第一篇:趁著年輕,一定要多出去走走勵(lì)志美文
我有個(gè)習(xí)慣,做什么事情都喜歡提前一點(diǎn)時(shí)間做準(zhǔn)備,比如上班,我總喜歡提前十分鐘到。而路上的這段時(shí)間總讓我感覺(jué)到快活和自由。下班路上的這段時(shí)間也是,我會(huì)晚一點(diǎn)離開(kāi),我似乎越來(lái)越喜歡一個(gè)人行走。
越來(lái)越覺(jué)得只有獨(dú)處的時(shí)候,才會(huì)覺(jué)得自己是自由的,才會(huì)覺(jué)得時(shí)間是自己的。
中年人,不想變得越來(lái)越油膩。不想被閨蜜摸著肚子說(shuō)哎呦,看你這肚皮松弛的!不想打掃衛(wèi)生時(shí),滿屋都是脫落的頭發(fā)。
可是賺錢(qián)的能力跟不上野心奔跑的速度,越來(lái)越多的焦慮充滿內(nèi)心。
在知乎上看到過(guò)這樣一句話,所謂自由,不是你喜歡做什么就做什么,而是你不喜歡做什么就不做什么。
上學(xué)的時(shí)候我特別羨慕上班,在我看來(lái),上班族們做著自己喜歡的事情,還能有錢(qián)賺,賺了錢(qián),想去哪里去哪里,想買(mǎi)什么買(mǎi)什么,這樣的自由真是羨煞我也!
可是后來(lái)上班了,才明白,原來(lái)事實(shí)并非是我想的那樣。原來(lái)上班遲到會(huì)被罰,完不成業(yè)績(jī)會(huì)丟臉,做錯(cuò)事情會(huì)承擔(dān)責(zé)任。原來(lái),工作后的自由也是有條件的。原來(lái),在哪里都是一樣,要付出努力才會(huì)得到自己想要的。
曾經(jīng)看到年輕的情侶秀恩愛(ài),看電影,送花,西餐廳約會(huì)。于是對(duì)愛(ài)情充滿了美好的幻想。后來(lái)自己有了男朋友,原來(lái)除了花,除了電影,還會(huì)有爭(zhēng)吵,還會(huì)有柴米油鹽,還會(huì)有我喜歡吃蘋(píng)果,而你只會(huì)送我香蕉。
原來(lái),愛(ài)情里的自由都是相對(duì)的,因?yàn)檎剳賽?ài)不僅是兩個(gè)人的事,還是兩種觀念,兩個(gè)家庭的事。
日常生活就更不用說(shuō)了。
我先生老張說(shuō)過(guò)這樣一句話,到了我們這個(gè)年齡,很多喜好情緒都學(xué)會(huì)了被掩藏,不會(huì)輕易顯于臉上。
因?yàn)槌赡耆说氖澜缋镉辛烁嗬鏍砍逗蜕钚枰?/p>
于是,自由顯得更加難得!
于是我們自己的時(shí)間被擠的越來(lái)越少,自己的思想越來(lái)越多的沉淀于心底。
以前,流行過(guò)一句話,有錢(qián)的時(shí)候沒(méi)時(shí)間,有時(shí)間的時(shí)候沒(méi)錢(qián)。一直沒(méi)能體會(huì)到這是怎樣的一種生活。
后來(lái),工作了,于是懂了,我們不再是依靠爸媽的孩子了,我們開(kāi)始要靠自己生活!于是,為了生活,我們有著越來(lái)越多的身不由己,越來(lái)越多的面具需要時(shí)刻帶著。
生活和自身的無(wú)奈也讓我們明白,可以不做自己不想做的事情,是多么自由的一件事!
越來(lái)越多的時(shí)候,想讓自己的生活慢下來(lái)。想讓心慢慢的靜下來(lái),于窗前泡一壺茶,聽(tīng)雨打芭蕉的聲音,看落葉隨風(fēng)緩緩飄起又落下。
渴望這樣慢下來(lái)的自由與灑脫,于塵世中找一處慢地方安放自己那顆躁動(dòng)的渴望自由的心!
