第一篇:給心情增加一點(diǎn)顏色
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給心情增加一點(diǎn)顏色
心情是什么顏色的?
是綠色的充滿生機(jī),是紅色的燃燒著激情,是黃色的成熟穩(wěn)重,是藍(lán)色的高遠(yuǎn)深邃??像窗外的秋天,蔥蘢的是挺立的樹(shù),燃燒的是放射光芒的太陽(yáng),在藍(lán)天的映襯之下,金黃的果實(shí)沉甸甸掛滿枝頭。秋天也有黃葉飄零,但色彩的豐富是秋天絢麗多姿,幽邃深沉。
心情不能太單調(diào)。煙雨朦朧的灰白,沙漠一望無(wú)際的金黃,暗夜蒼茫浩瀚的墨色??只能讓人心情潮濕或干涸,百無(wú)聊賴甚至痛苦不堪。
給心情加上一點(diǎn)顏色。矛盾在《風(fēng)景談》寫到猩猩峽外的沙漠茫茫一片,純?nèi)灰簧?,多么平板、單調(diào)和乏味。但當(dāng)?shù)仄骄€上出現(xiàn)了第一個(gè)黑點(diǎn),駱駝隊(duì)走來(lái),昂然高步的駱駝的顏色,再加上領(lǐng)隊(duì)駝所掌的那一桿長(zhǎng)方形大旗的猩紅色,使單調(diào)的沙漠完全改觀,變得莊嚴(yán)和嫵媚。
人生又何嘗不是這樣。重復(fù)的單色調(diào)的生活只能使人厭倦,如果給心情加點(diǎn)顏色,人生就完全改觀,也有了一道屬于自己的“風(fēng)景”。
有人做過(guò)一個(gè)實(shí)驗(yàn):把一些箱子外表漆成不同顏色讓工人搬運(yùn)。結(jié)果,工人反映黑色的箱子最沉重。其實(shí),箱子的重量是一樣的,不一樣的是箱子的顏色,是箱子的顏色帶給人不一樣的心情。
箱子的重量是無(wú)法改變的,這如同環(huán)境。如果我們給箱子油漆不同的顏色,單調(diào)的勞動(dòng)也會(huì)五彩繽紛起來(lái)。心情也是不容易改變的,但我們最少可以給心情增添色彩。
在冰天雪地里呆久了,會(huì)“雪盲”。不是雪的反光太強(qiáng)烈,而是雪太單調(diào)。雪純凈潔白,誰(shuí)都喜歡,但也需要一枝臘梅的紅艷,幾片落葉的枯黃,哪怕多一點(diǎn)禿枝的蒼黑也好。
菊花是美麗的,也是繽紛的。史鐵生剛癱瘓的時(shí)候,只會(huì)看單調(diào)的天花板想到死亡,后來(lái)在地壇的絢麗蓬勃使他感悟人生,他喜歡上了菊花。在一篇文章中,他這樣寫:“黃色的花淡雅、白色的花高潔、紫紅色的花熱烈而深沉,潑潑灑灑,秋風(fēng)中正開(kāi)得爛漫?!?/p>
我們不能化身為菊,但最少可以在心中增添菊花的繽紛色彩。
春天為什么在詩(shī)人筆下異彩紛呈呢?你看秦觀寫小園春光,“有桃花紅,李花白,菜花黃”。如果我們給心情增添顏色,春天就會(huì)常駐我們心頭。
心情折射著生活之光。憧憬和向往,使我們的生活如春草般鮮嫩翠綠;熱愛(ài)和贊美,使我們的生活如太陽(yáng)般鮮紅透亮;親情友情應(yīng)該是金黃色的,給我們的心靈充滿飽滿的收獲;睿智謙遜好學(xué)的人是潔白的雪,高風(fēng)亮節(jié)的人是淡黃的菊,幽默風(fēng)趣的人紫色的花,與他們相處,會(huì)增加我們心靈的色澤。
暖色調(diào)的心情讓人舒適快樂(lè),但適當(dāng)增加一些冷色調(diào),會(huì)使人堅(jiān)毅理智。個(gè)人圖書館文章閱讀 qqshu.cc
世界美好在于絢麗多姿,讓我們給心靈增加顏色。
第二篇:什么樣的顏色什么樣的心情
什么樣的顏色什么樣的心情
什么樣的顏色什么樣的心情室內(nèi)巧用“色” 隨著人們生活水平的提高和居住環(huán)境的日益改善,居民們除了選購(gòu)美觀實(shí)用的家具擺設(shè)外,更多的是注重室內(nèi)裝飾的整體效果,因此室內(nèi)設(shè)計(jì)的顏色也變得多姿多彩。要使居室看起來(lái)寬闊及清新自然,選擇顏色時(shí)就要多花心思。在居室裝飾中色彩的運(yùn)用是室內(nèi)設(shè)計(jì)非常關(guān)鍵的因素,色彩能夠營(yíng)造一個(gè)和諧、怡情悅目的居室氛圍,也可以通過(guò)不同的色彩來(lái)改變居室的格調(diào)。以下按不同居室的使用功能,對(duì)不同格調(diào)的裝飾色進(jìn)行裝飾設(shè)計(jì),為您在選擇時(shí)提供參考。
充滿生氣的色彩與格調(diào)整個(gè)地板鋪紅色地毯或瓷磚,窗簾選擇能與紅色形成對(duì)比的藍(lán)色,與白色墻配色便形成了充滿生氣的格調(diào)。
暖和、輕快的色彩與格調(diào)地板和窗簾選用橙色,形成溫暖、輕快感。由于橙色太強(qiáng)烈,所以家具選灰色,天花板也選灰色調(diào),使格調(diào)變得柔和些。橙色要淡,以免造成眼部疲勞,窗簾則宜用素色。
優(yōu)美的中心色彩與格調(diào)家具用比地板色調(diào)濃一些的玫瑰色,窗簾選有玫瑰色的印花圖案。能調(diào)和襯托玫瑰色的是綠色,所以窗簾的印花中應(yīng)有綠色,此外,再配上綠色的沙發(fā)靠墊、臺(tái)燈罩和盆景。
漂亮的中心色彩與格調(diào)家具為粉紅色,靠墊、窗簾選擇粉紅色印花或圖案。欲使室內(nèi)具有漂亮的格調(diào),其他裝飾色不應(yīng)太強(qiáng)烈,天花板和墻應(yīng)配灰白色調(diào),地板用淺橙色,其裝飾效果會(huì)較好。但用粉紅色作為主色調(diào)適用于臥室,客廳不太適宜。
羅曼蒂克的色彩與格調(diào)地板選擇柔和的粉紅色。同一色的靠墊,配上粉紅色印花窗簾,在白色的沙發(fā)、米黃色墻的襯托下,加點(diǎn)淡藍(lán)色,形成花團(tuán)錦簇般的羅曼蒂克格調(diào),用柔和的粉紅色作中心色,其他色調(diào)都宜用淡色調(diào)的,太鮮艷的色彩不能與柔和的粉紅色搭配。
雙色家具秀麗活潑以往的家具大部分都是一種顏色構(gòu)成的,而如今的居室在逐漸擴(kuò)大,家具的尺寸也隨之?dāng)U大。這樣一來(lái),一種顏色的家具就顯得有些呆有點(diǎn)笨了。新潮的家具以兩種顏色的搭配來(lái)體現(xiàn)它的秀麗活潑,如白色的家具配以天藍(lán)色的條塊或粉色的條塊等。這種“兩色家具”讓人覺(jué)得“有骨有肉”,好似時(shí)裝令人賞心悅目。
典雅的色彩與格調(diào)以橄欖綠為主要裝飾色的居室,可突出典雅感。地板用深色調(diào)的橄欖綠,墻和天花板用淡橄欖綠,家具用褐色系,再用幾個(gè)老紅色的靠墊來(lái)點(diǎn)綴,典雅的格調(diào)才得以顯現(xiàn)出來(lái)。
富有古典、貴族的布置采用時(shí)尚明朗的色調(diào)配上華麗宮廷式的家具加上古金色的細(xì)邊木花線裝飾,再掛上那璀燦的水晶燈飾,使之綽顯出高貴的感覺(jué)。選擇桃紅色橡木及紅木為素材的中式原木家具。那精心雕琢的手制浮雕圖案家具,襯托出金屬手柄及銀色花紋,寓意吉祥,顯得清新雋永,每件擺設(shè)均體現(xiàn)出中國(guó)傳統(tǒng)色彩。
家具色彩的設(shè)計(jì)在室內(nèi)裝飾中起著改變或者創(chuàng)造某種格調(diào)的作用,為人們帶來(lái)某種視覺(jué)上的差
異和精神上的享受。據(jù)說(shuō)當(dāng)人進(jìn)入某個(gè)空間的最初幾秒鐘內(nèi)的印象,有百分之七十五是對(duì)色彩的感覺(jué),然后才會(huì)去理解形體。這是十分有道理的。因此,色彩對(duì)人們產(chǎn)生的“第一印象”,是室內(nèi)裝飾設(shè)計(jì)不能輕視的重要因素,是需要花費(fèi)一定精力去研究的,其重要作用不言而喻。室內(nèi)家具色彩的選擇,有著永不凋謝的魅力。
第三篇:各種顏色代表什么樣的心情
各種顏色代表什么樣的心情?(英文)瀏覽次數(shù):502次懸賞分:5 | 解決時(shí)間:2011-3-16 20:58 | 提問(wèn)者:yyylyf
最佳答案
Red red
