第一篇：愛(ài)情與婚姻英文演講稿LOVE and MARRIGE

LOVE and MARRIAGE Hello everybody, maybe it is too early for us to talk about marriage, but we still have the right to put up our opinions about love and marriage.People often say that there is no reason to love someone，but I want to ask all of you a question: except the love of parents for child, everyone here, who can love a person for nothing? Or are you willing to love someone even if you will get nothing? Of cause you won’t.So the love is conditioned，maybe you don’t want to get anything from the person you love, but you desire his or her love, do you think so? So this is the premise of love.So all of us are being loved purposefully by others and loving others purposefully.Since there is no or less love without purpose, we can’t expect there will be anyone to love us for nothing.But we can make ourselves possession the advantages if we want to be loved by the other or if we want to love others better.And also at the same time, if you love someone, just forget some of your purpose.Good love likes the feeling of walking in grassland;it makes your world so wild and so bright.Bad love like a well, it can only make your world more and narrower.Good love is that you can see the world through someone;bad love is that you will miss the world for one person.The true love is that no matter how much difference you have and no matter how many tempt around you and no matter how the world outside changes, you just keep going with the person you love and you will never think of breaking up with each other and you will become braver and stronger with him or her.Have you ever experienced one’s promising and did the promise come true? There are so many things we thought we would love them forever, but the forever promise was made at the time when you have the strongest hope to hold them.So we should learn to take promise as a little part of love.If you get it or if it come true, you will be happy, and if you lost it or if it failed, you will be sad and then you will learn something from it, just don’t try to ask the reason why the promise did broken.So maybe marriage is the best kind of form of promise for women, but most of men think that marriage is the tomb of love and marriage has no relationship with love , but in my opinion, if there is no marriage, love is just a lonely and wandering ghost，and it has no place to burry itself.Love is the premise of marriage and marriage is the sublimate of love.For most of people, love is sweet and romantic, but marriage is realistic.According to statistics, the divorce rate in China is keep rising nowadays, the affection between husband and wife is waking and going bad in gradually, the family broken up and left all pains and bad influences to children, perhaps this is a social phenomenon, we can’t realize it or change it.In fact, marriage is something that you find someone who will never leave you alone and you will company each other to through the rest of life, it’s the best happiness in this world.I don’t know why some people just take marriage as a burden or treat it as a joke.Marriage is holy and it matters the happiness of two people, you should make sure that the one is whom you want in the vast world at the second you are ready to build a family with.In my growing years, I have learned from my parents that their love had being washed by time and common life all the time, but it had never vanished.On contrary, they care more about each other in health and mood and in many other aspects.Maybe they had complained, but they had never suspected their marriage and their own choices, they had never suspected their love.Their marriage had become not only something about moral and duty but also a kind of deepest

relationship and love.So I think that marriage needs to be plowing and weeding, we should learn to understand, respect, and cherish.If your marriage will not defeated by the reality, then your love will last forever and when both of you become old hand in hand, you will find that all the hardships and frustrations are sweet and romantic.Thank you!

第二篇：淺談愛(ài)情與婚姻

淺談愛(ài)情與婚姻

問(wèn)世間，情是何物？直叫生死相許？天南地北雙飛客，老翅幾回寒暑。歡樂(lè)趣，離別苦，其中更有癡兒女。君應(yīng)有語(yǔ)，緲萬(wàn)里層云，千年慕雪，只影為誰(shuí)去？這是金代大詩(shī)人元好問(wèn)的一首《摸魚(yú)兒》，道出了多少癡情男女心中的困惑和疑問(wèn)。

縱觀人世間，我們中國(guó)人和西方人的文化不同，而愛(ài)情觀更不同。西方人靠丘比特的神箭，射誰(shuí)愛(ài)誰(shuí)，不管男女雙方以后能否相容，愛(ài)心大小，責(zé)任多少。結(jié)果搞的西方人神魂顛倒、神經(jīng)錯(cuò)亂。而我們中國(guó)有著五千年的文明史，愛(ài)講禮儀的老祖先們經(jīng)過(guò)深思熟慮，請(qǐng)來(lái)一位婚姻之神——月下老。他和藹可親，飄著三尺長(zhǎng)的白胡子，憑智慧、愛(ài)心、經(jīng)驗(yàn)，一絲不茍的辦事，造就了多少美滿姻緣。

