第一篇：2014北大畢業(yè)演講

變革時(shí)代，如何堅(jiān)守？

——王恩哥校長(zhǎng)在2014年本科生畢業(yè)典禮上的講話(huà)

尊敬的各位老師、各位學(xué)長(zhǎng)、各位嘉賓，親愛(ài)的同學(xué)們：

大家上午好！

“紅樓飛雪，一時(shí)英杰，先哲曾書(shū)寫(xiě)，愛(ài)國(guó)進(jìn)步民主科學(xué)?！眲偛?，教師和學(xué)生合唱團(tuán)演唱了《燕園情》，這首歌雖然還不是我們正式的校歌，但這么多年來(lái)，它的旋律、它的歌詞、它所包含的深厚感情以及北大人以四海為家、以天下為己任的情懷，已經(jīng)深深刻在了我們的心中。在座每一位北大同學(xué)的本科生活，都是由《燕園情》開(kāi)始的，今天在這里，也將以《燕園情》畫(huà)上一個(gè)休止符。四年前,充滿(mǎn)朝氣和活力的你們從五湖四海匯聚到燕園，開(kāi)始了在北大的求學(xué)

生涯。那時(shí)，你們?cè)谝惑w的操場(chǎng)上第一次學(xué)唱《燕園情》；而今天，在同樣悠揚(yáng)的歌聲里，你們就要帶著在北大收獲的知識(shí)、友情以及愛(ài)情，帶著一生一世的北大印記，走向天南海北。前段時(shí)間，我們的一張本科畢業(yè)生合影在網(wǎng)絡(luò)上“走紅”，這張一個(gè)人的“合影”來(lái)自元培學(xué)院的薛逸凡同學(xué)，她所在的古生物學(xué)專(zhuān)業(yè)，或許是中國(guó)唯一的只有一個(gè)學(xué)生的專(zhuān)業(yè)。很多網(wǎng)友贊她為“女漢子”，紛紛留言——“一個(gè)人的寂寞誰(shuí)懂？”，“專(zhuān)業(yè)第一名和最后一名都占了”??其實(shí)，無(wú)論什么專(zhuān)業(yè)，寂寞也好，熱鬧也罷，作為校長(zhǎng)和老師，只要你們學(xué)有所成，只要你們快樂(lè)成長(zhǎng)，就是我們內(nèi)心最大的滿(mǎn)足。2014屆畢業(yè)的全體本科生同學(xué)們，祝賀你們！

同學(xué)們，大學(xué)時(shí)光匆匆而過(guò)，以至于身為“90后”的你們都開(kāi)始慨嘆：“時(shí)間都去哪兒了”？是的，對(duì)一個(gè)始終在奮斗、始終在攀登的年輕人來(lái)說(shuō)，時(shí)間總是過(guò)得特別快，四年光陰轉(zhuǎn)瞬間就流走了。我想，這四年的時(shí)間，已經(jīng)凝結(jié)成了你們?cè)跓o(wú)數(shù)次“刷夜”苦讀之后的哲思與明辨，凝結(jié)成了你們?cè)趪?guó)際交流舞臺(tái)上閃光的才華與自信的氣度，也已經(jīng)變成了悄悄爬上父母和師長(zhǎng)雙鬢的縷縷白發(fā)。當(dāng)你們?cè)诨貞涍^(guò)往，追問(wèn)青春的意義時(shí)，我希望，大家懷著一顆感恩的心，向默默哺育你們的父母、悉心教導(dǎo)你們的師長(zhǎng)以及四年來(lái)相互關(guān)愛(ài)、相互扶助的“小伙伴”們說(shuō)一聲——“謝謝！”正是他們時(shí)時(shí)在你的左右，你的人生才擁有了如此精彩！今天，請(qǐng)把掌聲獻(xiàn)給他們！

此時(shí)此刻，站在這個(gè)講臺(tái)上，我的心情也很不平靜，愿意與大家分享一點(diǎn)自己的時(shí)間印記。我和我的同齡人，是在中國(guó)經(jīng)濟(jì)社會(huì)大變革的時(shí)代成長(zhǎng)起來(lái)的，雖然歷經(jīng)波折，卻也幸運(yùn)地搭上了改革開(kāi)放、社會(huì)轉(zhuǎn)型的時(shí)代列車(chē)。1978年我上大學(xué)的時(shí)候，人們還在討論收音機(jī)和電視對(duì)未來(lái)教育的影響。而現(xiàn)在，我也同你們一樣，經(jīng)?？纯碆BS和微博，也試圖用微信與朋友們交流。時(shí)至今日，科學(xué)技術(shù)的發(fā)展已經(jīng)極大地改變了我們的生活，突破了時(shí)間與空間的界限，拉近了人與人、國(guó)與國(guó)之間的距離。相信就在此刻，你們當(dāng)中有不少人正通過(guò)微博、微信將畢業(yè)的體悟和感恩的心情傳遞給千里之外的親友。這在幾十年前，甚至幾年前，都是很多人難以想象的事情。

同學(xué)們，變革是當(dāng)今時(shí)代的主題。包括我們所身處的燕園，每天也都在發(fā)生著許多細(xì)微但深刻的變化。我們的北大，正變得更加國(guó)際化、更具包容性，也更充滿(mǎn)了創(chuàng)新的活力。這一切的變化，是所有的北大人，包括在座各位同學(xué)共同努力的結(jié)果。

那么，在這個(gè)快速變革的時(shí)代，北大人應(yīng)如何作為？我們除了與時(shí)俱進(jìn)，緊緊跟上時(shí)代的潮流，更需要堅(jiān)守什么？哪些東西需要不斷變化，而哪些東西又亙古不變？利用這個(gè)機(jī)會(huì)，我想和同學(xué)們一起探討。

今年5月4日，總書(shū)記來(lái)到北大，與我們共度校慶和五四青年節(jié)。在師生座談會(huì)上，總書(shū)記給大學(xué)生算了一筆“人生賬”：“現(xiàn)在在高校學(xué)習(xí)的大學(xué)生都是20歲左右，到2020年全面建成小康社會(huì)時(shí)，很多人還不到30歲；到本世紀(jì)中葉基本實(shí)現(xiàn)現(xiàn)代化時(shí)，很多人還不到60歲。也就是說(shuō)，實(shí)現(xiàn)‘兩個(gè)一百年’奮斗目標(biāo)，你們和千千萬(wàn)萬(wàn)青年將全過(guò)程參與?！?/p>

同學(xué)們，總書(shū)記指明的這筆“人生賬”，不就是擺在你們面前的歷史“際遇”和“機(jī)緣”么！總書(shū)記還以“人生的扣子從一開(kāi)始就要扣好”為喻，勉勵(lì)青年從現(xiàn)在做起、從自己做起，勤學(xué)、修德、明辨、篤實(shí)，身體力行，努力在實(shí)現(xiàn)中國(guó)夢(mèng)的偉大實(shí)踐中創(chuàng)造自己的精彩人生。

五四運(yùn)動(dòng)的先驅(qū)、北大校友羅家倫先生在《寫(xiě)給青年》一書(shū)的序言中談到：“我們不能背著時(shí)代后退，我們也不能隨著時(shí)代前滾，我們要把握住時(shí)代的巨輪，有意識(shí)的推動(dòng)他，進(jìn)向我們光輝的理想?！痹谖逅臅r(shí)代，他們那一批“90后”通過(guò)對(duì)舊思想、舊文化、舊禮教的徹底批判，在改造國(guó)民性的基礎(chǔ)上，重塑人的靈魂，實(shí)現(xiàn)了中華民族的覺(jué)醒，也開(kāi)啟了中國(guó)現(xiàn)代化的征程。以“愛(ài)國(guó)、進(jìn)步、民主、科學(xué)”為核心的五四精神，成為指引一代又一代青年奮發(fā)圖強(qiáng)的精神燈塔，也為當(dāng)代中國(guó)構(gòu)建社會(huì)主義核心價(jià)值體系提供了重要的文化因子和思想資源。

