第一篇：一封父親寫給兒子的信

一封父親寫給兒子的信

張文質(zhì)

我親愛的兒子：

哪天你看到我日漸老去，身體也漸漸不行，請(qǐng)耐著性子試著了解我??

如果我吃得臟兮兮，如果我不會(huì)穿衣服??有耐性一點(diǎn)??你記得我曾花多久時(shí)間教你這些事嗎？

如果，當(dāng)我一再重復(fù)說同樣的事情??不要打斷我，聽我說。你小時(shí)候，我必須一遍又一遍地講著同樣的故事，直到你靜靜睡著??

當(dāng)我不想洗澡時(shí)，不要羞辱我，也不要責(zé)罵我??你記得小時(shí)候我曾編出多少理由，只為了哄你洗澡??

當(dāng)你看到我對(duì)新科技的無知，給我一點(diǎn)時(shí)間，不要掛著嘲弄的微笑看著我?? 我曾教了你多少事情啊??如何好好地吃、好好地穿??如何面對(duì)你的生命?? 如果交談中我忽然失憶，不知所云，給我一點(diǎn)時(shí)間回想??如果我還是無能為力，請(qǐng)不要緊張??對(duì)我而言重要的不是對(duì)話，而是能跟你在一起，和你的傾聽??

當(dāng)我不想吃東西時(shí)，不要勉強(qiáng)我。我清楚知道該什么時(shí)候進(jìn)食。

當(dāng)我的腿不聽使喚，扶我一把??如同我曾扶著你踏出你人生的第一步。

當(dāng)哪天我告訴你不想再活下去??請(qǐng)不要生氣??總有一天你會(huì)了解??

試著了解我已是風(fēng)燭殘年，來日可數(shù)。

有一天你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)，即使我有許多過錯(cuò)，我總是盡我所能要給你最好的。

當(dāng)我靠近你時(shí)，不要覺得感傷、生氣或無奈。你要緊挨著我，如同我當(dāng)初幫著你展開人生一樣地了解我，幫我??

扶我一把，用愛跟耐心幫我走完人生。我將用微笑和我始終不變、無邊無際的愛來回報(bào)你。

永遠(yuǎn)愛你的父親

（2007年3月2 日《解放日?qǐng)?bào)》

（拓展要求：劉齊的文章已讓我們感同身受；再讀張文質(zhì)的文章，我們的心里又會(huì)涌出別樣的滋味。（1）你可能有比劉齊更多的話要對(duì)自己身體的某個(gè)部位或器官說，請(qǐng)給它寫一封信；（2）你可能有許多話想對(duì)父母說，請(qǐng)給他（她）寫一封信。）

感 恩 之 心

周建瑩

一位19歲少女，3年前患結(jié)腸癌做了手術(shù)，3年后癌細(xì)胞全身擴(kuò)散再次被推進(jìn)手術(shù)室，醫(yī)生說她只有十幾天的生命。絕望中，她想起了愛她的人們：親友、學(xué)校和社會(huì)為家境貧窮的她，3次手術(shù)付出了10多萬元費(fèi)用。她想到了回報(bào)：“媽媽，如果我死了，想捐獻(xiàn)身上有用的器官，去幫助那些需要的人。”她向自己的母親提出請(qǐng)求。

母親的心碎了：“女兒啊，癌細(xì)胞已全身擴(kuò)散，所有器官都被破壞不能用了?！彼鋈粺o語。

然而，她在病痛中卻顯示了前所未有的堅(jiān)韌。數(shù)天后，又向父親提出：“我的器官不 1

能用了，但眼角膜能用，遺體可送醫(yī)院或?qū)W校作研究。我只有這個(gè)心愿，求你們答應(yīng)我?！?/p>

為了她的這一心愿，父母親為這事開始四方奔走。也就從那天起，她的精神好了許多?！吧皇且粋€(gè)過程，不在乎長(zhǎng)短，關(guān)鍵是要做點(diǎn)事，做對(duì)社會(huì)有益的事。”因著這個(gè)信念，她對(duì)生命的價(jià)值有了超越年齡的感悟，臉上有一種圣潔的光彩。

她的堅(jiān)持終于得到回報(bào)，心中的愿望可以了卻：一家眼科醫(yī)院同意做角膜移植手術(shù)；一所醫(yī)科大學(xué)接受遺體捐贈(zèng)。對(duì)她來說，聽到這消息，無疑比任何藥物都有效，她的疼痛似乎有所減輕，竟不用再打止痛針了。