人世間的情，誰(shuí)也說(shuō)不清，道不明。有的幸福美滿，有的卻一生為情所困，為情所擾。愛(ài)情是天堂，也可能是地獄。而婚姻卻是一個(gè)平凡的世界，淡泊如水的狀態(tài)。愛(ài)情之花芬芳、美麗、甜美而又苦澀的。它是兩情相悅、相互愛(ài)慕、忠心不渝、牽手到老的結(jié)果。愛(ài)情是靠想象的，既充滿激情，又超越現(xiàn)實(shí)生活的。而婚姻靠的是智慧與務(wù)實(shí)。有人說(shuō)婚姻是愛(ài)情的墳?zāi)?，客觀來(lái)說(shuō)，它既不是天堂，也不是地獄。男女之間的情愛(ài)還是有所不同的，女性最大的優(yōu)點(diǎn)是，一旦愛(ài)上便會(huì)情深似海、矢志不移、專心致志的經(jīng)營(yíng)自己的愛(ài)情?？膳轮幨?，一旦受到傷害，非常容易走極端，情生癡，癡生妄，妄生怨，最后奇毒無(wú)比，無(wú)藥可醫(yī)。女性最大的弱點(diǎn)就是把愛(ài)情當(dāng)作人生的最大事業(yè)和精神支柱。她們結(jié)婚后很少有真正意義上的朋友，一旦自己的愛(ài)情支柱不牢固，極易受到毀滅性打擊，因?yàn)樗氖聵I(yè)就是愛(ài)情的決戰(zhàn)，家庭的保衛(wèi)，自己所有的青春年華與情感全部都投入到丈夫和家庭上，自然受到傷害最重，保衛(wèi)愛(ài)情，為情而戰(zhàn)是大多數(shù)女性的選擇。而男性卻不同，他們胸懷都比較大，有自己的事業(yè)，有各種各樣的交流，有朋友，更有三教九流，無(wú)所不有的“狐朋狗友”他們的情感世界已從家庭移出很多，但無(wú)論如何，大多數(shù)男性還是趕不上大多數(shù)女性對(duì)情感的專一。一旦男性受到傷害，一般都很理性，雖然轍亂旗靡、焦頭爛額，他們多數(shù)會(huì)選擇抱頭鼠竄、落荒而逃，就此而止，以待來(lái)年?yáng)|山再起。相對(duì)而言，他們受到的傷害要小得多，很快就會(huì)走出低迷。

愛(ài)情，純潔、鮮艷、美麗。而美好的婚姻卻不論時(shí)光如何流轉(zhuǎn)，不離不棄，相濡以沫，白頭到老，猶如陳年老酒一般 醇綿、清香、甜美，余味無(wú)窮。但愿人長(zhǎng)久，千里共嬋娟，愿天下有情人終成眷屬，一生幸福。

第三篇：婚姻與愛(ài)情 黃小山 演講稿

《婚姻與愛(ài)情》 黃小山

古代有位美女，她嫁給了一個(gè)矮、矬、窮。她整天站在窗邊以淚洗面，終于有一天，她與從樓下經(jīng)過(guò)的一個(gè)高富帥一見(jiàn)鐘情。她認(rèn)為，這才是她要找的愛(ài)情，她要擺脫舊的婚姻的枷鎖，于是她一狠心毒死了自己的丈夫。如果此事發(fā)生在今天，潘金蓮大可不必去殺人，她只要委托我做律師，打一個(gè)離婚訴訟即可解決。武大郎其實(shí)也用不著死了，興許他可能拿到一筆可觀的分手費(fèi)。潘金蓮為什么要?dú)⑺牢浯罄桑驗(yàn)樗J(rèn)為她與武大郎之間已經(jīng)不存在愛(ài)情了，而她和武大郎之間的婚姻成了她追求新的愛(ài)情的絆腳石。

三十多年前，我削尖了腦袋考入北大，研究法律、研究哲學(xué)，但至今其實(shí)我一直解不開(kāi)一個(gè)謎，那就是愛(ài)情究竟是個(gè)什么東東，婚姻又是個(gè)什么西西，而這個(gè)東東和這個(gè)西西之間又存在著怎樣的南南北北的關(guān)系。