“君子務(wù)本，本立而道生?！痹谌蚧顺睕坝慷鴣?lái)、各種思潮相互碰撞的變革時(shí)代，堅(jiān)守核心價(jià)值觀就是“務(wù)本”，將自己的人生事業(yè)融入國(guó)家發(fā)展和人類(lèi)文明進(jìn)步的洪流，這就是最大的“道”。今天，中國(guó)正作為國(guó)際社會(huì)的重要一員，重新回到世界舞臺(tái)的中央，我們比歷史上任何時(shí)期都更接近中華民族偉大復(fù)興“中國(guó)夢(mèng)”的實(shí)現(xiàn)。北大人不應(yīng)沉湎于以往作出的貢獻(xiàn)，而要參與到人類(lèi)文明的和諧與共同發(fā)展之中。希望在座的諸位同學(xué)，將來(lái)能夠代表我們這個(gè)國(guó)家，對(duì)人類(lèi)文明的傳承與進(jìn)步起到推動(dòng)作用。

面對(duì)紛紜復(fù)雜、瞬息萬(wàn)變的世界，如何實(shí)現(xiàn)“小我”與“大我”的協(xié)同進(jìn)步？是被社會(huì)的慣性所牽引，還是追隨自己內(nèi)心的召喚？是選擇安逸的生活，還是選擇奉獻(xiàn)和付出的人生？在面臨嚴(yán)峻的現(xiàn)實(shí)時(shí)，是選擇放棄，還是義無(wú)返顧地

前行？是做憤世嫉俗者，還是積極的建設(shè)者？在此，我對(duì)大家有三點(diǎn)希望：

一是希望大家堅(jiān)守“砥礪德行，立己立人”的道德追求。宋代理學(xué)家楊時(shí)曾說(shuō)“一德立而百善從之”，無(wú)論什么時(shí)代，砥礪德行對(duì)于修身、齊家、治國(guó)、平天下都具有基礎(chǔ)性的重要作用。只有個(gè)人的德行修養(yǎng)立得住，才能推己及人，影響和教化別人。“君子之志于道也，不成章不達(dá)。”在我們身邊，就有許許多多堅(jiān)守本心，德行高尚的前輩，他們的堅(jiān)守讓我們?cè)跁r(shí)代波瀾中看到了北大人默默擔(dān)當(dāng)?shù)纳碛?，感受到了北大人濃郁沉淀的家?guó)情懷。這其中，第三屆“蔡元培獎(jiǎng)”獲得者，醫(yī)學(xué)部教授彭瑞驄先生便是典型代表。彭瑞驄先生生于二十世紀(jì)二十年代，1940年考入北京大學(xué)醫(yī)學(xué)院。成長(zhǎng)于內(nèi)憂(yōu)外患，社會(huì)動(dòng)蕩的時(shí)代，彭先生較早便開(kāi)始關(guān)注社會(huì)現(xiàn)實(shí)，關(guān)注民生疾苦。1947年，他與方亮教授、王光超教授等人在北京公主墳附近的什坊院村辦起了保健院，組織北醫(yī)師生輪流為附近農(nóng)民義診。在這段實(shí)踐中，彭先生目睹了農(nóng)民飽受病痛之苦和貧困的折磨，堅(jiān)定了為大多數(shù)人服務(wù)的理念。從醫(yī)70多年，無(wú)論身處順境還是逆境，先生都堅(jiān)定不移、勇往直前。彭老曾這樣寄語(yǔ)醫(yī)學(xué)生：“‘無(wú)德不醫(yī)’。學(xué)校只能教育你認(rèn)識(shí)是非，但是社會(huì)太復(fù)雜了。你要是想拿學(xué)醫(yī)當(dāng)敲門(mén)磚去賺錢(qián)的話(huà)，那就別來(lái)學(xué)醫(yī)，此路不通?！迸砝细适芮遑?，默默奉獻(xiàn)，正是老一輩北大人畢生堅(jiān)守的群體特質(zhì)的生動(dòng)寫(xiě)照。希望這種高尚的道德追求能夠在你們身上生生不息，薪火相傳。

二是希望大家堅(jiān)守“守正篤實(shí)，久久為功”的平和心態(tài)。今年3月，我在學(xué)工部舉辦的“教授茶座”活動(dòng)中與一些同學(xué)進(jìn)行了面對(duì)面的交流。在座談中，同學(xué)們最關(guān)心的問(wèn)題是生涯規(guī)劃。物理學(xué)院一位同學(xué)說(shuō)，學(xué)物理、做科研壓力很大，需要犧牲很多東西，不知道是不是應(yīng)該堅(jiān)持。我告訴他，北大人做什么都可以做得很出色，但要做好任何事，都需要一個(gè)基本素質(zhì)——那就是忍耐。今天在這里，我還想跟大家分享哲學(xué)系湯一介先生治學(xué)的例子。作為老一輩哲學(xué)家，編纂一部能夠挖掘傳統(tǒng)文化的真精神、呈現(xiàn)中國(guó)儒學(xué)源流的《儒藏》，是湯先生長(zhǎng)期以來(lái)的愿望。2002年，經(jīng)過(guò)反復(fù)論證，湯先生將編纂《儒藏》的設(shè)想提交學(xué)校和教育部并得以正式立項(xiàng)。這一年，76歲高齡的湯先生受命成為《儒藏》工程首席專(zhuān)家?！度宀亍饭こ淌且豁?xiàng)旨在傳承中華優(yōu)秀傳統(tǒng)文化的重大基礎(chǔ)性國(guó)家文化工程，也是一項(xiàng)迄今為止人文社科領(lǐng)域規(guī)模最大的國(guó)際合作工程?！度宀亍贰熬A編”收入中外儒家典籍650余種，約計(jì)2.6億字；而“大全編”則收入儒家經(jīng)典著

作3000余種，約10億字；此外還將編纂著錄兩萬(wàn)余部“儒家經(jīng)典文獻(xiàn)總目”。面對(duì)這項(xiàng)浩如煙海又繁瑣龐雜的巨大工程，已是耄耋之年的湯一介先生義無(wú)反顧。他說(shuō)：“在中華民族走向偉大復(fù)興的過(guò)程中，必須有中華文化的復(fù)興來(lái)配合。今天，我們編纂《儒藏》可以說(shuō)正在實(shí)現(xiàn)著400多年來(lái)中國(guó)學(xué)者、也可以說(shuō)是中國(guó)人民的夢(mèng)想。我最大的心愿就是把《儒藏》編好，將儒家文化瑰寶系統(tǒng)全面地收藏，成為全世界最權(quán)威的范本，之后一百年內(nèi)不會(huì)有人超過(guò)?！睖壬种@樣的赤忱之心，在本該頤養(yǎng)天年的年紀(jì)，仍然不遺余力地傳承和發(fā)揚(yáng)中國(guó)傳統(tǒng)文化。這種守正篤實(shí)，久久為功的精神，值得大家用心學(xué)習(xí)。

三是希望大家堅(jiān)守“寵辱不驚，自信自勵(lì)”的人生哲學(xué)。隨著人生階段的轉(zhuǎn)變，你們將迎來(lái)一個(gè)更加復(fù)雜、更加多元的世界。面對(duì)信息時(shí)代各種思潮的相互激蕩，面對(duì)紛繁蕪雜的社會(huì)現(xiàn)實(shí)，同學(xué)們可能一時(shí)會(huì)有些疑惑、彷徨和失落。這是正常的。但我希望，你們?cè)谂紶枴巴虏邸敝?，勇做積極的建設(shè)者，化難為易、化壓力為動(dòng)力、化自卑自滿(mǎn)為自信自勵(lì)，寵辱不驚，處之泰然。不久前，阿里巴巴集團(tuán)董事會(huì)主席馬云先生在北大演講時(shí)說(shuō)：“今天很多年輕人抱怨這不對(duì)、那不對(duì)的東西，可能正是我們可以發(fā)展的機(jī)會(huì)。與其抱怨，不如把它變成現(xiàn)實(shí)。”改變別人也許很難，但改變自己只需要堅(jiān)持。我校國(guó)際關(guān)系學(xué)院潘維教授也講過(guò)一段很有啟迪性的話(huà)：“我們昨天的理想，決定了中國(guó)今日社會(huì)的現(xiàn)實(shí)。如果你們今天對(duì)現(xiàn)實(shí)不滿(mǎn)，那么你們的理想就是祖國(guó)的未來(lái)。我希望這未來(lái)不是更墮落，而是更美好?！泵篮玫奈磥?lái)就掌握在各位自己手中，希望大家不畏難、多歷練，始終保持昂揚(yáng)向上的精神狀態(tài)，努力完善自我，抵達(dá)“踏遍青山人未老，風(fēng)景這邊獨(dú)好”的人生新境界。