兩天后，19歲的她滿含著愛心、深懷著希望安詳?shù)仉x開了人世。她以自己年輕的生命、獨(dú)特的方式感恩社會(huì)給她的愛，回報(bào)大家對(duì)她的幫助。一個(gè)普普通通的女孩，用純潔的感情、樸素的行動(dòng)告訴人們：生命在于它的深度，而不在于它的長(zhǎng)度；生命的境界在于感恩和尊重，生命的意義在于奉獻(xiàn)和回報(bào)。

感恩，不僅是一種心態(tài)，更是一種處世之道和做人的境界。我們單位有一位已退休的廚師，那時(shí)退休工資由單位發(fā)放，60余歲的他替80余歲的師父領(lǐng)了工資后，坐車往師父家送。師父子孫滿堂，這事其實(shí)完全可由子女代勞。以后工資在銀行提取了，但這位70歲的徒弟還是每月坐車去探望90歲的師父。他說：“一朝為師，一生為父?！边@種樸素的感恩之情完全擯棄了功利之心。

一位低調(diào)的老人無償獻(xiàn)血，默默救活了一個(gè)孩子。那是24年前，一個(gè)剛出生的男嬰患黃疸型RH溶血癥而生命垂危，那位上海建筑工人無私捐獻(xiàn)出500毫升鮮血，嬰兒全身?yè)Q血后，小生命得救了。24年后，為了一聲“謝謝”，一家三口千方百計(jì)、長(zhǎng)久尋覓給了孩子第二次生命的“上海叔叔”。為了24年的感激，全家特地從蘇州趕來上海面謝恩人；為了銘記恩人張瑞林，父母給孩子取名張瑞德；為了讓孩子懂得感恩，媽媽的叮囑24年沒有中斷：“你這條命是上海好心叔叔給的，長(zhǎng)大了要好好報(bào)答他！”

感恩，來自對(duì)生活的愛與希望，它正越來越多地感動(dòng)著社會(huì)。一位受資助的外地農(nóng)村學(xué)生，工作后的第一個(gè)月，便趕赴上海探望資助人，“我有錢了，終于可以來見您了！”他懂事地說；一位下肢高位截癱的殘疾人，受到叢飛6年7萬元的資助，終圓大學(xué)、文學(xué)創(chuàng)作夢(mèng)，如今也像叢飛一樣資助著6位貧困兒童；在初中老師關(guān)愛幫助下重拾自信、在鄉(xiāng)親們和社會(huì)資助下，考上北大的窮困生劉默涵，窮且益堅(jiān)，打工、籌款，建立“默涵助學(xué)金”，資助了37名貧困學(xué)生；一位樸實(shí)農(nóng)村老漢在受到空姐熱情、周到、細(xì)心的服務(wù)后，激動(dòng)得老淚縱橫，竟欲下跪表示感謝，感動(dòng)了數(shù)以萬計(jì)的網(wǎng)民；感恩社會(huì)，是上海208萬人的志愿者隊(duì)伍，是數(shù)十萬之眾的各類社會(huì)服務(wù)團(tuán)體，是骨髓庫(kù)6.1萬的自愿捐贈(zèng)人，是支撐起全市臨床醫(yī)用血量一半江山的無償獻(xiàn)血者。一顆顆感恩的心，溫暖了為之付出無數(shù)愛意的心。

“滴水之恩，當(dāng)以涌泉相報(bào)。”“投我以木桃，報(bào)之以瓊瑤?！备卸?，是我們中華民族的優(yōu)良傳統(tǒng)。很多時(shí)候，感恩并不在于回報(bào)什么，而是在自己與社會(huì)、他人之間創(chuàng)造一種互相影響的友善氛圍：我們?cè)诳隙▌e人的同時(shí)，也升華了自己。感恩，是一種品德，是一種境界；感恩，是對(duì)生命恩賜的領(lǐng)略，是對(duì)現(xiàn)在擁有的珍惜，是對(duì)陌路關(guān)愛的震顫??學(xué)會(huì)感恩，就是要學(xué)會(huì)懂得尊重他人，對(duì)他人的幫助時(shí)時(shí)懷一顆感恩之心。

（2007年1月27 日《解放日?qǐng)?bào)》）

（拓展要求：讀完這幾篇文章后，請(qǐng)你談?wù)剬?duì)“感謝”或“感恩”問題的認(rèn)識(shí)。）2

第二篇：父親寫給兒子的信

父親寫給兒子的信

寫這備忘錄給你，基于三個(gè)原因：

（一）人生福禍無常，誰也不知可以活多久，有些事情還是早點(diǎn)說好。

（二）我是你的父親，我不跟你說，沒有人會(huì)跟你說。

（三）這備忘錄里記載的，都是我經(jīng)過慘痛失敗得回來的體驗(yàn)，可以為你的成長(zhǎng)省回不少冤枉路。

以下，便是你在人生中要好好記住的事：

（一）、對(duì)你不好的人，你不要太介懷。在你一生中，沒有人有義務(wù)要對(duì)你好，除了我和你媽媽。至于那些對(duì)你好的人，你除了要珍惜、感恩外，也請(qǐng)多防備一點(diǎn)，因?yàn)槊總€(gè)人做每件事總有原因，他對(duì)你好，未必真的是喜歡你，請(qǐng)你必須搞清楚，而不必太快將對(duì)方看作真朋友。