Red is enthusiastic, impulse, powerful colour, it can make muscle function and blood is accelerated circularly.Because the red catchy, so in various media also widely used, besides having better MingShi effect besides, more are used to convey has the vigor, positive, warm, warm, advance the meanings of enterprise image, etc and spirit, another red also often used as warning, dangerous, prohibited, such as fire prevention labeled coloring, people in some occasions or item, saw red marking, often need not look carefully content, and can understand a warning of danger of Italy, in industrial safety coloring in, red namely is warning, dangerous, prohibited, fireproof specified color.Big red is usually used for striking, such as red flags, 10 thousand green congzhong is red, The pale pink general relatively gentle, tender, such as: bridal chamber arrangement, children's clothing, etc;Deep red can generally be foil, there is deep warm feeling.Red and yellow match most, big red and green, orange and blue(especially in a darker blue)with milk, reactive yellow, gray for neuter collocation.Orange Orange
Orange is lively and lively bright colour, it is the most warm warm color department is lubricious, it was reminiscent of golden autumn, rich fruits, is a rich, happy and happy color.Orange slightly intermingled with black or white, will become a kind of sedate, implicative and lively warm color, but intermingled with more black, become a kind of charred color;Orange adding more white can bring a kind of sweet greasy feeling.Orange MingShi degree is high, in industrial safety coloring, orange is namely, such as JingJieSe locomotive, mountaineering clothing backpack, jackets, orange can be generally as festival color, also can make riches and honour is lubricious, such as many adornment palace.Orange can make dining-room decorate color, it is said that in the restaurant multi-purpose orange can increase appetite.Orange with light green and light blue suitable, can form the loudest, most happy colour.Orange and yellow hue is equipped with a kind of very comfortable transition feeling.Orange and purple or dark blue generally cannot match, which will give a person a kind of not clean, obscure sense.Because orange very bright and dazzling, sometimes can make the person has negative four-letter imagery, this situation especially prone to dress in utilization, so in use orange, should pay attention to choosing tie-in colour and expression way, can the orange bright lively has the characteristics of taste to emerge.Yellow Yellow
Yellow bright, brilliant, with sun of brilliance, symbolizing the illuminate dark wisdom light.Yellow with golden light, symbolize wealth and power, it is proud to colour.In industrial on coloring, yellow commonly used to a warning of danger or drew attention, such as traffic signs on the yellow light, engineering with large machines, the student with a raincoat and galoshes etc., all use yellow.Yellow in black and purple foil can achieve power enlarged unlimitedly, light pink also may like girls as yellow this proud princes conquered.Yellow and green match, appear very youthful and energetic, Yellow and blue match, appear beautiful, pure and fresh;Pale yellow with deep yellow match appear most elegant.Pale yellow can almost with all the matching color, but if striking, cannot be in the other light color, especially a white, because it will be you could not see anything.Deep yellow generally cannot and deep red and purple suitable, also doesn't fit with black suitable, because it can make the person feels obscure and dustbin feeling.Green Green