同學(xué)們，時(shí)代在變，北大人“愛(ài)國(guó)、進(jìn)步、民主、科學(xué)”的傳統(tǒng)不會(huì)改變，“勤奮、嚴(yán)謹(jǐn)、求實(shí)、創(chuàng)新”的學(xué)風(fēng)不會(huì)改變，“思想自由，兼容并包”的胸懷不會(huì)改變，“以天下為己任”的抱負(fù)不會(huì)改變，“常為新”的奮斗精神和創(chuàng)新意識(shí)不會(huì)改變！這些帶有“北大印記”的精神特質(zhì)，應(yīng)當(dāng)就是我們?cè)诖笞兏飼r(shí)代永遠(yuǎn)不變的堅(jiān)守。

同學(xué)們，我一直認(rèn)為，北大是不可復(fù)制的，每一個(gè)北大人的人生也是不可復(fù)制的。希望大家永遠(yuǎn)不要被喧囂、浮躁所迷惑，請(qǐng)勇敢地做你自己，一個(gè)更好的自己，做一個(gè)堂堂正正、獨(dú)一無(wú)二的北大人。

從今天開(kāi)始，我相信，無(wú)論你們走到哪里，所有的道路都有一個(gè)共同的起點(diǎn)，那就是北大，這里是你們永遠(yuǎn)的精神家園。無(wú)論時(shí)代如何變革，植根在我們內(nèi)心

深處的“燕園情”將始終超越時(shí)間與空間的界限，這是永遠(yuǎn)割不斷的！

最后，我想把自己思考和醞釀已久的一句話(huà)送給在座的各位同學(xué)，“一個(gè)人的一生，要有追求，要有方向。如果你能在年輕的時(shí)候確立自己的目標(biāo)，你就會(huì)節(jié)省很多時(shí)間，走更少的彎路，你離自己夢(mèng)想的距離就會(huì)更近，實(shí)現(xiàn)的可能性就會(huì)更大?！?/p>

同學(xué)們，依依惜別，再見(jiàn)珍重。母校永遠(yuǎn)祝福你們！祝愿你們乘風(fēng)破浪，前程萬(wàn)里！

謝謝大家！

第二篇：北大畢業(yè)演講

北大畢業(yè)演講

導(dǎo)讀：我根據(jù)大家的需要整理了一份關(guān)于《北大畢業(yè)演講》的內(nèi)容，具體內(nèi)容：退一寸有退一寸的歡喜。下面我為你介紹關(guān)于稿，希望能幫到你。篇一失敗，從來(lái)都不是一件可恥的事前兩天，朋友圈里流傳著這樣一個(gè)小視頻。在北大的畢業(yè)晚會(huì)上，一位...退一寸有退一寸的歡喜。下面我為你介紹關(guān)于稿，希望能幫到你。

篇一

失敗，從來(lái)都不是一件可恥的事

前兩天，朋友圈里流傳著這樣一個(gè)小視頻。

在北大的畢業(yè)晚會(huì)上，一位因“失敗”而出名的學(xué)生，作為代表上臺(tái)演講。

他叫曹直，是北大中文系男子足球隊(duì)隊(duì)長(zhǎng)。

初聽(tīng)是一個(gè)很厲害的人物，實(shí)際上他說(shuō)，自己完全是因?yàn)樘咔蛱叩淖畈畈疟唤衼?lái)分享的。

2014 年，曹直考上北大，作為自己高中 19 年來(lái)第一個(gè)考上北大的人，很長(zhǎng)一段時(shí)間，他都處于自信心爆棚的狀態(tài)，覺(jué)得沒(méi)有什么事是干不成的，只要努力。

對(duì)曹直來(lái)說(shuō)，最拿手的事就是踢足球。

腿腳短、步頻快、爆發(fā)力強(qiáng)，再加上從小踢到大，他進(jìn)入中文男足后，底氣十足。

直到，與其他系踢了第一場(chǎng)正式的足球賽。

開(kāi)場(chǎng)整整七分鐘，曹直沒(méi)有碰到過(guò)一次球，第八分鐘，對(duì)方進(jìn)球了。

按照這樣的節(jié)奏，一場(chǎng)比賽 80 分鐘，對(duì)方一共進(jìn)了十個(gè)球。

他不是梅西，但也慌的一批。

這場(chǎng)球賽的失敗，算是曹直整個(gè)大學(xué)時(shí)光，失敗的開(kāi)始。

不光是足球再也沒(méi)有贏過(guò)，就連學(xué)習(xí)、戀愛(ài)、就業(yè)，每一件事情都不順利，甚至可以說(shuō)，都很失敗。

但正因?yàn)檫@些失敗，他突然意識(shí)到，人生并不是一帆風(fēng)順的，有很多事情都是不能得償所愿的。

就像對(duì)于大多數(shù)人來(lái)說(shuō)，失敗原本就遠(yuǎn)多于成功。

所以即使失敗了，那又怎么樣，它的存在，并不可恥啊。

雖然在北大的足球生涯毫無(wú)亮點(diǎn)，過(guò)程也尷尬無(wú)聊，但他依然熱愛(ài)足球，因?yàn)樗硎苊恳淮卧谇驁?chǎng)上奔跑的感覺(jué)，并為此感到快樂(lè)，這就足夠了。

人生本就是個(gè)不斷認(rèn)識(shí)自己、接受自己、與自己講和的過(guò)程。

優(yōu)秀的人只是少數(shù)中的少數(shù)，何必活在他人的陰影下和評(píng)價(jià)中，而讓自己悶悶不樂(lè)。

要記得，退一寸有退一寸的歡喜。

篇二

過(guò)分追求完美，你會(huì)失去自我身邊有個(gè)同事，是個(gè)完美主義者。

常掛嘴邊的人生格言是，凡事都要做到最好，不能被別人比下去。的確，從畢業(yè)之后進(jìn)入公司，她只用了不到五年的時(shí)間，就從最底層的銷(xiāo)售部小職員，做到中層管理人員，收入更是翻了幾番。

前幾年，女兒出生，無(wú)論是一開(kāi)始的高級(jí)嬰兒用品、早教機(jī)構(gòu)，還是近

兩年的興趣班、五萬(wàn)塊一次的高端夏令營(yíng)，只要?jiǎng)e的孩子覺(jué)得好的，她都不能讓自己孩子錯(cuò)過(guò)。

一直以來(lái)，大家都很羨慕她的生活。直到前幾天加班時(shí)，她突發(fā)胃絞痛。

陪她去醫(yī)院的路上，被稱(chēng)作“鋼鐵女俠”的她，突然哭了。握著我的手，一臉疲倦地說(shuō)：“活著真累啊?！?/p>

那天晚上，她告訴我，這么多年，為了維持家庭和工作的平衡，每天她都像一個(gè)陀螺，不停旋轉(zhuǎn)。

害怕工作做得不夠好，被其他人比下去;

擔(dān)心陪家人陪得不夠，被孩子和丈夫埋怨;

害怕自己身材走形，被大家嘲笑;

還要擠出時(shí)間去健身、做護(hù)理......所有的壓力堆在一起，她的神經(jīng)緊繃到了極致。

以至于很久沒(méi)有體會(huì)到真正的“快樂(lè)”，更別提去感受幸福是什么樣子的。

想起這樣一個(gè)故事，一個(gè)未婚的男人來(lái)到一家婚姻介紹所尋找伴侶。

進(jìn)了大門(mén)后，看見(jiàn)兩扇小門(mén)：一扇寫(xiě)著“美麗的”，另一扇寫(xiě)著“不太美麗的”，男人毫不猶豫地推開(kāi)了第一扇。

