第一篇:初次見(jiàn)面說(shuō)英語(yǔ)的技巧
初次見(jiàn)面說(shuō)英語(yǔ)的技巧
初次見(jiàn)面的老外跟你說(shuō)了句“How do you do”, 估計(jì)多數(shù)人都會(huì)美滋滋地搬出學(xué)校教的那套,回敬一句“How do you do”??捎⒚廊耸繀s覺(jué)得你的回答有點(diǎn)買帽子當(dāng)鞋穿——不對(duì)頭。因?yàn)樗麄儠?huì)覺(jué)得對(duì)話似乎沒(méi)有得到回應(yīng),好像你并不高興見(jiàn)到他一樣。所以,當(dāng)別人說(shuō)“How do you do”的時(shí)候,你最好改答“Nice to meet you”或者“It's a pleasure to meet you”。
怎么樣,是不是覺(jué)得上面的小技巧還有點(diǎn)用處?那么,你知道怎么掌控好一個(gè)初次見(jiàn)面的開(kāi)場(chǎng)白嗎?還有誰(shuí)先開(kāi)口,說(shuō)什么,怎樣繼續(xù)話題?要不要握手呢?別著急,我現(xiàn)在就告訴大家一些社交小技巧。它們可以讓你在不同的場(chǎng)合游刃有余,溝通無(wú)極限。
先來(lái)看一段Jake和Debbie之間的對(duì)話吧。大姑娘上花轎--頭一回,這兩個(gè)大一新生在校園里初次碰面了。JAKE: Hi!My name is Jake.We haven't met before, have we?
DEBBIE: No, we haven't!My name is Debbie.JAKE: Nice to meet you, Debbie!
DEBBIE: Nice to meet you, too, Jake.JAKE: Are you a new student?
DEBBIE: Yes, I am.What about you?
JAKE: Yeah, me too!
JAKE: What're you studying here?
DEBBIE: Journalism.I want to be a journalist.What about you?
JAKE: I'm doing law.But I'm thinking of doing business studies instead.DEBBIE: Do they allow you to change?
見(jiàn)機(jī)行事,見(jiàn)什么人說(shuō)什么話。Jake和Debbie之間的對(duì)話適用于什么場(chǎng)合呢?
他們的對(duì)話適用于非正式場(chǎng)合。因?yàn)椋篔ake使用了Hi這個(gè)問(wèn)候詞。這個(gè)詞適用于比較隨意的場(chǎng)合或者正式場(chǎng)合下彼此非常熟識(shí)的人之間。2 Jake和Debbie在介紹自己和稱呼對(duì)方的時(shí)候都在用彼此名字的第一個(gè)字。如果兩人第一次見(jiàn)面就直接用名字的第一個(gè)字相互稱呼,這就暗示他們想讓接下來(lái)的談話無(wú)拘無(wú)束,閑散自在一些。兩個(gè)人談話的語(yǔ)氣和內(nèi)容都顯得輕松,隨意。
再來(lái)看一段James Taylor和Wang Dong之間的對(duì)話。James Taylor是AEC Advertising 的總裁,Wang Dong是China Bright Advertising Company 外事處的秘書。她負(fù)責(zé)到機(jī)場(chǎng)去接從未謀面的James Taylor。(想聽(tīng)聲音就點(diǎn)擊這里:http:///magazine/002/more.htm)
Wang Dong: Good morning.Are you James Taylor?
James Taylor: Yes, and...Wang Dong: Welcome to Beijing, President Taylor.I'm Wang Dong, the secretary of the foreign affairs office from China Bright Advertising Company.Please call me Wang.James Taylor: Oh, nice to meet you, Wang.Wang Dong: Nice to meet you, too.How was the flight?
James Taylor: It was OK, though I feel a bit tired.Wang Dong: Would you like me to help you with the luggage?