In the commercial design, green had communicated relaxed, ideal, hope, the growth of imagery, accord with services, healthcare, the claims in factories to avoid * make eye fatigue, many working machinery is calculated using the green, general medical establishment place, also often used green to make space color planning namely labeled medical supplies.The bright green is a very beautiful and elegant color, it's a vibrant, a symbol of life.Green tolerance, magnanimous, almost can accommodate all colors.Green USES an extremely extensive, whether childhood, young, middle-aged or old, use green never lost its lively, easy.In all sorts of painting, in adornment is inseparable from the green, green also can serve as a kind of recreational color.Green in infiltration yellow for yellow-greens, it is pure, young, Green into blue are blue-green, it comely and open-minded.Containing ash green, is still a kind of halcyon, gentle color, like the forests or the morning mist twilight fields.Variegated dark green and reseda match a harmonious, peaceful feeling;Green and white match, appear very young, Light green and black matching, appear beautiful, generous.Green and shallow red match, symbolizing the arrival of spring.But not with dark green, plain dark red and purple suitable, so there will be mixed and disorderly, dirty feeling.Blue Blue
Blue is broad, the colour of this vast sky and sea scenery is blue.Blue is the symbol of eternity, it is the most cold colors.Pure blue show a kind of beauty, quiet, reason, sedate and clean.Due to the blue composed characteristics, with reason, accurate images, in business design, emphasizing science and technology, the efficiency of commodities or enterprise image, chosen mostly blue when standard colour, enterprise color, such as computers, cars, copy machine, photographic equipment, etc, another blue also represented melancholy, this is by the influence of western culture, the image is used in literary works or perceptual appeal commercial design.Blue USES is very wide, blue can stable mood, azure used for hospitals, sanitation adornment, or summer dress, curtains, etc.In general painting and various adorn article also definitely cannot leave blue.Different blue and white match, show anacreontic, relaxed with unclean.Blue and yellow is suitable, contrast big, more lively;Large blue and green generally does not suitable, they can only mutual infiltration, become glaucous, lake blue or green, this also is intoxicating color, Light green and black matching, appear grave, graying, has the tutelage.Blue can't with a deep red, purple, dark brown and black suitable, because such neither contrast, nor lively degrees, there is only one spoils kissinger-this, messy feeling.Purple purple Due to its strong feminine personality, a commercial design coloring, purple was also quite restrictions, besides women and relevant goods or enterprise image, outside of other types of design does not often used to give priority to color.Purple is the shortest wavelength visible light wavelength.Purple is consciousness is lubricious, it is beautiful and mysterious, and impressive, it already rich menacingly, rich and encouraging sex.Purple is a symbol of devout hue, when light and understanding lit up the devout of ignorance, exquisite lovely color YunSe will make people memories!
