第一篇：里根婚后情書(shū)

里根婚后情書(shū)

杰拉德·加沃特

婚后51年的日子里，里根每年都要在結(jié)婚紀(jì)念日給妻子寫(xiě)一封信。這種不同尋常的通信持續(xù)了四十余年，即使里根患上老年癡呆癥之后，他仍然堅(jiān)持給南希寫(xiě)信，直到他連自己的妻子都認(rèn)不出來(lái)了為止。親愛(ài)的Mommie Poo：

2月14日是情人節(jié)，它只是為那些不算太幸運(yùn)的人而準(zhǔn)備的節(jié)日。從1952年3月4日以來(lái)，我就一直在過(guò)情人節(jié)。只要有你，每天都是我的情人節(jié)。你知道這對(duì)我的意義有多大嗎？親愛(ài)的，告訴我你能永遠(yuǎn)做我的瓦倫丁嗎？我愛(ài)你如我的生命，所以只能選擇和你一起生活。Poppa

1960年2月14日

我親愛(ài)的第一夫人：

在我們結(jié)婚15周年紀(jì)念日的早上，我看著你睡在我身旁，腦中有個(gè)奇怪的想法：為什么別人才把你當(dāng)作“第一夫人”？事實(shí)上，15年以來(lái)我一直把你當(dāng)作我的第一，而且是唯一。

15年時(shí)光倏忽而過(guò)，我們的韶華已逝。這并不可怕，唯一讓我感到遺憾的是那些日子里，當(dāng)我醒來(lái)時(shí)，發(fā)現(xiàn)你不睡我身旁。親愛(ài)的，我要問(wèn)，為什么每次你睡著時(shí)看起來(lái)都像只有5歲？可能是我只有15歲——在看到你之前，我仿佛不曾活過(guò)。

感謝你帶給我的生活，帶給我這個(gè)世上最大的快樂(lè)。

我很愛(ài)你，而且越來(lái)越愛(ài)。

你的丈夫

1967年3月4日

親愛(ài)的：

昨晚，我們互相打了電話。我一天沒(méi)有工作，把時(shí)間都用在改寫(xiě)理查德·赫布勒給我撰寫(xiě)的傳記上了。明天是我最后一天外景拍攝，我會(huì)給你打電話告訴你我多么愛(ài)你。我是認(rèn)真的。

無(wú)論邁克決定拿錢(qián)買(mǎi)他的第一輛汽車(chē)還是買(mǎi)運(yùn)動(dòng)衣，這都不重要。我們都希望他能夠走上獨(dú)立生活的道路，靠自己賺錢(qián)養(yǎng)活自己。最重要的是，我們對(duì)子女們都盡到了做父母的責(zé)任。在經(jīng)濟(jì)方面，我們對(duì)他們從小謹(jǐn)慎教管，沒(méi)有讓他們依靠在我們的財(cái)產(chǎn)上。你知道你在睡覺(jué)時(shí)會(huì)把手卷握起來(lái)放在下巴下嗎？很多次早上天剛蒙蒙亮，我醒來(lái)看著躺在身邊的你，就這么一直看著，一直到最后我忍不住伸出手來(lái)輕輕地觸摸你，我不想把你弄醒——但是，我實(shí)在忍不住想撫摸你。

想象一下：我發(fā)現(xiàn)自己喜歡安·布萊思（美國(guó)女演員），因?yàn)樗退哪腥擞幸恍┖臀覀兿嗨频牡胤健乃麄兩砩?，你就能明白?dāng)一個(gè)人深?lèi)?ài)上另一個(gè)人到底是什么樣子，就像我把手伸出來(lái)越過(guò)大山、穿過(guò)沙漠，直接來(lái)到我們的房間，在壁爐前把你的手抓起。

可能這封信會(huì)在幾個(gè)小時(shí)內(nèi)到你那邊。在我到達(dá)你身邊之前，我想對(duì)你說(shuō)說(shuō)我的心里話。我相信我的想法不需要用紙、墨和郵票等任何東

西就能夠到達(dá)你那邊。如果我感到痛苦，那是因?yàn)槲覀儽舜朔蛛x。但是，我們不曾真正分開(kāi)過(guò)，你在我體內(nèi)，是我的一部分。我也確實(shí)感到痛苦，這是因?yàn)槲也荒芑钤跊](méi)有你的世界，因?yàn)槲覑?ài)你。你的丈夫

1963年5月24日

第二篇：婚后的情書(shū)寫(xiě)法

有的人認(rèn)為，一旦愛(ài)情之花燦爛地開(kāi)過(guò)，婚姻之果已高懸枝頭，等待采擷之時(shí)，作為表達(dá)愛(ài)情的情書(shū)，便無(wú)多大存大的必要了。這是一種錯(cuò)誤的看法。愛(ài)情的路還很漫長(zhǎng)?；楹?，如果不是好好駕駛你們的愛(ài)情小舟，倆個(gè)人的世界隨時(shí)都會(huì)出現(xiàn)裂痕。