James Taylor: Oh, thank you.Wang Dong: Please follow me to the gate.The company car is waiting for you outside.大家已經(jīng)意識(shí)到了吧,這段對(duì)話適用于正式的社交場(chǎng)合。二個(gè)人用 Nice to meet you 相互問(wèn)候。Wang Dong 在自我介紹的時(shí)候不僅說(shuō)了自己的姓名,還說(shuō)了自己的職務(wù)和此行的身份。Wang Dong 稱呼對(duì)方為President Taylor,這是一種正式的稱呼,而不是用Mr.James或者James。4 Wang Dong 的用語(yǔ)十分禮貌,恭敬。
說(shuō)到這里,讓我們來(lái)作個(gè)初次見(jiàn)面問(wèn)候用語(yǔ)的小結(jié)吧。
Brief greetings:
--Hi!(for informal situation)
--Hello!(for informal situation)
--Hullo!(for informal situation)
--Good morning/afternoon/evening.(for more formal situation)
Extended greetings at the first meeting:
--Nice to meet you.(--Nice to meet you, too.)
--How do you do!(--Nice to meet you.)(for more formal situation)
附:幾個(gè)實(shí)用的句子Nice to meet you.很高興認(rèn)識(shí)你。
二個(gè)素不認(rèn)識(shí)的老美見(jiàn)面打招呼的方式很簡(jiǎn)單,就是一個(gè)人先說(shuō)“Nice to meet you”,另一個(gè)人說(shuō) “Nice to meet you, too”,然后相互握手。但人多的時(shí)候, 你不可能一個(gè)一個(gè)說(shuō) “Nice to meet you”,這時(shí)簡(jiǎn)單說(shuō)“Hi” 就可以了,但這么說(shuō)不適用于比較正式的場(chǎng)合。Give me a hug.給我一個(gè)擁抱吧。
如果兩個(gè)人相識(shí)已久,見(jiàn)面再說(shuō)“Nice to meet you” 反而顯得有點(diǎn)見(jiàn)外。這時(shí)候通常問(wèn)候一句 “How are you doing” 或者 “What's up” 比較好一些。如果兩個(gè)人還是不錯(cuò)的朋友,就會(huì)彼此擁抱一下。當(dāng)然啦,擁抱之前不一定要說(shuō) “Give me a hug”,只要看到人家張開(kāi)雙手,你就可以迎上去擁抱啦。3 Do you want to exchange numbers? 你想不想交換電話呢?
如果是學(xué)生的社交場(chǎng)合,要不要名片就不是那么重要了。這時(shí)你可以嘗試跟對(duì)方交換電話號(hào)碼。你可以說(shuō) “Do you want to exchange numbers” 或是直截了當(dāng)要對(duì)方的電話 “Could I have your phone number”。當(dāng)然,第一次見(jiàn)面就要對(duì)方電話感覺(jué)好像怪怪的,所以你也可以跟對(duì)方要 E-mail address 或是 ICQ number??傊裁淳透鶕?jù)當(dāng)時(shí)的情況和你個(gè)人的企圖來(lái)定了。
第二篇:職場(chǎng)英語(yǔ)-初次見(jiàn)面
職場(chǎng)英語(yǔ)·初次見(jiàn)面
發(fā)表于:2009-6-5 瀏覽:76 次 來(lái)源:教育頻道
第一天到公司上班,You must be nervous.你的心情一定挺緊張。怎么才能給上級(jí)和同事留下a favorable impression(良好印象)呢?西裝革履的你看起來(lái)很cool,但你還是沒(méi)有十分的把握。我們先來(lái)聽(tīng)聽(tīng)某家外企公司的新成員Peter King如何得體地處理他工作中的第一天。
Peter: Good Morning.May I introduce myself?My name's Peter King and I'm new here.Anna: Pleased to meet you.I'm Anna White, the assistant to the Personnel Manager.Welcome
to our company.你看,初次見(jiàn)面好比跳華爾茲,非常簡(jiǎn)單,就是三步曲:?jiǎn)柡颉榻B——對(duì)方回答。不過(guò)這首華
爾茲在不同的場(chǎng)合,步伐也不相同。
在formal正式場(chǎng)合中, 要用:Good morning/afternoon或How do you do,同時(shí)要shaking hands“握握手”來(lái)顯示你的sincerity誠(chéng)意。當(dāng)然不要忘了smile一下,因?yàn)槲⑿κ窍糸u、溝通心靈的最好
方法。
而在informal非正式場(chǎng)合中,比如年輕人之間或平時(shí)的聚會(huì)中,我們就可以relax,放松一下,不單穿著隨便,而且只需招手致意,問(wèn)候語(yǔ)用簡(jiǎn)單的Hi, or Hello!就可以了。
另外,作為新人,應(yīng)該主動(dòng)與同事交往,所以要先作self introduction,除了May I introduce myself? My name's Peter King,你還可以說(shuō):Let me introduce myself.My name's Peter.或者
I'm Peter.作完了自我介紹,Peter希望Susan能把他介紹給經(jīng)理或其他人,聽(tīng)聽(tīng)他是怎么說(shuō)的:
Peter: Could you introduce me to the Manager?