With purple performance of loneliness and dedicated, with purple performance of divine love and spirit of governance field, this is purple brings performance value.Purple is uncertain state changes in temperature between free, plus its low lightness properties, constitute the colour of psychological negative feeling.And yellow, purple can accommodate many different colour, but it can accommodate many desalt level, a dark purple, just add a little pure white, he will become a very beautiful, downy colour.With white are added to produce many levels of lavender and each level of lavender, appear so gentle, moving.Brown time
Brown is usually used to represent the original the simple sense of material, such as hemp, wood, bamboo, cork and so on, or to convey some drinks raw material of colour and lustre namely flavour feeling, such as coffee, tea, barley, or emphasized style classic elegant enterprise or merchandise image.White white.on
White has a senior, science and technology, the image, usually requires and other colour collocation is used, pure white will bring others, the severe cold feeling, so the use of white, can mix some other colour, like white, rice white, ivory and apple white, the life of the supplies, clothing on coloring, white is always popular main color, can make collocation and any color.Black Black
Black has noble, sedate, science and technology, the image, many technological products, such as television, the coloring of the sports car, camera, acoustics, instrument, the colour of is used mostly black, among other things, the black solemn imagery, are also used in some special situations of space design, daily necessities and dress design most black to shape the noble image, is forever a popular main colour, make collocation suits and many colors.Gray Gray
Gray with downy, decorous imagery and belongs to middle character, both men and women can be accepted, so gray is always popular main colour, in many of the high-tech products, especially and metal materials related;almost all by using grey to convey advanced science and technology, using the image of grey, mostly by using different administrative levels change the combination or mixed him other colour, won't have a single, depressing, and have inflexible, stiff feeling.Black and white is to colorific finally abstraction, delegate colour world of anode and cathode.Tai chi pattern is with black, white dichromatic circular form to present the universe eternal motion.Black means void, like the sun of destruction, like the language of eternal silence, no future, lost hope.But the white silence is limitless possibility.Black and white and dichromatic is opposite extremes of color, they always take the other party's existence shows his strength.They seem to be whole colour the master of the world.In grey colour system is afraid is the passive colour, it is thoroughly neuter color, rely on neighboring colour to life.Gray mean everything of color contrast disappear, is the most secure visual rest stops.However, eye cannot long, infinite watched with gray, because the endless rest means death.Black, white, ash in color matching occupies a central position, they are active in all sorts of color matching, utmost ground change each other lightness, brightness and hue, producing a multi-level and many varieties of beautiful colour, they are therefore must not be ignored without color.
第四篇:心情煩躁?可以換個(gè)顏色試試!
心情煩躁?換個(gè)顏色就好!