（二）、沒有人是不可替代的，沒有東西是必須擁有的?？赐噶诉@一點(diǎn)，將來你身邊的人不再要你，或失去了世間最愛的一切時(shí)，也應(yīng)該明白，這并不是什么大不了的事。

（三）、生命是短暫是，今日還在浪費(fèi)著生命，明日會(huì)發(fā)覺生命已遠(yuǎn)離你了。因此，愈早珍惜生命，你享受生命的日子也愈多，與其盼望長(zhǎng)壽，倒不如早點(diǎn)兒珍惜。

（四）、世界上并沒有最愛這回事，愛情只是一種霎時(shí)的感覺，而這種感覺絕對(duì)會(huì)隨時(shí)日、心境而改變。如果你的所謂最愛離開你，請(qǐng)耐心地等候一下，讓時(shí)日慢慢沖洗，讓心靈慢慢沉淀，你的苦就會(huì)慢慢淡化。不要過分憧憬愛情的美，不要過分夸大失戀的悲。

(五)、雖然很多成功人士都沒有受過很多教育，但并不等于不用功讀書就一定可以成功。你學(xué)到的知識(shí)，就是你擁有的武器。人，可以白手興家，但不可以手無寸鐵。謹(jǐn)記！

（六）、我不會(huì)要求你供養(yǎng)我下半輩子。同樣地，我也不會(huì)供養(yǎng)你的下半輩子。當(dāng)你長(zhǎng)大到可以獨(dú)立的時(shí)候，我的責(zé)任已經(jīng)完結(jié)。以后，你要坐巴士還是奔馳，吃魚翅還是粉絲，都要自己負(fù)責(zé)。

（七）、對(duì)人要好，但不能期待人家對(duì)你好。你怎樣對(duì)人，并不代表人家就會(huì)怎樣對(duì)你。如果看不透這一點(diǎn)，只會(huì)徒添不必要的煩惱。

（八）、我買了20年六合彩，還是一窮二白，這證明人要發(fā)達(dá)，還是要努力工作才可以，世界上并沒有免費(fèi)的午餐。

（九）、親人只有一次的緣分，無論這輩子我和你會(huì)相處多久，也請(qǐng)好好珍惜共聚的時(shí)光；下輩子，無論愛與不愛，都不會(huì)再見。

第三篇：父親寫給兒子的信

父親寫給兒子的信

香港電臺(tái)知名主持人梁繼璋曾給兒子寫過一封信，這封信很快流傳于各大網(wǎng)站，很多父親看后感觸很深，我覺得不只給兒子，其實(shí)適合所有人看！我們的80后90后生活在一個(gè)飯來張口衣來伸手的環(huán)境，基本上要什么父母都會(huì)盡力滿足，完全變成了一個(gè)子為父綱的社會(huì)。這些孩子沒有壓力，不知道委屈，不懂得謙遜，一出社會(huì)遇到不順就要尋死覓活，這是我們獨(dú)生子女政策和教育改革的雙重失敗的體現(xiàn)。

下輩子，無論愛與不愛，都不會(huì)再見----送給兒子的備忘錄

我兒：寫這備忘錄給你，基于三個(gè)原則：

（一）人生福禍無常，誰也不知可以活多久，有些事情還是早一點(diǎn)說好。

（二）我是你的父親，我不跟你說，沒有人會(huì)跟你說。

（三）這備忘錄??記載的，都是我經(jīng)過慘痛失敗得回來的體驗(yàn)，可以為你的成長(zhǎng)省回不少冤枉路。

以下，便是你在人生中要好好記住的事：

（一）對(duì)你不好的人，你不要太介懷，在你一生中，沒有人有義務(wù)要對(duì)你好，除了我和你媽媽。至于那些對(duì)你好的人，你除了要珍惜、感恩外，也請(qǐng)多防備一點(diǎn)，因?yàn)?，每個(gè)人做每件事，總有一個(gè)原因，他對(duì)你好，未必真的是因?yàn)橄矚g你，請(qǐng)你必須搞清楚，而不必太快將對(duì)方看作真朋友。