可是這樣的時(shí)刻在這個(gè)不自由的時(shí)代越發(fā)顯得難得。
前輩們常說(shuō),趁著年輕,一定要多出去走走,看看外面的世界,體驗(yàn)一下不一樣的生活,不要糾結(jié)于眼前的得失。
心里始終是明白,所謂的不自由,始終是內(nèi)心的責(zé)任使然。我們不得不去面對(duì)那些不自由,因?yàn)槲覀円白?,因?yàn)槲覀冞€渴望更多的美好出現(xiàn),因?yàn)槲覀兿嘈?,未?lái)有更多有意義的事情等著我們。
我們要告訴自己,一切都會(huì)往好的方向發(fā)展,總有一天,我們會(huì)享受著心靈的自由,迎面有風(fēng)輕拂!
第二篇:你一定要幸福情感美文
走出房門(mén)時(shí)候沒(méi)有看到星星,耳機(jī)來(lái)傳來(lái)陶喆的歌,
“昨天已來(lái)不及 /明天就會(huì)可惜 /今天你要嫁給我 /聽(tīng)我說(shuō)/ 手牽手/ 我們一起走/ 把你一生交給我/ 昨天不要回頭/ 明天要到白首 /今天你要嫁給我 ”
我不知道那個(gè)男生是否唱著煽情的情歌,是否捧著玫瑰顫抖地出現(xiàn)在你面前單膝跪地說(shuō)要娶你,我一廂情愿幻想著你們決定此后相伴的那天是什么樣子,他是什么樣子而你又是什么樣子,是滿眼淚滴還是水到渠成的自然順其,不知道,來(lái)不及知道。
你遇到了命中注定的那個(gè)男子,走到他身旁,貼著他的胸膛。
打開(kāi)記憶的匣子,好似嗅到了陽(yáng)光的味道,那個(gè)揣著簡(jiǎn)單心事的小姑娘披上婚紗,嘴角微微上揚(yáng)成了新娘。相識(shí)一場(chǎng),朋友一場(chǎng),我已經(jīng)錯(cuò)過(guò)你們的婚禮,想著好好去說(shuō)一聲祝福的時(shí)腦汁絞盡也想不出貼切的詞來(lái),最后新婚快樂(lè)也被我自己憋壞在心里,沒(méi)有說(shuō)出去。幸好祝福那么多,好多老朋友去了你的婚禮,即使缺了我這一個(gè)也已經(jīng)圓滿。
也許以后不再有那些時(shí)候,剛遇到你的時(shí)候,你不經(jīng)意指著雜志上的蜻蜓圖片問(wèn)我它們會(huì)不會(huì)死掉,我說(shuō)會(huì),然后你就難過(guò)了好久;你也不會(huì)捧著裝有金魚(yú)的一次性杯子逼著老尹給它去一個(gè)好聽(tīng)的名字;再也不會(huì)一邊心驚膽戰(zhàn)然后又小心翼翼去刻意接觸我口中那個(gè)孤單產(chǎn)生幻覺(jué)的高一女孩;不會(huì)神秘兮兮地說(shuō),張冬成,你說(shuō)好看的那個(gè)姑娘我認(rèn)識(shí)還有聯(lián)系方式,想要嗎?不會(huì)再一個(gè)人在足球場(chǎng)旁的樹(shù)林里難過(guò),失落地告訴我那天是你生日,他不在。
不會(huì)再有,張冬成,我想喝酒在貴陽(yáng),也不會(huì)再有,張冬成,我要結(jié)婚了,你要來(lái)參加我的婚禮嗎?
人總喜歡這樣,一步步走,忙碌著自以為的忙碌,等靜下來(lái)回憶的時(shí)候才發(fā)現(xiàn)錯(cuò)過(guò)了很多真摯的感情,我們想去挽救卻已經(jīng)來(lái)不及像歌里唱著,當(dāng)你發(fā)現(xiàn)時(shí)間是賊了,他早已偷光你所有選擇。
時(shí)間永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)停留著某一天的白天或者晚上,只是在這樣的夜里聽(tīng)到這樣的情歌,想著啊,那個(gè)整天嚷嚷著不要長(zhǎng)大的小冬妹要嫁人了,感嘆著剛要成熟就要老去,時(shí)光好不經(jīng)用。
如果哪天能為你帶走一絲憂傷,我愿意回到你認(rèn)識(shí)我的所有時(shí)候。愛(ài)本身是一種信仰,也許我并不是一個(gè)很好的歌頌者,卻愿意為你們歌唱。
愿你們?cè)谝院蟮娘L(fēng)雨途中,好好恩愛(ài),好好的相攜,好好地體諒,好好相待,好好寬容,好好情深似海。
冬妹,一定會(huì)幸福。要好好的。
第三篇:英語(yǔ)勵(lì)志美文一
短文1.Luck and Hard Work運(yùn)氣和努力
Good evening, Ladies and Gentlemen,I believe that everyone here wants to be successful in life.But how can we succeed?