壓力大的時(shí)候總是會(huì)感到莫名地?zé)┰?、郁悶、焦慮,趕走壓力的方法有很多,找朋友傾述、去郊游呼吸新鮮空氣,但你有想過(guò)換換顏色嗎?其實(shí)從顏色入手也能緩解壓力。下面就來(lái)分享顏色對(duì)人的情感的影響,換個(gè)不同顏色的衣服,或是家里的裝飾布置換個(gè)顏色,也能讓你心情變好,趕緊試試吧!穿對(duì)顏色,這些場(chǎng)合必勝!在多元文化的今天我們的壓力也多元化。無(wú)論是職場(chǎng)還是情場(chǎng),選對(duì)色能讓每個(gè)人心情愉悅,輕松自如地應(yīng)對(duì)各種場(chǎng)合。
第一次見(jiàn)他父母
暖色和淺色系
這樣的會(huì)面,會(huì)讓人的心里既期待,又有點(diǎn)忐忑。遇到這樣的場(chǎng)合,每個(gè)女生都希望給老人家留下好印象,能讓自己的戀情順利地修成正果。長(zhǎng)輩們的心理也有規(guī)律可循,對(duì)未來(lái)兒媳最看重的就是她的人品,是否誠(chéng)實(shí)、溫柔、踏實(shí)、正直、干凈。
這種場(chǎng)合,不要穿深紫色,因?yàn)樯钭仙屓擞猩衩?、捉摸不定的感覺(jué)。而黑、灰等無(wú)彩色,也會(huì)顯得沉悶、乏味,無(wú)法顯示年輕、活力、開(kāi)朗大方的特點(diǎn),會(huì)讓長(zhǎng)輩內(nèi)心產(chǎn)生失落感。
吵架后和解 淡粉色系和淡紫色系
無(wú)論是對(duì)方先示弱還是自己覺(jué)得理虧,在爭(zhēng)吵后的初次見(jiàn)面時(shí),溫柔的色彩,能讓尷尬的氣氛頓時(shí)緩解,深深的歉意會(huì)緊緊包裹兩顆充滿愛(ài)的心靈。淡粉色系和淡紫色系能把這種氣場(chǎng),發(fā)揮到淋漓盡致。尤其是內(nèi)心倔強(qiáng)嘴上不會(huì)示弱的女生,用對(duì)色彩也能讓對(duì)方感受到你的誠(chéng)意。
道歉的場(chǎng)合不要穿大紅色。紅色有讓人神經(jīng)興奮的作用,表達(dá)著要一決勝負(fù)的信息,搞不好更會(huì)激起對(duì)方的怒火,反而事與愿違。聰明的女人善用色,可以輕松地避免這樣的失誤。
首次約會(huì)
粉色系和奶黃色
由于男人和女人的基因和激素的作用,一般情況下,讓男人覺(jué)得有魅力的、想追求的,通常是充滿女人味、性格溫柔、善解人意的女性,而通過(guò)色彩的巧妙搭配可以給對(duì)方留下溫柔可人的印象。大面積地使用粉色系和奶黃色可以營(yíng)造出溫柔、接納、寬容、溫暖的氛圍。剪裁恰當(dāng)?shù)倪B衣裙、大披肩及絲巾的巧妙搭配更是可以從款式上突出女人溫柔的曲線美感。
首次約會(huì)時(shí),不要穿橙色的衣服,雖然橙色的溫暖能撫慰對(duì)方的心靈,但對(duì)方接受到的訊息更像友誼而非愛(ài)情。所以有可能對(duì)方離開(kāi)時(shí)會(huì)對(duì)你說(shuō)“你永遠(yuǎn)是我最好的朋友?!?/p>
職場(chǎng)會(huì)議
隨機(jī)而變
有的會(huì)議,我們身為聽(tīng)眾,自然不能喧賓奪主,比如部門會(huì)議、募款、做問(wèn)卷調(diào)查時(shí),在這些場(chǎng)合下褐色、棕色、咖啡色系是著裝的上乘選擇。這個(gè)色系在典雅中蘊(yùn)含著安定、沉靜、平和、親切的意象,給人情緒穩(wěn)定、容易相處的感覺(jué)。
當(dāng)會(huì)議的形式和目的改變時(shí),我們也要聰明的改變用色。比如當(dāng)你成為企劃方案的陳述人之一時(shí),能給人帶來(lái)冷靜、平衡、睿智感的墨綠色是不錯(cuò)的選擇。這種色彩能給你帶來(lái)能量,給你有力而又被人信任的感覺(jué)。綠色越深沉,被信任感就越強(qiáng)。隨著職位的相應(yīng)提升,這時(shí)會(huì)面臨更大的會(huì)議場(chǎng)面,有時(shí)還必須及時(shí)顯示自己的自信和權(quán)威。在這樣的場(chǎng)合下,紅色單品會(huì)助你一臂之力,如紅色的領(lǐng)帶、口紅、耳環(huán)等。切記,在眾人面前要想吸引眼球,最好避開(kāi)復(fù)雜的色彩搭配。那樣反而會(huì)讓人眼花繚亂,擾亂他人的注意力。全身上下兩三種顏色最足以搭配,以不帶花紋、純色服飾為首選。
職場(chǎng)面試
藍(lán)色 藍(lán)色西裝,能給人踏實(shí)穩(wěn)重的感覺(jué),而且色調(diào)越深,越能給人莊重嚴(yán)肅的印象。藏藍(lán)色西裝,能讓考官感受到面試者對(duì)公司的忠誠(chéng)度。同時(shí),白色襯衫和藏藍(lán)色西裝的搭配,顯得干凈整潔,能打造出利落干練的形象。
大紅、玫粉、艷黃、翠綠等個(gè)性鮮明強(qiáng)烈的顏色,雖然是今年的流行色,但是在面試時(shí)避開(kāi)為好,初次見(jiàn)面如此張揚(yáng),過(guò)分惹人注目未必是好事,當(dāng)然,演員、藝人、藝術(shù)工作者的面試會(huì)有所變通。不過(guò),你要是覺(jué)得藍(lán)色沉悶,不妨選擇亮一點(diǎn)顏色的唇膏,這樣顯得你生動(dòng)又親切。
用對(duì)裝飾色,這些空間變舒適了!