感情的交流永遠(yuǎn)必要，不論是用書(shū)面形式——情書(shū)，還是口頭形式——情話，永遠(yuǎn)都是重要的。

常見(jiàn)一些戀人，熱戀時(shí)情話綿綿，關(guān)懷備至。可是婚后，似乎熱戀時(shí)已把話說(shuō)盡，說(shuō)的話語(yǔ)簡(jiǎn)煉到驚人的程度：“飯做好了嗎？”“該睡覺(jué)了?！?/p>

調(diào)查研究的結(jié)果顯示：許多男女認(rèn)為，一旦成為夫妻了，都是自家人了，他愛(ài)我，我愛(ài)他，是天經(jīng)地義的事，不必天大掛在口頭上。因此，一反戀愛(ài)時(shí)的親密和熱烈，婚后感情的表達(dá)，交流愛(ài)意，成了扭扭怩怩、很不自在的事。使得一些人驚嘆：“婚姻是愛(ài)情的墳?zāi)梗　?/p>

其實(shí)，婚后的感情交流，其重要性不亞于婚前。夫妻間應(yīng)當(dāng)隨時(shí)隨地相立交流思想、感情，甚至是各自瞬時(shí)靈感火花。決不要不好意思，決不要怕重復(fù)、怕羅嗦，決不要扭扭怩怩。愛(ài)情之花在婚后更要細(xì)心地照料，否則，它能由于主人的疏忽而枯萎。許多離婚者的故事，已經(jīng)給我們提供了這方面有力佐證！

即使結(jié)了婚，也不應(yīng)該忘了你的好朋友、老朋友一一情書(shū)，它是不應(yīng)該“退休”的！此類(lèi)情書(shū)例子參考 明倩：結(jié)婚兩年來(lái)，我還從未出過(guò)門(mén)、離開(kāi)過(guò)你，沒(méi)想到這一次就跑得這么遠(yuǎn)。

前天，你送我上車(chē)時(shí)，我看到你眼中含著淚水。盡管你臉上露著笑容向我揮手，我仍然看出你內(nèi)心若有所失。也許我們愛(ài)得過(guò)于纏綿了，以致雖夫妻多時(shí)卻仍同熱戀時(shí)一樣難分難舍，其實(shí)我也一樣，想到要我和的愛(ài)妻分別那么久，心中覺(jué)得茫然。有人說(shuō)，愛(ài)人之間在分別之后重聚，會(huì)產(chǎn)生更深的感情，增添新的樂(lè)趣，不知是否確切。

在火車(chē)上，坐在我對(duì)面是一對(duì)戀人。那姑娘的一對(duì)眼睛烏黑烏黑，睫毛很長(zhǎng)，真是非常漂亮非常的像你。我看著她，就像在認(rèn)認(rèn)真真地看你一樣。還記得嗎？在我們戀愛(ài)的時(shí)候，我時(shí)常會(huì)對(duì)你的眼睛發(fā)呆，然后由衷地贊嘆。真是美得令人吃驚，即使天才的畫(huà)家也畫(huà)不出這么動(dòng)人的眼睛來(lái)，只有上帝才能創(chuàng)造出這無(wú)與倫比的杰作。

其實(shí)我會(huì)那么輕而易舉地成為你的俘虜，拜倒在你的石榴裙下，也是因?yàn)槟隳请p眼睛。當(dāng)我第一次看見(jiàn)它時(shí)，我的心就像被電擊了一樣產(chǎn)生劇烈的震顫，從此我就不屬于自己了。

回想起來(lái)，你當(dāng)初一定認(rèn)為我這人很“無(wú)賴(lài)”，就像涂了膠水一樣粘住你不放。有一回你說(shuō)：你這人怎么盯勁這么足，耐性這么好。我說(shuō)：我這人生來(lái)倔犟，認(rèn)準(zhǔn)了之后，不達(dá)目的決不罷休。

有時(shí)候我也覺(jué)得，我妻子是讓我盯來(lái)的。也許一開(kāi)始你對(duì)我并無(wú)什么好感，只是認(rèn)為我這人沒(méi)有什么好也沒(méi)有什么不好，后來(lái)是因?yàn)槲义浂鴤€(gè)舍受了感動(dòng)，才答應(yīng)和我交往。當(dāng)然再后來(lái)，你也愛(ài)上了我，離不開(kāi)我了，對(duì)嗎？

親愛(ài)的，你知道當(dāng)我們領(lǐng)取結(jié)婚證書(shū)時(shí)，我有多么自豪和得意，因?yàn)槲胰⒘耸澜缟献詈玫墓媚镒髌拮樱幸浑p可以令天下男子都著迷的眼睛，是我擁有了她而不是別人，我能不驕傲嗎？從那天起我就發(fā)誓，我要使你終生幸福，我要為她貢獻(xiàn)一切。

我不知道我們共同生活的這兩年中你的感覺(jué)如何。我們之間是不爭(zhēng)不吵的?？晌乙部吹贸瞿阌袝r(shí)也流露出一種憂愁，這種情緒是因?yàn)槲业哪赣H。

