天就要到了,你再不筑巢就來(lái)不及了。”寒號(hào)鳥(niǎo)仍舊不聽(tīng)勸說(shuō),在那里玩耍。冬天到了,喜鵲在溫和的巢里舒適地躺著,而寒號(hào)鳥(niǎo)卻在自己那冰洞似的窩里凍死了。我覺(jué)得我就是那個(gè)愛(ài)拖延的寒號(hào)鳥(niǎo),我都開(kāi)頭稱(chēng)贊自己呢。
因?yàn)椤巴涎影Y”我挨了板子,變得有點(diǎn)像寒號(hào)鳥(niǎo)了,想起來(lái)真有點(diǎn)害臊了。我暗暗下決心:肯定要改掉這個(gè)壞毛病,加油,李江琦!
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窗外,狂風(fēng)發(fā)出狂傲的怒吼,卷飛了才開(kāi)頭降落的粒粒雪花,它們乘著風(fēng)在天空中旋轉(zhuǎn)著,產(chǎn)生一個(gè)大的漩渦,立刻,感覺(jué)整個(gè)白茫茫的世界都在旋,我看不清什么東西了,只呆呆地望著一排車(chē)轍,綿延著遠(yuǎn)去……
心中立刻一陣一陣悸動(dòng),兩行熱乎乎的淚水,悄然滴落在作業(yè)本上,本子上的字已經(jīng)漸漸氤氳開(kāi)來(lái)……
日歷上正月初七四個(gè)鮮紅的大字徹底刺痛了我的眼,可我的拖延癥又開(kāi)頭發(fā)作了!
雙手一筆一劃,一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)地寫(xiě)著,如螞蟻慢行。本子上的筆畫(huà)也是一點(diǎn)一點(diǎn)的顯現(xiàn)出來(lái)?!暗未鸬未稹睍r(shí)間的匆忙溜走聲傳入我的耳中,我還一厘米一厘米的挪動(dòng)著我的右手,被困在左手下的紙張被我手上的力氣壓得“吱吱”直叫疼。自己的手就像是蝸牛一樣,一絲一絲吐著粘液,手才得以漸漸地努力滑動(dòng)。
“吱!”一聲嘶啞的推門(mén)聲,傳入耳畔,我趕忙加速胡寫(xiě)了一通:大事不妙,媽媽來(lái)檢閱啦!
隨后,就是一聲沉悶的響聲,只覺(jué)手上像打了辣椒水,火辣值為百分之二百,肉體上的'痛苦和內(nèi)心的絞痛結(jié)合在一起,自己立馬被打趴下了。
隨后,又是一陣火車(chē)的轟鳴聲:“劉心熠卓,你怎么那么……真不讓人省心……”媽媽捂著胸口,臉色也由紅轉(zhuǎn)白。
那一陣陣的責(zé)怪聲以及媽媽苦痛的模樣,鞭打著我的心,我心中像倒了一壺開(kāi)水,翻滾著、沸騰著:慢,是一種病,我肯定要與“病魔”抗?fàn)?
窗上的冰霜顯現(xiàn)出五棱柱般的花紋,那花紋閃著亮光,仿佛是一枚勢(shì)不行當(dāng)?shù)亩芘?,也詮釋著我意志的?jiān)決!
我的右手,好像被我的意志激活啦,開(kāi)頭一步一步一點(diǎn)一點(diǎn)提高速度,仿佛我手上裝了一臺(tái)電力馬達(dá),一點(diǎn)一點(diǎn)提高時(shí)速。
手上的筆桿,不住揮動(dòng),卯足了勁兒,往前,往前,再往前!筆尖下生出了一朵朵曼妙的藍(lán)黑色的花。
“好啦”!一聲激揚(yáng)的叫聲爆炸在半空中,我欣喜若狂,不禁掩面痛哭,我最終戰(zhàn)勝了這“頑疾”——拖延癥,再見(jiàn)啦!