聰明的你有沒(méi)有過(guò)這樣的體驗(yàn),在寒冷的冬天又感到饑腸轆轆時(shí),有兩家不同裝飾風(fēng)格的餐廳在馬路對(duì)面供你選擇,一家的主色調(diào)是溫暖的橙黃色,另一家是簡(jiǎn)約理性的淺灰色,你的內(nèi)心會(huì)驅(qū)動(dòng)雙腿走進(jìn)哪一家呢?有過(guò)這樣體驗(yàn)的人會(huì)選擇橙黃色。當(dāng)季節(jié)轉(zhuǎn)換,炎熱的夏季來(lái)臨,口干舌燥的你會(huì)選擇哪家冷飲店呢?是的,光是看著淡藍(lán)色的主體墻,就會(huì)讓人靜心涼爽不少,更不要說(shuō)當(dāng)吃下冰激凌的美妙感覺(jué)啦。就像上面的兩個(gè)生活中的場(chǎng)景試驗(yàn)顯示的那樣,環(huán)境巧用色,也會(huì)大大地提高我們的生活質(zhì)量。
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第五篇:給冬天一點(diǎn)顏色的散文
又到季節(jié)換崗,秋娘卸去盛裝,決絕地謝幕而去,帶走了花紅柳綠、帶走了累累碩果,給人留下的是對(duì)秋的千般依戀、萬(wàn)般不舍和一份沉甸甸的回味。
秋去冬來(lái),花兒凋謝化泥,樹(shù)葉漸漸落盡歸于根基,渾身赤裸的樹(shù)木失去了顯擺綠色迷彩服的資本,只得孤傲地兀立路邊發(fā)呆。陣陣寒風(fēng)吹過(guò),那些細(xì)小的枝條禁不住瑟瑟發(fā)抖。隨著冬的深入,仿佛天空越加孤高深遠(yuǎn),大地越發(fā)荒涼寂寥,連潔白的雪花都遲遲不愿光顧,空曠的原野顯得分外蕭條,“冬哥”不得已趕走了秋姑娘的姹紫嫣紅,無(wú)奈地把大地歸于一片黑白之后,自己也變得不知所措,像一個(gè)無(wú)家可歸的流浪漢,百無(wú)聊賴地在季節(jié)里游蕩著。此時(shí)此刻,如果一個(gè)情緒低落的人站在冷風(fēng)中,感受到的無(wú)疑是嚴(yán)寒、衰敗、寥落、慘淡、枯寂、肅殺。馬路上,生命的最強(qiáng)音在馬達(dá)的轟鳴聲中單調(diào)地回旋。我望著、想著、感嘆著……多想冬天早點(diǎn)結(jié)束,多想讓樹(shù)木趕緊發(fā)芽吐綠,多想讓小草煥發(fā)勃勃生機(jī),多想聆聽(tīng)百鳥(niǎo)歌唱,多想欣賞花兒燦爛的笑容。可是,一年四季、春夏秋冬,這是自然規(guī)律,沒(méi)人能夠讓季節(jié)永遠(yuǎn)停留在生機(jī)盎然的春天、花紅柳綠的盛夏、或者瓜果飄香的金秋,那么,我們何不盡可能地給冬天一點(diǎn)顏色,讓我們的視覺(jué)豐富靚麗起來(lái),給我們的環(huán)境增添一絲生機(jī)活力,使我們的心情愉快歡悅起來(lái)呢?這個(gè)世界原本應(yīng)該多姿多彩。
我喜歡黑的莊嚴(yán)肅穆,喜歡白的干凈純潔,喜歡紅的溫暖熱烈,喜歡綠的青春朝氣,喜歡紫的尊貴優(yōu)雅,喜歡藍(lán)的忠誠(chéng)沉靜,喜歡黃的燦爛溫和……我不是色盲,可具體到何種紅、哪種綠、啥樣藍(lán)卻說(shuō)不了那么準(zhǔn)確。知道有粉紅、桃紅、大紅、鮮紅、火紅、棗紅,有鵝黃、鴨黃、杏黃、橘黃、橙黃、米黃,有嫩綠、蔥綠、草綠、豆綠、碧綠、墨綠,有天藍(lán)、碧藍(lán)、蔚藍(lán)、寶藍(lán)、水藍(lán)、湖藍(lán),等等等等。五彩斑斕,各有各的特色,赤橙黃綠青藍(lán)紫,共同裝點(diǎn)著這個(gè)瑰麗妖嬈的色彩世界,從而讓這個(gè)世界更鮮艷、更活潑、更美麗、更精彩。