（二）沒有人是不可代替，沒有東西是必須擁有?？赐噶诉@一點(diǎn)，將來你身邊的人不再要你，或許失去了世間上最愛的一切時(shí)，也應(yīng)該明白，這并不是什么大不了的事。

（三）生命是短暫的，今日你還在浪費(fèi)著生命，明日會(huì)發(fā)覺生命已遠(yuǎn)離你了。因此，愈早珍惜生命，你享受生命的日子也愈多，與其盼望長(zhǎng)壽，倒不如早點(diǎn)享受。

（四）世界上并沒有最愛這回事，愛情只是一種霎時(shí)的感覺，而這感覺絕對(duì)會(huì)隨時(shí)日、心境而改變。如果你的所謂最愛離開你，請(qǐng)耐心地等候一下，讓時(shí)日慢慢沖洗，讓心靈慢慢沉淀，你的苦就會(huì)慢慢淡化。不要過分憧憬愛情的美，不要過分夸大失戀的悲。

（五）雖然很多有成就的人士都沒有受過很多教育，但并不等于不用功讀書，就一定可以成功。你學(xué)到的知識(shí)，就是你擁有的武器。人，可以白手興家，但不可以手無寸鐵，謹(jǐn)記！

（六）我不會(huì)要求你供養(yǎng)我下半輩子，同樣地我也不會(huì)供養(yǎng)你的下半輩子，當(dāng)你長(zhǎng)大到可以獨(dú)立的時(shí)候，我的責(zé)任已經(jīng)完結(jié)。以后，你要坐巴士還是Benz（奔馳），吃魚翅還是粉絲，都要自己負(fù)責(zé)。

（七）你可以要求自己守信，但不能要求別人守信，你可以要求自己對(duì)人好，但不能期待人家對(duì)你好。你怎樣對(duì)人，并不代表人家就會(huì)怎樣對(duì)你，如果看不透這一點(diǎn)，你只會(huì)徒添不必要的煩惱。

（八）我買了十多二十年六合彩，還是一窮二白，連三獎(jiǎng)也沒有中，這證明人要發(fā)達(dá)，還是要努力工作才可以，世界上并沒有免費(fèi)午餐。

（九）親人只有一次的緣分，無論這輩子我和你會(huì)相處多久，也請(qǐng)好好珍惜共聚的時(shí)光，下輩子，無論愛與不愛，都不會(huì)再見。

第四篇：一封父親給兒子的信

孩子…

哪天你看到我日漸老去,身體也漸漸不行，請(qǐng)耐著性子試著了解我… 如果我吃的臟兮兮,如果我不會(huì)穿衣服…… 有耐性一點(diǎn)……

你記得我曾花多久時(shí)間教你這些事嗎？

如果,當(dāng)我一再重復(fù)述說：同樣的事情…不要打斷我 ,聽我說…..你小時(shí)候,我必須一遍又一遍的讀著同樣的故事,直到你靜靜睡著……..當(dāng)我不想洗澡,不要羞辱我也不要責(zé)罵我…… 你記得小時(shí)后我曾編出多少理由,只為了哄你洗澡…..當(dāng)你看到我對(duì)新科技的無知,給我一點(diǎn)時(shí)間,不要掛著嘲弄的微笑看著我…..… 我曾教了你多少事情啊….如何好好的吃,好好的穿… 如何面對(duì)你的生命…….如果交談中我忽然失憶不知所云,給我一點(diǎn)時(shí)間回想… 如果我還是無能為力, 請(qǐng)不要緊張…..對(duì)我而言重要的不是對(duì)話,而是能跟你在一起,和你的傾聽…..當(dāng)我不想吃東西時(shí),不要勉強(qiáng)我.我清楚知道該什么時(shí)候進(jìn)食

當(dāng)我的腿不聽使喚…..扶我一把….如同我曾扶著你踏出你人生的第一步….當(dāng)哪天我告訴你不想再活下去了….請(qǐng)不要生氣….總有一天你會(huì)了解….試著了解我已是風(fēng)燭殘年,來日可數(shù).有一天你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn), 即使我有許多過錯(cuò),我總是盡我所能要給你最好的…

當(dāng)我靠近你時(shí)不要覺得感傷,生氣或無奈.你要緊挨著我,如同我當(dāng)初幫著你展開人生一樣的了解我,幫我….扶我一把,用愛跟耐心幫我走完人生…