Nowadays, it is generally believed among young people that success comes from luck.They believe it in love, in examinations and even in promotion.But in fact, success depends on knowledge and hard work.You can get whatever you dream of if you work hard enough.Even if you may fail sometimes, you your fate lies in your own hands.Your future also lies in your own hands.As long as you put your heart into your work, you will realize all your dreams.It’s diligence, not good luck that can bring you success in your life and career.Luck doesn't come alone.It goes hand in hand with knowledge and hard work.Shallow men(膚淺的人)believe in luck.Hard work is the first secret of success.短文2.Happiness Is Your Own Choice選擇快樂(lè)你就快樂(lè)
Most of us compare ourselves with anyone we think is happier, a relative, someone we know a lot, or someone we hardly know.As a result, what we do remember is anything that makes the other happy and anything that makes ourselves unhappy, totally forgetting that there is something happy in our own life.So the best way to destroy happiness is to look at something and focus on even the smallest flaw.It is the smallest weakpoit that would make us complain.And it is the complaint that leads us to become unhappy.If one chooses to be happy, he will be blessed.Happiness is just what you think will make you happy.短文3.How to live a productive life 如何過(guò)豐富的生活
Ladies and gentlemen,Today I’m going to talk about how to live a productive life.Every day is a gift, even days that are difficult or days you feel down.Appreciate every day.Learn something new every day.Do something to improve yourself every day.Don’t delay.Don’t let your dreams die.Don’t waste time.Just do it.Life is too short to waste even one single day.If you live every day fully and productively, you’re bound to succeed.Remember, yesterday is a memory, tomorrow is a dream, live for today.Thank you for your listening!
短文4.Key Factors to Success成功的關(guān)鍵因素
No doubt, everyone wishes to be successful in life.But most success depends on three factors: diligence, devotion, and perseverance.The first key factor is diligence.Diligence can help us remove ignorance and overcome difficulties.It can make a fool wise ,and a poor man rich.If we are diligent now, we will surely be successful in the future.Devotion, which means the concentration of our mind and effort in doing things, is another key factor to success.Whatever job we are doing ,we must love it and do it heart and soul.Only when we set our minds on the job can we do it well.Furthermore, perseverance is also necessary for any success.If we study or work day after day, there is nothing that cannot be achieved.Without a strong will, on the other hand, we are likely1
to give up when we meet difficulties.To conclude, all great men achieve success through diligence, devotion and perseverance.Just as the famous English saying goes, “No pains, no gains.”
短文5.Making Friends交友
Everyone needs friends.One relies on his friends for a lot of help during his lifetime.Friends not only help you through difficulties and hardships but also share your joys.Without friends one feels lonely.In order to make friends one should reach out first instead of just waiting.When you open your heart to others, you will find many people who have goals, tastes and interests, similar to yours.And your circle of friends grows.If one is always concerned about other people and helps them in tough times, they will certainly become his good friends.A good friend is helpful while a bad friend may be harmful.As distance tests a horse's strength, so does time reveal a person's heart.A long-term contact with someone will tell you who is a loyal friend and who is not.短文6.Increasing your enthusiasm提高你的熱情
Most men aren’t born great--they become great.Similarly, not everyone is the enthusiastic type that falls in love with their work.However, do not despair, there are ways to become more passionate.One good way to increase your enthusiasm is by reading about successful people.Reading successful stories will help you realize that you too can make things happen.Real success stories often show that people much like yourself have become leaders in every field.In most cases, they all share one trait: enthusiasm.If you want to succeed, you should be excited about your work, your life and your co-workers.It is impossible to succeed without enthusiasm,短文7.Making Choices 選擇
Throughout our lives, we are faced with choices: choices in schools, in careers, in personal and so on.Sometimes the decision is clear, and we can look ahead optimistically and say,“ I hope that everything will work out.” At other times, the decision is not clear.We go to others for advice, asking those around us, “What would you do if you were in my position?” and we ask ourselves, “What if I did this or did that?”