進(jìn)去之后，又看見(jiàn)兩扇門(mén)：一扇寫(xiě)著“年輕的”，一扇寫(xiě)著“不太年輕的”，他還是選擇了第一扇。

進(jìn)入里面，依舊還是兩扇門(mén)：“有錢(qián)的”和“不太有錢(qián)的”。

就這樣，男人依次選擇了“溫柔聰慧的”“忠誠(chéng)的”“勤勞的”“幽默的”等九扇門(mén)。

等到他推開(kāi)最后一扇門(mén)時(shí)，上面寫(xiě)著：“對(duì)不起，由于您過(guò)于追求完美，這輩子沒(méi)有符合您的要求的，請(qǐng)下輩子再來(lái)吧?！?/p>

生活，不如意事十有八九，接受現(xiàn)實(shí)的漏洞，不刻意追求所謂的完美，才能真正體會(huì)成功的喜悅，享受生命中的小確幸。

篇三

接受真正的自己，才能完成逆襲

第一季的《奇葩大會(huì)》里，賈偉的經(jīng)歷分享，我到現(xiàn)在還記憶猶新。

十八歲時(shí)，他經(jīng)歷了很多人生第一次。

第一次去北京，第一次坐火車(chē)，第一次喝可樂(lè)，第一次吃漢堡......這個(gè)從未走出家門(mén)的小伙子，為了考中央美術(shù)學(xué)院(現(xiàn)清華美院)，敢于不遠(yuǎn)千里的折騰，說(shuō)實(shí)話(huà)，除了鄉(xiāng)鄰，就連他自己，也一度覺(jué)得這很了不起。

直到考試之前，賈偉報(bào)名參加了一個(gè)三百多人的考前輔導(dǎo)班。

上課的時(shí)候，老師突然把他叫上臺(tái)，讓他在黑板上畫(huà)出 6 個(gè)手電筒。

猶豫片刻后，他特別認(rèn)真地畫(huà)了一個(gè)老式的鐵皮手電筒，就再也畫(huà)不出來(lái)了。

老師讓他再畫(huà) 5 個(gè)，他說(shuō)沒(méi)有辦法，因?yàn)槭四陙?lái)，自己只用過(guò)也只見(jiàn)過(guò)這一種手電筒。

得知他是從寧夏來(lái)的考生，老師直接對(duì)他說(shuō)：

你是騎著駱駝來(lái)的吧。回去吧，像你這樣的我見(jiàn)多了，你一輩子都考不上，我見(jiàn)過(guò)鄉(xiāng)里來(lái)的，村里來(lái)的，第一次見(jiàn)過(guò)從沙漠里來(lái)的。

聽(tīng)完這話(huà)，賈偉整個(gè)人都是懵的。

所有的驕傲都化為虛無(wú)，只記得當(dāng)時(shí)兩眼都是淚。

在那之后，賈偉才真正知道，自己的見(jiàn)識(shí)原來(lái)那么少，與其他人的差距遠(yuǎn)不止一個(gè)沙漠的距離。

想清楚后，他沒(méi)有再去輔導(dǎo)班，為了彌補(bǔ)當(dāng)下的短板，他跑遍了北京所有的商場(chǎng)。

不斷地看手電筒，畫(huà)手電筒，這一畫(huà)，就畫(huà)了十五天。

安布羅斯雷德沐說(shuō)，所謂勇氣指的并不是無(wú)所畏懼，而是明白了除了畏懼以外更重要的事。

當(dāng)你真正撕開(kāi)那層遮掩不足和缺陷的窗戶(hù)紙，并為之填補(bǔ)，那一刻就是逆襲的開(kāi)始。

誰(shuí)能想到，等到考專(zhuān)業(yè)課時(shí)，賈偉拿起試卷一看，考題竟然就是“畫(huà)六個(gè)手電筒”。

賈偉當(dāng)時(shí)就傻了，唰唰唰不到五分鐘就畫(huà)了六個(gè);

接著說(shuō)老師你再給張紙，唰唰唰又畫(huà)六個(gè);

最后他一共畫(huà)了三十六個(gè)手電筒。

以至于監(jiān)考老師把所有考場(chǎng)的老師都叫來(lái)說(shuō)：“這是天才!”

最終，賈偉考了全國(guó)前 40 名，是他們那里第一個(gè)專(zhuān)業(yè)課過(guò)清華美院的人。

如今的他已經(jīng)是洛可可設(shè)計(jì)公司創(chuàng)始人兼設(shè)計(jì)總監(jiān)，被譽(yù)為兼具商業(yè)頭腦和設(shè)計(jì)才華的商業(yè)設(shè)計(jì)師第一人，也是唯一一個(gè)獲得了全球所有的設(shè)計(jì)界奧斯卡金獎(jiǎng)的人。

那個(gè)風(fēng)靡一時(shí)的 55 度杯，就是他為自己的女兒設(shè)計(jì)的。

人生是不公平的，不是每個(gè)人都有與生俱來(lái)的天賦，有良好的成長(zhǎng)環(huán)境，有高高的起跑線(xiàn)。

人生也是公平的，了解了最真實(shí)的自己，接受了最平凡的自己，夢(mèng)想之路也就更加清晰。走得更穩(wěn)，也更容易完成逆襲。

篇四

活著，不是為了證明給別人看的美國(guó)著名的社會(huì)活動(dòng)家、心理學(xué)教授赫伯特.西蒙說(shuō)，“最好”就是“好”的敵人。

看過(guò)這樣一個(gè)故事：

一位非常優(yōu)秀的短跑運(yùn)動(dòng)員，在年輕時(shí)就已取得耀眼的成績(jī)。人們對(duì)他滿(mǎn)是贊許和期待，都說(shuō)他一定能成為最小的世界冠軍。

不幸的是，在大賽前夕，他訓(xùn)練過(guò)度，跟腱完全斷裂，即使得到及時(shí)治療，也無(wú)法再恢復(fù)到之前的速度。

從那之后，這位運(yùn)動(dòng)員就變得頹廢，無(wú)法接受現(xiàn)實(shí)，覺(jué)得人生徹底玩完，甚至得了嚴(yán)重的抑郁。

這種認(rèn)知偏差的產(chǎn)生，其實(shí)就是一種極端思維。

因?yàn)樘粗厮嗽u(píng)價(jià)，導(dǎo)致他對(duì)自己的定位就是“需要不斷地跑，不斷地刷新成績(jī)”，認(rèn)為自己的生命中，再?zèng)]有其他東西。

心理學(xué)上有這樣一種說(shuō)法：一個(gè)人的期望值越大，心理承受力就會(huì)越小，就越接受不住失敗的打擊，最終也就越容易失敗。

而這一切都是因?yàn)?，我們太在乎別人的目光，而忽視了真正的自我。

生活實(shí)苦，我們必須掌握人生幸福的主動(dòng)權(quán)。

這就意味著，面對(duì)成功，我們的內(nèi)心滿(mǎn)足感不能完全來(lái)自外界，不能讓他人對(duì)你進(jìn)行角色化塑造。

不論是好是壞，評(píng)價(jià)自己，我們要有自己的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)，接受自己，肯定自己，然后做好自己。