我將用微笑和我始終不變無邊無際的愛來回報(bào)你

我愛你，我的孩子！

第五篇：父親寫給三歲兒子的信

Dear gogo, You’re only nearly three years old, and at this point in your life you can't read, much less understand what I’m going to try to tell you in this letter.But I've been thinking a lot about the life that you have ahead of you, about my life so far as I reflect on what I've learned, and about my role as a dad in trying to prepare you for the trials that you will face in the coming years.You won't be able to understand this letter today, but someday, when you're ready, I hope you will find some wisdom and value in what I share with you.You are young, and life has yet to take its toll on you, to throw disappointments and heartaches and loneliness and struggles and pain into your path.You have not been worn down yet by long hours of thankless work, by the slings and arrows禍殃（指不利的因素、事態(tài)）of everyday life.For this, be thankful.You are at a wonderful stage of life.You have many wonderful stages of life still to come, but they are not without their costs and perils.I hope to help you along your path by sharing some of the best of what I've learned.As with any advice, take it with a grain of salt.What works for me might not work for you.Life Can Be Cruel There will be people in your life who won't be very nice.They'll tease you because you're different, or for no good reason.They might try to bully you or hurt you.There's not much you can do about these people except to learn to deal with them, and learn to choose friends who are kind to you, who actually care about you, who make you feel good about yourself.When you find friends like this, hold on to them, treasure them, spend time with them, be kind to them, love them.There will be times when you are met with disappointment instead of success.Life won't always turn out the way you want.This is just another thing you'll have to learn to deal with.But instead of letting these things get you down, push on.Accept disappointment and learn to persevere, to pursue your dreams despite pitfalls.Learn to turn negatives into positives, and you'll do much better in life.You will also face heartbreak and abandonment by those you love.I hope you don't have to face this too much, but it happens.Again, not much you can do but to heal, and to move on with your life.Let these pains become stepping stones to better things in life, and learn to use them to make you stronger.But Be Open to life Anyway Yes, you'll find cruelty and suffering in your journey through life … but don't let that close you to new things.Don't retreat from life, don't hide or wall yourself off.Be open to new things, new experiences, new people.You might get your heart broken 10 times, but find the most wonderful woman the 11th time.If you shut yourself off from love, you'll miss out on that woman, and the happiest times of your life.You might get teased and bullied and hurt by people you meet … and then after meeting dozens of jerks, find a true friend.If you close yourself off to new people, and don't open your heart to them, you'll avoid pain … but also lose out on meeting some incredible people, who will be there during the toughest times of your life and create some of the best times of your life.You will fail many times but if you allow that to stop you from trying, you will miss out on the amazing feeling of success once you reach new heights with your accomplishments.Failure is a stepping stone to success.Life Isn't a Competition 3 You will meet many people who will try to outdo勝過you, in school, in college, at work.They'll try to have nicer cars, bigger houses, nicer clothes, cooler gadgets.To them, life is a competition — they have to do better than their peers to be happy.Here's a secret: Life isn't a competition.It's a journey.If you spend that journey always trying to impress others, to outdo others, you’re wasting your journey.Instead, learn to enjoy the journey.Make it a journey of Happiness, of constant learning, of continual improvement, of love.Don't worry about having a nicer car or house or anything material, or even a better-paying job.None of that matters a whit, and none of it will make you happier.You'll acquire these things and then only want more.Instead, learn to be satisfied with having enough — and then use the time you would have wasted trying to earn money to buy those things … use that time doing things you love.Find your passion, and pursue it doggedly固執(zhí)地;頑強(qiáng)地；堅(jiān)持不懈地.Don't settle for a job that pays the bills.Life is too short to waste on a job you hate.Love Should Be Your Rule 4 If there's a single word you should live your life by, it should be this: Love.It might sound corny平淡的;過時(shí)的,陳舊的, I know … but trust me, there's no better rule in life.Some would live by the rule of success.Their lives will be stressful, unhappy and shallow.Others would live by the rule of selfishness — putting their needs above those of others.They will live lonely lives, and will also be unhappy.Still others will live by the rule of righteousness正當(dāng),正義,正直— trying to show the right path, and admonishing勸告, 訓(xùn)誡；(溫和地)責(zé)備，輕責(zé) anyone who doesn't live by that path.They are concerned with others, but in a negative way, and in the end will only have their own righteousness to live with, and that's a horrible companion.Live your life by the rule of love.Love your spouse, your children, your parents, your friends, with all of your heart.Give to them what they need, and show them not cruelty nor disapproval nor coldness nor disappointment, but only love.Open your soul to them.Love not only your loved ones, but your neighbors … your coworkers … strangers … your brothers and sisters in 5 humanity.Offer anyone you meet a smile, a kind word, a kind gesture, a helping hand.Love not only neighbors and strangers … but your enemy.The person who is cruelest to you, who has been unkind to you … love him.He is a tortured soul, and most in need of your love.And most of all, love yourself.While others may criticize you, learn not to be so hard on yourself, to think that you’re ugly or dumb or unworthy of love … but to think instead that you are a wonderful human being, worthy of Happiness and love … and learn to love yourself for who you are.Finally, know that I love you and always will.You are starting out on a weird, scary, daunting, but ultimately incredibly wonderful journey, and I will be there for you when I can.Godspeed.Love, Your Dad 2008.10.19 in Japan

