第一篇：中年婦女英語演講稿——女人不能老（共）

middle-age is a crucial period and middle-aged women are facing even more dangers.youth is still lingering on there, but it can’t stand any carelessness or negligence.staying youth can be likened to climbing a steep hill, while negligence will lead to decrepitude overnight.those who feed on their youth will have to opt otherwise at this stage.women need to refine their mind and to make themselves more intellectually prepared ． they need the sense of security too.we may well say that men’s youth lies in their career while women’s youth relies on their state of mind and cultivation because of the rise of yin and the decline of yang, we can see many capable women devising and calculating with all their might.they used to be very beautiful, and are now still charming, but they are middle-aged after all.how long can they still preserve their diminishing youth?

what do the middle-aged women need in order to maintain their youth and doomed decrepitude? fine qualities and good manners, confidence and calmness.don’t do too much extra work, don’t tire yourselves out, and never try anything beyond your capacity and energy.what’s more, they need security and friendship.no matter how strong a man is, he needs support;no matter how independent a woman is, she needs backing.the flowery girls may care about nothing but amusement, and they may not consider even the reliability and capability of a man.middle-aged women, however, are much more practical, and they have to face the loyalty and creativity of a man.what they are seeking is the most loyal, the most responsible, the most powerful, the most reliable and the most trustworthy love which is nearly eternal and unchangeable.any kind of strike may wear away their youth which is once gone never to return.middle-aged women must keep a clear head instead of doing things out of willfulness.they should be able to judge who is sincere and who is hypocritical.once they choose the hypocritical instead of the sincere out of carelessness, tragedy

參考譯文：

中年是一個(gè)關(guān)鍵時(shí)期，中年婦女正面臨更加危險(xiǎn)。青年是依然存在，但它不能忍受任何疏忽或過失。住青年可以比喻為攀登陡峭的山坡，而疏忽將導(dǎo)致衰老的。這些誰養(yǎng)活他們的青年將有選擇，否則在這個(gè)階段。

這是一個(gè)充滿誘惑時(shí)，誘人的女孩和富有魅力的女性彈出無處不在，使男人暈頭轉(zhuǎn)向，留下越來越多的破碎的家庭和被遺棄的妻子，從而導(dǎo)致中年人士的衷心實(shí)現(xiàn)婦女不能變老。

美容院正在打開一個(gè)又一個(gè)的化妝品市場越來越繁榮，以使年輕婦女永遠(yuǎn)面對(duì)新..適當(dāng)?shù)拿娌孔o(hù)理，美發(fā)或有氧運(yùn)動(dòng)都是必要的婦女，但他們只是表面上的，并不能持續(xù)很長時(shí)間。他們絕不能這樣做化妝品使企業(yè)全天候..什么將成為它們的化妝品后，消除他們的臉？

婦女需要完善其思想，使自己更理智的準(zhǔn)備。他們需要的安全感了。我們可以說，青年男子是他們的職業(yè)，而婦女的青年依賴于他們的精神狀態(tài)和種植由于銀的崛起和衰退的羊，我們可以看到許多有能力的婦女設(shè)計(jì)和計(jì)算所有的可能。他們?cè)?jīng)是非常漂亮的，現(xiàn)在仍然迷人，但中年以后所有。多久，他們?nèi)匀槐３制錅p少青年？

什么是這些婦女在？錢嗎？但是他們會(huì)很高興，如果他們不得不數(shù)錢的瘦弱干癟的手后，他們成功地富起來老太太？

也許他們正在尋求為寬敞的住房和轎車。但是，這些只是我們服務(wù)的工具一樣，摩托車是我們坐，而不是對(duì)我們進(jìn)行了我們肩上。它仍然是值得的價(jià)格，如果他們的追求已成為一種負(fù)擔(dān)或壓力，要求他們犧牲的青年？

或者，也許他們需要錢為孩子出國留學(xué)。但出國留學(xué)并不是每個(gè)人的野心。正如我們經(jīng)常說，孩子有自己的運(yùn)氣，我們不應(yīng)該選擇以同樣的方式為他們長大。營商或?qū)⒃谡?，工作，文職職位或軍事官員的不同選擇不同的兒童。有些人甚至想成為國際象棋選手，它是這樣一個(gè)美妙的職業(yè)生涯后，成為成功的，他們可以下棋有益的職業(yè)..我們?yōu)槭裁匆M最大的努力把我們的孩子在國外有這么多的不確定性？什么是點(diǎn)犧牲我們寶貴的青年向我們的孩子的地方，可能是天堂，還是地獄？