第三篇：2012北大中文系畢業(yè)演講

2012北大中文系畢業(yè)演講——盧新寧

敬愛(ài)的老師和親愛(ài)的同學(xué)們上午好謝謝你們叫我回家。讓我有幸再次聆聽(tīng)老師的教誨分享我親愛(ài)的學(xué)弟學(xué)妹們的特殊喜悅。一進(jìn)家門(mén)光陰倒轉(zhuǎn)。剛才那些美好的視頻同學(xué)的發(fā)言老師的講話(huà)都讓我覺(jué)得所有年輕的故事都不曾走遠(yuǎn)?？墒仟フ驹谀銈兠媲蔼ビH愛(ài)的同學(xué)們我才發(fā)現(xiàn)自己真的老了。1988年我本科畢業(yè)的時(shí)候你們中的絕大多數(shù)人還沒(méi)有出生。那個(gè)時(shí)候你們的朗朗部長(zhǎng)還是眾女生仰慕的帥師兄你們的渭毅老師正在與我的同屋女孩愛(ài)的地老天荒——而現(xiàn)在他們的孩子都該考大學(xué)了。就像剛才那首歌唱的“記憶中最美的春天難以再回首的昨天?！比绻焉畋茸鲆欢螌⒗硐搿白儸F(xiàn)”的過(guò)程我們只是一疊面額有限的現(xiàn)鈔而你們是即將上市的股票。從一張白紙起步的書(shū)寫(xiě)?yīng)デ俺虩o(wú)遠(yuǎn)弗屆一切皆有可能。面對(duì)你們我甚至缺少一份抒發(fā)“過(guò)來(lái)人”心得的勇氣。但我先生力勸我來(lái)我的朋友也勸我來(lái)他們都是84級(jí)的中文系學(xué)長(zhǎng)。今天他們有的是一介文人清貧淡泊有的已經(jīng)主政一方功成名就有的發(fā)了財(cái)做了富二代的爹也有的離了婚生活并不如意。但在網(wǎng)上交流時(shí)聽(tīng)說(shuō)有今天這樣的一個(gè)機(jī)會(huì)他們都無(wú)一例外地讓我一定要來(lái)代表他們代表那一代人向自己的弟弟妹妹說(shuō)點(diǎn)什么。是的跟你們一樣我們?cè)谥形南稻妥x甚至度過(guò)同一門(mén)課程青澀的背影都曾被燕園的陽(yáng)光定格在五院青藤纏滿(mǎn)的綠墻上。但那是上個(gè)世紀(jì)的事了我們之間橫亙著二十多年的時(shí)光。那個(gè)時(shí)候我們稱(chēng)為理想的今天或許你們笑稱(chēng)其為空想那時(shí)的我們流行書(shū)生論政今天的你們要面對(duì)誡勉談話(huà)那時(shí)的我們熟悉的熱詞是民主自由今天的你們記住的是拼爹、躲貓貓、打醬油那個(gè)時(shí)候的我們喜歡在三角地游蕩而今天的你們習(xí)慣隱形于偉大的互聯(lián)網(wǎng)。我們那時(shí)的中國(guó)依然貧窮卻豪情萬(wàn)丈而今天這個(gè)世界第二大經(jīng)濟(jì)體還在苦苦尋找迷失的幸福無(wú)數(shù)和你們一樣的青年喜歡用“囧”形容自己的處境。二十多年時(shí)光中國(guó)到底走了多遠(yuǎn)存放我們青春記憶的三角地早已蕩然無(wú)存見(jiàn)證你們少年心緒的一塔湖圖正在創(chuàng)造新的歷史。你們這一代人有著遠(yuǎn)比我們當(dāng)年更優(yōu)越的條件更廣博的見(jiàn)識(shí)更成熟的內(nèi)心站在更高的起點(diǎn)。

我們想說(shuō)的是站在這樣高的起點(diǎn)由北大中文系出發(fā)你們不缺前輩大師的蔭庇更不少歷史文化的熏染。詩(shī)經(jīng)楚辭的世界老莊孔孟的夢(mèng)想李白杜甫的詞章構(gòu)成了你們生命中最為激蕩的青春時(shí)光。我不需要提醒你們未來(lái)將如何以具體瑣碎消磨這份浪漫與絢爛也不需要提醒你們人生將以怎樣的平庸世故消解你們的萬(wàn)丈雄心更不需要提醒你們走入社會(huì)要如何變得務(wù)實(shí)與現(xiàn)實(shí)因?yàn)槟銈兘K將以一生浸淫其中。我唯一的害怕是你們已經(jīng)不相信了不相信規(guī)則能戰(zhàn)勝潛規(guī)則不相信學(xué)場(chǎng)有別于官場(chǎng)不相信學(xué)術(shù)不等于權(quán)術(shù)不相信風(fēng)骨遠(yuǎn)勝于媚骨。你們或許不相信了因?yàn)樽非蠹?jí)別的越來(lái)越多追求真理的越來(lái)越少講待遇的越來(lái)越多講理想的越來(lái)越少大官越來(lái)越多大師越來(lái)越少。因此在你們走向社會(huì)之際我想說(shuō)的只是請(qǐng)看護(hù)好你曾經(jīng)的激情和理想。在這個(gè)骯臟的社會(huì)我們?nèi)匀恍枰蓛舄ピ谶@個(gè)懷疑的時(shí)代我們依然需要信仰。北大是守護(hù)這些的底線(xiàn)北大人應(yīng)該是守護(hù)這些的社會(huì)柱墻。也許有同學(xué)會(huì)笑話(huà)大師姐寫(xiě)報(bào)社論寫(xiě)多了吧這么高的調(diào)子?？扇绻腋嬖V各位這是我的很多中文系同學(xué)共同的想法你們是否會(huì)稍微有些重視是否會(huì)多想一下為什么二十多年過(guò)去他們依然如此我知道與我們這一代相比你們這一代人的社會(huì)化遠(yuǎn)在你們踏上社會(huì)之前就已經(jīng)開(kāi)始了國(guó)家的盛事集中在你們的大學(xué)時(shí)代但社會(huì)的問(wèn)題也凸顯在你們的青春歲月。你們有我們不曾有的機(jī)遇但也有我們不曾經(jīng)歷的挑戰(zhàn)。文學(xué)理論無(wú)法識(shí)別毒奶粉的成分古典文獻(xiàn)擋不住地溝油的泛濫。當(dāng)利益成為唯一的價(jià)值很多人把信仰、理想、道德都當(dāng)成交易的籌碼我很擔(dān)心懷疑會(huì)不會(huì)成為我們時(shí)代否定一切、解構(gòu)一切的粉碎機(jī)我們會(huì)不會(huì)因?yàn)樾幕乙饫涠S波逐流變成錢(qián)理群先生所言“精致利己主義”世故老道善于表演懂的配合而北大會(huì)不會(huì)像那個(gè)日本年輕人說(shuō)的有的是人才卻不培養(yǎng)精英

我有一位清華畢業(yè)的同事從大學(xué)開(kāi)始就自稱(chēng)是北大的跟屁蟲(chóng)對(duì)北大人甚是敬重。談到“大清王朝北大荒”的江湖傳言他特認(rèn)真地對(duì)我說(shuō)“這個(gè)社會(huì)需要的不是北大人的適應(yīng)而是北大人的堅(jiān)守?！边@讓我想起中文系百年時(shí)陳平原先生的一席話(huà)。他提到西南聯(lián)大時(shí)的老照片給自己的感動(dòng)一群衣衫襤褸的知識(shí)分子器宇軒昂地屹立于天地間。這應(yīng)當(dāng)就是國(guó)人眼里北大人的形象。不管將來(lái)的你們身處何處不管將來(lái)的你們從事什么職業(yè)是否都能常常自問(wèn)作為北大人我們是否還存有那種浩然之氣那種精神的魅力充實(shí)的人生“天地之心生民之命往圣絕學(xué)”是否還能在我們心中激起共鳴 馬克思曾慨嘆法蘭西不缺少有智慧的人但缺少有骨氣的人。今天的中國(guó)同樣不缺少有智慧的人但缺少有信仰的人。也正因此北大給我們的教育才格外珍貴。從母校的教誨出發(fā)二十多年社會(huì)生活給我的最大啟示是當(dāng)許多同齡人都陷于時(shí)代的車(chē)輪下那些能幸免的人不僅因?yàn)閳?jiān)強(qiáng)更因?yàn)樾叛?。不用害怕圓滑的人說(shuō)你不夠成熟不用在意聰明的人說(shuō)你不夠明智不要照原樣接受別人推薦給你的生活選擇堅(jiān)守、選擇理想因?yàn)檫@個(gè)時(shí)代說(shuō)你幼稚是給對(duì)有良心者最大的褒獎(jiǎng)。梁漱溟先生寫(xiě)過(guò)一本書(shū)《這個(gè)世界會(huì)好嗎》我很喜歡這個(gè)書(shū)名它以樸素的設(shè)問(wèn)提出了人生的大問(wèn)題。這個(gè)世界會(huì)好嗎事在人為未來(lái)中國(guó)的分量和質(zhì)量就在各位的手上。最后我想將一位學(xué)者的話(huà)送給親愛(ài)的學(xué)弟學(xué)妹——無(wú)論中國(guó)怎樣請(qǐng)記得你所站立的地方就是你的中國(guó)你怎么樣中國(guó)便怎么樣你相信光明便不再有黑暗