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我的心中住著一個(gè)小惡魔——拖延癥。
媽媽曾語(yǔ)重心長(zhǎng)地告知我:“你呀,什么都好,就是拖延這個(gè)毛病改不了!”而我卻聽(tīng)之任之,認(rèn)為不就是慢一點(diǎn)嘛,沒(méi)什么大不了。
雖然,我是個(gè)五班級(jí)同學(xué)了,但每次叫醒我的并非鬧鐘,而是媽媽的河?xùn)|獅吼?!捌鸫擦?,快點(diǎn)!”一大清早,媽媽推開(kāi)門(mén)就沖我喊道,而我伸頭看了看表:“早著呢!”身子又蜷進(jìn)被窩里去了。沒(méi)過(guò)幾分鐘,忍無(wú)可忍的媽媽怒氣沖沖地來(lái)到我的床前,伸手把被子一掀,揪著我的耳朵怒吼道:“起不起來(lái),我要打人了啊!”我極不情愿地拿起衣服,隨著門(mén)“咣”的一聲關(guān)上,我馬上倒下,再次進(jìn)入夢(mèng)鄉(xiāng)。媽媽第三次叫我起床時(shí),手里已經(jīng)多了一件法器,俗稱(chēng)“家法”。這回我最終起來(lái)了,磨磨蹭蹭,半個(gè)小時(shí)已經(jīng)過(guò)去了。
這樣的`三重奏每周都會(huì)上演,媽媽還咬牙切齒地說(shuō):“真盼望你被老師狠狠懲處一次,看你長(zhǎng)不長(zhǎng)記性?!蔽覍?duì)這句話(huà)不屑一顧,直到有一天靈驗(yàn)了,我才最終下定決心告辭那害人的拖延癥。
上課鈴響了后,我才踏進(jìn)教室,由于我的中途闖入,打斷了老師繪聲繪色地講課。王老師(學(xué)校外愛(ài)好班的老師)沖我陰險(xiǎn)地一笑,一臉溫柔地說(shuō):“小羅,下課了有‘嘉獎(jiǎng)’哦!”我丈二和尚摸不清頭腦,不是應(yīng)當(dāng)受懲處嗎?忐忑擔(dān)心的我坐在座位上,好不簡(jiǎn)單等到下課。王老師讓全班同學(xué)用掌聲把我請(qǐng)到講臺(tái),宣布了一條新規(guī)定:凡是遲到的同學(xué),都要用屁股寫(xiě)“我遲到了!”四個(gè)大字。很不幸,我成為了第一個(gè)中招的。此時(shí)的我,已經(jīng)羞得滿(mǎn)臉通紅,恨不得有一張飛毯,馬上逃離教室。在同學(xué)們火辣辣的目光凝視下,好像我全身的每一根汗毛都著火了,慚愧得無(wú)地自容。
這次懲處嚴(yán)峻打擊了我的自尊心,于是我一連幾個(gè)星期都比其他同學(xué)更早到學(xué)校。媽媽覺(jué)得我堅(jiān)持不了多久,就會(huì)打回原形??晌颐看我环竿涎影Y的時(shí)候,那火辣辣的目光就出現(xiàn)在我的眼前,我便會(huì)立即出門(mén)。
拖延癥,這個(gè)惡魔已經(jīng)離我遠(yuǎn)去,雷厲風(fēng)行來(lái)到我的身邊,我能不興奮嗎?
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馬爾頓說(shuō),拖延的最能損壞和降低人們做事的努力。我覺(jué)得這句話(huà)說(shuō)得很對(duì),拖延幾乎成了我們每一個(gè)人的惡習(xí),心理學(xué)家說(shuō),到了50還能改掉一樁壞習(xí)慣就是奇跡。
今日我讀了一篇文章叫《拖延惡習(xí)》,文章主要講了:從小就有拖延的惡習(xí),而且,為了拖延還差點(diǎn)失業(yè)。可是就在他50歲的時(shí)候,卻改掉了這種要命的惡習(xí)。
以前,爸爸媽媽叫我做一些事情,我都會(huì)說(shuō),等一下在去做,每次聽(tīng)到這句話(huà),爸爸就會(huì)嚴(yán)峻的批判我,說(shuō),假如你以后在工作上,也對(duì)領(lǐng)導(dǎo)說(shuō)一句,等一下再去做的話(huà),那么你就會(huì)失業(yè)。于是,我只好不耐煩的.去做事了。
可讀了這篇文章以后,我才覺(jué)得爸爸說(shuō)的是對(duì)的,不管做什么事情說(shuō)就要立刻去做,不能拖延。
記得有一年放寒假。老師布置的作業(yè)特殊少。我心里想:作業(yè)這么少不如明天在做。可到了第二天,我又想在拖到明天再做。快要上課了,我才想起我的作業(yè),于是我抓緊補(bǔ)?,F(xiàn)在放假我都記住那次教訓(xùn),早早的就把作業(yè)寫(xiě)完。
“明日復(fù)明日,明日何其多?!蔽铱隙ㄒ牡暨@惡習(xí),不能讓他成為人人的笑柄。