我們應(yīng)該尋求適度的財(cái)富，為沒有限制的。億萬富翁吃不超過一日三餐和睡在一張床，而在晚上的家庭生活在一個(gè)微薄的工資可以是非常愉快，身體健康。有時(shí)我們可能會(huì)覺得這豪華的北京烤鴨，沒有更多的美味簡單的煎餅比與青蔥。只有當(dāng)他們保持一個(gè)和平的心，他們既面臨有利和屈辱與鎮(zhèn)定。

什么是中年婦女的需要，以維持其青年和注定衰老？優(yōu)秀品質(zhì)和良好的舉止，自信和冷靜。不要做太多額外的工作，沒有自己的輪胎，決不嘗試任何超越你的能力和精力。

更重要的是，他們需要安全和友誼。無論多么強(qiáng)大一個(gè)人，他需要的支持;無論多么獨(dú)立是一個(gè)女人，她需要的支持。在華麗的女孩可能關(guān)心只是娛樂，他們甚至可能不會(huì)考慮的可靠性和能力的一個(gè)人。中年婦女，但是，更為實(shí)際，他們必須面對(duì)的忠誠和創(chuàng)造力的一名男子。他們正在尋求的是最忠實(shí)，最負(fù)責(zé)任的，世界上最強(qiáng)大，最可靠和最值得信賴的愛情幾乎是永恒的和不可改變的。任何形式的罷工可能會(huì)削弱他們的青年這是一次經(jīng)歷從未返回。

中年婦女必須保持清醒的頭腦而不是做事的任性。他們應(yīng)該能夠判斷誰是真誠的，誰是虛偽的。

第二篇：中年婦女英語演講稿——女人不能老

middle-age is a crucial period and middle-aged women are facing even more dangers.youth is still lingering on there, but it can’t stand any carelessness or negligence.staying youth can be likened to climbing a steep hill, while negligence will lead to decrepitude overnight.those who feed on their youth will have to opt otherwise at this stage.this is a time full of temptations, alluring girls and glamourous women pop up everywhere, making the discomposed men confused and disoriented, leaving behind more and more broken-up families and abandoned wives, thereby leading the middle-aged to the heartfelt realization that women cannot afford to grow old.beauty parlors are being opened one after another and the cosmetics market is getting more and more prosperous in order to keep the youthful face of women forever fresh..proper facial care, hair-dressing or aerobics are all necessary for women, but they are only superficial and can not last long.they can in no way do the cosmetic make-ups round-the-clock..what will become of them after removing the cosmetics from their face?

women need to refine their mind and to make themselves more intellectually prepared ． they need the sense of security too.we may well say that men’s youth lies in their career while women’s youth relies on their state of mind and cultivation because of the rise of yin and the decline of yang, we can see many capable women devising and calculating with all their might.they used to be very beautiful, and are now still charming, but they are middle-aged after all.how long can they still preserve their diminishing youth?

what are those women after? money? but will they be happy if they have to count the money with their skinny shriveled hands after they have successfully become wealthy old ladies?

maybe they are seeking for spacious houses and limousines.but these are just tools to serve us, just like a motorcycle is for us to ride on, not for us to carry on our shoulders.is it still worth the price if their pursuit has become a burden or a pressure that calls for the sacrifice of their youth?

or maybe they need the money for their children to study abroad.but studying abroad is not the ambition of everyone.as we always say that children have their own luck, we shouldn’t choose the same way for them to grow up.doing business or going in for politics, working at civilian posts or as military officials are different choices for different children.some even want to become chess players and it is such a wonderful career that after becoming successful, they can make playing chess a rewarding profession..why should we try our best to send our children abroad where there are so many uncertainties? what’s the point of the sacrifice of our precious youth to send our children to somewhere that may be heaven, or hell?

we should be moderate at seeking wealth, for there is no limit for it.a billionaire eats no more than three meals a day and sleeps in one bed at night while a family living on a meager salary can be very happy and healthy.we may feel sometimes that the luxurious beijing roast duck is no more delicious than the simple pancakes with shallots.only when they keep a peaceful heart can they face both favors and humiliations with composure.what do the middle-aged women need in order to maintain their youth and doomed decrepitude? fine qualities and good manners, confidence and calmness.don’t do too much extra work, don’t tire yourselves out, and never try anything beyond your capacity and energy.what’s more, they need security and friendship.no matter how strong a man is, he needs support;no matter how independent a woman is, she needs backing.the flowery girls may care about nothing but amusement, and they may not consider even the reliability and capability of a man.middle-aged women, however, are much more practical, and they have to face the loyalty and creativity of a man.what they are seeking is the most loyal, the most responsible, the most powerful, the most reliable and the most trustworthy love which is nearly eternal and unchangeable.any kind of strike may wear away their youth which is once gone never to return.middle-aged women must keep a clear head instead of doing things out of willfulness.they should be able to judge who is sincere and who is hypocritical.once they choose the hypocritical instead of the sincere out of carelessness, tragedy