一位偉大而又平凡的父親，一封情真意切的信。父親的忠告，送給他三歲大的愛子，同時(shí)也啟示所有人：人生是一段美妙的旅程，雖然會(huì)有陰雨，重要的是學(xué)會(huì)愛，學(xué)會(huì)享受生活，從而快樂一生。親愛的塞斯，Dear Seth, [1] 你現(xiàn)在僅僅3歲，此刻你還不識(shí)字，更不用說讓你去理解我接下來想在這封信里對(duì)你所說的話了。但是我已經(jīng)苦思冥想了好久，關(guān)于你即將面臨的人生以及我的生活，我反思我所學(xué)會(huì)的；思考一個(gè)父親的職責(zé)，力圖讓你為未來歲月中即將面臨的困難做好充分準(zhǔn)備。[1] You're only three years old, and at this point in your life you can't read, much less understand what I'm going to try to tell you in this letter.But I've been thinking a lot about the life that you have ahead of you, about my life so far as I reflect on what I've learned, and about my role as a dad in trying to prepare you for the trials that you will face in the coming years。

[2] 你今天并不能理解這封信的含義，但是某一天，當(dāng)時(shí)機(jī)成熟，我希望你能在我與你分享的內(nèi)容當(dāng)中找尋到些許的智慧和價(jià)值。[2] You won't be able to understand this letter today, but someday, when you're ready, I hope you will find some wisdom and value in what I share with you。

[3] 你還很年輕，生命還尚未開始摧殘你，沒有在你的人生道路上布置失望，傷心，孤獨(dú)，掙扎和苦痛。你還沒有被漫長(zhǎng)的乏味工作，被日常生活的打擊搞得筋疲力盡。

[3] You are young, and life has yet to take its toll on you, to throw disappointments and heartaches and loneliness and struggles and pain into your path.You have not been worn down yet by long hours of thankless work, by the slings and arrows of everyday life。

[4] 因此，謝天謝地吧。你正處在人生一個(gè)美妙的階段。還有很多美妙的階段會(huì)來到你面前，但是都不是唾手可得的，你都得付出代價(jià)，經(jīng)歷風(fēng)險(xiǎn)。

[4] For this, be thankful.You are at a wonderful stage of life.You have many wonderful stages of life still to come, but they are not without their costs and perils。

[5] 我希望通過分享一些我所學(xué)到的最好的道理能幫助你走好人生路。至于任何建議，且把它當(dāng)作佐料，因?yàn)檫m合我的并不一定適用于你。

[5] I hope to help you along your path by sharing some of the best of what I've learned.As with any advice, take it with a grain of salt.What works for me might not work for you。生活會(huì)很殘酷 Life Can Be Cruel [6] 你的生活中一定會(huì)有并不友好的人。他們恥笑你因?yàn)槟悴煌跊]有更好的理由。他們可能會(huì)欺負(fù)你或者傷害你。

[6] There will be people in your life who won't be very nice.They'll tease you because you're different, or for no good reason.They might try to bully you or hurt you。

[7] 對(duì)這種人你除了學(xué)會(huì)和其接觸無計(jì)可施，同時(shí)你也要學(xué)會(huì)擇友，選擇那些對(duì)你友善的，那些真正關(guān)心你的，那些令你對(duì)自己感到很好的人做朋友。當(dāng)你尋找到像這樣的朋友，就一定要堅(jiān)守這份友誼，珍惜他們，花些時(shí)間和他們?cè)谝黄?，友善的?duì)待他們并愛他們。[7] There's not much you can do about these people except to learn to deal with them, and learn to choose friends who are kind to you, who actually care about you, who make you feel good about yourself.When you find friends like this, hold on to them, treasure them, spend time with them, be kind to them, love them。[8] 有時(shí)你會(huì)遭遇挫折而非成功。生活并不總會(huì)如你所愿。這是另一件你需要學(xué)會(huì)處理的事情。但你要挺住向前，而不是讓這些事讓你陷入低谷。接受挫敗并學(xué)會(huì)堅(jiān)持，不畏風(fēng)險(xiǎn)地追求你的夢(mèng)想。學(xué)會(huì)把消極轉(zhuǎn)化為積極，之后你就能做的好得多。