我母親是個(gè)老派婦女，腦子中的傳統(tǒng)習(xí)俗觀念比較濃厚。最壞的毛病是喜歡嘮叨，用自己的行為準(zhǔn)則來(lái)評(píng)判別人。

我知道，你是很敏感很聰明的，你能從我母親的話里聽(tīng)出對(duì)你埋怨。只是因?yàn)槟愕拇蠖?、忍讓?zhuān)挪划?dāng)她的面反駁，你總是用充耳不聞來(lái)應(yīng)付那種尷尬局面。因此我心中一直非常感激你。如果你也喜怒于色，很可能導(dǎo)致你與母親的爭(zhēng)執(zhí)，婆媳之間只要有一次爭(zhēng)執(zhí)，就會(huì)產(chǎn)生再也無(wú)法解開(kāi)的結(jié)，那么，我們家將被卷入無(wú)休止的雞零狗碎的爭(zhēng)吵中去，我也將會(huì)為了當(dāng)“救火隊(duì)員”而疲于奔命。

明倩，我可以告訴你，母親雖然“嘴臭”，其實(shí)她是很喜歡你的。她常在我面前夸你比嫂嫂懂事，也能干。她有時(shí)的嘮叨，不是因?yàn)椴粷M意你，完全是因?yàn)閮纱说牟町惡臀幕尘暗牟煌Ｋ晕蚁Ｍ阍谟X(jué)得委屈時(shí)，能寬宏大量地諒解她。事實(shí)上你已經(jīng)這么做了。

親愛(ài)的，已經(jīng)深夜了，我在這遙遠(yuǎn)的地方伸臂擁抱你，熱烈親吻你，就像在家中那樣……。

永愛(ài)你的裕國(guó)×月×日

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真：我真后悔又與你吵架了，其實(shí)我已不知多少次地告誡過(guò)自己：再也別對(duì)你大聲嚷嚷，可不知怎么總是克制不往自己。

用你的話說(shuō)，我已經(jīng)變了，完全不同于戀愛(ài)時(shí)對(duì)你那么親呢溫柔了，你說(shuō)我心中已沒(méi)有了你，也沒(méi)有孩子，當(dāng)然也沒(méi)有這個(gè)家，因此你感到傷心和失望。

我真不知道怎樣向你解釋這一切。我又何嘗不想每天下班都能早早地回到家中，和你度過(guò)那美好的黃昏和夜晚呢？特別是在這初秋季節(jié)，風(fēng)吹在身上涼涼爽爽的，天是那么高，月是那么明，帶著孩子去外面散散步，會(huì)是何等舒適啊。

可是不能啊，我總是有沒(méi)完沒(méi)了的工作，不是外出接待客人和采訪，就是把自己關(guān)在書(shū)房里寫(xiě)稿。一個(gè)星期中，我最多只能和你們一起看一次電視。

我的妻，我十分理解你的心境。作為一個(gè)女人。你具有一顆細(xì)膩的心，對(duì)生活有一種美好的向往。所有的女人在同自己心愛(ài)的男人結(jié)婚時(shí)都編織過(guò)幅未來(lái)生活的圖景，她們希望生活永遠(yuǎn)是充滿浪漫色彩和詩(shī)情畫(huà)意的；她們希望自己的丈夫永遠(yuǎn)能像熱戀時(shí)一樣對(duì)自己一往情深，卿卿我我，纏纏綿綿，朝夕廝守；他們把愛(ài)情看作是一種具體的實(shí)實(shí)在在的行為，這種行為是眼能見(jiàn)耳能聽(tīng)手能摸的。

但是生活遠(yuǎn)非像我們希望的那么輕松浪漫，它總和我們的期望相差一段距離。生活有時(shí)是相當(dāng)無(wú)情和苛刻的。它不允許我們沉緬在夫妻的甜甜蜜蜜中，它迫使我們放棄許多享受去進(jìn)行艱苦奮斗，尤其當(dāng)我們想要不斷地改善自己的生活條件時(shí)，我們必須作出某些犧牲。生活的準(zhǔn)則就是：有得就有失。

一般來(lái)說(shuō)，男人總是把事業(yè)放在第一位的，除非他是一個(gè)無(wú)所事事的庸人。熱戀時(shí)，男人也許會(huì)因?yàn)橐@得自己心愛(ài)的女人而全身心地投入到愛(ài)情之中，一旦結(jié)婚之后，他們往往又會(huì)從沉緬已久的愛(ài)海中冒出頭來(lái)，急切地游向被冷落了的事業(yè)之舟。當(dāng)他翻身上船之后，他似乎脫離了海水，開(kāi)始冷靜地操縱起漿來(lái)。于是，有些女人便把這現(xiàn)象看作一種背叛或冷落：但是，我的妻，你想過(guò)沒(méi)有：即使你的丈夫坐在事業(yè)之舟里，那舟不仍漂蕩在愛(ài)海上嗎？你和他之間確是有了一層間隔，但他畢竟沒(méi)有登岸，離你而去呀！

男人身上肩負(fù)著一種使命感，當(dāng)他有了家時(shí)，他必須理智地為這個(gè)家爭(zhēng)得最好的榮譽(yù)和前程，他所持的是宏觀的目光，因此也就少了對(duì)家的關(guān)照，這難道不能諒解嗎？