參考譯文：

中年是一個(gè)關(guān)鍵時(shí)期，中年婦女正面臨更加危險(xiǎn)。青年是依然存在，但它不能忍受任何疏忽或過失。住青年可以比喻為攀登陡峭的山坡，而疏忽將導(dǎo)致衰老的。這些誰養(yǎng)活他們的青年將有選擇，否則在這個(gè)階段。

這是一個(gè)充滿誘惑時(shí)，誘人的女孩和富有魅力的女性彈出無處不在，使男人暈頭轉(zhuǎn)向，留下越來越多的破碎的家庭和被遺棄的妻子，從而導(dǎo)致中年人士的衷心實(shí)現(xiàn)婦女不能變老。

美容院正在打開一個(gè)又一個(gè)的化妝品市場越來越繁榮，以使年輕婦女永遠(yuǎn)面對(duì)新..適當(dāng)?shù)拿娌孔o(hù)理，美發(fā)或有氧運(yùn)動(dòng)都是必要的婦女，但他們只是表面上的，并不能持續(xù)很長時(shí)間。他們絕不能這樣做化妝品使企業(yè)全天候..什么將成為它們的化妝品后，消除他們的臉？

婦女需要完善其思想，使自己更理智的準(zhǔn)備。他們需要的安全感了。我們可以說，青年男子是他們的職業(yè)，而婦女的青年依賴于他們的精神狀態(tài)和種植由于銀的崛起和衰退的羊，我們可以看到許多有能力的婦女設(shè)計(jì)和計(jì)算所有的可能。他們?cè)?jīng)是非常漂亮的，現(xiàn)在仍然迷人，但中年以后所有。多久，他們?nèi)匀槐３制錅p少青年？

什么是這些婦女在？錢嗎？但是他們會(huì)很高興，如果他們不得不數(shù)錢的瘦弱干癟的手后，他們成功地富起來老太太？

也許他們正在尋求為寬敞的住房和轎車。但是，這些只是我們服務(wù)的工具一樣，摩托車是我們坐，而不是對(duì)我們進(jìn)行了我們肩上。它仍然是值得的價(jià)格，如果他們的追求已成為一種負(fù)擔(dān)或壓力，要求他們犧牲的青年？

或者，也許他們需要錢為孩子出國留學(xué)。但出國留學(xué)并不是每個(gè)人的野心。正如我們經(jīng)常說，孩子有自己的運(yùn)氣，我們不應(yīng)該選擇以同樣的方式為他們長大。營商或?qū)⒃谡?，工作，文職職位或軍事官員的不同選擇不同的兒童。有些人甚至想成為國際象棋選手，它是這樣一個(gè)美妙的職業(yè)生涯后，成為成功的，他們可以下棋有益的職業(yè)..我們?yōu)槭裁匆M最大的努力把我們的孩子在國外有這么多的不確定性？什么是點(diǎn)犧牲我們寶貴的青年向我們的孩子的地方，可能是天堂，還是地獄？

我們應(yīng)該尋求適度的財(cái)富，為沒有限制的。億萬富翁吃不超過一日三餐和睡在一張床，而在晚上的家庭生活在一個(gè)微薄的工資可以是非常愉快，身體健康。有時(shí)我們可能會(huì)覺得這豪華的北京烤鴨，沒有更多的美味簡單的煎餅比與青蔥。只有當(dāng)他們保持一個(gè)和平的心，他們既面臨有利和屈辱與鎮(zhèn)定。

什么是中年婦女的需要，以維持其青年和注定衰老？優(yōu)秀品質(zhì)和良好的舉止，自信和冷靜。不要做太多額外的工作，沒有自己的輪胎，決不嘗試任何超越你的能力和精力。