我的人生經(jīng)歷和我的直覺(jué)告訴我，愛(ài)情其實(shí)是我們每一個(gè)人心中的一種信仰、一種向往、一種對(duì)真、善、美的追求，信則有、不信則無(wú)。什么海枯石爛，什么白頭到老，那不過(guò)是詩(shī)人的一種浪漫情懷和我們每一個(gè)人的自欺欺人。正所謂秀恩愛(ài)死得快，古往今來(lái)多少鉆石愛(ài)情到頭來(lái)都變成一盆狗血、一地雞毛。有時(shí)夫妻之間愛(ài)與不愛(ài)的轉(zhuǎn)換速度之快，讓我和我的小伙伴們都驚呆了。

那婚姻是什么，婚姻其實(shí)就是一種契約，你談戀愛(ài)，說(shuō)穿了就像是合同談判，你初吻是一種合同的意向，你交換定情物更像是一種合同定金，你結(jié)婚登記其實(shí)就是一個(gè)合同的簽訂，入洞房是合同的履行，離婚那是合同的解除。婚姻最大的敵人是什么？是欲望。人類的欲望與生俱來(lái)，無(wú)窮無(wú)盡，那么怎么辦？不停地去離婚，肯定不行，因此我們必須需要一個(gè)東西，一個(gè)精神層面的東西來(lái)控制我們的欲望，那這個(gè)東西就是誠(chéng)信和契約精神。

其實(shí)婚姻很簡(jiǎn)單，婚姻就是喂馬、劈柴，就是關(guān)心糧食和蔬菜，就是有一所房子面朝大海，春暖花開(kāi)。海子其實(shí)用他的生命為我們描繪了一幅非常溫馨的、真實(shí)的婚姻的畫(huà)面，海子是瘋癲的，他捧著兩本書(shū)《圣經(jīng)》和《瓦爾登湖》到長(zhǎng)城的起點(diǎn)去尋找愛(ài)情，而海子又是幸福的，當(dāng)他的身軀躺在長(zhǎng)城起點(diǎn)下，這片土地上的時(shí)候，當(dāng)他的頭顱枕在那冰冷的鐵軌上的那一刻，我相信，海子他找到了愛(ài)情。

《人性的力量》 黃小山

今天，我來(lái)到這里要跟大家談?wù)勅诵裕?dāng)下中國(guó)正處于一個(gè)轉(zhuǎn)型前的十字路口，我們遇到了很多很多的社會(huì)問(wèn)題，有人感慨我們正在進(jìn)入一個(gè)問(wèn)題時(shí)代，霧霾問(wèn)題、水污染的問(wèn)題、物價(jià)問(wèn)題、住房問(wèn)題、垃圾圍城問(wèn)題等等等等。

其實(shí)問(wèn)題多并不可怕，但可怕的是我們有一些人我們不能夠以一種客觀的態(tài)度、科學(xué)的態(tài)度、理智的態(tài)度對(duì)待這些問(wèn)題，而一味的、無(wú)端的罵、扯著嗓子罵、掄開(kāi)膀子罵，破口大罵，你還別說(shuō)，罵得出彩，你的人格就得到了提升，你的微博就平添了氣質(zhì)，你的粉絲就成千上萬(wàn)的增長(zhǎng)，你就儼然成了一個(gè)民間的意見(jiàn)領(lǐng)袖，這是一個(gè)多么荒唐的時(shí)代，一個(gè)靠罵人就可以成為英雄的時(shí)代。

有人辯解說(shuō)這是一種社會(huì)批判，我當(dāng)然不反對(duì)批判，但謾罵屬于批判嗎？批判它應(yīng)該是理智的產(chǎn)物，它應(yīng)該是邏輯的產(chǎn)物，它應(yīng)該是一種社會(huì)責(zé)任擔(dān)當(dāng)?shù)漠a(chǎn)物，而簡(jiǎn)單暴力的、形而上學(xué)的、別有用心的把所有的社會(huì)問(wèn)題全部地推給這個(gè)體制，全部地推給這個(gè)政府，充其量它只是一種宣泄，是一種仇恨的情緒，是一種嘩眾取寵，是一種沽名釣譽(yù)，是一種怯懦的偷懶的表現(xiàn)。