第四篇：北大演講

克林頓在北京大學(xué)的英文演講稿

PRESIDENT CLINTON:

Thank you.Thank you, President Chen, Chairmen Ren, Vice President Chi, Vice Minister Wei.We are delighted to be here today with a very large American delegation, including the First Lady and our daughter, who is a student at Stanford, one of the schools with which Beijing University has a relationship.We have six members of the United States Congress;the Secretary of State;Secretary of Commerce;the Secretary of Agriculture;the Chairman of our Council of Economic Advisors;Senator Sasser, our Ambassador;the National Security Advisor and my Chief of Staff, among others.I say that to illustrate the importance that the United States places on our relationship with China.I would like to begin by congratulating all of you, the students, the faculty, the administrators, on celebrating the centennial year of your university.Gongxi, Beida.(Applause.)As I'm sure all of you know, this campus was once home to Yenching University which was founded by American missionaries.Many of its wonderful buildings were designed by an American architect.Thousands of Americans students and professors have come here to study and teach.We feel a special kinship with you.I am, however, grateful that this day is different in one important respect from another important occasion 79 years ago.In June of 1919, the first president of Yenching University, John Leighton Stuart, was set to deliver the very first commencement address on these very grounds.At the appointed hour, he appeared, but no students appeared.They were all out leading the May 4th Movement for China's political and cultural renewal.When I read this, I hoped that when I walked into the auditorium today, someone would be sitting here.And I thank you for being here, very much.(Applause.)Over the last 100 years, this university has grown to more than 20,000 students.Your graduates are spread throughout China and around the world.You have built the largest university library in all of Asia.Last year, 20 percent of your graduates went abroad to study, including half of your math and science majors.And in this anniversary year, more than a million people in China, Asia, and beyond have logged on to your web site.At the dawn of a new century, this university is leading China into the future.I come here today to talk to you, the next generation of China's leaders, about the critical importance to your future of building a strong partnership between China and the United States.The American people deeply admire China for its thousands of years of contributions to culture and religion, to philosophy and the arts, to science and technology.We remember well our strong partnership in World War II.Now we see China at a moment in history when your glorious past is matched by your present sweeping transformation and the even greater promise of your future.Just three decades ago, China was virtually shut off from the world.Now, China is a member of more than 1,000 international organizations--enterprises that affect everything from air travel to agricultural development.You have opened your nation to trade and investment on a large scale.Today, 40,000 young Chinese study in the United States, with hundreds of thousands more learning in Asia, Africa, Europe, and Latin America.Your social and economic transformation has been even more remarkable, moving from a closed command economic system to a driving, increasingly market-based and driven economy, generating two decades of unprecedented growth, giving people greater freedom to travel within and outside China, to vote in village elections, to own a home, choose a job, attend a better school.As a result you have lifted literally hundreds of millions of people from poverty.Per capita income has more than doubled in the last decade.Most Chinese people are leading lives they could not have imagined just 20 years ago.Of course, these changes have also brought disruptions in settled patterns of life and work, and have imposed enormous strains on your environment.Once every urban Chinese was guaranteed employment in a state enterprise.Now you must compete in a job market.Once a Chinese worker had only to meet the demands of a central planner in Beijing.Now the global economy means all must match the quality and creativity of the rest of the world.For those who lack the right training and skills and support, this new world can be daunting.In the short-term, good, hardworking people--some, at least will find themselves unemployed.And, as all of you can see, there have been enormous environmental and economic and health care costs to the development pattern and the energy use pattern of the last 20 years--from air pollution to deforestation to acid rain and water shortage.In the face of these challenges new systems of training and social security will have to be devised, and new environmental policies and technologies will have to be introduced with the goal of growing your economy while improving the environment.Everything I know about the intelligence, the ingenuity, the enterprise of the Chinese people and everything I have heard these last few days in my discussions with President Jiang, Prime Minister Zhu and others give me confidence that you will succeed.As you build a new China, America wants to build a new relationship with you.We want China to be successful, secure and open, working with us for a more peaceful and prosperous world.I know there are those in China and the United States who question whether closer relations between our countries is a good thing.But everything all of us know about the way the world is changing and the challenges your generation will face tell us that our two nations will be far better off working together than apart.The late Deng Xiaoping counseled us to seek truth from facts.At the dawn of the new century, the facts are clear.The distance between our two nations, indeed, between any nations, is shrinking.Where once an American clipper ship took months to cross from China to the United States.Today, technology has made us all virtual neighbors.From laptops to lasers, from microchips to megabytes, an information revolution is lighting the landscape of human knowledge, bringing us all closer together.Ideas, information, and money cross the planet at the stroke of a computer key, bringing with them extraordinary opportunities to create wealth, to prevent and conquer disease, to foster greater understanding among peoples of different histories and different cultures.But we also know that this greater openness and faster change mean that problems which start beyond one nations borders can quickly move inside them--the spread of weapons of mass destruction, the threats of organized crime and drug trafficking, of environmental degradation, and severe economic dislocation.No nation can isolate itself from these problems, and no nation can solve them alone.We, especially the younger generations of China and the United States, must make common cause of our common challenges, so that we can, together, shape a new century of brilliant possibilities.In the 21st century--your century--China and the United States will face the challenge of security in Asia.On the Korean Peninsula, where once we were adversaries, today we are working together for a permanent peace and a future free of nuclear weapons.On the Indian subcontinent, just as most of the rest of the world is moving away from nuclear danger, India and Pakistan risk sparking a new arms race.We are now pursuing a common strategy to move India and Pakistan away from further testing and toward a dialogue to resolve their differences.In the 21st century, your generation must face the challenge of stopping the spread of deadlier nuclear,chemical, and biological weapons.In the wrong hands or the wrong places, these weapons can threaten the peace of nations large and small.Increasingly, China and the United States agree on the importance of stopping proliferation.That is why we are beginning to act in concert to control the worlds most dangerous weapons.In the 21st century, your generation will have to reverse the international tide of crime and drugs.Around the world, organized crime robs people of billions of dollars every year and undermines trust in government.America knows all about the devastation and despair that drugs can bring to schools and neighborhoods.With borders on more than a dozen countries, China has become a crossroad for smugglers of all kinds.Last year, President Jiang and I asked senior Chinese and American law enforcement officials to step up our cooperation against these predators, to stop money from being laundered, to stop aliens from being cruelly smuggled, to stop currencies from being undermined by counterfeiting.Just this month, our drug enforcement agency opened an office in Beijing, and soon Chinese counternarcotics experts will be working out of Washington.In the 21st century, your generation must make it your mission to ensure that today's progress does not come at tomorrow's expense.China's remarkable growth in the last two decades has come with a toxic cost, pollutants that foul the water you drink and the air you breathe--the cost is not only environmental, it is also serious in terms of the health consequences of your people and in terms of the drag on economic growth.Environmental problems are also increasingly global as well as national.For example, in the near future, if present energy use patterns persist, China will overtake the United States as the world's largest emitter of greenhouse gases, the gases which are the principal cause of global warming.If the nations of the world do not reduce the gases which are causing global warming, sometime in the next century there is a serious risk of dramatic changes in climate which will change the way we live and the way we work, which could literally bury some island nations under mountains of water and undermine the economic and social fabric of nations.We must work together.We Americans know from our own experience that it is possible to grow an economy while improving the environment.We must do that together for ourselves and for the world.Building on the work that our Vice President, Al Gore, has done previously with the Chinese government, President Jiang and I are working together on ways to bring American clean energy technology to help improve air quality and grow the Chinese economy at the same time.But I will say this again--this is not on my remarks--your generation must do more about this.This is a huge challenge for you, for the American people and for the future of the world.And it must be addressed at the university level, because political leaders will never be willing to adopt environmental measures if they believe it will lead to large-scale unemployment or more poverty.The evidence is clear that does not have to happen.You will actually have more rapid economic growth and better paying jobs, leading to higher levels of education and technology if we do this in the proper way.But you and the university, communities in China, the United States and throughout the world will have to lead the way.(Applause.)In the 21st century your generation must also lead the challenge of an international financial system that has no respect for national borders.When stock markets fall in Hong Kong or Jakarta, the effects are no longer local;they are global.The vibrant growth of your own economy is tied closely, therefore, to the restoration of stability and growth in the Asia Pacific region.China has steadfastly shouldered its responsibilities to the region and the world in this latest financial crisis--helping to prevent another cycle of dangerous devaluations.We must continue to work together to counter this threat to the global financial system and to the growth and prosperity which should be embracing all of this region.In the 21st century, your generation will have a remarkable opportunity to bring together the talents of our scientists, doctors, engineers into a shared quest for progress.Already the breakthroughs we have achieved in our areas of joint cooperation--in challenges from dealing with spina bifida to dealing with extreme weather conditions and earthquakes--have proved what we can do together to change the lives of millions of people in China and the United States and around the world.Expanding our cooperation in science and technology can be one of our greatest gifts to the future.In each of these vital areas that I have mentioned, we can clearly accomplish so much more by walking together rather than standing apart.That is why we should work to see that the productive relationship we now enjoy blossoms into a fuller partnership in the new century.If that is to happen, it is very important that we understand each other better, that we understand both our common interest and our shared aspirations and our honest differences.I believe the kind of open, direct exchange that President Jiang and I had on Saturday at our press conference--which I know many of you watched on television--can both clarify and narrow our differences, and, more important, by allowing people to understand and debate and discuss these things can give a greater sense of confidence to our people that we can make a better future.From the windows of the White House, where I live in Washington, D.C., the monument to our first President, George Washington, dominates the skyline.It is a very tall obelisk.But very near this large monument there is a small stone which contains these words: The United States neither established titles of nobility and royalty, nor created a hereditary system.State affairs are put to the vote of public opinion.This created a new political situation, unprecedented from ancient times to the present.How wonderful it is.Those words were not written by an American.They were written by XuJiyu, governor of Fujian Province, inscribed as a gift from the government of China to our nation in 1853.I am very grateful for that gift from China.It goes to the heart of who we are as a people--the right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, the freedom to debate, to dissent, to associate, to worship without interference from the state.These are the ideals that were at the core of our founding over 220 years ago.These are the ideas that led us across our continent and onto the world stage.These are the ideals that Americans cherish today.As I said in my press conference with President Jiang, we have an ongoing quest ourselves to live up to those ideals.The people who framed our Constitution understood that we would never achieve perfection.They said that the mission of America would always be “to form a more perfect union”--in other words, that we would never be perfect, but we had to keep trying to do better.The darkest moments in our history have come when we abandoned the effort to do better, when we denied freedom to our people because of their race or their religion, because there were new immigrants or because they held unpopular opinions.The best moments in our history have come when we protected the freedom of people who held unpopular opinion, or extended rights enjoyed by the many to the few who had previously been denied them, making, therefore, the promises of our Declaration of Independence and Constitution more than faded words on old parchment.Today we do not seek to impose our vision on others, but we are convinced that certain rights are universal--not American rights or European rights or rights for developed nations, but the birthrights of people everywhere, now enshrined in the United Nations Declaration on Human Rights--the right to be treated with dignity;the right to express one's opinions, to choose one's own leaders, to associate freely with others, and to worship, or not, freely, however one chooses.In the last letter of his life, the author of our Declaration of Independence and our third President, Thomas Jefferson, said then that “all eyes are opening to the rights of man.” I believe that in this time, at long last, 172 years after Jefferson wrote those words, all eyes are opening to the rights of men and women everywhere.Over the past two decades, a rising tide of freedom has lifted the lives of millions around the world, sweeping away failed dictatorial systems in the Former Soviet Union, throughout Central Europe;ending a vicious cycle of military coups and civil wars in Latin America;giving more people in Africa the chance to make the most of their hard-won independence.And from the Philippines to South Korea, from Thailand to Mongolia, freedom has reached Asia's shores, powering a surge of growth and productivity.Economic security also can be an essential element of freedom.It is recognized in the United Nations Covenant on Economic, Social, and Cultural Rights.In China, you have made extraordinary strides in nurturing that liberty, and spreading freedom from want, to be a source of strength to your people.Incomes are up, poverty is down;people do have more choices of jobs, and the ability to travel--the ability to make a better life.But true freedom includes more than economic freedom.In America, we believe it is a concept which is indivisible.Over the past four days, I have seen freedom in many manifestations in China.I have seen the fresh shoots of democracy growing in the villages of your heartland.I have visited a village that chose its own leaders in free elections.I have also seen the cell phones, the video players, the fax machines carrying ideas, information and images from all over the world.I've heard people speak their minds and I have joined people in prayer in the faith of my own choosing.In all these ways I felt a steady breeze of freedom.The question is, where do we go from here? How do we work together to be on the right side of history together? More than 50 years ago, Hu Shi, one of your great political thinkers and a teacher at this university, said these words: “Now some people say to me you must sacrifice your individual freedom so that the nation may be free.But I reply, the struggle for individual freedom is the struggle for the nation's freedom.The struggle for your own character is the struggle for the nation's character.”