更重要的是，他們需要安全和友誼。無論多么強(qiáng)大一個(gè)人，他需要的支持;無論多么獨(dú)立是一個(gè)女人，她需要的支持。在華麗的女孩可能關(guān)心只是娛樂，他們甚至可能不會(huì)考慮的可靠性和能力的一個(gè)人。中年婦女，但是，更為實(shí)際，他們必須面對(duì)的忠誠和創(chuàng)造力的一名男子。他們正在尋求的是最忠實(shí)，最負(fù)責(zé)任的，世界上最強(qiáng)大，最可靠和最值得信賴的愛情幾乎是永恒的和不可改變的。任何形式的罷工可能會(huì)削弱他們的青年這是一次經(jīng)歷從未返回。

中年婦女必須保持清醒的頭腦而不是做事的任性。他們應(yīng)該能夠判斷誰是真誠的，誰是虛偽的。一旦他們選擇的虛偽，而不是真誠的疏忽，悲劇

第三篇：英語演講稿“女人不能老”

英語演講稿“女人不能老”

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Middle-,butitcan’，alluringgirlsandglamourouswomenpopupeverywhere,makingthediscomposedmenconfusedanddisoriented,leavingbehindmoreandmorebroken-upfamiliesandabandonedwives,therebyleadingthemiddle-agedtotheheartfeltrealizationthatwomencaotaffordtogrowold.Beautyparlorsarebeingopenedoneafteranotherandthecosmeticsmarketisgettingmoreandmoreproerousinordertokeeptheyouthful

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英語演講稿“女人不能老”

第四篇：英語演講稿“女人不能老”

[dvnews_page]WomenCaotaffordtoGrowOld翻譯：北京外國語大學(xué)北戴河外語培訓(xùn)基地副校長張寶丹

Middle-ageisacrucialperiodandmiddle-agedwomenarefacingevenmoredangers.Youthisstilllingeringonthere,butitcan'tstandanycareleeornegligence.Stayingyouthcanbelikenedtoclimbingasteephill,whilenegligencewillleadtodecrepitudeovernight.Thosewhofeedontheiryouthwillhavetooptotherwisea

tthisstage.Thisisatimefulloftemptatio,alluringgirlsandglamourouswomenpopupeverywhere,makingthediscomposedmenconfusedanddisoriented,leavingbehindmoreandmorebroken-upfamiliesandabandonedwives,therebyleadingthemiddle-agedtotheheartfeltrealizationthatwomencaotaffordtogrowold.Beautyparlorsarebeingopenedoneafteranotherandthecosmeticsmarketisgettingmoreandmoreproerousinordertokeeptheyouthfulfaceofwomenforeverfresh..Properfacialcare,hair-dreingoraerobicsareallnecearyforwomen,buttheyareonlysuperficialandcannotlastlong.Theycaninnowaydothecosmeticmake-uround-the-clock..Whatwillbecomeofthemafterremovingthecosmeticsfromtheirface?

Womenneedtorefinetheirmindandtomakethemselvesmoreintellectuallyprepared。Theyneedtheseeofsecuritytoo.Wemaywellsaythatmen'syouthliesintheircareerwhilewomen'syouthreliesontheirstateofmindandcultivationBecauseoftheriseofYinandthedeclineofYang,wecanseemanycapablewomendevisingandcalculatingwithalltheirmight.Theyusedtobeverybeautiful,andarenowstillcharming,buttheyaremiddle-agedafterall.Howlongcantheystillpreservetheirdiminishingyouth?

Whatarethosewomenafter?Money?Butwilltheybehayiftheyhavetocountthemoneywiththeirskiyshriveledhandsaftertheyhavesuccefullybecomewealthyoldladies?

Maybetheyareseekingforacioushousesandlimousines.Butthesearejusttoolstoserveus,justlikeamotorcycleisforustorideon,notforustocarryonourshoulders.Isitstillworththepriceiftheirpursuithasbecomeaburdenorapreurethatcallsforthesacrificeoftheiryouth?

Ormaybetheyneedthemoneyfortheirchildrentostudyabroad.Butstudyingabroadisnottheambitionofeveryone.Aswealwayssaythatchildrenhavetheirownluck,weshouldn'tchoosethesamewayforthemtogrowup.Doingbusineorgoinginforpolitics,workingatcivilianpostsorasmilitaryofficialsaredifferentchoicesfordifferentchildren.Someevenwanttobecomecheplayersanditissuchawonderfulcareerthatafterbecomingsucceful,theycanmakeplayingche