常識(shí)告訴我們，人才是組成一個(gè)社會(huì)的最基本的單位，有什么樣的人就有什么樣的社會(huì)，人心向善則社會(huì)向善，人心向惡則社會(huì)向惡，我一直有一個(gè)夢(mèng)想，那就是我們每一個(gè)中國(guó)人在早晨醒來(lái)的時(shí)候，在太陽(yáng)升起的時(shí)候，我們能赤裸裸地站在鏡子面前，我們直視我們自己的身體，我們手里拿著身份證，我們可以大聲地念出我們的名字，我們?cè)侔焉矸葑C翻過(guò)來(lái)，我們凝視那枚鮮紅的中華人民共和國(guó)的國(guó)徽，我們做一次良心上的、做一次靈魂層面的懺悔，我們捫心自問(wèn)，我們有生之年我們?yōu)檫@個(gè)社會(huì)我們究竟做了什么，我做了什么好事，我做了什么壞事，我是否孝敬了父母，我是否教育了孩子，我是否闖了紅燈，我是否欠了人家的錢沒(méi)還，我是否上公共廁所的時(shí)候把尿撒在了小便池子里，而離文明邁進(jìn)了一大步，做過(guò)這次懺悔，你會(huì)有一絲感動(dòng)，你會(huì)有一次慚悔，你會(huì)有強(qiáng)烈的羞恥感，那就對(duì)了，把你的臉洗得干干凈凈的，把你的胡子刮得干干凈凈的，把你的牙刷得干干凈凈的，我們自信地走出家門，給你的鄰居一個(gè)微笑，給每一個(gè)你遇到的陌生人一個(gè)微笑，給中國(guó)一個(gè)微笑，那時(shí)候我相信你的心中將充滿了正能量。

我突然想起了位于英國(guó)倫敦那聞名于世的威斯敏斯特大教堂，想到的那個(gè)教堂地下室里那塊既沒(méi)有名字，又沒(méi)有年代的普普通通的那塊墓碑，我記得碑文的大意是這樣：當(dāng)我年輕的時(shí)候，我年少輕狂，我想改變這個(gè)世界，當(dāng)我人到中年，我發(fā)現(xiàn)，我沒(méi)有能力改變這個(gè)世界，我只好向自己妥協(xié)，我只好退而求其次，我想改變這個(gè)國(guó)家，當(dāng)我人到老年，我發(fā)現(xiàn)我也沒(méi)有能力改變這個(gè)國(guó)家，我再次向自己妥協(xié)，我想改變我的家庭，但當(dāng)我躺在病床上奄奄一息、行將就木的時(shí)候，我回首一生，我碌碌無(wú)為，我突然意識(shí)到，如果當(dāng)初我沒(méi)有那么大的野心去改變這個(gè)世界、去改變這個(gè)國(guó)家、去改變這個(gè)家庭，而只是改變自己開(kāi)始的話，我也許已經(jīng)改變了自己，并改變了我的家庭，并通過(guò)我的家庭影響到鄰居，影響到國(guó)家，甚至世界。誰(shuí)知道呢？

阿基米德說(shuō)過(guò)，給我一個(gè)支點(diǎn)，我能撬起整個(gè)地球，今天此時(shí)此刻，我站在這里，我站在《超級(jí)演說(shuō)家》的舞臺(tái)上，我對(duì)你們說(shuō)，我大聲地對(duì)你們說(shuō)，撬起這個(gè)地球的支點(diǎn)，他不是某個(gè)領(lǐng)袖，他不是某個(gè)精英，他不是某個(gè)英雄，而是我們每一個(gè)人的心靈?！度ⅰ?黃澄澄

那天我和我的一個(gè)朋友去逛街買衣服，逛到一半他突然就把我拉住“黃澄澄，你能不能買點(diǎn)正經(jīng)衣服，你快三十歲的人了，你能不能別老帶著我跟你逛童裝？”誰(shuí)老帶著你逛童裝了，你看看我這張臉，你再看看我在誰(shuí)的隊(duì)上，你們說(shuō)，我這張臉像寫(xiě)著三十嗎？小志老師這張臉像寫(xiě)著三十九嗎？對(duì)呀，你才三十呢，你全家都三十，你們一小區(qū)都三十。雖然我嘴上這么說(shuō)，可是我腦海里突然烏云密布，瞬間飄來(lái)了四個(gè)大字，三十而立。哐當(dāng)一下砸在了我的頭上，對(duì)，我快三十了。