We Americans believe Hu Shi was right.We believe and our experience demonstrates that freedom strengthens stability and helps nations to change.One of our founding fathers, Benjamin Franklin, once said, “Our critics are our friends, for they show us our faults.” Now, if that is true, there are many days in the United States when the President has more friends than anyone else in America.(Laughter.)But it is so.In the world we live in, this global information age, constant improvement and change is necessary to economic opportunity and to national strength.Therefore, the freest possible flow of information, ideas, and opinions, and a greater respect for divergent political and religious convictions will actually breed strength and stability going forward.It is, therefore, profoundly in your interest, and the world's, that young Chinese minds be free to reach the fullness of their potential.That is the message of our time and the mandate of the new century and the new millennium.I hope China will more fully embrace this mandate.For all the grandeur of your history, I believe your greatest days are still ahead.Against great odds in the 20th century China has not only survived, it is moving forward dramatically.Other ancient cultures failed because they failed to change.China has constantly proven the capacity to change and grow.Now, you must re-imagine China again for a new century, and your generation must be at the heart of China's regeneration.The new century is upon us.All our sights are turned toward the future.Now your country has known more millennia than the United States has known centuries.Today, however, China is as young as any nation on Earth.This new century can be the dawn of a new China, proud of your ancient greatness, proud of what you are doing, prouder still of the tomorrows to come.It can be a time when the world again looks to China for the vigor of its culture, the freshness of its thinking, the elevation of human dignity that is apparent in its works.It can be a time when the oldest of nations helps to make a new world.The United States wants to work with you to make that time a reality.Thank you very much.(Applause.)