Eventually we make the choice.Some are good choices, and some are bad ones.Some choices bring happiness and satisfaction while others bring regrets: “I wish I hadn't done that.” “If I had known better, I would never have done that.”
Living with a good choice is easy, while living with a bad choice can be difficult.Yet as we evaluate ourselves and our actions each day, each of us has the opportunity to look forward or to look backward, to be optimistic or to be pessimistic.短文8.On Confidence論自信
As we all know, “Failure is the mother of success.” But I just want to say “Success is the baby of confidence.”
First of all, confidence makes us happier in our life.Life is like a wonderful song, a bright and colorful painting.If confidence is with us in our life, we will find that life really becomes richer and more interesting.Then, confidence makes us brave and courageous.If we lack confidence in ourselves, how can
we overcome difficulties we meet with? If we have no confidence in ourselves, how can we succeed in developing ourselves in the future? Without confidence, nothing can be accomplished.That is to say, if you want to win, you have to believe in yourself.Finally, I would like to use the following words as our mutual encouragement: “If you think you can, you can.”
短文9.Never ,Never Give Up永不放棄
We often hear people say,“Never give up.”These are encouraging words that give a person determination.A person who believes in them will keep trying to reach his goal no matter how many times he fails.In my opinion, determination to succeed is an important quality to have.Therefore, I believe that we should never give up.One reason is that if we give up too easily, we will rarely achieve anything.It is not unusual for us to fail in our first attempt at something new, so we should not feel discouraged and should try again.Another reason we should never give up is that we can learn from our mistakes only if we stick to making an effort.If we do not try again, the lesson we have learned is wasted.If we never challenge ourselves, we will begin to doubt our abilities.In short ,it is important that we do not give up when working towards our goals.Whether we succeed in the end or not ,we will learn something, and what we learn will help us to become better, more confident people.Furthermore ,if we give up ,we have no chance of achieving our goals ,but if we keep trying ,there is always a chance that we will succeed one day.短文10.Facing and Solving Problems 面對(duì)問(wèn)題 9
Life is difficult.Life is sometimes extremely tough.It is a great truth because once we truly understand and accept it, then life is no longer difficult.Most people complain about their problems and difficulties as if life should be easy.It seems that their difficulties represent a special kind of suffering especially forced upon them or upon their families, their class or their work.What makes life difficult is that the process of facing and solving problems is a painful one.Problems, depending on their nature, can cause sadness, loneliness, regret, anger or fear in us.These are uncomfortable feelings, often as painful as any kind of physical pain.And since life causes an endless series of problems, life is always difficult and is full of pain as well as joy.Yet, it is in this whole process of solving problems that life has its meaning.短文11.How to Stay Young 永遠(yuǎn)年輕的奧秘
1.The tears happen.Endure, grieve4, and move on.The only person who is with you your entire life, is yourself.Be alive while you are alive.人都會(huì)流淚哭泣。忍受了,傷痛了,人生還要繼續(xù)前行。惟一與你相伴一生的人是你自己?;钪鸵谢盍?。
2.Surround yourself with what you love, whether it's family, pets,music, plants, hobbies, whatever.Your home is your shelter.讓你的所愛(ài)環(huán)繞著你,家人、寵物、音樂(lè)、花草樹(shù)木、業(yè)余愛(ài)好,只要你喜歡的,什么都行。家就是你的庇護(hù)之所。
3.Cherish your health: If it is good, preserve it.If it is unstable, improve it.If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.珍惜健康。如果身體健康,就保持好;如果時(shí)好時(shí)壞,就改善它;如果改善不了,就尋求幫
助。
4.Don't take guilt trips.Take a trip to the mall, to the next county, to a foreign country, but NOT to where the guilt is.不要活在內(nèi)疚悔恨的陰影里。去商場(chǎng)逛逛,去鄰近的縣郡看看,到外國(guó)旅游觀光一下,但不要踏足內(nèi)疚悔恨之所。
短文12Time flies!時(shí)間飛逝
Many people value their time more than anything else in the world.Once time is gone it can never be replaced.This makes time more valuable than money.Time is precious.Nobody can afford to waste time.Once time has gone by, it will never return.You can never turn the clock back.Time passes very quickly.People say time flies.Time and tide wait for no man.We should, therefore, make the best use of our time.If you can manage your time well, you will have a successful life.短文13Is money the road to happiness?錢(qián)與幸福
In modern society, quite a few people make money the target for their lives’ pursuit as they believe money is the road to happiness.I don't agree with this opinion.Of course without money we can not buy what we need in daily life.But money doesn't mean everything in the world, especially happiness.There are many factors contributing to happiness.Those who have too much money are not necessarily living a happy life while those who are lack of money may be happier than them.People say that money is the root of evil.It is true to some extent.Sometimes money can drive people crazy and kill them.In that case how can we say money is the road to happiness?