二十歲的時(shí)候，我曾經(jīng)幻想自己的三十歲那一定是才高八斗、風(fēng)度翩翩，張口專業(yè)名詞，閉嘴紳士微笑，走在街上所有的少女都為我傾倒，于是我快到了三十歲，我確定我二十歲時(shí)候的那個(gè)幻想，它真的就是個(gè)幻想。

有人可能會(huì)問(wèn)了，為什么三十歲這么不給力呢？很簡(jiǎn)單，在工作上老一輩的經(jīng)驗(yàn)?zāi)氵€沒(méi)有學(xué)完，年輕的新人們又加入了進(jìn)來(lái)，死死地把你拍在沙灘上。在戀愛(ài)上還是這樣，一些清純、漂亮的美眉們大部分都選擇嫁給了像黃小山這樣的怪叔叔，而那些比我稍微年長(zhǎng)的姐姐們她們則更喜歡像許豪杰那樣的小正太，最可氣的是，不管是大姐姐還是小美眉，她們都會(huì)跟我說(shuō)，我們都愛(ài)林志穎。

尷尬的三十歲，所以快到了三十歲的我，至今還是一事無(wú)成，光棍一根，面對(duì)這樣的尷尬，你總會(huì)聽(tīng)到很多這樣那樣的聲音告訴你，你的三十歲應(yīng)該是什么樣。趕緊找個(gè)媳婦吧，成家立業(yè)，才是三十而立；趕緊掙點(diǎn)錢吧，有了房子、車子、票子，這才是三十而立；趕緊拿個(gè)冠軍吧，有了成績(jī)，有了成績(jī)才是三十而立。

這些就真的是三十而立嗎？一天在一個(gè)酒局上，我和我的朋友們?cè)谝粔K喝酒聊天，酒過(guò)三巡之后，我們開(kāi)始談人生、談理想、談戲劇，最后聊到了夢(mèng)想，可是當(dāng)夢(mèng)想這兩個(gè)字剛剛脫口而出的時(shí)候，我旁邊一個(gè)三十好幾事業(yè)成功的朋友拍案而起，“夢(mèng)想，等會(huì)等會(huì)，什么是夢(mèng)想，我告訴你們，夢(mèng)想就像是內(nèi)褲，你要不是超人你就別把它露出來(lái)?！?/p>

酒局散去，我回到我那個(gè)三十平米的大房子里，我翻來(lái)覆去地想，我這兒正準(zhǔn)備迎接人生最重要的一個(gè)十字路口呢，怎么夢(mèng)想就變成內(nèi)褲了呢？難道我就真的要按照別人說(shuō)的那樣，去完成我自己的三十歲嗎？不，李嘉誠(chéng)在三十歲的時(shí)候只是一個(gè)家庭作坊的小老板，齊白石在三十歲的時(shí)候還只是一個(gè)木匠，馬云在三十歲的時(shí)候也只是一個(gè)英語(yǔ)老師，一個(gè)月靠翻譯只能掙到幾百塊錢，但是他們?cè)谌畾q的時(shí)候絕對(duì)沒(méi)有想到房子、車子、票子，就算是成功，他們想到的是唯有堅(jiān)持自己的道路，把夢(mèng)想做到極致獲得的成功，才是最大的成功。我和他們一樣，三十歲的時(shí)候沒(méi)有什么成就，至今我還每天開(kāi)著我的小破車滿北京的找劇組，發(fā)我的小簡(jiǎn)歷。有時(shí)候我真的有想過(guò)要放棄，我迷失過(guò)，我彷徨過(guò)，我流過(guò)汗，我流過(guò)淚，我甚至流過(guò)血。而快到了而立之年的我，從來(lái)沒(méi)有像現(xiàn)在一樣如此堅(jiān)定，三十，就是一個(gè)新的開(kāi)始，三十而立，就像是一盞明燈，照亮我前行的方向。有話好好說(shuō)》 李林