Susan: Of course.Mr.King...Mr.White, let me introduce you to Mr.Peter King,the new
clerk in your department.White: How do you do.I'm Alex White.We're going to be working together.Peter: How do you do.I've been looking forward to meeting you, Mr.White.原來(lái)他用了句型 Could you introduce me to sb.? 這顯得很有禮貌。另外你還可以這樣說(shuō):
1、I haven't met your Managing Director yet.(我還沒(méi)有見(jiàn)到你們的總裁。)
2、I don't know anyone here.You'll have to introduce me.(這里的人我都不認(rèn)識(shí)。您得給我作介紹。)
如果情況相反,需要你把某人介紹給其他人,下面的句子可以幫你這個(gè)忙:
1、Let me introduce you to our Managing Director.(請(qǐng)讓我把您介紹給我們的總裁。);
2、I'll introduce you to our Managing Director , this is Mr.Johnson, our MD.(我會(huì)把你介紹給我們的總裁。這是約翰生先生,我們的總裁。)
最后,請(qǐng)問(wèn)你知道在初次見(jiàn)面時(shí)哪句話是必不可少的嗎?對(duì)了,是:Nice to meet you.(見(jiàn)到您
很高興。)每當(dāng)對(duì)方報(bào)上姓名時(shí),你要記得說(shuō)這句話。
為了加深對(duì)方的印象,你可以加上你對(duì)對(duì)方的贊揚(yáng):I've heard a lot about you.(久聞大名)。
當(dāng)然用Glad to meet you.或Pleased to meet you.來(lái)替代Nice to meet you.也可以。
第三篇:初次見(jiàn)面如何用英語(yǔ)打招呼
初次見(jiàn)面如何用英語(yǔ)打招呼
第一天到公司上班,You must be nervous.你的心情一定挺緊張。怎么才能給上級(jí)和同事留下a favorable impression(良好印象)呢?西裝革履的你看起來(lái)很cool,但你還是沒(méi)有十分的把握。我們先來(lái)聽(tīng)聽(tīng)某家外企公司的新成員Peter King如何得體地處理他工作中的第一天。
Peter: Good Morning.May I introduce myself?My name's Peter King and I'm new here.Anna: Pleased to meet you.I'm Anna White, the assistant to the Personnel Manager.Welcome to our company.你看,初次見(jiàn)面好比跳華爾茲,非常簡(jiǎn)單,就是三步曲:?jiǎn)柡颉榻B——對(duì)方回答。不過(guò)這首華爾茲在不同的場(chǎng)合,步伐也不相同。
在formal正式場(chǎng)合中, 要用:Good morning/afternoon或How do you do,同時(shí)要shaking hands“握握手”來(lái)顯示你的sincerity誠(chéng)意。當(dāng)然不要忘了smile一下,因?yàn)槲⑿κ窍糸u、溝通心靈的最好方法。
而在informal非正式場(chǎng)合中,比如年輕人之間或平時(shí)的聚會(huì)中,我們就可以relax,放松一下,不單穿著隨便,而且只需招手致意,問(wèn)候語(yǔ)用簡(jiǎn)單的Hi, or Hello!就可以了。
另外,作為新人,應(yīng)該主動(dòng)與同事交往,所以要先作self introduction,除了May I introduce myself? My name's Peter King,你還可以說(shuō):Let me introduce myself.My name's Peter.或者I'm Peter.作完了自我介紹,Peter希望Susan能把他介紹給經(jīng)理或其他人,聽(tīng)聽(tīng)他是怎么說(shuō)的:
Peter: Could you introduce me to the Manager?
