第一篇：父母越溺愛孩子越叛逆 12種溺愛表現(xiàn)你有幾種

父母越溺愛孩子越叛逆 12種溺愛表現(xiàn)你有幾

種？

對于多數(shù)獨(dú)生子女家庭來說，培養(yǎng)孩子的獨(dú)立人格實(shí)屬不易。以下表現(xiàn)不是每個家庭全部都有，但是一般家庭在各種溺愛中會占有幾種，或各種都有輕度表現(xiàn)也是值得警惕的，我們要以科學(xué)的愛來保護(hù)孩子的健康成長。

“孩子還小，等他(她)長大了再??”這是很多爸爸媽媽或爺爺奶奶愛說的話，這就是溺愛的常見表現(xiàn)之一——放任自由。湖北兒童心理專家石淑華指出，溺愛行為表現(xiàn)為有求必應(yīng)(孩子想要什么就給什么)、害怕哭鬧(孩子一哭就滿足他的要求)、越俎代庖(成人包辦所有事，無論孩子自己能不能做)、心領(lǐng)神會(大人猜測小孩的心思)、過分關(guān)注(大人圍著小孩子轉(zhuǎn))、小題大做(小疼痛大人當(dāng)是大事緊張得不得了)、不讓勞動(將勞動當(dāng)成懲罰或不讓孩子勞動)、賞識過度(表揚(yáng)過度)、當(dāng)面袒護(hù)、懲罰不當(dāng)、剝奪獨(dú)立(總覺得不放心，覺得孩子必須得到陪護(hù))。

“這12種溺愛的表現(xiàn)，若存在超過8種，就要警惕了，說明家長存在溺愛，對孩子將來的發(fā)展不利?！笔缛A稱，放任自由會養(yǎng)成孩子不好的習(xí)慣，長大了再改很難；有求必應(yīng)勢必導(dǎo)致孩子將來自私任性，得到再多也覺得理所當(dāng)然；家長害怕孩子哭鬧，孩子就會以哭作為達(dá)到目的的工具而屢試不爽；越俎代庖下，孩子隨著年齡增長的能力就會被扼殺；家長愛心領(lǐng)神會，孩子平時不用表達(dá)自己想法，智力發(fā)展就會滯后；過分關(guān)注孩子，一旦失去關(guān)注，孩子就容易沮喪、心理不平衡；小題大做讓孩子認(rèn)為小事都是不得了的大事；不讓勞動讓孩子變成懶人，小時候不勤快，別指望長大了會變勤快；賞識過度會讓孩子非獎賞不作為；當(dāng)面袒護(hù)讓孩子是非不分；剝奪獨(dú)立，該放手時不放手，孩子就會有依賴性，扼殺了孩子的潛力。

第二篇：父母溺愛孩子現(xiàn)象英語

To love or to spoil

There is no denying that the parents are loving their children, but the way to express the love is different from person to person.From two pictures, the parents provide what the child wants to have at the first time.I think that is not a true love.For many years, the “one couple, one child” policy has been carried out in China and it has proved to be an effective way to control the rapid

growth of the population in our country.The only child becomes the center of the family.Many parents spoil their children and ignore the education which is truly benefit for their children?s growing.when the spoiled children grow up, many of them greatly disappoint their parents.Some of them even commit crimes.Who should be blamed? I think parents should teach their children to bear hardships and tell them the correct way to communicate with others.Only by correct education, can the children be useful in the future.as is shown/indicated/illustrated by the figure/percentage in the _____ has been on rise/ decrease(goesup/increases/drops/decreases),significantly/dramatically/steadily rising/decreasing from______ in _______ to ______ in _____.From the sharp/marked decline/ rise in the chart, it goes withoutThere are at least two good reasons accounting for ______.On the one hand, ________.On the other hand, _______ is due to the fact that ________.In addition, ________ is responsible for _______.Maybe there are some other reasons to

show ________.But it is generally believed that the above mentioned reasons are commonly convincing.As far as I am concerned,I hold the point of view that _______.I am sure my opinion is both sound and well-grounded.

第三篇：家長溺愛孩子10大典型表現(xiàn)

家長溺愛孩子10大典型表現(xiàn)

[導(dǎo)讀]當(dāng)今做父母的大都知道溺愛孩子有害，但卻分不清什么是溺愛，更不了解自己家里有沒有溺愛。

“溺”，詞典上解釋為“淹沒”的意思。人被水淹沒了叫“溺斃”，如果父母的愛流橫溢泛濫起來，那也會“淹沒”孩子的，這就是溺愛，是一種失去理智，直接摧殘兒童身心健康的愛。以下10種溺愛的形式是比較典型的實(shí)例：

1.特殊待遇

孩子在家庭中的地位高人一等，處處特殊照顧，如吃“獨(dú)食”，好的食品放在他面前供他一人享用；做“獨(dú)生”，爺爺奶奶可以不過生日，孩子過生日得買大蛋糕，送禮物??這樣的孩子自感特殊，習(xí)慣于高人一等，必然變得自私，沒有同情心，不會關(guān)心他人。

2.過分注意

一家人時刻關(guān)照他，陪伴他。過年過節(jié)，親戚朋友來了往往嘻笑逗引沒完，有時候大人坐一圈把他圍在中心，一再歡迎孩子表演節(jié)目，掌聲不斷。這樣的孩子自認(rèn)為自己是中心，確實(shí)變成“小太陽”了。家里人都要圍著他轉(zhuǎn)，并且一天到晚不得安寧，注意力極其分散，“人來瘋”也特別嚴(yán)重，甚至客人來了鬧得沒法談話。