第四篇:關(guān)鍵時(shí)候,一定要保持鎮(zhèn)靜美文
有一個(gè)人去外國(guó)旅游,在經(jīng)過(guò)隧道入口的時(shí)候,以為這個(gè)地方交通警察管不到,于是大著膽子穿過(guò)去。這個(gè)時(shí)候,他發(fā)現(xiàn)一個(gè)警察在不遠(yuǎn)處慢慢地跟隨著,卻沒(méi)有上前來(lái)制止他。
他心想:嘿,那說(shuō)明他不在意。于是,他自在而悠閑地走了過(guò)去。
結(jié)果當(dāng)他走到對(duì)面時(shí),警察迅速上前對(duì)他說(shuō):“先生,對(duì)不起,你違反了交通規(guī)則,請(qǐng)接受處罰?!?/p>
他很奇怪,這是為什么?
警察溫和地說(shuō):“那是因?yàn)椋遗麓舐曋浦鼓?,你?huì)驚慌失措。而你在穿行隧道,列車(chē)隨時(shí)會(huì)開(kāi)過(guò)來(lái),那是非常危險(xiǎn)的。所以,以后請(qǐng)你一定要小心??!”
游客嚇出一身冷汗,卻對(duì)警察萬(wàn)分感激,從此他再也不敢違反規(guī)則。
我忽然想起小的時(shí)候,在鄉(xiāng)下的水井邊玩,那是一個(gè)很深的井,有十多米深,掉下去,是很難救起的。遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)的,母親看見(jiàn)了,她萬(wàn)分驚恐,但是她一點(diǎn)聲音也沒(méi)發(fā)出,慢慢地、偷偷地靠近,在距離非常近的時(shí)候,才一把把我抱下來(lái)。
在我成年之后,母親提及這個(gè)故事,用了一句話來(lái)概括:關(guān)鍵時(shí)候,一定要保持鎮(zhèn)靜。
這讓我一輩子刻骨銘心,鎮(zhèn)靜是多么可貴的一種品質(zhì),它直接影響到了生命。
無(wú)數(shù)次在你面臨危難的時(shí)候,它能夠使你從容地過(guò)關(guān)。
第五篇:一定要遠(yuǎn)離海水的誘惑美文
他是一個(gè)苦命的孩子,母親早逝,只留下他和父親相依為命。
父親為了他,每天都在拼命掙錢(qián),含辛茹苦送他念大學(xué)。大學(xué)畢業(yè)后,他幸運(yùn)地在一個(gè)大銀行找到了一份工作。這份工作是令人羨慕的,不僅收入豐厚,還相對(duì)穩(wěn)定。他計(jì)劃著讓父親早日退休,好安享晚年。
可是,命運(yùn)跟他們開(kāi)了一個(gè)殘酷的玩笑:在他們的生活剛剛走上正軌的時(shí)候。父親在一次例行體檢中,被查出身患肝癌,幸好只是早期,需要立刻動(dòng)手術(shù)。
手術(shù)需要一大筆錢(qián),他拿出了家里的所有積蓄,借遍了身邊能找到的親戚朋友,卻還差數(shù)萬(wàn)元錢(qián)。他急得六神無(wú)主,不知道該怎么救自己親愛(ài)的父親。他從沒(méi)有像現(xiàn)在這樣急切地需要錢(qián),而在他的身邊,每天觸手可及的全是錢(qián)。
當(dāng)然,那錢(qián)不屬于他,都是別人的,是銀行替儲(chǔ)戶(hù)們保管的。以前,敬業(yè)的他只當(dāng)那些鈔票是自己桌子上的“辦公用品”,跟鉛筆、橡皮沒(méi)什么兩樣。他每天輕松坦然地經(jīng)手管理著他人的萬(wàn)貫家財(cái),心里沒(méi)有一點(diǎn)感覺(jué)。
可是,現(xiàn)在不一樣了,這些花花綠綠的紙,是他最想要的東西,它們能救父親一命??!