站在《超級(jí)演說(shuō)家》這個(gè)舞臺(tái)上，我來(lái)的主要目的很簡(jiǎn)單兩個(gè)字：說(shuō)話。說(shuō)話人人都會(huì)，但是為什么要站在這聽(tīng)我們說(shuō)話，是因?yàn)槲覀兊脑捈纫f(shuō)的能讓你明白什么意思，還要好聽(tīng)，最重要的是做電視還不讓你各位換臺(tái)，說(shuō)實(shí)話這太不容易了，所以說(shuō)話是門學(xué)問(wèn)。由于我工作的原因每天很晚起床，老不吃早飯，我媽就無(wú)休止的嘮叨我，那天我一起來(lái)我媽把早飯已經(jīng)準(zhǔn)備好了一杯牛奶、一杯橙子、一包餅干，當(dāng)時(shí)我就哭了呀，我那么困我起來(lái)吃早餐，為了堵住我們家老太太的嘴呀。我說(shuō)“媽，嘛呢，糊弄我呢，啊，我是你親兒子啊，你就讓我吃這個(gè)，我身上流的可是你的血，知道嗎？”我們家老太太不緊不慢的跟著來(lái)一句，“呦，怎么著少爺，這會(huì)兒想起來(lái)您身上流的是我的血了，昨晚上咬我那蚊子身上流的還是我的血呢?！本锼牢伊耍椰F(xiàn)在才知道，我這種伶牙俐齒、巧舌如簧，能把人噎死的這種功力是來(lái)自我媽給我的遺傳基因。

隨著我們年齡的增長(zhǎng)，還有閱歷的增加，當(dāng)我們有了輕快的語(yǔ)速，優(yōu)美的語(yǔ)音，還有縝密的邏輯思維之后，就真的算是會(huì)說(shuō)話了嗎？就真的算是，能用語(yǔ)言表達(dá)一切情感了嗎？不盡然，我父母在我很小的時(shí)候就離異了，大概在我五歲的時(shí)候，我媽媽一個(gè)人帶著我，孤兒寡母在我姥姥家居住，那時(shí)候媽媽每天中午去單位上班要帶著自己做的中午飯，我記得很清楚她那天早上又帶我去上學(xué)，頭一天夜里北京下了大雪，第二天早上一起來(lái)地上結(jié)了一層薄薄的冰，我媽依然裝上午飯，把我扔在自行車后頭，騎著自行車就送我上學(xué)去了，騎到北京銀錠橋的時(shí)候，那是一個(gè)石質(zhì)的拱橋，大理石的橋面。在下坡的時(shí)候非常的滑，我媽一捏閘，連我?guī)覌尵腿映鋈チ?，?dāng)時(shí)好多人圍觀，我媽媽并沒(méi)有過(guò)來(lái)哄我，她干的一件事是把她摔散了在一地的飯盒，我記得很清楚有火腿腸斂吧斂吧連雪帶泥，帶我媽的午飯就全都、全都塞進(jìn)了飯盒里，然后把我扔上自行車帶著我就上學(xué)去了。這時(shí)候，整個(gè)過(guò)程大家注意到了嗎，我們倆并沒(méi)有一句話的交流，但有的時(shí)候說(shuō)話的那種交流真的那么重要嗎？

很多年以后，我媽媽把我撫養(yǎng)成人，她自己一個(gè)人過(guò)著不管她有多難，情感上的、工作上的，她都沒(méi)跟我抱怨過(guò)一聲，但是前兩天我媽給我來(lái)一電話，說(shuō)“兒子，我想跟你聊會(huì)天。”我說(shuō)“聊唄。”能聊出什么來(lái)。當(dāng)我媽把電話拿起來(lái)開(kāi)始跟我滔滔不絕的說(shuō)那一刻，我傻了，我從來(lái)沒(méi)見(jiàn)過(guò)我媽那么脆弱，也從來(lái)沒(méi)有見(jiàn)過(guò)我媽那么無(wú)助。她說(shuō)最近生活里發(fā)生了很多事，她實(shí)在是接受不了，平常那個(gè)巧舌如簧、伶牙俐齒、八面玲瓏的我一時(shí)一句話也說(shuō)不出來(lái)，最后我憋呀，我憋了半天我跟我媽說(shuō)了一句話，我說(shuō)“媽，甭說(shuō)了，不管發(fā)生什么事，你還有兒子。”你還有兒子五個(gè)字，我覺(jué)得它把我能說(shuō)的所有話全都裝在里面了，它比任何的伶牙俐齒、巧舌如簧都有力量。