我幼年時(shí)骨瘦如柴,青春期之后,快速由骨感向豐滿發(fā)展靠攏。肉呼呼的模樣成了鄰居稱呼的胖閨女,自此,清瘦的歷史一去不復(fù)返。胖這個(gè)字也伴我走過(guò)了中學(xué),走進(jìn)了社會(huì)。如今想想,那算哪門子胖啊,可能當(dāng)時(shí)生活條件差,人們勞動(dòng)強(qiáng)度大,活動(dòng)多,吃的油水少,瘦子比比皆是,胖子很稀缺,因此大家“竹竿”見(jiàn)多了、“麻桿”看慣了,清湯寡水喝順溜了,見(jiàn)點(diǎn)“肉肉”就“稀罕”“嫉妒”,印象也就格外鮮明深刻吧。試想,如果正在發(fā)育的年齡,本該有的女性特征不見(jiàn)起色是不是更讓人著急呢?從來(lái)沒(méi)有想刻意去減肥什么的,只是很巧,在成年之后最苗條的那個(gè)時(shí)間段,遇到了現(xiàn)在的夫君,而婚姻很快又讓體態(tài)變了形,換來(lái)的卻是做母親的權(quán)利,是一個(gè)健健康康的兒子。那個(gè)時(shí)期,再怎么難看的身材都已經(jīng)被忽視、忽略了。隨著孩子一天天長(zhǎng)大,當(dāng)媽媽的自然而然也就慢慢地瘦下去了。但是,從出月子之后的“橫行霸道”狀態(tài),恢復(fù)到“窈窕淑女”可不是一朝一夕的事兒。為了避免視覺(jué)效應(yīng),為了少一點(diǎn)從人們嘴里聽(tīng)到那個(gè)有礙美的字眼,黑、灰(深灰)、藍(lán)(藏藍(lán))等深色調(diào)成為了我穿衣服的主選。不過(guò),深色穿起來(lái)倒也莊重大方,比較適合正規(guī)場(chǎng)合。
幾個(gè)月下來(lái),從肥胖到超重到基本正常,但生育過(guò)的大媽再也打不回少女的原形,加之原本的“彪悍”、“壯實(shí)”,這輩子恐怕永遠(yuǎn)沒(méi)辦法“骨感”了。也許習(xí)以為常,也許還是為了形象,除了結(jié)婚時(shí)的一身紅,而后又回歸到“黑灰藍(lán)紫”的行列,并且一穿就是十年。十年短發(fā)、十年素衣,“女人味兒”被“糟?!贝M,思想也始終被固定在單位和家的“兩點(diǎn)一線”之間。第一次兒子陪我買衣服是2004年,我也在10年短發(fā)后的那一年,決定重新留起長(zhǎng)發(fā),也第一次燙發(fā)。算是一切從“頭”開(kāi)始!因?yàn)?004年,我經(jīng)歷了三件大事,一件比一件來(lái)的突然,一件比一件大,它令我刻骨銘心、永生難忘。三十奔四的年紀(jì)從那年開(kāi)始從三四歲開(kāi)始起步長(zhǎng)大。兒子幫我選了一件杏黃色的短款毛呢上裝,帶著毛領(lǐng)子和毛袖口,配上燙的恰到好處的一頭金黃的“波浪”,真的有些不認(rèn)識(shí)自己了。那一次,仿佛是為人母十年,頭一回鄭重其事地給自己買衣服,頭一回正兒八經(jīng)地審視自己。十年前還不算老,粉白的膚色,配上那件衣服、那個(gè)發(fā)型發(fā)色,第一次感覺(jué)自己長(zhǎng)的還不算難看,還有幾分楚楚動(dòng)人和“洋氣”。由于兒子的堅(jiān)持,因?yàn)樽鹬亓藘鹤拥囊庖?jiàn),買下那件衣服的同時(shí),也讓我重新認(rèn)識(shí)了自我,重新審視孩子的眼光和看法,也重新給自己的穿著定位,給自己的認(rèn)知定位。從那年開(kāi)始,三四年內(nèi),利用空余時(shí)間拿了保險(xiǎn)資格證,學(xué)了物業(yè)管理,還接觸了直銷。沒(méi)有正式去從事那些職業(yè),卻學(xué)到了很多知識(shí),接觸了不少有思想、有能力的人,視野在擴(kuò)大、見(jiàn)識(shí)在不知不覺(jué)中增長(zhǎng)。2007年,避忌穿紅戴綠的我破天荒地嘗試著買了一件紅色繡花的中長(zhǎng)款薄棉衣,竟也博得了不少人的口彩,至今還偶爾拿出來(lái)穿穿。