那天,他用顫抖的手制作了一張假存折,神不知鬼不覺(jué)地把3萬(wàn)元錢(qián)轉(zhuǎn)移到了自己的戶(hù)頭。
晚上,他立刻把那些錢(qián)送到了醫(yī)院。父親看著他,問(wèn)他錢(qián)是從哪里來(lái)的。他支支吾吾,半天說(shuō)不出話來(lái)。
父親長(zhǎng)嘆一聲,說(shuō):“兒子,我給你講個(gè)故事吧……”
在我年輕的時(shí)候,我當(dāng)過(guò)海員,走過(guò)很多地方。有一次,我們的船遇上暴風(fēng)雨沉沒(méi)了,我和兩個(gè)船員爬上了一個(gè)橡皮筱得以逃生。我們?cè)诤I掀髁藘商欤恢睕](méi)看到陸地,眼前只有無(wú)邊無(wú)際的大海??时瑞I更折磨人,我們身邊全是水,但我們都知道,含有大量鹽分的海水是不能喝的,喝下一升的海水,就必須排出體內(nèi)兩升的水分,越喝只會(huì)越渴。
“在渴到極點(diǎn)的情況下,那些看上去跟淡水毫無(wú)區(qū)別的海水,對(duì)我們真是一個(gè)巨大的誘惑。我們都在極力忍耐,但那個(gè)最小的船員沒(méi)能堅(jiān)持下去,明知道喝下海水的后果,他還是選擇了用海水去暫時(shí)解救干渴的喉嚨。最終,在我和另一個(gè)船員還可以虛弱地向終于趕來(lái)的救援人員啞聲呼喊的時(shí)候,那個(gè)喝了海水的船員,已經(jīng)在幾個(gè)小時(shí)前脫水死掉了……”
“旁人根本無(wú)法想象,在那樣嗓子冒煙的困境中,身邊那些海水的誘惑有多大,大到明知道喝了會(huì)死,還忍不住要喝??墒?,我們也正是抵抗住了誘惑,忍耐下來(lái),才得以活命?!?/p>
“我的孩子,現(xiàn)在,我們父子倆就像是回到了那個(gè)橡皮筏上。這也許是最艱難的境地,但是,你要記住,堅(jiān)持住,別喝那些海水,因?yàn)槟切┱T惑會(huì)把你拖進(jìn)不可救贖的深淵,唯有冷靜地忍耐,清醒地堅(jiān)持,才能讓我們走出困境,擺脫災(zāi)難?!?/p>
他靜靜地聽(tīng)著,對(duì)父親說(shuō)“我知道了?!?/p>
第二天,他帶著那筆錢(qián)去找了領(lǐng)導(dǎo),把一切原原本本地說(shuō)了出來(lái)。他作好了被處理被辭退的準(zhǔn)備,但出乎他的意料,領(lǐng)導(dǎo)沒(méi)有追究他的責(zé)任,還在大會(huì)上請(qǐng)大家給他父親捐款。
父親最終在這些好心人的幫助下順利做了手術(shù),恢復(fù)了健康。多年后,他成了這家銀行的行長(zhǎng),在每年單位招聘一批新人的時(shí)候,他都會(huì)給這些年輕人講一節(jié)課,名字就叫“海水的誘惑”。