Susan: Of course.Mr.King...Mr.White, let me introduce you to Mr.Peter King,the new clerk in your department.White: How do you do.I'm Alex White.We're going to be working together.Peter: How do you do.I've been looking forward to meeting you, Mr.White.原來(lái)他用了句型 Could you introduce me to sb.? 這顯得很有禮貌。另外你還可以這樣說(shuō):
1、I haven't met your Managing Director yet.(我還沒(méi)有見(jiàn)到你們的總裁。)
2、I don't know anyone here.You'll have to introduce me.(這里的人我都不認(rèn)識(shí)。您得給我作介紹。)
如果情況相反,需要你把某人介紹給其他人,下面的句子可以幫你這個(gè)忙:
1、Let me introduce you to our Managing Director.(請(qǐng)讓我把您介紹給我們的總裁。);
2、I'll introduce you to our Managing Director , this is Mr.Johnson, our MD.(我會(huì)把你介紹給我們的總裁。這是約翰生先生,我們的總裁。)
最后,請(qǐng)問(wèn)你知道在初次見(jiàn)面時(shí)哪句話是必不可少的嗎?對(duì)了,是:
Nice to meet you.(見(jiàn)到您很高興。)每當(dāng)對(duì)方報(bào)上姓名時(shí),你要記得說(shuō)這句話。
為了加深對(duì)方的印象,你可以加上你對(duì)對(duì)方的贊揚(yáng):
I've heard a lot about you.(久聞大名)。當(dāng)然用
Glad to meet you.或Pleased to meet you.來(lái)替代Nice to meet you.也可以。
得體的介紹和問(wèn)候會(huì)給對(duì)方留下美好印象,但是你不能虎頭蛇尾呀,告別也要無(wú)可挑剔。常用的告別語(yǔ)有:
1、It was very nice to have met you.2、It was nice meeting you.3、Hope to see you again.嗯,第一課,everything is going well.一切進(jìn)行順利。你學(xué)會(huì)了如何作自我介紹和介紹別人以及初次見(jiàn)面如何問(wèn)候。但是你還要記住,要好好做練習(xí)呀!See you tomorrow.
第四篇:初次見(jiàn)面游戲
初次見(jiàn)面[破冰]
見(jiàn)面3分鐘時(shí)是你留給他人第一印象的最重要的時(shí)刻,同樣在一個(gè)會(huì)議或培訓(xùn)的剛開(kāi)始,如何讓大家更加活絡(luò)起來(lái),是關(guān)系培訓(xùn)是否成功的關(guān)鍵,下面的小游戲就可以用于消除大
家的陌生感。
游戲程序和規(guī)則
1.第一步:
(1)給每一個(gè)人都做一個(gè)姓名牌。
(2)讓每位成員在進(jìn)入培訓(xùn)室之前,先在名冊(cè)上核對(duì)一下他的姓名,然后給他一個(gè)別人的 姓名牌。
(3)等所有人到齊之后,要求所有人在3分鐘之內(nèi)找到姓名牌上的人,同時(shí)向其他人做自 我介紹。
2.第二步:
(1)主持人作自我介紹,然后告訴與會(huì)人員:“很高興來(lái)到這兒!”
(2)快速繞教室走一圈,問(wèn):“如果你今天不在這兒,你會(huì)在做什么不情愿做的事情呢? ”
(3)注意讓問(wèn)答保持在一個(gè)輕松活潑的氛圍之內(nèi)。
相關(guān)討論
1.當(dāng)你在尋找你的姓名牌上的人的時(shí)候,你是不是也同時(shí)認(rèn)識(shí)了很多其他的人?經(jīng)過(guò)了這 個(gè)游戲,你是不是感覺(jué)大家的距離近了好多?
2.在第二步中,當(dāng)你們談到自己可以不用做自己不愿意做的一些事情,你會(huì)不會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)坐在 這里聽(tīng)課是一件比較愜意的事情?