最近幾年,我更是不斷打破常規(guī),不再拘泥于凝重沉穩(wěn),不再單純地想“看起來(lái)苗條點(diǎn)兒”。幾年不穿裙子的我不但買了粉色碎花的連衣裙、藍(lán)白圖案的連衣裙、深淺藍(lán)相間的格子裙,長(zhǎng)款大花帶帽子的軍綠夏衣,還從箱底翻出了婚后那幾年時(shí)興的草綠色圓點(diǎn)白底的無(wú)袖長(zhǎng)裙,和當(dāng)時(shí)最貴的一件粉紅的裙子,舊衣新穿,竟也別具特色。春秋有紫色的披肩、綠色的T恤、藍(lán)色的休閑衫,冬天有橘色的羊絨衫、藍(lán)色的羽絨服、黃色的羽絨服、等等,被我一一納入衣柜,春節(jié)前又買了一件很紅很紅的毛呢上衣外套,而在我穿戴“五顏六色”“粉墨登場(chǎng)”的時(shí)候,同樣贏得了身邊愛(ài)美的挑剔的女同胞們的嘖嘖稱贊聲:“早該這么穿了。你皮膚白,不挑顏色,各有千秋,都好看。配上你這天然的黃發(fā),真是絕了”。呵呵,這是姐妹們不想打擊俺的評(píng)價(jià)。這些改變,不僅讓自己的外在光鮮亮麗,也讓心情開(kāi)朗明快起來(lái),給單調(diào)的冬天涂抹了動(dòng)人的色彩,讓寒冷的冬季因色彩而迷人,因色彩而生動(dòng)溫暖起來(lái)。冬衣絕大多數(shù)是深色,不僅僅是習(xí)慣和耐臟,深色吸熱保暖,更適合冬季穿著,黑色又是最大眾化的顏色,永遠(yuǎn)不過(guò)時(shí),并且不分年齡、膚色、身材,高矮胖瘦皆宜,黑白美丑皆宜,男女老少皆宜。但是,如果不想始終在“皆宜”中被埋沒(méi),那就換身衣服,換個(gè)裝束,換個(gè)顏色吧!
或許,人的情緒感染了大自然,沉睡了一冬的“雪神”滕文公被春雷震醒,終于在冬尾獻(xiàn)上了圣潔的雪花。這似乎也怪不得“滕六”拖拉誤時(shí),因?yàn)?,中?guó)作為農(nóng)業(yè)社會(huì),順應(yīng)自然規(guī)律,春生夏長(zhǎng),秋收冬藏。冰雪對(duì)于農(nóng)業(yè)的影響有限。它只是一個(gè)季節(jié)性的自然現(xiàn)象。相比較而言,日月星辰和風(fēng)雨雷電更為重要。冰雪在早期農(nóng)業(yè)文明的核心帶沒(méi)有太大的影響。所以,雪在早期的國(guó)家祭祀體系里沒(méi)有席位,做為管雪的掌事就不那么盡職盡責(zé)、盡心盡力。雪雖然下的不那么符合時(shí)令,卻也給冬畫上了完滿的句號(hào),給冬天增添了一道靚麗的風(fēng)景。
大自然的陰晴雨雪我們無(wú)法左右,卻可以?shī)y扮自我,裝點(diǎn)環(huán)境。俗話說(shuō),人靠衣服馬靠鞍。通過(guò)一個(gè)人的穿著打扮,可以看出他們的審美觀,可以折射出他們的心態(tài),他們的生活態(tài)度。其實(shí),生活可以很豐富,其實(shí),本來(lái)生活的內(nèi)容就很豐富。衣服可以選擇不同的顏色、款式,觀念可以改變,生活方式也可以改變,人生可以更精彩!當(dāng)然,不論何時(shí)何地何人,都理應(yīng)尊重自然,順應(yīng)自然,按照自然規(guī)律做事。說(shuō)話辦事、思想觀念、穿衣戴帽,要入鄉(xiāng)隨俗,要與時(shí)俱進(jìn),要適合自己,切忌邯鄲學(xué)步、人云亦云、東施效顰。在不同的場(chǎng)合,穿戴大有講究,是正裝還是休閑,是濃妝艷抹還是淡掃蛾眉,需要“因地制宜”、“因時(shí)制宜”,要得體、要尊重他人的感受。
愛(ài)美之心人皆有之,我們可以把自己打扮的更漂亮,更不要忽略了自己的內(nèi)在和你周圍的環(huán)境,美要靠氣質(zhì)加分,美要有美的環(huán)境來(lái)襯托。一個(gè)人的穿著再鮮艷再靚麗再時(shí)髦,也無(wú)法替代她的內(nèi)在。健康第一位,文化、思想、氣質(zhì)、修養(yǎng)比外表的光鮮更加的重要。從我做起,從現(xiàn)在做起,從一點(diǎn)一滴做起,愛(ài)惜自己的身體,修煉自己的品性,愛(ài)護(hù)周圍的環(huán)境。一草一木當(dāng)惜之,一言一行當(dāng)慎之。不要去傷害他人,破壞環(huán)境。讓我們共同打造溫馨溫暖的美景,讓我們共同享受幸福快樂(lè)的生活。冬天一樣能夠溫暖如春,一樣可以如花似錦,一樣可人喜歡、一樣令人留戀。