[8] There will be times when you are met with disappointment instead of success.Life won't always turn out the way you want.This is just another thing you'll have to learn to deal with.But instead of letting these things get you down, push on.Accept disappointment and learn to persevere, to pursue your dreams despite pitfalls.Learn to turn negatives into positives, and you'll do much better in life。

[9] 你同樣會(huì)面臨心碎時(shí)刻以及你深愛的人的拋棄。我希望你無須經(jīng)歷太多此類事件，但如果不幸發(fā)生了，再一次，除了慢慢愈合心中的創(chuàng)傷并繼續(xù)下去你的生活，你別無選擇。讓這些痛苦成為你通向更美好生活的墊腳石，并學(xué)會(huì)利用它們讓自己更堅(jiān)強(qiáng)。

[9] You will also face heartbreak and abandonment by those you love.I hope you don't have to face this too much, but it happens.Again, not much you can do but to heal, and to move on with your life.Let these pains become stepping stones to better things in life, and learn to use them to make you stronger。

但無論如何，都要張開雙臂擁抱生活 But Be Open to life Anyway [10] 是的，在你的生命歷程中你會(huì)遇到殘酷，煎熬……但不要讓這些讓你拒絕接受新鮮事物。不要逃避生活，不要躲藏，抑或封閉自己。擁抱新鮮事物，經(jīng)歷全新體驗(yàn)，接觸新的人。

[10] Yes, you'll find cruelty and suffering in your journey through life … but don't let that close you to new things.Don't retreat from life, don't hide or wall yourself off.Be open to new things, new experiences, new people。

[11] 你或許心碎了10次，但是在第十一次找到至愛。如果你把自己關(guān)在愛的門外，你就會(huì)錯(cuò)過這個(gè)女子，和你生命中最快樂的時(shí)光。[11] You might get your heart broken 10 times, but find the most wonderful woman the 11th time.If you shut yourself off from love, you'll miss out on that woman, and the happiest times of your life。

[12] 你可能會(huì)被你遇到的人恥笑欺負(fù)傷害…而在見了一打這種稀奇古怪的人后，你會(huì)找到一個(gè)真正的朋友。如果你拒絕接觸新人群，并不向他們敞開心扉，你會(huì)避免受傷……但是同時(shí)也失去了認(rèn)識(shí)這些不可思議的人的機(jī)會(huì)，他們會(huì)在你生命最困難的時(shí)刻陪伴著你，并帶給你人生當(dāng)中最美好的時(shí)光。

[12] You might get teased and bullied and hurt by people you meet … and then after meeting dozens of jerks, find a true friend.If you close yourself off to new people, and don't open your heart to them, you'll avoid pain … but also lose out on meeting some incredible people, who will be there during the toughest times of your life and create some of the best times of your life。

[13] 你會(huì)失敗多次但是如果你讓失敗打到了你，不再努力，你就會(huì)錯(cuò)過那種當(dāng)你達(dá)到成就新高度的難以言喻的成就感。失敗是成功之母。

[13] You will fail many times but if you allow that to stop you from trying, you will miss out on the amazing feeling of success once you reach new heights with your accomplishments.Failure is a stepping stone to success。生命不是一場(chǎng)競(jìng)賽 Life Isn't a Competition [14] 你會(huì)遇到一些人他們總是試圖超過你，在中學(xué)，大學(xué)，在工作中。他們想要擁有更好的車，更大的房子，更好的衣物，更酷的小玩 12 意。對(duì)他們來說，生命就是一場(chǎng)競(jìng)賽---他們不得不比同輩做得更好來讓自己感到快樂。

[14]You will meet many people who will try to outdo you, in school, in college, at work.They'll try to have nicer cars, bigger houses, nicer clothes, cooler gadgets.To them, life is a competition — they have to do better than their peers to be happy。

[15] 這里有一個(gè)秘訣：生命并不是一場(chǎng)競(jìng)賽。而是一段旅程。如果你在途中一直都試圖給他人留下深刻印象，超過別人，那你就浪費(fèi)了這段旅程。與之相反，學(xué)會(huì)享受它，讓之成為快樂之旅，永恒的學(xué)習(xí)之旅，持久的進(jìn)步之旅以及愛之旅。

[15]Here's a secret: Life isn't a competition.It's a journey.If you spend that journey always trying to impress others, to outdo others, you’re wasting your journey.Instead, learn to enjoy the journey.Make it a journey of Happiness, of constant learning, of continual improvement, of love。