如果要你的丈夫做到你所需求的是再容易不過(guò)的。但是這一來(lái)，我們將失去多少呢？要是我放棄了對(duì)事業(yè)的追求，我肯定可以活得輕松些。當(dāng)我被勞累拖得眼皮發(fā)痛，腿腳發(fā)軟時(shí)，我多么想撒手不干了啊。特別是當(dāng)你抱怨我的時(shí)候，我更是何苦呢？

然而，我總是不敢停下來(lái)。許多成就，要獲得是難而又難，要半途而廢卻易如反掌。如果我真的躺倒不干，得過(guò)且過(guò)，我又如何對(duì)得起自己，對(duì)得起你和孩子呢？

我的精力是有限的，顧了這頭，對(duì)那頭就會(huì)少關(guān)心些。這些便是你不滿意的原因。為此，我希望你能真正理解我、體諒我。

你千萬(wàn)別認(rèn)為我對(duì)你的愛(ài)有了變化。你應(yīng)該懂得，真正的愛(ài)情來(lái)之下易，要改變它也是不容易的。夫妻間只有保持一種相互的信任和諒解，彼此的感情才能經(jīng)受住任何考驗(yàn)。

真，讓我們從此不再彼此抱怨，攜手并進(jìn)吧。我們會(huì)損失一些東西，同時(shí)我們也肯定會(huì)得到一些東西，你說(shuō)對(duì)嗎？熱烈的吻你

你的丈夫慶祥×月×日

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碧嬌：想不到生活竟讓我也體驗(yàn)上了“人去樓空”的滋味，實(shí)在有說(shuō)不出的懊喪。

重新當(dāng)起“單身漢”，卻…快樂(lè)”不起來(lái)。我們的分離是我們自己促成的，是一，種奮發(fā)圖強(qiáng)和追求時(shí)髦相匯涌的浪潮推著走到這一地步的，里面有自覺(jué)的追求，也有盲目的憧憬，心甘情愿和無(wú)可奈何交織在一起，使我怨不得天，怨不得地，眾人面前還不敢流露相思之苦。

我也激動(dòng)過(guò)、興奮過(guò)，可現(xiàn)在，情緒卻好不起來(lái)。說(shuō)實(shí)話，從當(dāng)初一開(kāi)始為你辦出境手續(xù)時(shí)，我就不時(shí)夾雜著絲絲縷縷的失意感，只是當(dāng)時(shí)來(lái)不及也不愿意去正面想它。

此時(shí)，別離成為現(xiàn)實(shí)之后，茫然若失的意識(shí)緊緊攫住了我。你身居異鄉(xiāng)獨(dú)為客，我不要說(shuō)幫忙，連你周?chē)沫h(huán)境也無(wú)法想象一二，叫人如何不憂慮？同時(shí)，我還要忍受由于你的離去所帶來(lái)的種種煎熬?；丶液罂帐幨幍姆块g，床顯得特別大讓人無(wú)法安穩(wěn)入睡。

在相當(dāng)長(zhǎng)一段時(shí)間里，我已無(wú)法正?？磿?shū)寫(xiě)作。記得有文章介紹過(guò)一位畫(huà)家，作畫(huà)時(shí)一定得妻子陪著，哪怕妻子在旁織毛衣揀青菜都行，只要妻子一離開(kāi)，他的靈感就沒(méi)了。確實(shí)，周?chē)鷽](méi)人走動(dòng)，沒(méi)有嘮叨，沒(méi)了以前那些令我厭煩的干擾，人反而靜不下來(lái)了。

人們總喜歡津津樂(lè)道愛(ài)情與事業(yè)的矛盾，其實(shí)，這要么失之偏頗，要么是矯揉造作。從宏觀意義上說(shuō)，愛(ài)情不應(yīng)該也不可能是事業(yè)的羈絆，它給人的愉悅、感奮的力量是無(wú)法代替的。

過(guò)去我也曾對(duì)愛(ài)這個(gè)怪物做視過(guò)，可現(xiàn)在我愿匍匐在它的腳下，對(duì)它頂禮膜拜，并且深為像我過(guò)去一樣而現(xiàn)在仍然執(zhí)迷不悟的人感到遺憾，這點(diǎn)上，我要深深地感謝你。

在我們新婚燕爾之時(shí)，我們似乎從來(lái)沒(méi)有想到還會(huì)有勞燕分飛之日，關(guān)于“永不分離”的悄悄話也說(shuō)過(guò)不止一次?？梢荒曛?，我們就分開(kāi)了，分得那么遠(yuǎn)，當(dāng)中隔了個(gè)浩瀚的太平洋。

我現(xiàn)在最為擔(dān)心的，還是你的心理承受能力和生活適應(yīng)能力。不少歸來(lái)的人都說(shuō)過(guò)，那里的世界是人類(lèi)感情的沙漠，每個(gè)人都緊緊裹住自己，從不過(guò)問(wèn)旁人的事，這或許是現(xiàn)代文明的標(biāo)志，它可以省卻許多無(wú)事生非的流言蜚語(yǔ)。但對(duì)一個(gè)舉目無(wú)親的異鄉(xiāng)人來(lái)說(shuō)，未免太冷酷了。