第五篇：2017北大校長(zhǎng)畢業(yè)演講全文 吃虧是福

北大校長(zhǎng)畢業(yè)演講全文

幾天前，有位同學(xué)給我寫(xiě)信，希望我講一講自己的生活體會(huì)。所以今年的畢業(yè)致辭，我就與大家分享兩個(gè)小故事。（第一個(gè)故事）我的母親像她那個(gè)年代的大多數(shù)人一樣，并沒(méi)有讀過(guò)很多書(shū)，也沒(méi)有上過(guò)學(xué)，從小，我常常聽(tīng)到她講一句話(huà)，吃虧就是占便宜，這句話(huà)影響了我大半輩子。這不是說(shuō)為了占便宜而去吃虧，也不是說(shuō)你吃了虧就一定能占便宜，這是一種人生哲學(xué)和價(jià)值觀。小的時(shí)候，我把它作為懦弱的借口，盡量避免沖突；再大一些的時(shí)候，我把它當(dāng)作面對(duì)失敗的理由，少了一些懊悔與內(nèi)疚；成年以后，我把它當(dāng)作遠(yuǎn)離名利的信念，保持了內(nèi)心的安寧。

在中學(xué)畢業(yè)后，我曾在一個(gè)農(nóng)場(chǎng)工作了5年，一次場(chǎng)里推薦工農(nóng)兵大學(xué)生去一個(gè)師范學(xué)院讀書(shū)，農(nóng)場(chǎng)里很多人都推薦了我，當(dāng)時(shí)我可以說(shuō)是信心滿(mǎn)滿(mǎn)；但不久就得知最終推薦的是另外一個(gè)人，我據(jù)理力爭(zhēng)但還是沒(méi)有改變（情況），大家可以想象當(dāng)時(shí)我的心情（是怎樣的），我用了很久才使自己平靜下來(lái)。在很多年以后，當(dāng)我讀到尼泊爾祈禱文中的一段話(huà)的時(shí)候，我還能想起那些不眠之夜，文中說(shuō)，請(qǐng)給我平靜，去接受我無(wú)法改變的；給予我勇氣，去改變我能夠改變的；請(qǐng)賜我智慧，去分辨這二者（的區(qū)別）。我們每一個(gè)人都會(huì)遇到自己內(nèi)心難以接受的事情，如何始終保持健康平和的心態(tài)，這真是需要很大勇氣和智慧的，需要我們?nèi)ンw驗(yàn)、去感悟、去歷練。世間的事情有時(shí)很奇妙，當(dāng)我以和平的心態(tài)去面對(duì)現(xiàn)實(shí)，保持樂(lè)觀向上，生命中竟然得到了意外的驚喜。我沒(méi)有能夠到那所師范學(xué)院學(xué)習(xí)，卻幸運(yùn)地趕上了第二年高考，考上了北京大學(xué)。（全場(chǎng)掌聲~北大童鞋們很會(huì)捧場(chǎng)嘛）

價(jià)值觀是一個(gè)很有趣的事情，看不見(jiàn)摸不著，卻隨時(shí)在影響我們的行為，特別是當(dāng)你要做出重要抉擇的時(shí)候，內(nèi)心深處的價(jià)值觀就會(huì)被喚起，反過(guò)來(lái)也一樣，我們也可以根據(jù)人們的行為去看他的價(jià)值觀。我再講一個(gè)我在美國(guó)留學(xué)時(shí)的事情。有一天，導(dǎo)師把一個(gè)工具箱帶到實(shí)驗(yàn)室交給我，他說(shuō)這個(gè)（工具箱）是用他自己的錢(qián)買(mǎi)的，我當(dāng)時(shí)很奇怪，問(wèn)他為什么不用科研經(jīng)費(fèi)買(mǎi)，他說(shuō)，這些工具在實(shí)驗(yàn)室和家里都能用，用科研經(jīng)費(fèi)購(gòu)買(mǎi)需要寫(xiě)報(bào)告，很麻煩，還不如自己花錢(qián)買(mǎi)方便，反正也不貴。他吃虧了嘛？也許是。但是，在制度的灰色地帶，他避免了可能的猜疑，也使大家更加了解他的為人和價(jià)值觀——這是一個(gè)靠譜的人，值得信賴(lài)。

我們也常常會(huì)遇到另外一種人，見(jiàn)利忘義，投機(jī)鉆研，甚至不惜違規(guī)違法，他們或許能夠得到他們所追逐的利益，占到便宜，但是這些都不能長(zhǎng)久。在利益面前人們難免怦然心動(dòng)，追逐個(gè)人的利益和成功是正常的，無(wú)可厚非，但我們一定要按照制度和規(guī)矩做人做事，在正當(dāng)權(quán)益與唯利是圖的界限比較模糊的時(shí)候，寧可自己吃些虧，也不要為了一時(shí)的便宜喪失了對(duì)原則和底線(xiàn)的堅(jiān)守。人生就像是一場(chǎng)沒(méi)有裁判的馬拉松，自我約束和耐久性比一時(shí)的速度更加重要，就像歌詞里的：每一步，都算數(shù)。

人們的價(jià)值判斷和行為方式很容易受到外界影響，法律制度健全，社會(huì)風(fēng)氣好，犯錯(cuò)的成本比較高，人們遵紀(jì)守法的意識(shí)就比較強(qiáng)；當(dāng)社會(huì)風(fēng)氣不健全時(shí)，人們的心態(tài)就會(huì)受到很大影響。一些人看到別人做壞事，沒(méi)有受到懲罰，反而得到利益，就會(huì)隨波逐流，久而久之，不良社會(huì)風(fēng)氣就會(huì)像瘟疫一樣蔓延開(kāi)來(lái)。近年來(lái)，中央提出從嚴(yán)治黨的方針，從小事抓起，正黨風(fēng)，樹(shù)正氣，社會(huì)風(fēng)氣和政治生態(tài)正在逐步轉(zhuǎn)變。從另一方面看，從根本上改善社會(huì)環(huán)境，還需要我們每個(gè)人的不懈堅(jiān)守和坦然淡定，因?yàn)樯婆c惡的分界線(xiàn)，不在社會(huì)，不在他人，而在每個(gè)人的內(nèi)心。

同學(xué)們，有人講，現(xiàn)在的大學(xué)正在培養(yǎng)精致的利己主義者，但我并不認(rèn)同，語(yǔ)言上的反駁是蒼白無(wú)力的，贏得信賴(lài)還要靠實(shí)際行動(dòng)。一百多年來(lái)，無(wú)論是在國(guó)家危亡之際，還是在中華民族偉大復(fù)興之時(shí)，北大人始終站在第一線(xiàn)，以自己的力量為國(guó)家和民族的命運(yùn)而奮斗、抗?fàn)帲淘?、李大釗、胡適……代表了不懈奮斗的一代代北大人。新的一代北大人也一樣，我們深深篤信并踐行著“守正創(chuàng)新，引領(lǐng)未來(lái)”的理念，為中華民族的偉大復(fù)興奉獻(xiàn)我們的力量。

我希望從這里走出去的北大人，在任何環(huán)境中都能夠堅(jiān)守價(jià)值判斷，守住底線(xiàn)，希望你們能夠風(fēng)輕云淡的面對(duì)成功與失敗，溫和平靜的面對(duì)任何誤解與質(zhì)疑，忍耐克制的面對(duì)不公甚至挑釁；面對(duì)成績(jī)，希望大家能夠謙遜感恩，面對(duì)問(wèn)題，希望大家不離不棄，敢于擔(dān)當(dāng)。我們的內(nèi)心永遠(yuǎn)不要忘記，一個(gè)人，品格是他最寶貴的財(cái)富；一所大學(xué)，精神文化是最寶貴的財(cái)富；一個(gè)國(guó)家，年輕人的價(jià)值觀是最寶貴的財(cái)富。我深深相信，總有一天，北大會(huì)因你們而自豪。同學(xué)們，大家在校期間，我們學(xué)校的工作有很多不足之處，我要向大家表示歉意，請(qǐng)相信，學(xué)校的領(lǐng)導(dǎo)和教職員工一定會(huì)不斷努力，承擔(dān)起自己的使命與責(zé)任，把北大建設(shè)的更好。

朝夕數(shù)載，臨別匆匆，任何語(yǔ)言都難以表達(dá)此刻的心境。今天，你們將離開(kāi)校園，踏上征程，我想用巴金先生《做一個(gè)戰(zhàn)士》中的幾句話(huà)做一個(gè)結(jié)束語(yǔ)，與大家共勉——在這個(gè)時(shí)代，戰(zhàn)士是最需要的。但是這樣的戰(zhàn)士并不一定要持槍上戰(zhàn)場(chǎng)。他的武器也不一定是槍彈。他的武器還可以是知識(shí)、信仰和堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的意志。在戰(zhàn)斗中給戰(zhàn)士指路的是“未來(lái)”，“未來(lái)”給人以希望和鼓舞。戰(zhàn)士永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)失去青春的活力。最后，祝大家永遠(yuǎn)青春飛揚(yáng)！