[16] 不要為擁有一輛更好的車或一所更好的房子或者任何物質(zhì)的東西，即便是一份薪水更高的工作操心。這些根本無足輕重，也不會(huì)使你快樂。你可能在擁有了這些之后只是想要更多的。與之相反，學(xué)會(huì)滿足你已經(jīng)擁有的---然后學(xué)會(huì)利用你原本想要浪費(fèi)在為掙錢買這些東西的時(shí)間去做你真正熱愛的事。[16] Don't worry about having a nicer car or house or anything material, or even a better-paying job.None of that matters a whit, and none of it will make you happier.You'll acquire these things and then only want more.Instead, learn to be satisfied with having enough — and then use the time you would have wasted trying to earn money to buy those things … use that time doing things you love。

[17] 找到你的激情，堅(jiān)持不懈地追求它。別讓自己被一個(gè)還債的的工作所累。生命太短暫了，更不可將之浪費(fèi)在你所厭惡的工作上。[17] Find your passion, and pursue it doggedly.Don't settle for a job that pays the bills.Life is too short to waste on a job you hate。愛應(yīng)該成為你的生活準(zhǔn)則 Love Should Be Your Rule [18] 如果讓一個(gè)詞成為你的生活支撐的話，那它應(yīng)該是愛。也許這聽來已是老生常談，我也清楚… 但是請(qǐng)信任我，再?zèng)]有更好的生活準(zhǔn)則了。

[18]If there's a single word you should live your life by, it should be this: Love.It might sound corny, I know … but trust me, there's no better rule in life。

[19] 一些人以成功作為生活準(zhǔn)則。他們的生活會(huì)很緊張，不開心并且很淺薄。

[19] Some would live by the rule of success.Their lives will be stressful, unhappy and shallow。

[20] 另一些人的生活準(zhǔn)則是個(gè)人利益---他們將個(gè)人需要置于他人需要之上。他們孤獨(dú)一生，終究也不會(huì)快樂。

[20] Others would live by the rule of selfishness — putting their needs above those of others.They will live lonely lives, and will also be unhappy。

[21] 還有一些人他們?yōu)檎x而生---努力展示其道路的正確性，并試圖勸服任何一個(gè)不以正義為生活準(zhǔn)則的人。他們關(guān)心他人，卻以一種消極的方式，最終懷抱追尋一生的正義而終，而正卻是一個(gè)糟糕的伴侶。

[21] Still others will live by the rule of righteousness — trying to show the right path, and admonishing anyone who doesn't live by that path.They are concerned with others, but in a negative way, and in the end will only have their own righteousness to live with, and that's a horrible companion。

[22] 用愛支撐你的生命。愛你的妻子，你的孩子，你的父母親，你的朋友，全心全意地去愛。給與他們你所需要的，不要流露出任何殘忍，不贊同，冷漠或者失望，只有愛。向他們敞開靈魂。[22] Live your life by the rule of love.Love your spouse, your children, your parents, your friends, with all of your heart.Give to them what they need, and show them not cruelty nor disapproval nor coldness nor disappointment, but only love.Open your soul to them。

[23] 不僅僅愛你深愛的人，也要愛你的鄰居.。你的同事…甚至陌生人…他們是你廣義上的兄弟姐妹。給你遇到的任何一個(gè)人一個(gè)微笑，一句善語。一個(gè)友好的姿勢(shì)，一只援助之手。[23]Love not only your loved ones, but your neighbors … your coworkers … strangers … your brothers and sisters in humanity.Offer anyone you meet a smile, a kind word, a kind gesture, a helping hand。[24] 不僅僅愛鄰居和陌生人…也要愛你的敵人。對(duì)你最殘酷的人，對(duì)曾經(jīng)對(duì)你不善的人…愛他。他是一個(gè)備受折磨的靈魂，最需要你的愛。

[24] Love not only neighbors and strangers … but your enemy.The person who is cruelest to you, who has been unkind to you … love him.He is a tortured soul, and most in need of your love。

[25] 最重要的是愛你自己。當(dāng)別人批評(píng)你時(shí)，學(xué)著不要強(qiáng)加自己，去認(rèn)為自己丑，笨或者不值得去愛…而要想著自己是一個(gè)很完美的人，值得擁有幸福和真愛…并學(xué)會(huì)愛現(xiàn)在的自己。

[25] And most of all, love yourself.While others may criticize you, learn not to be so hard on yourself, to think that you’re ugly or dumb or unworthy of love … but to think instead that you are a wonderful human being, worthy of Happiness and love … and learn to love yourself for who you are。

[26] 最后，要知道我愛你并且永遠(yuǎn)都會(huì)，你即將開啟一段有點(diǎn)奇怪，令人害怕，令人心悸但最終很不可思議的巧妙旅程，我永遠(yuǎn)會(huì)支持你。祝萬事如意。

[26] Finally, know that I love you and always will.You are starting out on a weird, scary, daunting, but ultimately incredibly wonderful journey, and I will be there for you when I can.Godspeed。