不過(guò)這些都不是最重要的，最重要的是不要忘記了我。記住你的“駱駝樣子”，他將伴你度過(guò)不眠之夜，在夜闌人靜時(shí)聽(tīng)你的叨叨絮語(yǔ)，幫你一起走過(guò)這片開(kāi)闊地。貪婪地親你、抱你

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第三篇：婚后的情書(shū)寫(xiě)法

有的人認(rèn)為，一旦愛(ài)情之花燦爛地開(kāi)過(guò)，婚姻之果已高懸枝頭，等待采擷之時(shí)，作為表達(dá)愛(ài)情的情書(shū)，便無(wú)多大存大的必要了。這是一種錯(cuò)誤的看法。愛(ài)情的路還很漫長(zhǎng)?；楹螅绻皇呛煤民{駛你們的愛(ài)情小舟，倆個(gè)人的世界隨時(shí)都會(huì)出現(xiàn)裂痕。

感情的交流永遠(yuǎn)必要，不論是用書(shū)面形式——情書(shū)，還是口頭形式——情話，永遠(yuǎn)都是重要的。

常見(jiàn)一些戀人，熱戀時(shí)情話綿綿，關(guān)懷備至?？墒腔楹?，似乎熱戀時(shí)已把話說(shuō)盡，說(shuō)的話語(yǔ)簡(jiǎn)煉到驚人的程度：“飯做好了嗎？”“該睡覺(jué)了?！?/p>

調(diào)查研究的結(jié)果顯示：許多男女認(rèn)為，一旦成為夫妻了，都是自家人了，他愛(ài)我，我愛(ài)他，是天經(jīng)地義的事，不必天大掛在口頭上。因此，一反戀愛(ài)時(shí)的親密和熱烈，婚后感情的表達(dá)，交流愛(ài)意，成了扭扭怩怩、很不自在的事。使得一些人驚嘆：“婚姻是愛(ài)情的墳?zāi)梗　?/p>

其實(shí)，婚后的感情交流，其重要性不亞于婚前。夫妻間應(yīng)當(dāng)隨時(shí)隨地相立交流思想、感情，甚至是各自瞬時(shí)靈感火花。決不要不好意思，決不要怕重復(fù)、怕羅嗦，決不要扭扭怩怩。愛(ài)情之花在婚后更要細(xì)心地照料，否則，它能由于主人的疏忽而枯萎。許多離婚者的故事，已經(jīng)給我們提供了這方面有力佐證！

即使結(jié)了婚，也不應(yīng)該忘了你的好朋友、老朋友一一情書(shū)，它是不應(yīng)該“退休”的！

第四篇：里根就職演說(shuō)