我真的在想一個(gè)問(wèn)題，我們?nèi)诉@一生從生到死需要用兩到三年的時(shí)間學(xué)會(huì)說(shuō)話，而學(xué)會(huì)閉嘴，聽(tīng)別人說(shuō)話需要60年。在這個(gè)喧囂的社會(huì)里，有的是人會(huì)說(shuō)話，有的是人會(huì)教別人說(shuō)話，有的是人會(huì)去做星座分析、性格分析去教別人，但真的你就會(huì)說(shuō)話嗎？真的，你不覺(jué)得有的時(shí)候我們說(shuō)得越多卻離自己的親人和朋友越來(lái)越遠(yuǎn)嗎？

我很困惑、我很苦惱，因?yàn)槲矣X(jué)得包括我自己在內(nèi)，我們要學(xué)會(huì)有的時(shí)候閉嘴，我的閉嘴不是說(shuō)不說(shuō)話，而是說(shuō)用心去聽(tīng)別人說(shuō)話，用心的去說(shuō)自己要說(shuō)的話，因?yàn)閺男牡桌锇l(fā)出來(lái)的聲音才是最有力量的，一位中國(guó)古人說(shuō)的好，言為心聲。

第四篇：跨國(guó)婚姻 英文演講稿

Transnational marriage With the development of the world, everything is changing, including people'smind,one respect is transnational marriage.What is the transnational marriage? The transnational marriage could easily be used to describe a marriage between two people of different races, like between a Chinese and an American.In the 19th century, transnational marriage was illegal in most states in the US,in 1967, the landmark Supreme Court case, Loving V.Virginia, put an end to legal discriminationin transnational marriage.Today this phenomenon has became more and more popular, our presentation is going to talk about this phenomenon, mostly about the marriage between two people of difference races, especially about a Chinese and a foreigner.The famoustransnationalmarriage

Marriage is a romantic and pure, as famous people, stars also have their marriage, some of them aretransnational marriage, and now let me introduce them.1、Wei Wei(韋唯)&Michael Joseph Smith December23，1995，Michael Joseph Smith watched a Chinese sing show, when he knewWeiWei, quickly,they fell in love.In 1994, they got married in The Kingdom of Sweden, and they had three sons in five years.It looks hopeful, but the marriage ended in 2004,because of Michael Joseph Smith'sCharacter and the different culture.2、Bruce Lee(李小龍)& Linda Emery March 27, 1961, Bruce lee came to America, and learned in Washington University, during the university, they were acquainted, and fell in love.Finally, they dropped out of the university, and got married in august 12,1963.Later, they worked together, and had two children, a son and a daughter.Their life are full of sunshine, unfortunately, Bruce Lee leave the world in 1973, Even it, their marriage still is a successful transnational marriage.3、Ning Jing(寧?kù)o)&Paul Kersey

In 1996，movie Red River Valley come out, people knew the actress, Ning Jing, she became a star, and she was known the actor Paul Kersey by the movie, After a very short period of time, they completed the married, and they have a son.In 1998, they acted the film Yellow River Love.Form then, Ning Jing started to stay at home to look after their son, but she still wanted to work, she had a contradiction with her husband.In 2011, Ning Jing recognized she has ended the marriage, because of the different culture.As the famous marriage, more and more in the world, such as Liu Ye(劉燁)and his French girlfriend, Deng We Di(鄧文迪)and Rupert Murdoch, Jiang Wen(姜文)and his French wife, and so on.But in the end, most transnational marriage ended up with a failure, a few couple hasa successful life.The different attitudes towards transnational marriage How do people think about this phenomenon? There are some different answers from them.I conclude some main reasons about two different sides, Supporter or Opponent.In opponent opinion, transnational marriages can cause many problems within the family.First the couple has a different family background, culture, and tradition, eating habits, especially the religion, many disagreements can occur.Second, the language is important for communicate, but in the transnational marriage, the couple use the different language, the barrier for communication has brought a lot of trouble, Third, about the children, they grow in a family including two and more culture, it can be challenging in accepting both cultures at the same time.How to teach the child right thinking is the general problem for the transnational family.Finally and foremost, most people call transnational marriage“worship and have blind faith in foreign things”, because of the traditional culture, they cannot accept transnational marriage, so in fact, most people object the transnational marriage, now that a marriage which no people understand and support, it must be failed.On the other hand, in supporter opinion, it isn?t trouble, it is chance.First as the member of the transnational family, you can experience a new lifestyle, pursue a better welfare services, say goodbye to the past, even have a mixed-race baby, it is a nice life.Second, International marriages can promote knowing about different cultures and customs, even if different language.Third, you and your children will have the chance to learn a new language.Of course, finally and foremost, purpose of marriage is for love rather than for the family, if the couples understand each other, no barrier exists between them.My opinion for transnational marriage In my opinion, there is no distinction between right and wrong.In fact, the understanding of transnational marriage is not like what we see as the terrible and mysterious, only a person marriedanother personwho from a different country.Since the choice is a two-way and double-pass, it also needs more humility, tolerance, play and responsibilities, if they understand each other, why object the transnational marriage? As for our attitude, I think we should give more respect and understanding.It is said by Tagore that love is an endless mystery, for it has nothing else to explain it.True love is inclusive cross each other?s cultural habits and eating habits, mutual tolerance, mutual adaptation.Love is the greatest refreshment in life, loving a person is difficult, but giving up the person you loved is more difficult than it, so if you sincerely love a person, please accompany her forever.Thank you!