第五篇：英語演講稿——女人不能老Women Cannot afford to Grow Old

middle-age is a crucial period and middle-aged women are facing even more dangers.youth is still lingering on there, but it cant stand any carelessness or negligence.staying youth can be likened to climbing a steep hill, while negligence will lead to decrepitude overnight.those who feed on their youth will have to opt otherwise at this stage.this is a time full of temptations, alluring girls and glamourous women pop up everywhere, making the discomposed men confused and disoriented, leaving behind more and more broken-up families and abandoned wives, thereby leading the middle-aged to the heartfelt realization that women cannot afford to grow old.beauty parlors are being opened one after another and the cosmetics market is getting more and more prosperous in order to keep the youthful face of women forever fresh..proper facial care, hair-dressing or aerobics are all necessary for women, but they are only superficial and can not last long.they can in no way do the cosmetic make-ups round-the-clock..what will become of them after removing the cosmetics from their face?

women need to refine their mind and to make themselves more intellectually prepared。they need the sense of security too.we may well say that mens youth lies in their career while womens youth relies on their state of mind and cultivation because of the rise of yin and the decline of yang, we can see many capable women devising and calculating with all their might.they used to be very beautiful, and are now still charming, but they are middle-aged after all.how long can they still preserve their diminishing youth?

what are those women after? money? but will they be happy if they have to count the money with their skinny shriveled hands after they have successfully become wealthy old ladies?

maybe they are seeking for spacious houses and limousines.but these are just tools to serve us, just like a motorcycle is for us to ride on, not for us to carry on our shoulders.is it still worth the price if their pursuit has become a burden or a pressure that calls for the sacrifice of their youth?

or maybe they need the money for their children to study abroad.but studying abroad is not the ambition of everyone.as we always say that children have their own luck, we shouldnt choose the same way for them to grow up.doing business or going in for politics, working at civilian posts or as military officials are different choices for different children.some even want to become chess players and it is such a wonderful career that after becoming successful, they can make playing chess a rewarding profession..why should we try our best to send our children abroad where there are so many uncertainties? whats the point of the sacrifice of our precious youth to send our children to somewhere that may be heaven, or hell?

we should be moderate at seeking wealth, for there is no limit for it.a billionaire eats no more than three meals a day and sleeps in one bed at night while a family living on a meager salary can be very happy and healthy.we may feel sometimes that the luxurious beijing roast duck is no more delicious than the simple pancakes with shallots.only when they keep a peaceful heart can they face both favors and humiliations with composure.what do the middle-aged women need in order to maintain their youth and doomed decrepitude? fine qualities and good manners, confidence and calmness.dont do too much extra work, dont tire yourselves out, and never try anything beyond your capacity and energy.whats more, they need security and friendship.no matter how strong a man is, he needs support;no matter how independent a woman is, she needs backing.the flowery girls may care about nothing but amusement, and they may not consider even the reliability and capability of a man.middle-aged women, however, are much more practical, and they have to face the loyalty and creativity of a man.what they are seeking is the most loyal, the most responsible, the most powerful, the most reliable and the most trustworthy love which is nearly eternal and unchangeable.any kind of strike may wear away their youth which is once gone never to return.middle-aged women must keep a clear head instead of doing things out of willfulness.they should be able to judge who is sincere and who is hypocritical.once they choose the hypocritical instead of the sincere out of carelessness, tragedy will definitely fall on them.in fact, one whim may decide whether they will live in heaven or stay in hell.all women have one weak point—they are easily enchanted by mens flattery.therere numerous sweet-tongued men, but loyal ones are hard to find.they may use sweet words to flatter you or they may be soft-spoken and submissive, but that is when they are weak and in need of help.as soon as the situation is different, they may change immediately.we always think the weak is the reliable, but this is misleading.the weak may be pitiable, but not always reliable.reliability doesnt mean being weak or strong, but depends on whether one can master himself.if someone, when absent from home, does what he dares not do at home, then how can he be regarded as a trustworthy man?

the middle-aged women, with the exception of those who work at special posts, neednt fight too hard.instead, they should encourage men to temper themselves in this world.studying with ease, working with ease, living with ease and facing everything with ease are what middle-aged women should try to do.ease is the symbol of ever-lasting youth and also the glamour of all middle-aged women.may all kindhearted women enjoy an easy life and ever-lasting youth!

translated by zhang baodan

june 20, ～

中文

人到中年是個(gè)坎，女人們會(huì)面臨更多的考驗(yàn)。青春似乎還在，卻容不得大意和放任。保持青春已如爬坡，任由衰老會(huì)一瀉千里。吃青春飯的行業(yè)，則面臨著重新?lián)駱I(yè)和轉(zhuǎn)行。