美國(guó)歷屆總統(tǒng)就職演說(shuō)（里根）

Second Inaugural Address of Ronald Reagan MONDAY, JANUARY 21, 1985 Senator Mathias, Chief Justice Burger, Vice President Bush, Speaker O'Neill, Senator Dole, Reverend Clergy, members of my family and friends, and my fellow citizens: This day has been made brighter with the presence here of one who, for a time, has been absent--Senator John Stennis.God bless you and welcome back.There is, however, one who is not with us today: Representative Gillis Long of Louisiana left us last night.I wonder if we could all join in a moment of silent prayer.(Moment of silent prayer.)Amen.There are no words adequate to express my thanks for the great honor that you have bestowed on me.I will do my utmost to be deserving of your trust.This is, as Senator Mathias told us, the 50th time that we the people have celebrated this historic occasion.When the first President, George Washington, placed his hand upon the Bible, he stood less than a single day's journey by horseback from raw, untamed wilderness.There were 4 million Americans in a union of 13 States.Today we are 60 times as many in a union of 50 States.We have lighted the world with our inventions, gone to the aid of mankind wherever in the world there was a cry for help, journeyed to the Moon and safely returned.So much has changed.And yet we stand together as we did two centuries ago.When I took this oath four years ago, I did so in a time of economic stress.Voices were raised saying we had to look to our past for the greatness and glory.But we, the present-day Americans, are not given to looking backward.In this blessed land, there is always a better tomorrow.Four years ago, I spoke to you of a new beginning and we have accomplished that.But in another sense, our new beginning is a continuation of that beginning created two centuries ago when, for the first time in history, government, the people said, was not our master, it is our servant;its only power that which we the people allow it to have.That system has never failed us, but, for a time, we failed the system.We asked things of government that government was not equipped to give.We yielded authority to the National Government that properly belonged to States or to local governments or to the people themselves.We allowed taxes and inflation to rob us of our earnings and savings and watched the great industrial machine that had made us the most productive people on Earth slow down and the number of unemployed increase.By 1980, we knew it was time to renew our faith, to strive with all our strength toward the ultimate in individual freedom consistent with an orderly society.We believed then and now there are no limits to growth and human progress when men and women are free to follow their dreams.And we were right to believe that.Tax rates have been reduced, inflation cut dramatically, and more people are employed than ever before in our history.We are creating a nation once again vibrant, robust, and alive.But there are many mountains yet to climb.We will not rest until every American enjoys the fullness of freedom, dignity, and opportunity as our birthright.It is our birthright as citizens of this great Republic, and we'll meet this challenge.These will be years when Americans have restored their confidence and tradition of progress;when our values of faith, family, work, and neighborhood were restated for a modern age;when our economy was finally freed from government's grip;when we made sincere efforts at meaningful arms reduction, rebuilding our defenses, our economy, and developing new technologies, and helped preserve peace in a troubled world;when Americans courageously supported the struggle for liberty, self-government, and free enterprise throughout the world, and turned the tide of history away from totalitarian darkness and into the warm sunlight of human freedom.My fellow citizens, our Nation is poised for greatness.We must do what we know is right and do it with all our might.Let history say of us, “These were golden years--when the American Revolution was reborn, when freedom gained new life, when America reached for her best.” Our two-party system has served us well over the years, but never better than in those times of great challenge when we came together not as Democrats or Republicans, but as Americans united in a common cause.Two of our Founding Fathers, a Boston lawyer named Adams and a Virginia planter named Jefferson, members of that remarkable group who met in Independence Hall and dared to think they could start the world over again, left us an important lesson.They had become political rivals in the Presidential election of 1800.Then years later, when both were retired, and age had softened their anger, they began to speak to each other again through letters.A bond was reestablished between those two who had helped create this government of ours.In 1826, the 50th anniversary of the Declaration of Independence, they both died.They died on the same day, within a few hours of each other, and that day was the Fourth of July.In one of those letters exchanged in the sunset of their lives, Jefferson wrote: “It carries me back to the times when, beset with difficulties and dangers, we were fellow laborers in the same cause, struggling for what is most valuable to man, his right to self-government.Laboring always at the same oar, with some wave ever ahead threatening to overwhelm us, and yet passing harmless...we rode through the storm with heart and hand.” Well, with heart and hand, let us stand as one today: One people under God determined that our future shall be worthy of our past.As we do, we must not repeat the well-intentioned errors of our past.We must never again abuse the trust of working men and women, by sending their earnings on a futile chase after the spiraling demands of a bloated Federal Establishment.You elected us in 1980 to end this prescription for disaster, and I don't believe you reelected us in 1984 to reverse course.At the heart of our efforts is one idea vindicated by 25 straight months of economic growth: Freedom and incentives unleash the drive and entrepreneurial genius that are the core of human progress.We have begun to increase the rewards for work, savings, and investment;reduce the increase in the cost and size of government and its interference in people's lives.We must simplify our tax system, make it more fair, and bring the rates down for all who work and earn.We must think anew and move with a new boldness, so every American who seeks work can find work;so the least among us shall have an equal chance to achieve the greatest things--to be heroes who heal our sick, feed the hungry, protect peace among nations, and leave this world a better place.The time has come for a new American emancipation--a great national drive to tear down economic barriers and liberate the spirit of enterprise in the most distressed areas of our country.My friends, together we can do this, and do it we must, so help me God.--From new freedom will spring new opportunities for growth, a more productive, fulfilled and united people, and a stronger America--an America that will lead the technological revolution, and also open its mind and heart and soul to the treasures of literature, music, and poetry, and the values of faith, courage, and love.A dynamic economy, with more citizens working and paying taxes, will be our strongest tool to bring down budget deficits.But an almost unbroken 50 years of deficit spending has finally brought us to a time of reckoning.We have come to a turning point, a moment for hard decisions.I have asked the Cabinet and my staff a question, and now I put the same question to all of you: If not us, who? And if not now, when? It must be done by all of us going forward with a program aimed at reaching a balanced budget.We can then begin reducing the national debt.I will shortly submit a budget to the Congress aimed at freezing government program spending for the next year.Beyond that, we must take further steps to permanently control Government's power to tax and spend.We must act now to protect future generations from Government's desire to spend its citizens' money and tax them into servitude when the bills come due.Let us make it unconstitutional for the Federal Government to spend more than the Federal Government takes in.We have already started returning to the people and to State and local governments responsibilities better handled by them.Now, there is a place for the Federal Government in matters of social compassion.But our fundamental goals must be to reduce dependency and upgrade the dignity of those who are infirm or disadvantaged.And here a growing economy and support from family and community offer our best chance for a society where compassion is a way of life, where the old and infirm are cared for, the young and, yes, the unborn protected, and the unfortunate looked after and made self And there is another area where the Federal Government can play a part.As an older American, I remember a time when people of different race, creed, or ethnic origin in our land found hatred and prejudice installed in social custom and, yes, in law.There is no story more heartening in our history than the progress that we have made toward the “brotherhood of man” that God intended for us.Let us resolve there will be no turning back or hesitation on the road to an America rich in dignity and abundant with opportunity for all our citizens.Let us resolve that we the people will build an American opportunity society in which all of us--white and black, rich and poor, young and old--will go forward together arm in arm.Again, let us remember that though our heritage is one of blood lines from every corner of the Earth, we are all Americans pledged to carry on this last, best hope of man on Earth.I have spoken of our domestic goals and the limitations which we should put on our National Government.Now let me turn to a task which is the primary responsibility of National Government-the safety and security of our people.Today, we utter no prayer more fervently than the ancient prayer for peace on Earth.Yet history has shown that peace will not come, nor will our freedom be preserved, by good will alone.There are those in the world who scorn our vision of human dignity and freedom.One nation, the Soviet Union, has conducted the greatest military buildup in the history of man, building arsenals of awesome offensive weapons.We have made progress in restoring our defense capability.But much remains to be done.There must be no wavering by us, nor any doubts by others, that America will meet her responsibilities to remain free, secure, and at peace.There is only one way safely and legitimately to reduce the cost of national security, and that is to reduce the need for it.And this we are trying to do in negotiations with the Soviet Union.We are not just discussing limits on a further increase of nuclear weapons.We seek, instead, to reduce their number.We seek the total elimination one day of nuclear weapons from the face of the Earth.Now, for decades, we and the Soviets have lived under the threat of mutual assured destruction;if either resorted to the use of nuclear weapons, the other could retaliate and destroy the one who had started it.Is there either logic or morality in believing that if one side threatens to kill tens of millions of our people, our only recourse is to threaten killing tens of millions of theirs? I have approved a research program to find, if we can, a security shield that would destroy nuclear missiles before they reach their target.It wouldn't kill people, it would destroy weapons.It wouldn't militarize space, it would help demilitarize the arsenals of Earth.It would render nuclear weapons obsolete.We will meet with the Soviets, hoping that we can agree on a way to rid the world of the threat of nuclear destruction.We strive for peace and security, heartened by the changes all around us.Since the turn of the century, the number of democracies in the world has grown fourfold.Human freedom is on the march, and nowhere more so than our own hemisphere.Freedom is one of the deepest and noblest aspirations of the human spirit.People, worldwide, hunger for the right of self-determination, for those inalienable rights that make for human dignity and progress.America must remain freedom's staunchest friend, for freedom is our best ally.And it is the world's only hope, to conquer poverty and preserve peace.Every blow we inflict against poverty will be a blow against its dark allies of oppression and war.Every victory for human freedom will be a victory for world peace.So we go forward today, a nation still mighty in its youth and powerful in its purpose.With our alliances strengthened, with our economy leading the world to a new age of economic expansion, we look forward to a world rich in possibilities.And all this because we have worked and acted together, not as members of political parties, but as Americans.My friends, we live in a world that is lit by lightning.So much is changing and will change, but so much endures, and transcends time.History is a ribbon, always unfurling;history is a journey.And as we continue our journey, we think of those who traveled before us.We stand together again at the steps of this symbol of our democracy--or we would have been standing at the steps if it hadn't gotten so cold.Now we are standing inside this symbol of our democracy.Now we hear again the echoes of our past: a general falls to his knees in the hard snow of Valley Forge;a lonely President paces the darkened halls, and ponders his struggle to preserve the Union;the men of the Alamo call out encouragement to each other;a settler pushes west and sings a song, and the song echoes out forever and fills the unknowing air.It is the American sound.It is hopeful, big-hearted, idealistic, daring, decent, and fair.That's our heritage;that is our song.We sing it still.For all our problems, our differences, we are together as of old, as we raise our voices to the God who is the Author of this most tender music.And may He continue to hold us close as we fill the world with our sound--sound in unity, affection, and love--one people under God, dedicated to the dream of freedom that He has placed in the human heart, called upon now to pass that dream on to a waiting and hopeful world.God bless you and may God bless America.