第五篇：愛(ài)情與婚姻的名人名言

愛(ài)情與婚姻的名人名言

1、經(jīng)常聽(tīng)說(shuō)男人味女人味，你知道男人味是一種什么味道，女人味又是一種什么味道嗎？男人味就是豁達(dá)勇敢，女人味就是溫柔體貼。

2、有時(shí)候，我們活得很累，并非生活過(guò)于刻薄，而是我們太容易被外界的氛圍所感染，被他人的情緒所左右。行走在人群中，我們總是感覺(jué)有無(wú)數(shù)穿心掠肺的目光，有很多飛短流長(zhǎng)的冷言，最終亂了心神，漸漸被縛于自己編織的一團(tuán)亂麻中。其實(shí)你是活給自己看的，沒(méi)有多少人能夠把你留在心上。

3、有人說(shuō)戀愛(ài)要找自己喜歡的人，結(jié)婚要找喜歡自己的人，都是片面的。戀人不喜歡自己有什么可戀的？老婆自己不喜歡怎么過(guò)一輩子？

4、離開(kāi)之后，我想你不要忘記一件事：不要忘記想念我。想念我的時(shí)候，不要忘記我也在想念你。

7、戀愛(ài)的時(shí)間能長(zhǎng)盡量長(zhǎng)。這最少有兩點(diǎn)好處：一，充分，盡可能長(zhǎng)的享受戀愛(ài)的愉悅，婚姻和戀愛(ài)的感覺(jué)是很不同的。二，兩人相處時(shí)間越長(zhǎng)，越能檢驗(yàn)彼此是否真心，越能看出兩人性格是否合得來(lái)。這樣婚后的感情就會(huì)牢固得多。

8、相逢，不是恨晚，便是恨早。

9、初戀都讓人難忘，覺(jué)得美好。為什么？不是因?yàn)樗ㄋ┖芷粱蚝軒?，也不是因?yàn)榈貌坏降木褪呛玫?，而是因?yàn)槿顺跎鎼?ài)河時(shí)心里異常純真，絕無(wú)私心雜念，只知道傾己所有去愛(ài)對(duì)方。而以后的愛(ài)情都沒(méi)有這么純潔無(wú)瑕了。純真是人世間最為可貴的東西。我們渴求的就是她。

10、承諾本來(lái)就是男人與女人的一場(chǎng)角力，有時(shí)皆大歡喜，大部份的情況卻兩敗俱傷。

11、魅力是什么？魅力不是漂亮，漂亮的女人不一定能吸引我，端莊幽雅的女人我才喜歡。所以你不用擔(dān)心自己不夠漂亮。

12、你愛(ài)我嗎？已經(jīng)愛(ài)到危險(xiǎn)的程度了，危險(xiǎn)到什么程度？已經(jīng)不能一個(gè)人生活。

13、如果情感和歲月也能輕輕撕碎，扔到海中，那么，我愿意從此就在海底沉默、、、你的言語(yǔ)，我愛(ài)聽(tīng)，卻不懂得，我的沉默，你愿見(jiàn)，卻不明白、、、14、不但要用眼睛，也要用耳朵去選擇愛(ài)人。——柏拉圖