3.輕易滿足

孩子要什么就給什么。有的父母還給幼兒和小學(xué)生很多零花錢，孩子的滿足就更輕易了。這種孩子必然養(yǎng)成不珍惜物品、講究物質(zhì)享受、浪費(fèi)金錢和不體貼他人的壞性格，并且毫無忍耐和吃苦精神。

4.生活懶散

允許孩子飲食起居、玩耍學(xué)習(xí)沒有規(guī)律，要怎樣就怎樣，睡懶覺，不吃飯，白天游游蕩蕩，晚上看電視到深夜等。這樣的孩子長大后缺乏上進(jìn)心、好奇心，做人得過且過，做事心猿意馬，有始無終。

5.祈求央告

例如邊哄邊求孩子吃飯睡覺，答應(yīng)給孩子講3個故事才把飯吃完。孩子的心理是，你越央求他他越扭捏作態(tài)，不但不能明辨是非，培養(yǎng)不出責(zé)任心和落落大方的性格，而且教育的威信也喪失殆盡。

6.包辦代替 我曾問一些媽媽，要不要求孩子勞動，有的竟說：“我疼都來不及，還忍心讓孩子勞動？”也有的說：“叫“小東西”做事更麻煩，還不如我?guī)退隽??！彼匀臍q的孩子還要喂飯，還不會穿衣，五六歲的孩子還不做任何家務(wù)事，不懂得勞動的愉快和幫助父母減輕負(fù)擔(dān)的責(zé)任，這樣包辦下去，必然失去一個勤勞、善良、富有同情心的能干、上進(jìn)的孩子。這決不是聳人聽聞。

7.大驚小怪

本來“初生牛犢不怕虎”，孩子不怕水，不怕黑，不怕摔跤，不怕病痛。摔跤以后往往自己不聲不響爬起來繼續(xù)玩。后來為什么有的孩子膽小愛哭了呢？那往往是父母和祖父母造成的，孩子有病痛時表現(xiàn)驚慌失措，嬌慣的最終結(jié)果是孩子不讓父母離開一步。這些孩子就打下懦弱的烙印了。

8.剝奪獨(dú)立

為了絕對安全，父母不讓孩子走出家門，也不許他和別的小朋友玩。更有甚者，有的孩子成了“小尾巴”，時刻不能離開父母或老人一步，摟抱著睡，偎依著坐，馱在背上走；含在嘴里怕融化，吐出來怕飛走。這樣的孩子會變得膽小無能，喪失自信，養(yǎng)成依賴心理，還往往成為“把門虎”，在家里橫行霸道，到外面膽小如鼠，造成嚴(yán)重性格缺陷。

9.害怕哭鬧

由于從小遷就孩子，孩子在不順心時以哭鬧、睡地、不吃飯來要挾父母。溺愛的父母就只好哄騙，投降，依從，遷就。害怕孩子哭鬧的父母是無能的父母；打罵爸媽的孩子會變成無情的逆子，在性格中播下了自私、無情、任性和缺乏自制力的種子。

10.當(dāng)面袒護(hù)

有時爸爸管孩子，媽媽護(hù)著：“不要太嚴(yán)了，他還小呢?！庇械母改附毯⒆樱棠虝境鰜碚f話：“你們不能要求太急，他大了自然會好；你們小的時候，還遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)沒有他好呢！”這樣的孩子當(dāng)然是“教不了”啦！因?yàn)樗珶o是非觀念，而且時時有“保護(hù)傘”和“避難所”，其后果不僅孩子性格扭曲，有時還會造成家庭不睦。

以上的實(shí)例不是每個家庭全部都有的，但是一般家庭在各種溺愛中會占有幾種，或各種都有輕度表現(xiàn)也是值得警惕的，我們要以科學(xué)的愛，來保護(hù)孩子的健康成長。

第四篇：英語作文素材：有關(guān)父母溺愛孩子

有關(guān)父母溺愛孩子的話題

Parents love their children by nature, where Chinese mothers and fathers are no exceptions.Chinese parents tend to dote on their children because each family is allowed to have only one kid due to birth control.They place too much hope on the treasured child that if he wants the star, they might even climb to pick it.For self-centered, the spoiled children depend on their parents for everything.As a result, once confronted with harsh reality, they are more likely to yield to hardships and difficulties in life.

第五篇：英語四級作文父母對孩子溺愛

Nowadays many parents have a common sense that their children are so precious to them so they always try their best to give their children a happy and meaningful life.Therefore, an increasing number of parents spoil their children and do everything for them, even control their life.For example, many children have to obey their parent' s idea about which school they should go into after they graduating;some children must go to art class like dancing, piano and paint even though they have no interest in them;what' s more, some strict parents even involve children' s freedom about what friends they should make.On one hand, these parents care and protect their children, however, on the other hand they may do harm to their children.As far as I am concerned, in is necessary that parents should give their children more space and freedom so that their children may become more independent.For instance, children could do something they like, so they may be much more active and responsible.What' s more, it is also a good way to let their children study in a boarding school for children must face something by their own, such as, their relationship with friends and student, their study and busy life and so on.A good case in point, parents may encourage their children to take part-time jobs during summer or winter holiday.By doing this, I believe, these children may become more independent, brave and responsible.In summary, spoiling children is no right.Parents should know better that an independent, responsible and brave person is able to adapt society better.