第五篇：婚后也浪漫 結(jié)婚后的情書(shū)寫(xiě)法

有的人認(rèn)為，一旦之花燦爛地開(kāi)過(guò)，婚姻之果已高懸枝頭，等待采擷之時(shí)，作為表達(dá)愛(ài)情的，便無(wú)多大存大的必要了。這是一種錯(cuò)誤的看法。

愛(ài)情的路還很漫長(zhǎng)?；楹?，如果不是好好駕駛你們的愛(ài)情小舟，倆個(gè)人的世界隨時(shí)都會(huì)出現(xiàn)裂痕。

感情的交流永遠(yuǎn)必要，不論是用書(shū)面形式 情書(shū)，還是口頭形式 情話，永遠(yuǎn)都是重要的。

常見(jiàn)一些戀人，熱戀時(shí)情話綿綿，關(guān)懷備至?？墒腔楹螅坪鯚釕贂r(shí)已把話說(shuō)盡，說(shuō)的話語(yǔ)簡(jiǎn)煉到驚人的程度： 飯做好了嗎？ 該睡覺(jué)了。

調(diào)查研究的結(jié)果顯示：許多男女認(rèn)為，一旦成為夫妻了，都是自家人了，他愛(ài)我，我愛(ài)他，是天經(jīng)地義的事，不必天大掛在口頭上。因此，一反戀愛(ài)時(shí)的親密和熱烈，婚后感情的表達(dá)，交流愛(ài)意，成了扭扭怩怩、很不自在的事。使得一些人驚嘆： 婚姻是愛(ài)情的墳?zāi)梗?/p>