總結(jié)
1.在開(kāi)始的課程中,主持人一定要注意保持一個(gè)積極、幽默的態(tài)度,以便讓大家 迅速的消除靦腆等情緒,然后讓大家好好的熟悉起來(lái);同時(shí)有助于大家積極的發(fā)言。
2.如果沒(méi)有調(diào)動(dòng)起來(lái)情緒,學(xué)員沒(méi)有積極舉手回答的話,講師可以有意識(shí)的點(diǎn)名讓同學(xué)回答,以調(diào)動(dòng)氣氛。
參與人數(shù):集體參與
時(shí)間:20分鐘
場(chǎng)地:不限
道具:姓名牌
應(yīng)用:(1)團(tuán)隊(duì)溝通
(2)培訓(xùn)或集體活動(dòng)前的熟悉和溝通
(3)主持人開(kāi)場(chǎng)白,幫助主持人與大家進(jìn)行溝通和交流
第五篇:初次見(jiàn)面問(wèn)候語(yǔ)
一.初次見(jiàn)面問(wèn)候語(yǔ)
1.Nice to meet you!
Nice to meet you,too!
2.How are you ?
I’m fine ,thank you , and you ?
I’m fine ,too.3.Good morning /afternoon/evening/night!
二.問(wèn)路
1. Excuse me , can you tell me where is the------?
2.Excuse me , can you tell me the way to the------?
3.Excuse me , would you please show me the way to the--------?
4.Excuse me, how can I get to the-------?
5.Go straight down/on/along this street/road 沿著街直著走,Turn right向右轉(zhuǎn),turn left向左轉(zhuǎn)
at the second crossing road 在第二個(gè)十字路口
三.生活起居
1.when do you get up everyday ?At----.2.What time do you go to bed everynight ?3.What time do you have breakfast/lunch/dinner ?
4.what time / when do you usually go to school?
5.When is your school over?、When is your class over?
四.國(guó)籍
1.Where are you from? Where do you come from ?
2.what nationality are you ?
五.祝福語(yǔ)
1.Thank you for your-------2.Wishing you and your family a very happy
3.Best wishes for you and your family.六. 天氣
1.What's the weather like today?/ How is the weather today?
2.it’s cool / hot /cold / cloudy /rainy / snowy.七.打車
1.The place you want to go is not easy to find, you's better take a taxi
2.I want to-----
3.how much ?
八.自我介紹
My Chinese name is-----.My English name is----.I’m-----years old.I am a pupil.I come from China Inner Mongolia Baotou.China is a big country.It has a population of 1.3 billion.China has a long history and culture.Inner Mongolia Baotou is my hometown.it is callde”Nation on horseback”.there are grasslands In my hometown.We can be happy riding on grassland.Baotou is also a heavy industrial city.The most important business is baogang.If you are a guest to Baotou , I will take you to eat features food in Inner Mongolia—Mongolian food.For example:Roast leg of lamb, hand Grilled meat, milk and cheese.My school is the second young Primary.My English school is New time English school.I like-----.My hobby is-----.My favourite food is----.This is my mother/father.she/he is a-----.I hope you like me.welcome to my hometown.thank you.九.卡片句型
1.How do you improve your spoken English or learning efficiency?2.What is the weather like in your country ?
4.What do you do to relax ?
5.DO you often Communication with your parents ?
6.which language do you speak ? It says you speak Chinese.Why do you speak Chinese ?
7.Is your English teacher strict ? Do you like your English teacher ?
8.How do you remember the new words ?
9.what places of historic interest in your country ?
10.will you earn pocket money on your holiday ?
11.what’s the traditional festival in your country ?
十.購(gòu)物
1.what’s this / that ?
It’s----.2.what are these / those ?
They are----.3.what colour is it ?
It’s-----.4.What colour are they?
they are-----.5.Can I try this one ?
6.Can I try a large / small size?
7.Can I try another colour ?
8.How much this one ?
9.This one for me.10.Please cheaper!
十一.點(diǎn)菜
1.Do you like Chinese food or western—style food ?
2.A: can we see the menu ,please ?
B: Here you are ?
A: what’s good today ? 今天有什么好吃的?
B:I recommandcrispy and fried duck.我推薦香酥雞和烤鴨。A:ok.B: Do you want any dessert ?你想要一些甜點(diǎn)嗎?
A: no dessert , thanks , just coffee.B: I can have the check , please.請(qǐng)結(jié)賬,A: let’s split this.讓咱們各自付賬。
No , it’s my treat tonight.不,今晚我請(qǐng)客。
Cash or charge ,sir? 現(xiàn)金還是記賬?