如今畢竟是燈紅酒綠的時(shí)代。到處是閑花野草，到處有嫵媚妖嬈，搞得沒有定力的男人們暈頭轉(zhuǎn)向、身不由已，從而讓中年社會(huì)由衷地感到：女人不能老。

美容保健業(yè)所以日漸發(fā)達(dá)，化裝品市場所以如火如荼，也正是為了保住女人們這張青春艷麗的臉。適時(shí)和適度的美容、美發(fā)、美體，對(duì)女人們是完全必要的。但這畢竟是表面文章。表面文章能維持多久呢？人不能 24 小時(shí)都在脂粉的遮蓋下渡過。卸裝之后怎么辦？

女人需要修身養(yǎng)性，需要增加內(nèi)涵，也需要安全感。我們也可以說：男人的青春在事業(yè)，女人的青春在心態(tài)。

因?yàn)殛幨㈥査ガF(xiàn)象的存在，我們看到許多忙忙碌碌的女人們，掙命似地在運(yùn)籌著、工作著。她們?cè)?jīng)很有姿色，至今風(fēng)韻猶存，但畢竟徐娘半老，長此下去保得住嗎？

女人們?cè)谧非笫裁茨兀拷疱X？就算她們?nèi)缭敢詢?，最后成了富婆，用衰老的枯掌去?shù)錢，會(huì)幸福嗎？

也許在追求闊宅豪車。但這些都應(yīng)該是為人服務(wù)的，就象我們可以騎摩托而不能扛摩托一樣，如果這種追求成了負(fù)擔(dān)、成了壓力、甚至付出青春的代價(jià)，那還值嗎？

或者為孩子留學(xué)出國。可出國留學(xué)并非是每個(gè)人的追求。且不說兒孫自有兒孫福，眾人的成長也不會(huì)都走一條道路。從商從政，從文從武，各不相同。有人選擇了下棋，下好了，邊玩邊豪華一生。你一定把兒女送出國，國外也有不少陷阱?。『伪匕局约旱那啻鹤詈蟀押⒆铀偷侥强商炜傻氐膰?？

對(duì)金錢、對(duì)物質(zhì)，追求要適度。因?yàn)檫@些東西，沒有止境，沒有夠，只在自己如何把握。億萬富翁，也日食三餐，夜宿一床。幾百元工資的家庭，面色卻可能紅通通。有時(shí)你真可能覺得，北京烤鴨竟香不過煎餅卷大蔥。所以對(duì)物質(zhì)世界，保持一個(gè)好心態(tài)，才能得失傲然，寵辱不驚。

要保住青春，延緩衰老，人到中年的女人需要什么呢？她們需要?dú)赓|(zhì)、需要風(fēng)度、需要從容不迫，需要?dú)舛ㄉ耖e。學(xué)業(yè)不熬夜，事業(yè)不拼命，甚至不必力所能及，而要游刃有余。

她們還需要安全和友誼。再強(qiáng)大的男人，也需要攙扶；再好強(qiáng)的女人也需要依靠。花季的女孩，可以不管不顧，她們那時(shí)甚至不必考慮男人的可靠和能力，只要好玩。而中年以后的女子則現(xiàn)實(shí)得多了，他們不得不面對(duì)男人的忠誠和創(chuàng)造力。甚至可以說，她們現(xiàn)在需要尋求世界上最真誠、最責(zé)任、最強(qiáng)大、又最可信賴和依靠的一種近于永恒的愛。任何風(fēng)浪顛簸的打擊，都會(huì)打擊她們的青春，而青春有可能一去不回頭。

人到中年的女性，需要清醒，而不能一廂情愿。她們一定要判斷好，哪些是真的，哪些可能把握不住。如果由于輕率、由于不經(jīng)意而丟失了真摯，選擇了假，一定會(huì)產(chǎn)生悲劇。其實(shí)，一念之間就可能決定未來在天、還是在地。

女人們有個(gè)弱點(diǎn)，就是常常迷惑于男人的奉承。會(huì)說漂亮活的男人有的是，但忠貞不二的男人卻少得很。也許他們處在弱勢或有所求的時(shí)候，會(huì)花言巧語，甚至低聲下氣，可形勢變化了則不盡然。人們總以為弱者最可靠。其實(shí)這是個(gè)誤區(qū)。弱者會(huì)可憐，但不一定可靠。是否可靠的根本，不在于強(qiáng)弱，而在于是否能把握自己。大家都“將在外君命有所不受”，還有什么可信度？