其實(shí)，婚后的感情交流，其重要性不亞于婚前。夫妻間應(yīng)當(dāng)隨時(shí)隨地相立交流思想、感情，甚至是各自瞬時(shí)靈感火花。決不要不好意思，決不要怕重復(fù)、怕羅嗦，決不要扭扭怩怩。

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愛(ài)情之花在婚后更要細(xì)心地照料，否則，它能由于主人的疏忽而枯萎。許多離婚者的故事，已經(jīng)給我們提供了這方面有力佐證！

即使結(jié)了婚，也不應(yīng)該忘了你的好朋友、老朋友一一情書(shū)，它是不應(yīng)該 退休 的！

里海：

夫妻倆相處相濡以沫無(wú)話不談，感情溝通似乎不成為問(wèn)題，但有時(shí)直來(lái)直去也會(huì)產(chǎn)生矛盾，倘若能別出心裁地給愛(ài)人寫(xiě)一封情書(shū)，不但能迅速地解決矛盾，而且會(huì)使夫妻感情更加融洽，恩愛(ài)有加。

有人將夫妻倆比作是牙齒與舌頭，動(dòng)作稍微有些不協(xié)調(diào)，牙齒就會(huì)咬著舌頭。夫妻之間發(fā)生一些不協(xié)調(diào)，這是正常的事，不足為奇。有一次在教育孩子的問(wèn)題上，我和妻子的看法意見(jiàn)不同而發(fā)生爭(zhēng)論，在爭(zhēng)不過(guò)時(shí)，我當(dāng)著兒子的面說(shuō)了兩句傷她心的話：“兒子屬我管教，我說(shuō)了算！”妻子看了我一眼，回了一句“兒子是我養(yǎng)的！”就不再理我了。說(shuō)也真巧，過(guò)了兩天，周五單位組織去廣州旅游，我來(lái)不及細(xì)說(shuō)，整理了一些衣物，留下一張條子就走了。在異地他鄉(xiāng)，夜晚我住在賓館里，回想妻子周三郁悶傷心的目光，心頭頓時(shí)自責(zé)，拿起電話道歉吧，怎么說(shuō)好呢?又怕拗口說(shuō)不清，如果讓人家聽(tīng)見(jiàn)更是笑話了，而且也言不盡意。后來(lái)又想，如果回家后向她當(dāng)面賠禮道歉，還不如寫(xiě)封信。這一招真的很好，結(jié)婚前也是當(dāng)面不敢說(shuō)的話就是用情書(shū)來(lái)表達(dá)的。于是靜下心來(lái)，拿起筆，一封“情書(shū)”一揮而就。先深表說(shuō)錯(cuò)話的歉意，是大丈夫思想作怪，然后用心將妻子辛勤操勞家務(wù)盡心培育孩子的功勞著意刻畫(huà)一番，特別強(qiáng)調(diào)妻子同樣每天工作勞動(dòng)，還要操持家務(wù)，付出的要比我多得多，并從旅途見(jiàn)聞聯(lián)想當(dāng)初一起旅游時(shí)的美好時(shí)光，用詞當(dāng)然要含情蜜意。信寄到家里妻子手中，可稱(chēng)為春風(fēng)化雨后一片朝霞滿天。五天后當(dāng)我回家時(shí)，再看到妻子時(shí)，妻子是笑臉迎著我，我就知道情書(shū)已發(fā)揮了作用，妻子的那張笑臉我后來(lái)戲稱(chēng)是猶如清晨舒張芬芳的百合花。

有人說(shuō)，少女戀情如詩(shī)歌，成年婦女戀愛(ài)成哲學(xué)。其實(shí)已婚的女性還是喜歡聽(tīng)愛(ài)的語(yǔ)言，猶如醇酒越聞越香。山盟海誓雖然能讓人激動(dòng)，而給愛(ài)人的書(shū)信，就是當(dāng)了媽媽、婆婆也還是喜歡欣賞的。富有哲理情趣的語(yǔ)言，婚后夫妻、即使是老年夫妻間情書(shū)也可象鑰匙開(kāi)鎖一樣啟開(kāi)心門(mén)，讓愛(ài)在彼此心海中持久蕩漾。給愛(ài)人寫(xiě)的情書(shū)還可作特別紀(jì)念品珍藏，這也是我們夫妻倆共同的喜愛(ài)，有閑時(shí)拿出來(lái)共同翻閱，好比是在共同吟唱一首無(wú)比溫馨的戀曲。

聰明的丈夫們，如果學(xué)會(huì)真誠(chéng)亮麗具有穿透力的語(yǔ)言，或用書(shū)信形式來(lái)為愛(ài)人編織七彩陽(yáng)光，那更能使夫妻感情永愛(ài)、家庭和睦，由此我說(shuō)婚后的情書(shū)也醉人，就是這個(gè)道理。朋友，你覺(jué)得如何呢？